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POSH uplines and carabiners (I do a bit of self-suspension but these are mostly for other folks to suspend me with.) I get my carabiners from REI, if they're strong enough for rock climbing they're more than strong enough for suspension bondage! Plus climbing carabiners are weight-rated which is always a plus.
More POSH and hempex (synthetic hemp substitute - I personally prefer to use 6mm hemp rope, but synthetics have their benefits - they can be washed without weakening the rope, they're waterproof, and they're load-rated.)
Hemp and a bit of silk (white), bamboo (blueish), and POSH rope! A few spreader bars in the upper right corner too. POSH (which apparently stands for Port Out, Starboard Home, I'm told it's a sailing thing) is a synthetic rope designed for use in sailing; it's obscenely strong for its weight, which makes it ideal for uplines (ropes holding you up in a suspension, an example of which is posted at the end)
Heart-shaped futomomo, hemp rope, self-tied
Had some fun with this futomomo last December! Self-tied, hemp + poly rope + wooden star + LED lights
All lit up!
Probably my favorite shot of anything I've tied on myself thusfar, it was annoying to make work but incredibly satisfying to finally pull off! Self-tied, hemp rope. Yes, that's connected to my hair.
Example of a suspension! Whited-out areas are to hide my face and someone who wants to remain anonymous.
If you want to learn to do this, please do it properly! I highly suggest seeking out your local community, as they tend to be excellent sources of information and good friends to have besides; we exist in most major cities nowadays! If you can't/won't do so, at the very least here's some resources, I'm also happy to answer what questions I can:
https://crash-restraint.com/
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up, by Evie Vane
Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macrame, by Lee Harrington
Better Bondage for Every Body, by Evie Vane
Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes, by Two Knotty Boys
Finally: Please, for the love of all that is holy, do not use 50 Shades as a guide for kink of any kind. Please.
(Imgur mods, I intentionally left out any shots involving nudity or anything else that would break ToS, please don't nuke me)
Edit: shamelessly reposting for that sweet sweet fake badge
BigSwede7403
Enjoy yourself, but please stay safe. *Thumbs up*
semslyfe
mmmm Shibari
PythonIndentAwwwYiss
Great stuff OP! I started learning Shibari ~7 months ago and getting into partial suspensions. Beyond classes, the Dutchy is my go-to site
AgamemnonsMemes
Self tying is really hard to do, big props.
Powderedswords
I saw this and immediately thought to myself "this would be some good rope to tie someone up with" then I read the title. Yes, yes it is.
Susurus
So like rock climbing or...? oh ok.
zalurker
I'm just going to leave this here. NSFW. https://www.oglaf.com/jute/
hendawg2020
TripleZer0
Nice work. I've never figured out how to use ropes for selfbondage. Leather cuffs are just so easy to use and comfortable.
Jucarias
Am sailor. Red buoys on your right (starboard) mean you're heading towards sheltered waters, aka home. Nice ties! I do it a bit.
ThrowAwayAcct0000
While I don't really understand this, it looks like you are having fun and not hurting anyone, so yay you!
disposabledom
Yay rope stuff!! Double yay SAFE rope stuff!!!! Not a single hitch in your post @op. Just don't be knotty.
Sasurau
irvingb01
#7 Even though your hands remained free, that is still some damn impressive self-binding.
thelightthatisreflected
I am a huge fan of knothead nylon. :) and The book Rope Bondage the Smart Way. Thanks for your reading list and sharing your work. Yay!
imwithpluto
Never seen a heart shaped futo! LOVE IT!
blueKD
<3
Caspooky
So you're basically Houdini's arch nemesis is what you're saying
Caspooky
Iniduoh, Master of Entrapment
dabrick31
You say to start out in your local community, but my local S&M club makes the newbies start out as the masochists, so idk about that
obijan
Run away. Find decent groups on Fetlife. Go to "munches" first and just chat with people.
blueKD
S&M is Sadism and Masochism, not general kink
NewToTheEnterwbs
Was going to come down here and make a comment that I initially thought of rope play but then saw I was right lol. Noice knots
lurksohardmotherfuckerswannafindme
Quality carabiners. I see them getting tested on the floor. ??
blueKD
The folks at REI must think I'm the weirdest rock climber
lurksohardmotherfuckerswannafindme
Have you met rock climbers? I’m pretty sure a bunch of them are into the same stuff.
blueKD
I know a few of them who're into the same stuff
TheImmaculateDrunk
What if you get a muscle cramp?
blueKD
It's up to the bottom to communicate with the top and come up with a solution, generally either toughing it out or untying and readjusting
Albino195
Also, the top should have a pair of very good scissors to cut rope is anything happens or the bottoms needs out now!
eissie
As a fat girl, where should i start? I always see knots on smaller women but rarely on someone my size. Does this method apply to any size?
freckledkink
Yes
blueKD
I suggest giving *Better Bondage for Every Body*, by Evie Vane, a look! Shibari can fit any body!
