7334 pts · February 25, 2016
I am a trans guy from Finland with two wives. I like cute things, games, animals, superhero stuff (I'm partial to Marvel), Pokemon, D&D and fantasy things. I do a bunch of arts and crafts things. Maybe I'll post something some day.
:PLiving with phobias and anxiety sucks. I hope you can find help soon too
Yeaaahhh.... I like the mantra "you are not your first thought, you are your reaction to it." All the dark thoughts don't mean im a bad person. My disgust and horror towards them makes me (at the very least) a decent person
I've done all kinds. It was all under the trauma-psychotherapy umbrella but I think its CBT (the non-ball crushing kind) that helped me most. I don't know all the terminology in English but I think it's that based on a quick Google. But its been part of treating everything I have, getting medical help for my fibromyalgia and PTSD. I didn't start getting better until I started working on all the things some years ago
If i see holes that trigger the phobia for me, my OCD stables that image to the forefront, making it impossible not to think about it. And then I think about the holes on my skin (or on someone I love) until I'm so anxious I want to scratch and scrub my skin off. So yeah, id say its a phobia for me lmao. Though I think its mainly OCD being the culprit with pushing it to the forefront. That said, I'm much better after years of therapy and medication :)
As someone with diagnosed OCD, same. Though unsure if you think trypophobia isn't real or just overused by people who just get a little uncomfortable with pictures of holes. Cause I definitely have trypophobia.
Had this happen to someone I know. He drove one of those big cabbage trucks that takes trash from the big underground bins. A woman drove into him. Last he saw of her before the impact was her hanging out of her window. I guess she was doing that to make sure her car didn't protect her. You can imagine what happened to her.Really fucked him up. Ruined his life.
Genuine question, what exactly does the rest of the link track?
My cat has learned to close the bedroom door. If im laying in bed during the day she closes the door and then keows at me to come and open it. When I get up she runs to the bed to take my place. I no longer open doors for the little asshole. She knows how to do it herself anyways >:(
Yeah, men definitely aren't invisible. Men's mental health is treated like shit but cis men have generally most things better (rights, Healthcare, so on). Trans men kinda get the worst of both worlds. At least in my experience
Dolls?
That sucks. Why is everything bad and/or evil?
Mate, I've no idea what that is
Im looking into Matrix now. Kinda complicated to start but at least you could host it yourself and you wouldn't have to worry about AI reading your messages
Stoat seems very bare bones right now. It has the basic features of Discord, at least the messaging ones. Don't think it has video or voice call yet
But I can imagine it would be hard for a victim who is being abused by a parent. They're still your parent and often you want your parents love even in fucked up situations like that. If the parent can say "if you tell anyone, they will kill me and everyone will blame you", it makes reporting even ja4der for the victim.Just throw them in gen pop and the problem will solve itself
We need the ability to create channels, far as I know, can't do that on signal. Currently thinking of setting up a Matrix server for us
I was the same. TS to Discord and have been using that since. Im now looking at hosting my own Matrix server
Yeah, I'm looking in to hosting my own Matrix server
Does anyone know an app that works in a similar way? Me and my gf have had a private discord server for years and would love to have something similar that isn't absolute ass
Yeah same :/ "he's just a harmless troll"
And they're red too which is rarer 😭
According to a tracking app, there's strong aurora on top of us. But also 100% cloud coverage :( Some people living in darker areas have reported that they can kida see glow through the clouds
It was fun. He eventually figured it out, cursed me out and hung up
I once had one going for like 30 minutes because I kept weeping this whole tale of being on the run from my father and trying to find my mother. Some of my relatives are helping me, but my dad's people are hunting me and will try to kill me and/or drag me back to the hellhole that is home. I kept getting more and more paranoid until I was accusing him of being a spy for my father, and he tried to convince me he just wanted to fix my PC.He may or may not have interrupted my Hades run.
I can't listen to it, so I honestly not sure who is on what side.
Has anyone considered releasing a bunch of them against ICE?
I have a used Opel, but it's fully paid, so I think I'm okay? Never had a credit card and don't have Costco in my country. Im almost completely debt free, should have everything paid off by summer
Couldn't you control the sugar levels pretty easily by adding way less biscoff? His is more biscoff than yogurt. Half the amount, maybe even just a quarter, and it's a lot healthier
Yup. My wife is from the US but thankfully moved to Europe to marry me. There are a bunch of family holidays she would love to go back for, but we both refused to go to the US. Especially since she's trans and looks Latina (she's half native). They would love to kill her.
