1707 pts · March 7, 2014
Yeah, if you look at the first few frames as she moves away from camera it looks really blocky. So I can't see where filtering was done or not, but it definitely is a low bitrate video and suffers the issues that causes.
Could be the video encoding messing up near fast moving objects. It's a fairly common issue when using low bitrate settings. The software will compress the video by taking a full picture of a spot. then following frames only saving how that spot changed from the original picture. Works well for stuff that doesn't change much, gets wonky on fast moving/changing content.
I am trying to be on a diet right now. This post isn't helping. Sure you could ask, "Why don't you just not look at all the delicious sandwiches?" I would answer, "If I had this kinda of willpower and clear thinking in the face of delicious food I wouldn't need to be on this diet in the first place."
Some times, that is actually true: https://www.mturk.com/
Humanity is better with you. If you need a reminder, ask for one of these: https://www.dragonsteelbooks.com/products/next-step-coin
Plus the tenants KNOW they are getting a good rate and value the relationship more. They probably take better care of the property.
The lesson: Don't expect people who make unreasonable requests/demands to be reasonable.
A thought on how to handle leaving early. Be honest. Tell them that crowds stress you out and you are leaving before you crash out. The upside of this approach is anyone with awareness will stop creating an expectation of you showing up for events. I also understand this would be sharing personal information and you may not be comfortable with that which is perfectly reasonable. So just an idea for you to judge for your self. Good luck on your adventure.
Because "fixing" the things that make you feel insecure doesn't make insecurity go away.
Well when you have a billion year old legacy code that no one is refactoring just patches on patches, it gets messy.
A appreciate your efforts to communicate the nature of events accurately. I believe you achieved that with both sentences.
I think a big part of the problem is because neurotypical people fit expectations so well, they don't realize how unreliable the human brain is. So they never question what their own mind is doing. Us neuro-spicy people are forced to question it all the time because we don't align with general expectations.
I think the final step in "setting boundaries" is clear communication. She should inform everyone how she has a hard time with subtext and if they would like her to do something they will need to explicitly ask, because otherwise she will likely miss the implied message.
“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”-- Fred Rogers Don't just complain on the internet. Donate to your local food pantry. Make Mr Rogers proud of you!
I have been adding a teaspoon of this with my post workout drink of electrolyte powder and creatine powder mixed in water. Muscle cramp problems have basically gone away.
Real good demonstration on how your ability process information and make decisions is impaired by an elevated emotional state.
My Dad got all his teeth removed and dentures made after a life time of avoiding the dentist. Once he healed and got used to them he was much happier than before the procedure. Hope the entire process is very boring in the best possible way.
You will need supplies. You should start doing some training with a fully loaded pack.
I have been pondering the Ender's Game kind of empathy. To know an enemy so deeply that you can't help but love them. But doing the hard thing of destroying them because they are still your enemy and they are still a danger to you.
Listen, attractive is more than looks. It's about attracting people to you. Maybe you have a good sense of humor, maybe your compassionate and listen to people with sincere interest. I have dealt with some body issues due to reaching 320 lbs at my heaviest. Even if you truly believe you are ugly, you can still be ATTRACTIVE because that is 100% about other people wanting to be with you. Clearly you bring something to the table so strong another person has married you!
This is my favorite version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJnERje97jw
I'm not sure what you are communicating. But unless it's that instances of domestic abuse are decreasing, I doubt I will find it pleasant.
I did a seasonal job a couple years as a driver assistant. The pay and benefits for drivers are good enough that there is a lot competition to get driver jobs and strong incentive to keep them.
So the LD50 for 1840 society was 35 years.
I think men are more likely to take a divorce as a personal failure/fault. So I can see divorce being less common when both sides have that mindset. Hopefully that energy gets channeled into healthy growth and not a toxic relationship.
Consistent diet is hard. Consistent exercise is hard. Consistent diet and exercise at the same time is much harder. Well done sticking with it.
If she is willing to "date" while doing couples counseling for 2 years straight, MAYBE you could think about being with her. Other than that, expect she will be the same person she kept proving she was.
We all want this. We all want to be able to do things for ourselves even when we find it challenging and the people we care about to be proud of us for doing things we find challenging.
