28402 pts ยท March 22, 2017
Female. Divorced, have a teenage son. Full time job in IT. Wide range of varied interests.
Don't let her blame you. Yes no one is a perfect spouse but it's on her that she chose to cheat. Then you have to question if it's the first time. If she wasn't happy, why didn't she talk to you to have you help before she made this choice? - just things I questioned when I learned my ex husband cheated. I learned at 11 yrs of marriage, he'd been cheating 6 yrs at that point. I had no idea and swore it wasn't possible until I found proof on credit cards.
I thought there was no way my ex husband was cheating but he was, he was just really really good at hiding it. Get tested, never give him another chance. You deserve better. As soon as you can, live somewhere away from him. Don't stoop to his level to get back at him. The best revenge is to be happy away from him.
The Trump model
Me too a month ago
Forever THIS
Me too. My parents kept asking me when I would move back there, they wanted to see their grandson, when they wouldn't come visit though they certainly could have. I told them they could move closer to me. They didn't have a response. I didn't bother trying to explain why i can never live back down there, they wouldn't have understood. They saw no problem with how things were (and still are) down there.
That's how they're raised. Literally. I grew up down there, moved away when I was 20. The women are raised to think they're the weaker, lesser sex. That the man is the only one who should think or have any opinion. And she should believe what he says, like what he likes, etc. They believe this is how God made women, and how He wants the marriage to be. Being a woman, it was hard growing up there. I couldn't stay there, left as soon as I could.
So just as you should do an ancestry test to learn your true ancestral history, you should also do a chromosome test to see what your genes are? I just wonder how many people think they're an XX or XY but might be one of these many different combinations
I want to see embroidery tattoos healed a couple years
She's gorgeous
I saw Tool twice last year, DC and St Louis. Then Maynard's band Puscifer in St Louis at the end of the year. He's awesome
When the Matrix was released, that's how they were referred to. It was stated repeatedly, the Wachowski Brothers. I loved the movie, watched lots of interviews, background and behind the scenes stuff after it came out and that's how they were always referred to. Now they're the Sisters but that was how things were at that time.
Definitely tell them you're not covering for them in the future, they'll have to find someone else
@USKillbotics I read your book. I loved it. Please tell me that there will be more books about Sarya.
Need to know the location, for research reasons... I need to pet this cat
Weinstein is why we can't buy the movie Dogma
Go on....
My favorite southern saying "Grinning like a possum in barbed wire"
What a gorgeous cat
Take it slow in case you're not done with the exhaustion yet. You'll get there one step at a time
Going on a yearly family vacation any where, we never did. Then I'd see movies where families would go stay somewhere all summer.
They can share the title
When my son started growing underarm hair, he thought I was joking that he'd get groin hair also. The look of horror was great
And they shall call you Madam
They're both majestic
Happy cat..... mad cat
It's not your job to fix him.
What if you live by yourself?
Just wait, 40s it really ramps up. About to enter 50s, I'm trying to get back into workout routine and it's way harder than it used to be
If it's not yours, don't touch it!!!
Don't let her blame you. Yes no one is a perfect spouse but it's on her that she chose to cheat. Then you have to question if it's the first time. If she wasn't happy, why didn't she talk to you to have you help before she made this choice? - just things I questioned when I learned my ex husband cheated. I learned at 11 yrs of marriage, he'd been cheating 6 yrs at that point. I had no idea and swore it wasn't possible until I found proof on credit cards.
I thought there was no way my ex husband was cheating but he was, he was just really really good at hiding it. Get tested, never give him another chance. You deserve better. As soon as you can, live somewhere away from him. Don't stoop to his level to get back at him. The best revenge is to be happy away from him.
The Trump model
Me too a month ago
Forever THIS
Me too. My parents kept asking me when I would move back there, they wanted to see their grandson, when they wouldn't come visit though they certainly could have. I told them they could move closer to me. They didn't have a response. I didn't bother trying to explain why i can never live back down there, they wouldn't have understood. They saw no problem with how things were (and still are) down there.
That's how they're raised. Literally. I grew up down there, moved away when I was 20. The women are raised to think they're the weaker, lesser sex. That the man is the only one who should think or have any opinion. And she should believe what he says, like what he likes, etc. They believe this is how God made women, and how He wants the marriage to be. Being a woman, it was hard growing up there. I couldn't stay there, left as soon as I could.
So just as you should do an ancestry test to learn your true ancestral history, you should also do a chromosome test to see what your genes are? I just wonder how many people think they're an XX or XY but might be one of these many different combinations
I want to see embroidery tattoos healed a couple years
She's gorgeous
I saw Tool twice last year, DC and St Louis. Then Maynard's band Puscifer in St Louis at the end of the year. He's awesome
When the Matrix was released, that's how they were referred to. It was stated repeatedly, the Wachowski Brothers. I loved the movie, watched lots of interviews, background and behind the scenes stuff after it came out and that's how they were always referred to. Now they're the Sisters but that was how things were at that time.
Definitely tell them you're not covering for them in the future, they'll have to find someone else
@USKillbotics I read your book. I loved it. Please tell me that there will be more books about Sarya.
Need to know the location, for research reasons... I need to pet this cat
Weinstein is why we can't buy the movie Dogma
Go on....
My favorite southern saying "Grinning like a possum in barbed wire"
What a gorgeous cat
Take it slow in case you're not done with the exhaustion yet. You'll get there one step at a time
Going on a yearly family vacation any where, we never did. Then I'd see movies where families would go stay somewhere all summer.
They can share the title
When my son started growing underarm hair, he thought I was joking that he'd get groin hair also. The look of horror was great
And they shall call you Madam
They're both majestic
Happy cat..... mad cat
It's not your job to fix him.
What if you live by yourself?
Just wait, 40s it really ramps up. About to enter 50s, I'm trying to get back into workout routine and it's way harder than it used to be
If it's not yours, don't touch it!!!