My rapist.

Jan 10, 2017 4:14 PM

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Well one of them. When I was 17 I was raped by 2 men while 3 other guys held me down. One of the 3 guys recently contacted me for a job. I guess he forgot who I was. I told him we'd have the interview at a cafe and asked if he remembered me. He said "no?" And was very confused. I told him my name, that we went to high school together and suddenly he realized who I was. Told him I wasn't there to call the cops or beat the shit out of him or anything but just to ask why he did it. He started crying and saying it was a horrible dumb thing to do. That he never should've done it. I just got up and walked away. Of course you shouldn't have done it. Dick bag.

Was it cathartic?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You are a better person that I am OP. I would have killed him once he found out who I was.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

ps. i poisoned the coffee.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You handled that much better than I would have, with courage and level-headedness. I hope you got a little bit of closure.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I am only a stranger, but I hope you have found some brightness. These kind of scars run deep I hope something good and caring has found you

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

or that it will find you.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Did he get the job?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Hmm, this should be a more positive meme. To have the strength, courage and control to do that is impressive.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

You should have recorded it and turned him in.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If you find the other 2 you should go Girl with Dragon Tattoo on them.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I wonder what that means? *google* OHGOD

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"give me the current location of the others and you may yet live."

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

*guy busts into tears and hastily writes their addresses on a napkin*

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

@OP do you feel any sense of closure? I'm genuinely interested

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You probably should've asked if he's still in contact with the other dumbfucks and actually charge the ones who raped you.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Would that even be possible? Statute of limitations in most states is 5-10 years, this happened long enough ago for the perp to FORGET him.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Hey OP I went through a few of your previous posts and you seem like such a nice guy. I hope you have peace and happiness, you deserve it!

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

You are one tough son of a bitch. Good on you, OP.

9 years ago | Likes 227 Dislikes 2

wow that is way too forgiving

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

almost like...this is made up?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I hope you called the police at the time. If they had a restraining on then this may have been a bad move.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 3

A restraining order? Wouldn't she have already known?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

*he. OP is a dude.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Good point. Bad assumption on my part.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm not sure but rape and sexual assault charges usually have a restraining order attached to them.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I didn't see any mention of any charges, regardless I still think the OP would know if there were.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Wow, highschool dudes raping other dudes. Don't hear that often.

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 4

To be fair, it probably happens more than you hear about.

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

When I was in the Marines they had to do "training" on this because dudes would buy em drinks at the bar until they were blackout drunk

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

and next thing they know they wake up with no clothes and a sore butt.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

What kind of drink makes your butt sore?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Roofie Colada

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 126 Dislikes 31

Yea me either

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Rape is common. Women who are rape are believed at the same level as people who claim they were abducted by aliens. Huh.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I found out later that my rapist was thrown in a Mexican prison after being shot at and lost his passport to get home. Mwaha

9 years ago | Likes 49 Dislikes 1

*mwaha

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Best use of this gif! +1

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Should of called the police, dont let them go unpunished.

9 years ago | Likes 64 Dislikes 8

Could have even said they tried to get you to buy drugs or offered you sex for money. Police would have enjoyed that.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Depending on how long ago it occurred, it's likely the statute of limitations has ran out.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

*should have

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

That's really not always an option.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

These things don't often happen "just once"

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I would stab him for you. For free.

9 years ago | Likes 155 Dislikes 8

and I would watch, but for a low rate of 3 payments of 19.99.

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

Is that in Zimbabwean dollars?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Oh boy! Here I go killin' again!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Welcome. Me too

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sure showed him

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 9

Not really. Sounds like the guy had already beat himself up over it.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 10

yeah but that would have been a sort of culmination of all the time he spent beating himself over. and then there are the other ones too.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

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9 years ago (deleted Feb 23, 2018 3:27 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Is additional repercussion really necessary at this point if he has already learned his lesson?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 4

You don't need to take part in rape to learn the lesson of not raping. Hint: Rapists already know rape is bad, it just doesn't stop them.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

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9 years ago (deleted Feb 23, 2018 3:27 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

He may have known it was wrong in the first place. We're missing too much context to read into that, I think.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Otherwise at some point I would think it would simply be punishment just for the sake of punishment.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

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9 years ago (deleted Feb 23, 2018 3:27 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

How you didn't throw hot coffee in his face and cut off his penis is beyond me

9 years ago | Likes 466 Dislikes 22

Ive learned to forgive and let go w/o facing my attacker but i think that would fly out the window if i saw him, let alone spoke to him.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Because then she would get labeled as crazy

9 years ago | Likes 77 Dislikes 15

"crazy"

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 4

Maybe the coffee was lukewarm, and they only had butter knives.

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

But a butter knife would hurt more, and lukewarm coffee wouldn't detract from the knife pain as much. Sounds more appropriate in my book...

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

concern.jpg

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sooooo did you get the job?

9 years ago | Likes 56 Dislikes 17

I mean, with a catch like that OP could get whatever the fuck OP wanted.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I feel like OP was the interviewer?

9 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 1

You fucking insensitive prick. You beat me to it.

