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My brother who i used to respect has been speaking to an 18 year old girl for a year online and decided a week ago he's leaving his fiance. Then he strung his fiance of 8 years along. Making her think that they had a chance of saving his realtionship all while still talking to this girl saying he cant wait till they can be together. He left today.
His 2 girls (my neices) are devestated and he doesnt even give a shit. The oldest is 6. Im absolutely furious thst some piece of shit garbage human like my brother could exist. i hope his life ends in ruins.
He browses imgur occasionally and i hope he sees this, not onlh have you lost your fiance and left your daughters. You've lost your entire family in the process and i hope this 18year old youve never met is worth it. I hope your pathetic relationship ends so i can watch you crawl back and be rejected.
TLDR: OP's brother is a garbage piece of human
DahPanda72
I want updates, of their are any. Fuck him.
MissJennyMF
Those poor little girls. So sad for them.
sammyiammy
Never underestimate someone's ability to let you down! Sorry that your family has to go through this. Your nieces will be strong women!
eldaowl
May karma hit him hard.
sarabearr
I hope he's getting catfished by some fat dude
jridley
I can't even comprehend. I have a daughter, now grown. I would have destroyed the fucking world before I hurt her, especially at 6 years old
HipHopSaint
OPs brother is scum. That's the difference between you and him
JamesMercer
How old is your brother?
TheCommissar
Presumably mid-20's at the youngest. More likely late 20's or early 30's.
spermburp
You actually have no idea and why you even bother guessing is retarded.
TheCommissar
MoldyKumquat
My buddy did something similar. He's alone now. Serves him right the dumb fuck.
chonas
Biblically and theologically speaking, congrats on your new fiance and two daughters.
JesusSkywalkered
????
chonas
Theologically, death and adultery are the only reasons to break a marriage (adultery is the same as death), Biblically you're supposed to1/2
chonas
assume your brother's obligations, wife, children, property. 2/2
Axew
They weren't married though
superawesomeguy
common law
SendBewbsnLewds
Take his place.
nudistpriest
Uncle Andy.
asm80dfa8sdfj
Hah. Poor uncle Andy; tried to take advantage, got taken advantage of.
BrianDoheny
Dumbass brother in 6 months probably:
TheMightyEggplant
Be prepared to help your sister in law reject him when he gets back @OP . I've had a friend go through that kind of stuff. She'll need it.
Mankytoes
I dunno, he doesn't deserve it, but when you have kids you should always try if possible.
nyaore
This, all of this. He'll be back eventually and she'll need support to keep him from strutting back in.
damnyuoautocorrect
Yes yes yessss! That fucker is so gonna come back WHEN shit hits the fan.
AfroSamuraiRM
I heard a fist is always a good introduction. You can believe me because it applies to porn too! And that always means it's right!
Sivly
Terrible advice.
AfroSamuraiRM
No way! Really?
TheMightyEggplant
I think he meant "terrific"
Rambo006
It's not unusual for couples to make up after cheating. Most long term couples I know (20 + years) have had a cheating and breakups (1)
Rambo006
Some couples recover and find happiness, others don't. Presuming they need to break up might not be best for kids and wife (2)
TheMightyEggplant
That's true, though I think the fiance should have her time to figure out what she needs after such a trial. Thus (1)
Rambo006
Even if the traditional sense of justice would indicate so (3)
TheMightyEggplant
the need for OP to be by her side and help her take her time when OP's brother comes back (2)
Jgoodie75
Was he offered a free sex weekend?
incenderylemons
nah @OP's brother is such a fucknozzle that he's prepared to pay for it
Ceracuse
Poor OP doesn't realize he's just going to the free sex weekend that his fiance LET him go to!! (Jk OP he's still a douche)
thisisprocrastination
Hah, this should be top comment.
jenniferlawrenceisabear
Well... if he was offered a weekend of free sex can you really blame him?
akg1985
I know I sure was!
Oddishhh
I'd totally understand, if that were the case
Chewbaccabra
Was there not a lot of women near him that want sex?
Spikelikeslife
And how much is this free weekend going to cost me?
spongebobangrypants
Tree fiddy!
PuppyDontCare
Nothing! You just have to sign in for free! Only thing you'll have to give us the numbers of your credit card to check your age.
DevilishlySexyStarfish
hey, it's a GREAT sex weekend
tehzpoon
I NEVER come back to upvote a comment. EVER. But I started laughing my ass off and had to. +1
Sean5
Then it won't be a FREE sex weekend.
iamthatonefriend
My sex weekends (with my wife) are free and great...
ILiveInStateParks
Spent last weekend with your wife, can confirm
DevilishlySexyStarfish
wtf, she made me pay
DevilishlySexyStarfish
Well clearly not, he lost his wife and kids for it!
TheFermiSolution
Fiance. Still, I encourage her to tear his anus apart with child support.
DevilishlySexyStarfish
Among other things
674e031f7dbd1f14bdc9160468379d78e6fcb32c97b2e40fe00e35376336373
Plot twist: his fiance was the 18 year old, she just wanted him gone but couldn't bring herself to ask.
AdrianTheHumannn
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itso
Brother's age is not determined, but the new woman in his life is reported to be eighteen.
KonaDarbles
zerobandwidth
original post as directed by M Night Shyamalan
Asyiah
Plot twist: OP was the 18 year old so he could take his wife.
NickKruger
Do you like Pina colada's, and getting caught in the rain?!
Jaco927
TheRealDurdan
That would be a hell of a plot twist
leodavinci1
FBI sting operation?
jussumman
Sounds more like the real thing actually
JuliaVT
If you like piña coladas..
jlist
You beat me to it
giveamouseacookie
And getting caught in the rain...
ConfirmologistUK
And getting caught in the rain...
DPunicorn
this made me feel a lil better about the story
shigetsu
why? it just makes him human garbage and her a manipulative coward. now 2 people would be involved in the orchestration of a lost father
forresthopkinsa
She was trying to get rid of him because he was a bad influence on the girls. Now they have a better father.
shigetsu
fair enough. thank you for the insight i hadnt thought of that
mrstealyourcode
The oldest is 6 So he must've gotten her pregnant when she was 12 if that's the case
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forresthopkinsa
DidNoOneNoticeThis
I don't think you understood what they meant.
mrstealyourcode
Yeaaaaaaaah you're right
BeatingTheDeadWhores
Wait, he started dating his fiancé when she was 10?