CritterMazes
I'm afraid I'd cramp up!
MacBane1977
You gotta stretch.
blueKD
It's actually really comfy if done right!
CritterMazes
Yea ! A few in my group love it!
fearlessfloyd
That rope work is highly impressive. Interesting hobby!
blueKD
<3
Like2Fox
But why
lilraeofglumshine
blueKD
It's fun and relaxing
chud37
Is this a sexy thing or just a rope thing? I'm confused
blueKD
Both - rope is fun with sex, but it's not inherently sexual
BigSwede7403
Some like spaghetti, some like _the Spicy noodles_. Different strokes for different folks, as they say.
irvingb01
My favorite version of the saying is "Different squids for different kids."
BigSwede7403
Not heard that one before. Learn something new every day. :)
UnitConversionBot
6mm ≈ 240 thousandths of an inch
JayEnfield
So... 1/4.
SedatedSl0th
Just shy of 1/4
JayEnfield
I believe the correct professional term is "cunt-hair"
CakeShapedPie
Yes, UnitConversionBot, because natural fiber rope is definitely sold in thousandths of an inch
Leonon
I've seen them try to convert light speed to Fahrenheit. Compared to that they're doing just fine.
commentisrelevant
Or 0.0005 of a washing machine if you're that way inclined
hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah
*Inchclined
CrazyWineLady
I don’t think I could ever get into this (as much fun as it looks) after watching Gerald’s Game
blueKD
Gerald's game is an excellent example of what not to do - in such a case, I'd suggest either making it possible for the bottom to escape 1/?
blueKD
In an emergency, or scheduling a safety checkup from someone in the kink community or a trusted friend. In either case the possibility of2/3
blueKD
A heart condition causing trouble is something that should be clearly communicated in pre-scene negotiations. 3/3
Naramumu
As someone with compressed nerve on neck and lower back, that last picture looks amazingly relaxing.
blueKD
It is!
TeeweeAndSmashboy
Please speak to a physiotherapist first.
LittleMisScareAll
*Upon meeting a “dom”* Me: how did you learn about the lifestyle? Them: 50 shades Me: ok *blocked*. Stay safe out there everyone
Gayforbae
Hashtag fact.
OnePostCloserToAHappierLIfe
For people curious about bondage that like manga, a decent example can be Nana to Kaoru.
DHDragon
Yes. It's really good, actually. Sunstone is also a solid one, albeit western comic not manga.
BastofBelial
I've got this response before, too. Hard no.
NuclearMonk
The correct answer is Bugs Bunny and Elmer Fudd, isn't it?
GodsFoot
I mean that covers most acceptable fetishes
RulesOfImgur
Yeah.... 50 shades is a horror story in disguise.
DeadeicPrints
Totally Spies. I grew up watching Totally Spies and it all just avalanched from there.
Arcrosis
I learned knot work in scouts and always thought a well done knot or hitch looked amazing. Then i took that knowledge to the bedroom when i
Arcrosis
Got older. I even made up my own knot when i was a teenager to tie up curtains with a quick release. I just found out its a surgical tie tho
Gayforbae
I came across Tom of Finland art while looking for porn as a kid. And that really changed me..
AoEnwyr
Obvs I’ve heard of 50 shades but never read it. Guessing it’s a massive or dangerous misrepresentation by your comment?
DeadeicPrints
Ooooooh yeah. It's controlling and abusive.
Ulthirm
almost everything in 50 shades is regarded in the greater community as dangerous and abusive. Even if it got you into the community, you'd
Ulthirm
learn really quick that it is not accepted, and if you tried half of it, you'd be ostracized so quick. Theres no harm in it bringing your
Ulthirm
attention towards BDSM, the harm is in whether you emulate it. Many subs are not gonna want to take that risk with a dom.
sheanar
Besides the abuse (which is a biggie!), the writing itself is appalling. I've only read excepts, but that was more than enough.