Hiya Imgur! My hobby is getting tied up and tying myself up!

May 17, 2022 12:21 AM

blueKD

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POSH uplines and carabiners (I do a bit of self-suspension but these are mostly for other folks to suspend me with.) I get my carabiners from REI, if they're strong enough for rock climbing they're more than strong enough for suspension bondage! Plus climbing carabiners are weight-rated which is always a plus.

More POSH and hempex (synthetic hemp substitute - I personally prefer to use 6mm hemp rope, but synthetics have their benefits - they can be washed without weakening the rope, they're waterproof, and they're load-rated.)

Hemp and a bit of silk (white), bamboo (blueish), and POSH rope! A few spreader bars in the upper right corner too. POSH (which apparently stands for Port Out, Starboard Home, I'm told it's a sailing thing) is a synthetic rope designed for use in sailing; it's obscenely strong for its weight, which makes it ideal for uplines (ropes holding you up in a suspension, an example of which is posted at the end)

Heart-shaped futomomo, hemp rope, self-tied

Had some fun with this futomomo last December! Self-tied, hemp + poly rope + wooden star + LED lights

All lit up!

Probably my favorite shot of anything I've tied on myself thusfar, it was annoying to make work but incredibly satisfying to finally pull off! Self-tied, hemp rope. Yes, that's connected to my hair.

Example of a suspension! Whited-out areas are to hide my face and someone who wants to remain anonymous.

If you want to learn to do this, please do it properly! I highly suggest seeking out your local community, as they tend to be excellent sources of information and good friends to have besides; we exist in most major cities nowadays! If you can't/won't do so, at the very least here's some resources, I'm also happy to answer what questions I can:
https://crash-restraint.com/
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up, by Evie Vane
Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame, by Lee Harrington
Better Bondage for Every Body, by Evie Vane
Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes, by Two Knotty Boys

Finally: Please, for the love of all that is holy, do not use 50 Shades as a guide for kink of any kind. Please.

(Imgur mods, I intentionally left out any shots involving nudity or anything else that would break ToS, please don't nuke me)

Edit: shamelessly reposting for that sweet sweet fake badge

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Enjoy yourself, but please stay safe. *Thumbs up*

3 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

mmmm Shibari

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Great stuff OP! I started learning Shibari ~7 months ago and getting into partial suspensions. Beyond classes, the Dutchy is my go-to site

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Self tying is really hard to do, big props.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I saw this and immediately thought to myself "this would be some good rope to tie someone up with" then I read the title. Yes, yes it is.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So like rock climbing or...? oh ok.

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I'm just going to leave this here. NSFW. https://www.oglaf.com/jute/

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nice work. I've never figured out how to use ropes for selfbondage. Leather cuffs are just so easy to use and comfortable.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Am sailor. Red buoys on your right (starboard) mean you're heading towards sheltered waters, aka home. Nice ties! I do it a bit.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

While I don't really understand this, it looks like you are having fun and not hurting anyone, so yay you!

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yay rope stuff!! Double yay SAFE rope stuff!!!! Not a single hitch in your post @op. Just don't be knotty.

3 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

#7 Even though your hands remained free, that is still some damn impressive self-binding.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I am a huge fan of knothead nylon. :) and The book Rope Bondage the Smart Way. Thanks for your reading list and sharing your work. Yay!

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Never seen a heart shaped futo! LOVE IT!

3 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

<3

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

So you're basically Houdini's arch nemesis is what you're saying

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Iniduoh, Master of Entrapment

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You say to start out in your local community, but my local S&M club makes the newbies start out as the masochists, so idk about that

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Run away. Find decent groups on Fetlife. Go to "munches" first and just chat with people.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

S&M is Sadism and Masochism, not general kink

3 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Was going to come down here and make a comment that I initially thought of rope play but then saw I was right lol. Noice knots

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Quality carabiners. I see them getting tested on the floor. ??