BeatingTheDeadWhores
Oh, alright. Was sleepy, sorry for posting dumbass comment.
2000boxes
no he's saying the fiance is catfishing op's brother by pretending to be the 18 year old girl
VirtualHugger
No, the fiance catfished him as a 18y old just to get rid of him =)
deadandbloated
Username checks out. Looks like the joke went over a lot of heads here though
TheGreatBlueHeron
That would be nice. I'm really hoping that the 18 yo isn't a decent person who is going to also get crapped on my this guy.
curmudgeon91
I have my doubts if she couldn't find someone where she's at...
Ichose2
If they know he's engaged, I doubt it
BelfryBats
He sounds like a pus wombling gutter stain of a human being. Also it is extremely likely that situation is going to blow up in his face.
NotTodayNotYesterday
Considering the fact that he's ditched his children and fiance without a care, he doesn't seem like the sharpest tool in the shed.
TheInternetIsSeriousBusiness
This is why I believe in late-term abortion. So he could be aborted at whatever age he is now, I mean.
TungstenSquares
triggered
Oddishhh
Murder, I think the word you're looking for is murder
velociraptorpanda
Nono, he has an "accident"
wolvensong
Christopher Titus? :D
QuincyEndicott
When the shit hits the fan, step to the side of the fan.
shortwarrior
Easy, just have the intended abortee take on .22 mm bullet orally.
Boredtodeath
Post-birth abortions
GylfieTheOwl
Interesting book series called Unwind by Neal Shusterman about this concept...
imgursmyfirstluv
DeadskyblackSun
What is it, your period?
Agunslingerborn
Always update the departed. Fantastic movie.
sqlsupervillain
Best movie
Lagtim3
[Glass him]
Dogsox101
flejopamar
As will yours....
efemral
I could imagine his hand would be ruined after that
DeadskyblackSun
What is it, your period?
generationsai
What's the movie magic behind this? How does one not get deaded?
TheJessica
Sugar glass. Glass made of sugar for the express purpose of smashing it against someone's skull. Or I suppose CGI could be used.
generationsai
Ty
TheJessica
Welcome.
Mtkc
HE WASN'T THANKING YOU JESSICA. da, you're welcome.
Mtkc
With the exception of django.. real glass real blood and real good scene
SometimesISayHistoryStuff
To be fair, that scene wasn't supposed to involve broken glass, it just happened and they rolled with it.
grizzlynoize
Most appropriate use of this gif I've ever seen
butwholethief
He is definitely a guy you can hit
PabloDiabloman
Proceeds to hit him
flannelCamel
Yeah. That's what I would call a piece of shit. Sorry your nieces and their mom have to deal with this.
r2linad2
Ah, there's no place like London
ithinkifoundit
We're going to need an update whenever he does come crawling back.
mindfunkie
for real.
LittleRedWeldingHood
Marry your sister in law, adopt the kids, flaunt your happiness when he crawls back
ZoidbergIsGreat
That would be pretty funny
luchie24
Funny i assumed OP was a girl
LittleRedWeldingHood
Hey, that's be even better. Op would still male a better man
luchie24
Very true!
Ruoyy
He left his kids? Wow... You'd think that would stop someone
Sivly
You'd think, but the cases of people like "Stefonknee Wolscht" would disagree. It's a pathetic abandonment of responsibilities.
Opportunist
Only people of good quality.
RaydenBelmont
Underappreciated comment of the day.
SarsMarsBar
My stepbrother just decided that he didn't want responsibilites any more. Just got up and left his wife and two daughters of 3 and 7.. 1
SarsMarsBar
Motherfucker doesn't even realize the kind of pain he's causing. She's beautiful, educated (a lawyer). Two great kids, too.. But no.
GoIIum
Fuck that! If you don't want responsibilities don't get kids, that simple.
SilentHowling
Ideally yes, but sometimes the responsibilities of Life sneak up on you & crush the weak or unprepared. Pity them for they fear life itself.
myfriendscallmesomething
It doesn't. Take it from 1 of 8 that was left. Youngest was 11 months old at the time
TheLastMarshmallow
Didn't stop my dad. Doesn't stop a lot of shitholes. :/
kansas555
Didn't stop my husband of 15 years from leaving. A 2 year old and a 12 year old at the time. He left for someone 10 years younger.
corivscori
Didn't stop mine either. Some dudes just aren't meant to be dads, but they'll be better off without him.
TheLastMarshmallow
Agreed. I'd be a different person if he'd stuck around, and worse off for it. He's shit and I'm glad he didn't try to rub it off on me.
kansas555
Didn't stop my husband of 15 years from leaving. A 2 year old and a 12 year old at the time. He left for someone 10 years younger.
Lepiment
What a class act! /s
Lepiment
What a class act! /s
mertny56
Please share pics when he comes home after being catfished....
forresthopkinsa
.
Coheedgirl
Right? I'm actually curious to see what comes of this.
jesusedgarhoover
Catfished?
sirrahmas
I like this idea.
Thegrandoptimst
.
ChicoSuave
.
mertny56
Catfished is when a person falls for someone who pretended to be someone else online....
StankyPankySammich
Lol that's the implication here bud. They are saying he's being catfished. What do you not get?
NationalistCanadianMooseWarrior
.. yes.
AstrologyR
This guy meant to reply to the person who replied "Catfished?" Don't fucking downvote him you pricks.
mertny56
I was replying to the person who asked "catfished?", what do YOU not get?
mertny56
A little congested maybe....
TheFrodo2
Is your reply button ok man
ILikeBlondDudesAndICanNotLieButGingersWillDoJustFine
.
blackerblaine
.
NGC5189
Hey @OP, I know everything is raw right now But if she'll let you, try to stay in your niece's lives and be the positive male role they need
AfroSamuraiRM
Going in raw isn't the worst option... Get it?
EseJandro
Time and place, Niten, Time and place.
AfroSamuraiRM
When and where, EseJandro, when and where?
thatgoddamncyclist
Came for this comment. Be the proper, cool uncle.
beedude
And then tap it
ZeeX10
DID YOU JUST ASSUME THEIR GENDER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Rambo006
PANIC! PANIC! THE WORLD WILL END! I NEED A SAFE SPACE! *sympathy panic attack over, returns to read left-wing blogs, world saved
AirfishNomad
Absolutely true! Family is bigger than blood
swelteringheatoflife
Yes, stay in your nieces lives. They need to know that they are important.