Yeah, if you look at the first few frames as she moves away from camera it looks really blocky. So I can't see where filtering was done or not, but it definitely is a low bitrate video and suffers the issues that causes.
Could be the video encoding messing up near fast moving objects. It's a fairly common issue when using low bitrate settings. The software will compress the video by taking a full picture of a spot. then following frames only saving how that spot changed from the original picture. Works well for stuff that doesn't change much, gets wonky on fast moving/changing content.
I am trying to be on a diet right now. This post isn't helping. Sure you could ask, "Why don't you just not look at all the delicious sandwiches?" I would answer, "If I had this kinda of willpower and clear thinking in the face of delicious food I wouldn't need to be on this diet in the first place."
Some times, that is actually true: https://www.mturk.com/
Humanity is better with you. If you need a reminder, ask for one of these: https://www.dragonsteelbooks.com/products/next-step-coin
Plus the tenants KNOW they are getting a good rate and value the relationship more. They probably take better care of the property.
The lesson: Don't expect people who make unreasonable requests/demands to be reasonable.
A thought on how to handle leaving early. Be honest. Tell them that crowds stress you out and you are leaving before you crash out. The upside of this approach is anyone with awareness will stop creating an expectation of you showing up for events. I also understand this would be sharing personal information and you may not be comfortable with that which is perfectly reasonable. So just an idea for you to judge for your self. Good luck on your adventure.
Because "fixing" the things that make you feel insecure doesn't make insecurity go away.
Well when you have a billion year old legacy code that no one is refactoring just patches on patches, it gets messy.
A appreciate your efforts to communicate the nature of events accurately. I believe you achieved that with both sentences.
I think a big part of the problem is because neurotypical people fit expectations so well, they don't realize how unreliable the human brain is. So they never question what their own mind is doing. Us neuro-spicy people are forced to question it all the time because we don't align with general expectations.
I think the final step in "setting boundaries" is clear communication. She should inform everyone how she has a hard time with subtext and if they would like her to do something they will need to explicitly ask, because otherwise she will likely miss the implied message.
“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, "Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”
-- Fred Rogers
Don't just complain on the internet. Donate to your local food pantry. Make Mr Rogers proud of you!
I have been adding a teaspoon of this with my post workout drink of electrolyte powder and creatine powder mixed in water. Muscle cramp problems have basically gone away.
Real good demonstration on how your ability process information and make decisions is impaired by an elevated emotional state.
My Dad got all his teeth removed and dentures made after a life time of avoiding the dentist. Once he healed and got used to them he was much happier than before the procedure. Hope the entire process is very boring in the best possible way.
You will need supplies. You should start doing some training with a fully loaded pack.
I have been pondering the Ender's Game kind of empathy. To know an enemy so deeply that you can't help but love them. But doing the hard thing of destroying them because they are still your enemy and they are still a danger to you.
Listen, attractive is more than looks. It's about attracting people to you. Maybe you have a good sense of humor, maybe your compassionate and listen to people with sincere interest. I have dealt with some body issues due to reaching 320 lbs at my heaviest. Even if you truly believe you are ugly, you can still be ATTRACTIVE because that is 100% about other people wanting to be with you. Clearly you bring something to the table so strong another person has married you!
This is my favorite version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PJnERje97jw
I'm not sure what you are communicating. But unless it's that instances of domestic abuse are decreasing, I doubt I will find it pleasant.
I did a seasonal job a couple years as a driver assistant. The pay and benefits for drivers are good enough that there is a lot competition to get driver jobs and strong incentive to keep them.
So the LD50 for 1840 society was 35 years.
I think men are more likely to take a divorce as a personal failure/fault. So I can see divorce being less common when both sides have that mindset. Hopefully that energy gets channeled into healthy growth and not a toxic relationship.
Consistent diet is hard. Consistent exercise is hard. Consistent diet and exercise at the same time is much harder. Well done sticking with it.
If she is willing to "date" while doing couples counseling for 2 years straight, MAYBE you could think about being with her. Other than that, expect she will be the same person she kept proving she was.
We all want this. We all want to be able to do things for ourselves even when we find it challenging and the people we care about to be proud of us for doing things we find challenging.