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The folks at REI must think I'm the weirdest rock climber

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Have you met rock climbers? I’m pretty sure a bunch of them are into the same stuff.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I know a few of them who're into the same stuff

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What if you get a muscle cramp?

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's up to the bottom to communicate with the top and come up with a solution, generally either toughing it out or untying and readjusting

3 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Also, the top should have a pair of very good scissors to cut rope is anything happens or the bottoms needs out now!

3 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

As a fat girl, where should i start? I always see knots on smaller women but rarely on someone my size. Does this method apply to any size?

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Yes

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I suggest giving *Better Bondage for Every Body*, by Evie Vane, a look! Shibari can fit any body!

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm afraid I'd cramp up!

3 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

You gotta stretch.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's actually really comfy if done right!

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yea ! A few in my group love it!

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That rope work is highly impressive. Interesting hobby!

3 years ago | Likes 143 Dislikes 0

<3

3 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

But why

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 4

3 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

It's fun and relaxing

3 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Is this a sexy thing or just a rope thing? I'm confused

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Both - rope is fun with sex, but it's not inherently sexual

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Some like spaghetti, some like _the Spicy noodles_. Different strokes for different folks, as they say.

3 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

My favorite version of the saying is "Different squids for different kids."

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Not heard that one before. Learn something new every day. :)

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

6mm ≈ 240 thousandths of an inch

3 years ago | Likes 44 Dislikes 0

So... 1/4.

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Just shy of 1/4

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I believe the correct professional term is "cunt-hair"

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yes, UnitConversionBot, because natural fiber rope is definitely sold in thousandths of an inch

3 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 0

I've seen them try to convert light speed to Fahrenheit. Compared to that they're doing just fine.

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Or 0.0005 of a washing machine if you're that way inclined

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

*Inchclined

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I don’t think I could ever get into this (as much fun as it looks) after watching Gerald’s Game

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Gerald's game is an excellent example of what not to do - in such a case, I'd suggest either making it possible for the bottom to escape 1/?

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

In an emergency, or scheduling a safety checkup from someone in the kink community or a trusted friend. In either case the possibility of2/3

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

A heart condition causing trouble is something that should be clearly communicated in pre-scene negotiations. 3/3

3 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

As someone with compressed nerve on neck and lower back, that last picture looks amazingly relaxing.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It is!

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Please speak to a physiotherapist first.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

*Upon meeting a “dom”* Me: how did you learn about the lifestyle? Them: 50 shades Me: ok *blocked*. Stay safe out there everyone

3 years ago | Likes 130 Dislikes 1

Hashtag fact.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

For people curious about bondage that like manga, a decent example can be Nana to Kaoru.

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yes. It's really good, actually. Sunstone is also a solid one, albeit western comic not manga.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I've got this response before, too. Hard no.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

The correct answer is Bugs Bunny and Elmer Fudd, isn't it?

3 years ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 0

I mean that covers most acceptable fetishes

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yeah.... 50 shades is a horror story in disguise.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Totally Spies. I grew up watching Totally Spies and it all just avalanched from there.

3 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

I learned knot work in scouts and always thought a well done knot or hitch looked amazing. Then i took that knowledge to the bedroom when i

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Got older. I even made up my own knot when i was a teenager to tie up curtains with a quick release. I just found out its a surgical tie tho

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I came across Tom of Finland art while looking for porn as a kid. And that really changed me..

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Obvs I’ve heard of 50 shades but never read it. Guessing it’s a massive or dangerous misrepresentation by your comment?

3 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

Ooooooh yeah. It's controlling and abusive.

3 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

almost everything in 50 shades is regarded in the greater community as dangerous and abusive. Even if it got you into the community, you'd

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

learn really quick that it is not accepted, and if you tried half of it, you'd be ostracized so quick. Theres no harm in it bringing your

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

attention towards BDSM, the harm is in whether you emulate it. Many subs are not gonna want to take that risk with a dom.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Besides the abuse (which is a biggie!), the writing itself is appalling. I've only read excepts, but that was more than enough.

3 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0