ILiveInBeauty
Thank you - I was looking for this comment. This should be top comment.
pandorasshitbox
Cannot stress this enough
ClownShoeSalesMan
I myself could have really used such a role model!
TheHaloFollower
izzyfromthepeeg
Great advice
ClimbThemCrimps
I think b/c I'm a woman I project being a female onto most anonymous OPs. Do we know OP is a male?
kbellx9
this post is a small rant. Guys and girls rant differently (i.e. area of focus). Chance of being a guy is like, 90%
ShadeEmberi
I did consider that...but another Adult role model is positive is never a bad thing!
ClimbThemCrimps
For sure!
ArdentSlacker
Then she'd still be a better father than bio-bro-douche-dad.
kscrim
I assumed it was a female as well
youngmountaingoat
DUH ! Because OP talks about his brother! If OP was female then it would be her sister. Oh hold on a minute.....
FlyinHawaiian13
Idk I tried to look for clues on OP's profile but they have the most androgynous posting history I've ever seen.
Terminology
Both Alexa and Quantcast say Imgur's demographic is overwhelmingly male, so assuming they're male is still much more logical.
DivisionMarduk
I am a male and I pictured OP as female...
Astaroth95
2/2 might even better better, since they could more easily relate & take op as a role model, no?
Astaroth95
If he is then she can be a great aunt, the point isn't that it has to be a "positive male role", besides they're nieces anyway, a woman 1/2
ClimbThemCrimps
Of course. I was not debating whether or not she could be a good role model. Just asking if we knew if OP was male or female.
PoppaBigBear
He should marry his brother's wife.
SimplisticBoi
Exactly my thoughts.
ImYourOtherPersonality
Calm down Claudius
SgtSickDuck
My man
Rambo006
That would make great soap opera. The dude who left was trapped, kidnapped etc, returns 15 years later, unrecognizable with amnesia (1)
Rambo006
Tries to woo he's old wife, is involved in illegitimate business, tries to recruit he's children into the dark side, slowly memory returns 2
Rambo006
Then all hell breaks loose with drama, crime, loves stories, 200 episodes easily...
AxelYamanaka
@OP should make like an ancient jew and take his brother's wife (we will just assume that dead-to-me and dead-dead work the same)
SneakyHobbitsis
I hope it's really a dude, catfishing him
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smallskillerofhambino
It was me!
RyoumiyaHaru
I was genuinely think its was going to be " DIO "
AlwaysAGenBehind
Yeah I had to wait for it to load, I expected a jojoke of some sort.
gelirollking
First thing I and my boyfriend both said.
wackywoohoopizzaman
Oh my god, I so hope it is. This fuckface deserves it
TheInternetIsHell
Really interesting to see so much heart-felt hate for somebody who might not even exist based on 3 paragraphs on a "funny" image website!
ThatGuyWithTheTopHat
My ex's mom was about to do something like this
JupiterJedi
Surprise!
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TheEmptied
This, except I hope it's an organjacker.
DrKriegersClone
Amy Schumer jokes about catfishing guys. I'm hoping for that.
TrikStari
Isn't she a catfish herself?
Meowskimeowmeow
Amy Schumer has jokes?
PeopleSeemToHaveLongNamesOnImgur
Amy Schumer has sentences with weird inflections. So almost jokes.
Ruhig
...that he ran away for Amy Schumer?
UpvoteFairy3001
Why was this negative?! He deserves to be greeted by Amy Schumer and nothing better! Though something worse may be a bit too much.
Rekkora
the 18 year old's reaction when he shows up
JewishMonk
I think I would be okay with being catfished by Ronnie James Dio.
bobdan1324
Not the Dio in the image though.
DarthFutuza
Dio Brando would be okay too.
dannwyrm
OP's brother's next line will be, "I was only pretending to be retarded!"
DarkMaster98
Snooj
How could it not be?
BhawbTheMagnificent
With video chat and stuff nowadays it can be harder to catfish long-term.
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Stanzara
Also, some really don't have them. I could of course buy some, but I am too lazy :D on the other hand, I don't like video chats with my ugly
zacletus
Do you have a smartphone or tablet? I want to say that quite a few laptops also have the technology built in.
Stanzara
mug
BhawbTheMagnificent
That's just another way of saying "I'm catfishing you" or "you're weird and I don't like you that much".
raidleadergutts
You underestimate how desperate & pathetic a lot of people can be.
Mynameiscoolman
Well my ex gf lived in sweden and I met her on the interweb. I went there and it worked for a while.
omegaentity
Did you leave behind a long-term relationship with kids? It's not the working out part that's the rub, it's that OP's brother is a shitlord.
RCTX12
Amen
Mynameiscoolman
I did not sir.
omegaentity
*ma'am. Or *miss. Ma'am makes me feel old.
Fishticuffs
Until her beard started growing in
ActuallCannibalShiaLabeouf
Dwarf women am I right?
RikkuMechanic
With hair on their chins that you can hang on to!
MaxThornton
Thats normal here in Sweden.
Mephian
It was me bruh sorry for catfishing you.
CricketThomas
18 yo are flaky af...don't worry he'll get dumped.
TMP5
i will never ever date a teen again. they really dont even know what they want.
GoIIum
She might still live with her parents from all we know!
shesafiresignyouknow
I keep trying to tell some of the men that I know this fact. If you are in your late 20s and want a stability 18-20 is a no go.
FajitaPrinceofAllMexicans
That's why when I was 20 I almost ended up with a 31 year old.
PuppyDontCare
Even if they really want stability. It's not normal to want to settle down at 18.
soso456
Settle down in a relationship does not mean setle down in your life
PuppyDontCare
Yeah like my sister. But they didn't plan to stay together forever. It just happened. 11 years and still together.
soso456
like your sister did, I think you can't plan to stay together. Most people who do that end up not being together anyway :)
CricketThomas
Righr?! Shit I was I'm 52 and still flaky. Lol
shesafiresignyouknow
I was definitely not looking for anything serious at that age but men like hot young ladies and overlook the ones that ARE ready.
thedeedsmaster
I find it hard to believe that a 50 yo woman would have a hard time landing a 50yo man. A lot of guys that age are desperate
asm80dfa8sdfj
Well he's clearly not ready, he had "ready", he left "ready".
CricketThomas
Feel awful for his daughters that he just abandoned
shesafiresignyouknow
Totally. He will lose out and probably go be with the 18 year old bar skank. Most women wouldn't talk with a married man with kids
red1300
philcollinsdrumbreakdown
I think I know that guy!!
