onlywisehermit

13435 pts ยท April 12, 2016


Puns are funny. I Don't mind telling things as long as I'm asked and not demanded of. That's my therapist job, demanding discussion. And if it too personal I'll so.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You're right. I could. I've only been in therapy for about a year trying yo fix my life. I'm not sure where I went wrong in life.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This was almost a reality. I was in a coma for 48 hours.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I honestly don't know what I did. Maybe I did do something wrong in his eyes? That's what therapy is for. I've been in therapy for a year now. I can say the way I loved my life is failure in his eyes. Again. I don't know.

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

None of the above.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I wish I had an answer for you.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'll agree with that. I think he needs a therapist as much as I do. But I found obe for different reasons.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Nope. Between my therapist and I were going to ask him.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not yet. But soon. Therapy and a conversation I hope next month.

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

That's on him. He doesn't have a relationship with his own daughter's family. The oldest is in highschool. The middle is goofy, and the granddaughter is is annoyingly fun. He's choosing to miss out.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

My Doctor said my type 1 diabetes. I was 41 when it happened. My kidneys failed one weekend. We were already monitoring my kidneys. She wasn't ready yo put me on dialysis yet.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Well his wife his a few years younger then him. And I'm sure her daughters will handle that when it happens.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Is anerica a real country? I can't tell you his motivations. However I'm working with my therapist to get the courage to ask.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yup doing the research and stuff now. There's 2 sections financial and medical.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't know. Between my therapist and I I want to ask a lot of questions.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I told him it was unnecessary because if these other programs. But he said that he'd take care of me because he was my father. This was maybe 3 years ago after my leg was amputated. So I thought I had my dad in my corner out if live. Now I'm not so sure.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No idea. I'm hoping to get an answer. But I suspect it has yo do with he's retired. My sister (his daughter) is raising a family and my mom (ex-wife) is taking care of her dementia ridden husband. No one has extra time to do anything eith me. Even though there are medical services to drive me to appointments, Uber, and delivery services. I'm also an amputee and going blind. Another long medical story. He signed up by choice tto work for a company that pays him to come by and take care me.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

His balls live in his 2nd wife's purse. He hot remarried, he became a Whipped man.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's a different name. You're right. It's under the power of attorney stuff om looking up.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sadly there is. I'm not sure what's relevant though. I've mentioned I'm in therapy, originally for the things I experienced in my coma. So before we ask him why, I'm already looking yo see if I did something wrong in the first place.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm working with my therapist through it. We're going yo have a talk with him about it. Where I can ask why.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Working on the courage to ask.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

He is a trump supporter, much like the rest of my family. I'm the only "loberal".

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We never saw eye to eye. I've always done my own thing. When I went to college, I used credit cards to put my classes on, because I never got financial aid. He refused to help me, because i was living with my mom. I sued his oldest stepdaughter and her husband for theft. I'm also in therapy. I've dated outside my race and lifestyle. I've lived my life in a way he didn't approve of? I don't know and I'm afraid to ask. Even though I know I now need to.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I'm good right now. He's made veiled threats of putting me in a home to live. My sister andci are working to stop that from happening. It us a future possibility if I get worse. He's gave no reason why. He just said it.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

When they hot me "stabke". They started me on dialysis. I suffered 2 consecutive cardiac events. I was oxygen deprived for about 12 minutes. I was in a camp for about 48 hours. Many possibilities were explained. But here I am.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My entire family always vote red. I'm the only "dirty liberral". Until I got sick. That's when they realized the differences in Healthcare beliefs.

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I agree eith whole heartedly. Thanks to his 2nd wife's oldest daughter; my sister has cut 90% of all ties with the speed donar. As she says. So my dad doesn't have a relationship with his biological grandkids and realizes he's missing out. I hope. But they're both stubborn. I doubt either will try to salvage the relationship.

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Paperwork first. Then we'll see. My sister doesn't talk to him. Thanks to his step daughter from his 2nd wife. She has all the grand kids.

2 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Thanks, my retired matine brother in law has dibs.

2 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0