9 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 3

So, Did he get a blowjob?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 29

"See....here's the line" *points to line* "and here's you" *points past the line*

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

There is a time and all, we are sick and twisted, yes, but this isn't it.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Im afraid i simply do not believe most of these type of posts, a sad drunk loser, retelling some bullshit movie or news article seen earlier

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It is absolutely insane to me that 5 men...5 were all involved in a rape an none of them thought "hmmm this is extremely fucked 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 89 Dislikes 1

50% of all people are worse than average, morally. Then add mob mentality.

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Maybe I should stop this or call the police, or fucking both" sorry that happened to you and good on you for being so brave.

9 years ago | Likes 60 Dislikes 0

Why do you think riots happen?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The IQ of a group is the the lowest IQ among them divided by the number of people in the group.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

What can you say, men are piggies.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 32

Go fuck yourself

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

gladly.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 8

Found the militant feminist...

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Found the feminazi.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

too easy.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 9

nice generalization

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Calling the cops would do nothing now, anyway. You want a fast rape case? Don't clean yourself. Go to the cops and give them DNA evidence.

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 3

So it can sit in a rape kit until the statute of limitations runs out? Because that's what happens in thousands and thousands of cases.

9 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 4

You're saying rape victims shouldn't report it because of the possibility they won't get a conviction? That's like saying "You'll eventually

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

"Die so go kill yourself now. It's inevitable so just end it all now."

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

No. I'm saying they *don't* report it because of the low probability of conviction. It's just a fact, not a recommendation.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's mostly due to faulty prosecution and law enforcement. You need to go to your prosecutor and not harass them but remind them

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

So what you're saying is, victims have to all do everything perfectly, and then they *might* get to court? Awesome. I don't see victims /1

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 6

The world is a shitty place. Unfortunately, you gotta play the game to get through the system.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 9

Only for rape though, for some reason.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

other crimes having to do this. And this is a particularly psychologically damaging one. It's not like victims are in tiptop condition, /2

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 4

ready fight for the right to go through the ordeal that is a rape trial, when the justice system couldn't give a shit about helping them. /3

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 3

Not what I'm saying at all. Wow way to take my words out of context.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 3

But what I said *is* what many victims of rape have to go through. And then after all that they often don't get a trial, and even if they /1

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 5

Should have lightly stabbed him in the kidney on your way out.

9 years ago | Likes 2332 Dislikes 13

YES

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

With a lightly fried fish filet

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"Mercy is the mark of a great man." *Poke* "Guess I'm just a good man." *Poke* "Well, I'm alright."

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

"Lightly stabbed" best thing I've ever heard

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

stab it in his kidneyyyyyy, actual cannibal shia labeouf

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Lightly...

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Push him away with a very little knife

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Lightly stabbed fish fillets

9 years ago | Likes 98 Dislikes 0

Say lightly stabbed fish fellets again dad

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Dad it's 1:15 am wtf

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

. Another favorite comment

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That MIGHT qualify as like... premeditated murder. Maybe.

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

One of the worst crimes of all, so yeah, still illegal.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nono, didn't you read? It's only LIGHTLY

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

And it is a kidney, I mean you have two

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I know I would've.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

shoulda brought jumper cables :/

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Mercy is the mark of a great man. https://youtu.be/TGLRuunCn9k?t=38m10s

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Ever so lightly

9 years ago | Likes 81 Dislikes 1

Just the tip

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

A gentle shiv

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

Just the tip though

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

And maybe about 5 inches more

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Step 1: Offer to buy him a drink. Step 2: Secretly add some almond oil or something else that makes it taste funny. Step 3: Reveal yourself.

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

Step 4: Before leaving say something like: "If you feel an increased heart rate or sweating now, don't worry."

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

How'd the interview go?

9 years ago | Likes 1961 Dislikes 24

With flying colors.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's people like you that keeps me here, Thank you.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Pretty good but now the guy has to get the couch in his office cleaned

9 years ago | Likes 340 Dislikes 27

I think they just let it dry between takes.

9 years ago | Likes 41 Dislikes 1

That is the kind of practice I would call a 'snooj,' to be sure.

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Let's just get something straight here: my nickname existed before Urban Dictionary was even though of, let alone its shitty definitions.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Naaaaah I'm not ok with this

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I, personally, carry pocket rocks.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It was pretty good until he got beat with jumper cables

9 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 5

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

This joke seems forced.

9 years ago | Likes 137 Dislikes 14

So gang rape jokes are funny, when a real victim is involved, but when I say "gangrape" to a bot, it's creepy?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Jesus Christ

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's people like you that keeps me here, Thank you.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No, I think that was the penis.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

5/6 people found it funny.

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

You gotta stop

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That just clicked. The bible app is free.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

5/7

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's people like you that keeps me here, Thank you.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

Your useraname is terrific

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

:)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What OP should do is make sure every other employer he interviews at knows his past.

9 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 8

"He's gotta live with it as much as she does. He'll repay his debt. No reason to get vindictive, it'll bite you in the end." -Experience

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Unless the allegations are proven in court that could lead to a lawsuit.

9 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 1

I'm not sure how one accused of rape (in instances where it didn't happen) would go about doing that unless the accuser admitted such. [2]

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Any lawyers want to weigh in on this one? [3]

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I'm actually curious how that would work. To my knowledge, defamation suits require the plaintiff to demonstrate the claim was false. [1]

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

No. They need to show their was intent to harm the reputation. Something that is expected but unproven is not defamation, but this would be.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't believe that's accurate. If it were, stating truths with the intent to harm someone's reputation would be defamation.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0