DuckPlanetKing
I'm sure you do. He's your internet girlfriend.
philcollinsdrumbreakdown
imooforyou
I dream to see the day when the guy he's talking to just goes with it. "That beard looking fine on you, baby"
DoublevBomb
Either that says "I am your internet girlfriend" or something in distorted stretch dialect I can't quite read.
Sureletsgowiththat
The former. Can confirm, attended Derek Zoolander School for Kids Who Can't Read Good and Want to Do Other Stuff Good, Too.
cookseancook
just to point out the obvious: a year ago, OP's brother started chatting with a 17 year old.
KPopHeaux
This was my exact thought.
ZoidbergIsGreat
Ew... I think your right. Barf.
notSaari
you're
oofda
Ahhhhh!!! Ew. Omg. Did not realize. Your comment needs to be higher lol
corivscori
And was waiting for her to turn 18 so he could be with her. Oh gross. So predatory.
spermburp
OMG I'VE JUST BEEN TALKING TO A 17 YEAR OLD!??? IS THAT ILLEGAL NOW???????????????????????????
DarnYouToHeck
I mean, obviously not. The point is that she would be considered underage, and OP's brother is bound to be somewhat older with 2 kids.
spermburp
My point is, it's not illegal to talk to anyone that age.
DarnYouToHeck
I know, and I agree, but talking to a 17 year old when (I'll take a guess here) you're a decade older, then leaving your fiance for her...
DarnYouToHeck
Bit creepy, bit predator...
DarnYouToHeck
Explanation for my guess- oldest kid is 6- I take a guess they had kids young at 20- roughly roughly
markiel
Actually 17 is legal in nearly every state.
DarnYouToHeck
16 is legal in the UK, but they aren't adults until their 18 here- isn't the states 21?
markiel
Legal age of consent is 16 in most states, 17 in a few, and a minority have 18. Liquor is the only thing you have to be 21 for.
pdxenburg
Lesson 1: never assume you really know someone online until you meet them in person - even if they are telling the truth about who they are
instantbeetle
I mean, best case scenario, they're still an obnoxious 18 yo
iheartdonut
I'm a little confused. If he doesn't break it off first and meets up with her, he's cheating scum. He breaks it off to meet her, still scum-
iheartdonut
Don't get me wrong, he is a scumfuck for leaving the bed he's made, but which would be worse; -2/3
iheartdonut
A) He breaks it off to meet someone, or B) He meets someone to see if he wants to break it off?
pdxenburg
He ran off and left his kids...
pdxenburg
Lesson 2: Don't be a dick and abandon your family. (this should probably be Lesson 1)
asspickle
Lesson 3: sometimes stick a pickle up your ass
browsib
Thank you for your input, asspickle.
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knoldpold
God damn it asspickle. He was having a moment, given serious life advice lol.
akiba22
http://imgur.com/W9Gmwql
DoublevBomb
Try it with a friend! http://imgur.com/9LYOoX8
asspickle
THAT is fucking FANTASTIC
CatsNotKittens
Fantasstic
DoublevBomb
It's even better without the star, but I figured I'd best put that there if I was gonna' use it for general reference.
Salsaun528
Right? They could end up being completely insane. Or an old slob. Or a murderer.
jrntn
Or maybe the chemistry just isn't there in person. Little things can be as destructive as the big things.
pdxenburg
Or show up in a pink velour tracksuit, which leads you to realize that you, in fact, made a mistake
DiscoBitch
Women I've met from the internet were mostly snobby lying cunts in real life. I think this brother will be disappointed at best.
PuppyDontCare
Maybe you are gullible. Did they offer you a sex weekend?
DiscoBitch
No.
pdxenburg
We also tend to garnish the gaps in what we know about online people with things we want to believe, which creates a reality check later on
Oddishhh
Fiance of 8 years? That's a long engagement
CrazyCatDaddy
Probably why they left. Really 8 years.
CrazyCatDaddy
??
Sugarbooger7
Thought same thing - should have considered leving years ago.
VagisilToothpaste
Yeah, it's not a fiancee at that point...it's a joke.
ZarknorthNeptune
I have a family friend that's been engaged about that long. They're both in medical school and wanted to wait until they both graduated.
TheLetterKay
I've been engaged 2 years. Life sometimes gets in the way. Parenting comes first.
somadicouldspitfire
meh they could of gone to the courthouse.. however something with taxes where if only 1 person claims the kids they get back more in taxes
Oddishhh
Definitely! Hopefully an 18 year old doesn't get in the way of the parenting, though
PuppyDontCare
Yeah my friend got engaged right before she got pregnant. They planned to get married but then the kid came and they simply have no time.
IFrickinLoveSharks
I got engaged while travelling, and we won't be home for another year, and then will need 1-2 years to save, and that for me is long!
sirbartonslady
a couple of years for financial reasons is understandable. But 8+ years, while having two kids in the process, sounds insincere.
IFrickinLoveSharks
Exactly, we're only holding off because we can't physically get married while travelling, and then because we will have no money!
IFrickinLoveSharks
But 8 years is clearly because one of them is unsure
DoublevBomb
http://imgur.com/MCwhJfn
flarflarf
people: if your SO is not even committed enough to marry you, why on God's green earth would you have children with them?
BreadyStinellis
Often times kids are accidents.
Rambo006
Marriage isn't a thing that everyone cares about. I know many couples who postponed a wedding party since buying a house was more important
ITryToOnlyRespondInGifs
Maybe they didn't have access to affordable birth control. Maybe they were duped. I agree tho I'd never do that on purpose
perlcat
Pills are ten bucks a month. Any straight man faced with the prospect of getting laid will find the money. They'll even give up beer.
DuckyBird101
I was engaged 4 8yrs got married he left me 4 younger women just shy of our 5th yr anniversary. I lost everything but my 2 cats.
Oddishhh
Sorry to hear that.. Cats always help +1
DuckyBird101
They have helped alot they will be turning 14 yrs old this week!
creepwood
traditionally an engagement is when you propose and you're suppose to set a date that is within a year, that's what an engagement is
Rambo006
I don't think it's the norm anymore. Most engagements among my friends lasted longer since planning a wedding and saving up takes time.
Rambo006
Those that eloped were faster but a traditional big party type of event (unless you expect parents to pay) are challenging for young couples
netharia
Times change
meraii
Sometimes it feels like 'engaged' is the new 'in a relationship'. :/
NotTodayNotYesterday
Could be for financial reasons if they were saving up for the occasion.