My thoughts exactly. It's a little hard to see since there's no proper profile shots of the tiger, but in some shots it looks kinda overweight
:P
Living with phobias and anxiety sucks. I hope you can find help soon too
Yeaaahhh.... I like the mantra "you are not your first thought, you are your reaction to it." All the dark thoughts don't mean im a bad person. My disgust and horror towards them makes me (at the very least) a decent person
I've done all kinds. It was all under the trauma-psychotherapy umbrella but I think its CBT (the non-ball crushing kind) that helped me most. I don't know all the terminology in English but I think it's that based on a quick Google. But its been part of treating everything I have, getting medical help for my fibromyalgia and PTSD. I didn't start getting better until I started working on all the things some years ago
If i see holes that trigger the phobia for me, my OCD stables that image to the forefront, making it impossible not to think about it. And then I think about the holes on my skin (or on someone I love) until I'm so anxious I want to scratch and scrub my skin off. So yeah, id say its a phobia for me lmao. Though I think its mainly OCD being the culprit with pushing it to the forefront. That said, I'm much better after years of therapy and medication :)
As someone with diagnosed OCD, same. Though unsure if you think trypophobia isn't real or just overused by people who just get a little uncomfortable with pictures of holes. Cause I definitely have trypophobia.
Had this happen to someone I know. He drove one of those big cabbage trucks that takes trash from the big underground bins. A woman drove into him. Last he saw of her before the impact was her hanging out of her window. I guess she was doing that to make sure her car didn't protect her. You can imagine what happened to her.
Really fucked him up. Ruined his life.
Genuine question, what exactly does the rest of the link track?
My cat has learned to close the bedroom door. If im laying in bed during the day she closes the door and then keows at me to come and open it. When I get up she runs to the bed to take my place. I no longer open doors for the little asshole. She knows how to do it herself anyways >:(
Yeah, men definitely aren't invisible. Men's mental health is treated like shit but cis men have generally most things better (rights, Healthcare, so on). Trans men kinda get the worst of both worlds. At least in my experience
Dolls?
That sucks. Why is everything bad and/or evil?
Mate, I've no idea what that is
Im looking into Matrix now. Kinda complicated to start but at least you could host it yourself and you wouldn't have to worry about AI reading your messages
Stoat seems very bare bones right now. It has the basic features of Discord, at least the messaging ones. Don't think it has video or voice call yet
But I can imagine it would be hard for a victim who is being abused by a parent. They're still your parent and often you want your parents love even in fucked up situations like that. If the parent can say "if you tell anyone, they will kill me and everyone will blame you", it makes reporting even ja4der for the victim.
Just throw them in gen pop and the problem will solve itself
We need the ability to create channels, far as I know, can't do that on signal. Currently thinking of setting up a Matrix server for us
I was the same. TS to Discord and have been using that since. Im now looking at hosting my own Matrix server
Yeah, I'm looking in to hosting my own Matrix server
Does anyone know an app that works in a similar way? Me and my gf have had a private discord server for years and would love to have something similar that isn't absolute ass
Yeah same :/ "he's just a harmless troll"
And they're red too which is rarer 😭
According to a tracking app, there's strong aurora on top of us. But also 100% cloud coverage :( Some people living in darker areas have reported that they can kida see glow through the clouds
It was fun. He eventually figured it out, cursed me out and hung up
I once had one going for like 30 minutes because I kept weeping this whole tale of being on the run from my father and trying to find my mother. Some of my relatives are helping me, but my dad's people are hunting me and will try to kill me and/or drag me back to the hellhole that is home.
I kept getting more and more paranoid until I was accusing him of being a spy for my father, and he tried to convince me he just wanted to fix my PC.
He may or may not have interrupted my Hades run.
I can't listen to it, so I honestly not sure who is on what side.
Has anyone considered releasing a bunch of them against ICE?
I have a used Opel, but it's fully paid, so I think I'm okay? Never had a credit card and don't have Costco in my country. Im almost completely debt free, should have everything paid off by summer
Couldn't you control the sugar levels pretty easily by adding way less biscoff? His is more biscoff than yogurt. Half the amount, maybe even just a quarter, and it's a lot healthier
Yup. My wife is from the US but thankfully moved to Europe to marry me. There are a bunch of family holidays she would love to go back for, but we both refused to go to the US. Especially since she's trans and looks Latina (she's half native). They would love to kill her.
My thoughts exactly. It's a little hard to see since there's no proper profile shots of the tiger, but in some shots it looks kinda overweight