Depression, Too, is a Kind of Fire.

The poem is by Taylor Mali. youtu.be/ESrzN-JkKsM

I’m an idiot because once
before we were married she asked me whether I knew
that we would not be having children
if we did get married, and I said yes.

And because she knew I was lying,
she asked if I was really okay with that.
And because I’m an idiot, I said yes again.

The Comic is Something*Positive at somethingpositive.net.

And once during a fight, not married
More than two years, she said she felt like my first wife,
And I, like an idiot, assured her that she was.

She worked out at the gym five times a week
And smoked as many packs of ultra lights,
And I’m an idiot because when I asked her why,
She said, "Because I hate myself and I want to die."
And I laughed and said something I don’t recall,
Something completely and utterly insufficient.

From the roof of our apartment,
I saw 40 or 50 people jump from the towers
on a Tuesday morning—we used to be able to see them to the south,
just as, to the north, we can still see
(...and by “we” I guess I mean just me, now)
the Empire State Building,
which still steeps me in gratitude
because I’m an idiot.

Out of the smoke with arms flailing.
And I swear I saw a perfect swan.

And I was going to write a poem
about how fire is the only thing
that can make a person jump out a window.

....3 Years later (November 25, 2005)

And maybe I’m an idiot for thinking I could have saved her—
call me her knight in shattered armor—
could have loved her more,
or told the truth about children.

But depression, too, is a kind of fire.
And I know nothing of either.