Lucia37
If marriage is important to a couple, "saving up" shouldn't last that long. A courthouse wedding is fairly cheap.
Rambo006
What if they want a nice house and a nice wedding, but can't afford both at the same time? Many would choose to have a home first.
Lucia37
If the wedding must be "nice", then it's more important to you than marriage itself. That's not a wrong choice, but admit your priorities.
Rambo006
I'm perfectly fine admitting that :) It's the relationship that matters. Marriage is just a legal framework and a party.
Rambo006
Me and my husband chose to have separate properties as well, so even the legal framework is thin. For us it was a great day with friends.
vnqx
Good catch...I missed that. I can see possibly waiting 5-6, especially if you're young, but much longer and someone's not really interested
lilmiziceland
Good thing you know how everybody lives their life, and the circumstances they are in. :) Lucky you.
Backtakesnake
We had to wait 5 years, I knew I wanted to marry her but I had to finish my studies before we could afford it.
lilmiziceland
Good thing you know how everybody lives their life, and the circumstances they are in. :) Lucky you.
peanutbuttermashedpotatoes
My fiance and I have been together 5 years, engaged for 6 months. I honestly don't care if we get married soon. I'm pregnant and saving for
peanutbuttermashedpotatoes
Life is more important to both of us than a wedding. It'll happen when it happens. Doesn't mean we're not interested
Oddishhh
Good attitude to have :)
iDigDinos
I was engaged for 13 years.. people kept getting cancer and I kept getting degrees. Life happens. Got married 2016. Time was finally right
Rambo006
We had several cancers. Husband got PhD and developed the condition that precedes a heart attack. I can relate. No regrets :)
iDigDinos
Sorry to hear about all the cancers! Ah, well that's awesome, grats for hubby (about the PhD). I'm working on mine too haha. I hear ya, it's
iDigDinos
like the old saying, being worth the wait and all :p
Rambo006
Yeah, he now takes it a bit easier and started he's own company. GL for yours Based on what I saw, once you have it, life will become nicer!
spidrvampyre
Shit or get off the pot.
wingod
I smoke pot while I shit so fuck you!
uimmiu
Thank you! This will fit nicely into my bag of witty responses I never remember to use in the appropriate moment.
FajitaPrinceofAllMexicans
Shit I broke out into laughter, this was an unexpected cleverness.
FindusSomKatten
my parents have been engaged for +25 years they don't think it's that important
Oddishhh
Didn't mean to cause such a stir with my observation. If people don't feel the need to get married, who the heck cares
AskingTheRealQuestions
My parents too. They just didn't really bother getting married.
melveys
My guy and I have been engaged for almost 15 years. I just don't see a need to be married.
iAMtett
I'm genuinely curious: if you don't want to be married, then what's the point of getting engaged?
melveys
Good point. We got engaged when we were 19 and then life happened. Our opinions and priorities changed over the years. I'm happy where we >
melveys
Are but it doesn't mean we'll never get married, it's just not a priority.
BYERE
To be fair, my sister got engaged to her other half 19 years ago, and they're only just getting married next year...
XenuWorldOrder
Next year...
BYERE
No, really. Paid for it already. They agreed that if they were still together in 20 years (spoilers: they are), then they'd get married.
Notmyjobnotmyprob
cheaterinholycities
Oucch ... i hate to see those sad eyes
fatherjokes
Something about a cow and getting milk for free...
shimmernshine
"Like my grandmother always said: why buy the cow when you can have the sex for free?"
thedustygrad
Cringe
LarryDaNarwhal
Did you just call my girlfriend a cow?
ryry1237
It's a compliment.
fatherjokes
Yeah! Big whoop! Wanna fight about it?
alwaysL8
Moo! That's the sound your mother made last night, Trebek!
cinderink
No, I think he called her a slut!
wingod
Dirty cow fucker!
underdogoverhead
Ooh, baby, baby, baby, why you gonna treat me this way? You know I'm still your loverboy, I still feel the same way... 1/2
underdogoverhead
That's when she told me a story 'bout free milk and a cow And said, "No huggee, no kissee until I get a wedding vow!"
fatherjokes
I got a little change in my pocket going jingle lingle ling!
Moobbles
Hmmm, pig & bacon or is that pig & cocktail sausages.
sadpersonissad
Wow, it's almost as if weddings are expensive and difficult to plan and sometimes take a while.
Oddishhh
Since the average length of an engagement is ~1 yr in the US, I don't see how my previous comment warranted such a sassy response. Good day
MmmChuntPls
Found another one in an 8 year engagement.
SuperAssClench
Technically, you don't need a big wedding to get married. He could have just done the papers and then do a ceremony when they had enough $$.
lilmiziceland
Because marriage is the end game, and when that is done you are safe for life? It's as if people have different priorities in life, weird.
SuperAssClench
For some people. Marriage and having a family is like the end game for them. I personally think that there would be more to life than just
SuperAssClench
Having a family. But each to their own.
Deathsloveforcats
Yes -that is what we did, we even contemplated not having the big party at all.
SuperAssClench
The big party can always happen later on down the line when things are more stable, I think just being together is what really matters.
Opportunist
This! Hubby and I eloped, it'll be 25 years this year!
SuperAssClench
Oh wow! That is a heck of a long time! Congratulations on hitting that milestone.
Opportunist
Thank you :) So anyone who says 'Elopements don't last' -- choose wisely, treat kindly and it's much more likely to go right!
jimbosbones
But... 8 years?
sweetfumblebee
Were they engaged for that long or just together for that long and got engaged somewhere in the middle?
Oddishhh
You're probably right with the second one
sweetfumblebee
Marriage just isn't a big deal, and them not being married has saved her at least the effort of filing for divorce.
gavmar
If you truly valued getting and being married over the wedding day itself you can find a way to afford it within a year.
giftkartoffel
Licenses here are $35
Oddishhh
Why do people need licenses in the first place? I didn't know about that
giftkartoffel
But you are legally married if two people sign the license with witnesses and a minister/justice of the peace/officant
giftkartoffel
Legal government document. It's how you get joint tax benefits, get on the other's insurance, etc.
Aquatomahawk
Clearly he never had the intention of marriage if the engagement was that long
CallMeHogglet
Bullshit!
OtterAvalanche
In this instance that is true but i know of several common law couples who have been engaged for years but the financial burden you see...
OtterAvalanche
My sister as an example has been engaged 8 years. But they have special circumstances and cant afford a traditional wedding.
tarataqa
You know what happens when you assume...
Nepsin
A family friend, basically like an uncle to me, had a girlfriend for decades before even proposing and only MANY years later did they marry.
agalzoff
Is this fallout 4? Because it sounds like that settler needs some help
Solivoid
Sounds like a procrastinating imgurian right there.
Nepsin
Nah, he just enjoyed being with her over all that formal stuff. He died not long ago, a year or so after marrying
rekcilthis1
I would say he didn't care about the convention of marriage at all, and just wanted to ensure that his family was legally recognised in (1/
rekcilthis1
2/) his will after his death; since family members can contest the will and have more sway than a de facto partner but not a spouse.
cinematicheart
I have.a friend that was with her now husband for 20+ years before they actually got married. No idea why they finally did it.
TwoVhsCopiesOfGoodfellas
Eh. My uncle went out with a woman for 15 years, with young kids, perfectly happy. Then they got married and lasted a year. Marriage 1/2
TwoVhsCopiesOfGoodfellas
Ain't for some 2/2
SoftBonez
thats not necessarily true. sometimes long engagement makes sense for both people, both financially and otherwise.
Insomnia297
Not necessarily, but often.
SoftBonez
Which is why I said "that's not necessarily true"
Dumbstatz
My cousins was engaged for 7 and then got married
SoftBonez
Yea. I know several people who were engaged for quite long just because it made sense to them as a couple.
DeathtyOneDeathtyTwoDeathtyThree
If you live in the states, it makes more financial sense to get married (tax breaks, etc)
SoftBonez
Still, a lot of imgurians dont live in the states, including OP. Also like I said there's a bunch of other reasons as well.
lonelysock
I've been engaged for just under a year, I don't particularly want to get married. Just going to be 'engaged' forever.
cinematicheart
That's what I wanted and then i got pregnant so it was like eh might as well.
thedustygrad
You're not doing you or your partner any favors...
lonelysock
I think we are doing both of us a favour, as we're doing what we want and not worrying about other people
thedustygrad
If you are both in agreement about the situation, then it's a totally different matter. I took it as you had made this decision, and 1/2
ekzeko
You're gonna bone some 18 yr old tail in 7.5 years is what you'll be doing buddy.
lonelysock
Hi I'm female, and we've been together for 6 years already, I think I'll be right.
ekzeko
2.5 years left on the clock. One does not avoid the curse so easily. All you can do is hope the 18 yr old is cute. I've heard horror stories
TheRickestofMortys
I don't think she will. I know a fair amount of people who want to be with their partner forever, they just don't want the title.
Amscolie
Then why bother with the title of 'engaged'?
theoldlickaroo
What the hell is the point of that?
lonelysock
2/2 and I started jotting down ideas, then it was unbelievably expensive and stressful, so I was like 'fuck that.' He's happy either way
lonelysock
3/2 We've already made our own promises to each other, that's all I need.
lonelysock
I don't think marriage is necessary for a relationship; I was however insecure and thought I 'needed' the security. I do love weddings 1/2
LavaAxe
What's the point of marriage?
IbukiOnTheScene
there are several legal rights that come along with marriage. particularly important in cases of serious illness/injury or death
OldGreggsBloodyMangina
Depends, for some it's just a title on a government document that comes with benefits. For others it means way more.
IamMelonLordeYaYaYa
Tax break st a minimum, but even if you find it pointless, why get 'engaged'?
DoubleNubbin
If they had kids already does marriage mean anything more? If you're willing to walk out on them you'll walk out on wife/gf/fiance.
BaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaNaBATMAN
There are some economical incentives to get married rather than just living together, at least in my country. Different taxes etc.
DoctorDoomAndGloom
Paperwork. It's easier to walk out on someone pre-marriage
DoubleNubbin
Good point. Hadn't thought of that actually.
Dovieandisetouvyasagain
As someone who was engaged for 5 years, fuck you. Not everyone can afford a wedding at the drop of a hat.
ekzeko
No, barely wealthy enough to replace the hat in some cases. We talking Castor, tweed, felt?
helpidontknowmyname
Why spend $Mega on big wedding? House down-payment, college funds for kids, even a boat ffs. Spend wisely. Wedding is ONE DAY!!
mjso23
You can be engaged for as long as you like, god people get judgy. What the hell does it matter
Oddishhh
My original comment was just an observation, that 8 years is a long engagement. No judgment here :)
ScaryScarab
You do not have to have a party to get married???, just get a certificate.
lilmiziceland
That's not what's important to some people. Been engaged for 5 years myself. We want more than anything to have our dream wedding. Money tho
IamMelonLordeYaYaYa
ANd nothing is wrong with that, props to being responsible about it. I honestly wish you the most fantastic wedding.
LavaAxe
Solid plan to string them along until the other is ready to just have a civil wedding because anything will do. Save money on the wedding!
HitlersWeiner
Just do the paperwork and have a really small party? Don't make your S.O feel like they have to wait til he/she can afford your dream.
lilmiziceland
What if you have the same dream and are willing to wait together for the perfect wedding? People are different, and prioritize differently.
lilmiziceland
What if you have the same dream and are willing to wait together for the perfect wedding? People are different, and prioritize differently.
Terrasque13
As far as someone engaged knows, this may be their only wedding. Doesn't have to be big, but they may like it to be a little special.
TK421isAFK
Fuck all that spending a shitload of money on a party for people you'll never see 3 years later. Save it for a down payment on a house.
TheStenchOfThatImpala
Hear hear! We were engaged 7 years before getting married. Really, what's the rush? We were just as devoted couple before and after the wed.
Flyndaran
It sounds like your side considers the party / public display more important than the wedding itself.
TheStenchOfThatImpala
No, actually we didn't have any party but thanks for assuming.
HailSabbath
My fiancée sister has been engaged for ten years whats the rush ?
usernmae
Fiancee sister? Bro I don't think ANYONE is worrying about getting y'all married.
HailSabbath
As in my fiancée sister my future sister in law excuse the lack of grammar tis late and im out of coffee
janglesmangles
im 24 and my parents never got "offically" married, gave her a ring when i was 16ish but never any kind of ceremony or anything
TransBro
I think he means they have been together for that long, but idk i am not OP
FartBoner69
I'm catfishing your brother @OP
DownvotmePlz
O shit waddup
IBuiltAFreakingArk
I agree with fartboner
AmotsEinhorc
connorcat
My friend wants to know what catfishing is.
Magus62
FartBoner69 strikes again!
peskyboner
To be fair, OP's brother must be pretty stupid that his username wasn't a dead giveaway
43rdpresident
The 18 year old girl that OP's brother is chasing.. http://imgur.com/AH2kOXk
bukaki2011
Username on point tho
oryxtheunner5
I wish u we’re
YouJustActivatedMyTrapCard
That's prettt impressive coming from a fart boner.
Juddftw
Imagine if it is lmao
eruditic
Lysergian
I'm not gay, you're gay.
royalsoup
I knew it.
GlassCanon
If only.
jtb1313
I really hope it is a catfish
ShutUpAndTakeMyMeme
DoublevBomb
http://imgur.com/MxIJbUZ
MrRoryBreaker
I needed that laugh! Thank you!
Shadowmare23
That's giving OP's brother too much credit.
terminalcpl
Haha I can't believe this has so many up votes... oh wait...
pizzaslinger
Best fucking username in this place.
PenisFarts
Woah. We're username cousins.
PenisApologies
I want to be part of the family.
ZKrock
You're the weird cousin on the side.
FartBoner69
Bahaha. Nice.
STGxDante
With that name who could argue
StartedAtTheBottomNeverLeft
Frio937
Thank you for posting this. This is the response I was hoping for. You are the hero we deserve.
ProbablyDrunkAgain
Classic FartBoner69
Occifer
If ever there was anyone who deserved to be catfished, it's this guy.
KarlaAnne
He shoulda never called you a Fat Kelly Price!!!
Tkeleth
Well, sounds like *somebody* is
YeOldNerd
I would leave tf out of my fiance just to be Mrs. FartBoner69
FartBoner69
How you doing?
BishopBarghest
I'd leave your fiance too.
baconisthefoodofthegods
DTG09
Catfishers should be shot
AngeloPetraglia
Why do people not agree with this? Is catfishing now acceptable? Maybe it is a new identity thing no one told me about?
DTG09
Because people are pathetic assholes
DarthFutuza
It is glorious.
TheSpeakerOfTheHouse
That's so sad, now they'll never be together. I better call my catfishees on skype, right now.
nsaney
LMFAO
OscarsEstus
Holy shit.
TheBlackShakes
Whoa.
grimol
It missed the end, the best part!
alceriniel
TWO IN ONE DAY?
Meryl89
Sauce?
LaBotte
wow... just, wow !
Kavrae
This... was glorious
ImgurCouncilOfLlamas
That was epic.
paintedgreenmushrooms
This is just awful +1
TheHaloFollower
Leeloothedog
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mPOEmHczkCw vid of the gif for thoes who want it
ThatOBrienGuy
thanks fam, I was starting to lose my shit watching this without audio
NotThatKindOfDoctorDrew
That very well may hold the record for longest gif of all time!
NotThatKindOfDoctorDrew
That very well may hold the record for longest gif of all time!
schmonday
You've obviously never seen Kanye meet Bjork, or Britney Spears's KFC escapade.
DukeDarkwood
Idunno, I think the one of someone winning the 'snake game' has to be up there.
GoodSameeritan
Lol what? Not even close
UselessCargo
It's a 2 minute video - if you right click you can show controls and interact with it like a youtube video.
[deleted]
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UselessCargo
SO yea, clearly the longest gif of all time!
GlobalStrike
Before today, I would have agreed with you, but then I saw this.
v
UselessCargo
That video is 17 seconds shorter than the cat fishing one.... Right click, show controls, Gifs are VIDEO!
RishiMaru
A little disappointed I expected a dickbutt goblet. Amazing craftsmanship from that glassmaker. Just awesome.
actuallyyourusername
The first gif was 2:00, the second was 1:43
InsomniaOlympic
The quality is so good it's like looking at a new glass!
actuallyacoolusername
I got to the part where he pulls the second part out of the fire, and thought you were trolling and it had started over. I was very wrong.
OfficialJoeBiden
Glad I'm not the only one.
Bigaron74
Holy shit I want that goblet lol
Airra
I hate to burst everyone's bubbles, but those were, respectively, 2:00 and 1:43. I raise you 2:30:
v
ghostanom
However if you want the longest gif of all time you can go here: http://www.aslongaspossible.com/ (length approx. 1000 years)
StarkeRealm
I still need to actually play Dark Souls 3.
forsete769
Props for that. At 2:30 long I was totally gonna turn it off after 5sec but then I noticed it was dark souls.
43rdpresident
My friend doesn't know what catfishing means. Please enlighten him.
Twinkletwinklechocolatebar
My friend also doesn't know...
IamTOOOLDforThisShite
Like pretending that it's your FRIEND who doesn't know what catfishing is.
Chewbaccabra
Bonjour!
SelfSedatedSince1997
pretending you're someone else over the internet. aka pretending you're a fish when you're actually a cat.
CyborgScribe
Well...that works. That's an odd example and not the origin of the term but it does illustrate the point.
43rdpresident
Works for me. Stupid cats with their fishing rods an bait, being all smug with their angling
IWillProbablyCallYouACunt
Google it, cunt.
43rdpresident
My friend is too lazy and too stupid to google it. Thanks anyway Cuntet
TheSubterrelProspector
He can't type "catfish" or some variation into Google and instantly get an explanation? Are we really that dumb now?
43rdpresident
I manged to convince his stupid lazy ass to google shit. He's even got a google shortcut as a favourite on chrome- Sheesh!
IDidntDoIt
I want to downvote but I also appreciate your honesty and dedication to your username.
Booooooiqqqq
Is that why you didn't do it? +1
Booooooiqqqq
Is that why you didn't do it? +1
IDidntDoIt
Nope, did it anyway
FrankLake
I had downvoted him, read your comment, read his username and gave him a +1. Thanks.
DPunicorn
how tiny is his dick?
boobphysicist
he had one?
InitHello
Hella.
killjoy6715
According to science, hella is big
Fleecemaster
It's big tiny, for sure
HelloPizzaMyOldFriend
Hella tiny
incenderylemons
Adamisonecoolguy
Who is this cute lesbian and how tight is her pussy?
Ryebread91
Remember the bin laden episode in South Park? Like that.
absolutezero182
inverted
chipppppppppppppppp7
ShutUpAndTakeMyMeme
madroxide86
There it is
iamJiNXZ
Holy shit, how did you steal my nude from my phone? !?
DPunicorn
that is depressing
ShutUpAndTakeMyMeme
Should specify, that would be his brother. Just thought of that Gif when it was asked.
MrMaRzZ
Best reply EVER
DPunicorn
perfectly explained lol- just sad - pretty sure my clit is bigger than that
DoublevBomb
You may find this useful as well. http://imgur.com/MxIJbUZ
DoublevBomb
http://imgur.com/MxIJbUZ
DPunicorn
haha, omg
FartBoner69
Ever see a grape that didn't quite become a grape?
defenderofFP
Wait wait wait. He said the brother. Leave me out of this...
ohmoira
Cute!
GetSchwifty
Like those tiny grapes that are on the vine and are always the best since they are really sour?
LikeTotallyNotTheNSA
ironmansdildo
Oh? A raisin?\
niteofgond
Not at all
Bigfoot799
You get that from family guy?
DPunicorn
yes..... go on
latch1993
Obligatory dot
TheWhiteJonJones
FUCK YOUR WANTING FEEDBACK!
knotch2
no it doesn't that's the thing. .
metzershmit
D punicorn or DP unicorn?
Tobi239
Both.gif
TheAtomicRectum
So moist
IKissedAGuyNoHomo
You inspired me, may I call you father?
DPunicorn
fun username
atomicpotato124
You're username is better than mine
orangeisthenewbasic
My dick - locked in a cage, right His dick suffer from stage fright
BlowOnItAndStickItIn
My dick so hot it's stolen, your dick look like Gary Coleman.
Synthessence
My Dick - Rumble in the Jungle. Yo Dick got touched by ya uncle.
PeeteePete
My dick got a Caesar do, Your dick needs a tweezer, dude.
imgursmyfirstluv
It's ok. 8yr engagement? Her standards are so low she will take him back
bellbottombear
This is fucked up but I completely agree with you. She isn't doing the kids a favor by "working on the relationship". IMHO.
APunnyComment
spkter
PoopyMcPooperson
PREACH. You can't control what happens to you but you can control how you're gonna handle it.
InboxMeYourHDGIFs
Ritchie Blackmore was engaged for ~15 years. It was after 2 marriages that happened quickly and ended quickly.
mitcheal31415
Damn. When did this become roast?
TMP5
i was in a encaged for 6 years, left her two times, she convinced me to take him back. but now i got enough of her shit and dumper her 1/2
TMP5
for the third and last time. manipulative patholocigal liar and kleptomaniac (stole my prescription drugs...) 2/2
IamLauraPalmer
Good ridance.
TMP5
indeed..
ladyface
I've been in an on and off engagement for 8 years. This comment really hit me. Really going to contemplate some things...
Dawnstempest
If someone can't firmly commit to you they aren't worth the air that they breathe, much less your time.
auzziefella
Enganement. The promise of commitment without the commitment
IamLauraPalmer
Likewise. Untill my dad told me I was too young to be unhappy for the rest of my life. You aswell.
Corvie
I was in one for 11 years. Similar to OP's family. I'm glad I'm out of it. But I don't care if I get married. Just being with the person 1/2
Corvie
Is enough for me. Marriage is more for show these days. If you are happy, that's what is important.
PoopyMcPooperson
You're 100% in control of your happiness. Always.
goddamnitgivemeausername
I married too quickly and divorced within 5 years. The second time around we had a 5 year engagement. I wanted the commitment but 1/2
goddamnitgivemeausername
Needed to know the relationship could last. My Fiance understood and its working out well so far :) long engagements can be ok. 2/2
IAMTHECZAR
Damn homie, you can do it!
Booooooiqqqq
You can do better :)
WScarlet
@ladyface fwiw, I won't marry. I want whoever I'm with to feel free to leave at any time, they don't owe me life-long.
azarza
Ah ignore the internet
auzziefella
You should
deadandbloated
If you find yourself needing a rebound soon, there are a million thirsty imgurians who'd tip their fedoras in your direction in a heartbeat.
GigglesTheGreat
M'lady
ladyface
I like the sound of that, but the reason I keep going back to him is because I've never met anyone more awesome than him. :(
ladyface
We fight because he's avoidant at confrontation and I need to talk about things. We're oil and water in that 1 area. Otherwise, great
deadandbloated
7)that if the only reason you won't leave somebody is b/c you can't find "more" or better or whatever, it's not the right way to look at it.
deadandbloated
2) The thing is, every time it *feels* different. At first, when I was young, I didn't really appreciate this. So I'd get dumped and go
deadandbloated
1) If I could be serious here for a second... even though I'm feeling "forever alone" right now, I'm 36. I've been in love 6 or 7 times.
deadandbloated
4) Only when I stopped looking for "more" of the last person could I start meeting new people on their own terms. And yeah, every time
deadandbloated
3) looking for somebody who made me feel "even more" of what the last person did (eg"more awesome"). And of course, I wouldn't find anybody.
deadandbloated
5) things have *ended* with somebody, my heart broke in a way I never knew possible before. That pain, too, is part of it, because when you
deadandbloated
6) get your heart torn out, that empty space you didn't even know was there? That's space for YOU to grow into. I guess my point is simply
thedustygrad
So, does that mean it's always been you leaving him, and him taking you back?
Seventytonsofmettle
He needs to man up or fuck off. Thats not fair to you.
ladyface
You sound like the man I'm looking for.
Seventytonsofmettle
Thank you. I'm flattered and, unfortunately, taken. But honestly, it's not hard to smell a bullshitter...
ladyface
THANK YOU. I've said that before.
ITalkAboutGoats
Never turn an off relationship back on. It never works
quicktochuckle
BUT ROSS AND RACHEL
KaneVel
J.D AND ELLIOT
Marbleous
It sometimes works if you're communicating properly.
ITalkAboutGoats
Everyone thinks they're the exception, but they never are
bilateralunsymmetry
My parents broke off their engagement one time. A couple years later they met by happenstance and eloped and live happily ever after.
ITalkAboutGoats
Everyone thinks they're the exception. But they aren't. Glad your parents made it, though.
ITalkAboutGoats
Everyone thinks they're the exception. But they aren't. Glad your parents made it, though.
ScootMcNairysTrampStamp
I was with someone for 7 years before I realized it wasn't moving forward. Sending you lots of support as you contemplate.
ladyface
Thank you so much...