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Last year, Fiona Presly formed an unlikely friendship she won't soon forget.
While gardening outside her home in Scotland at the beginning of spring, Presly noticed a queen bumblebee at her feet, seeming quite cold and disoriented. Afraid the little insect might get stepped on, she stooped down to place the bee on a flower — not knowing at the time that this queen wasn't like the rest.
"I picked her up and noticed there was something peculiar," Presly told The Dodo. "She had no wings."
Unsure of how else to help, Presly offered the bee some sugar water and set her on some flowering heather, hoping she would be able to manage on her own. Upon checking the spot a few hours later, however, she discovered that the bee hadn't moved.
To make matters worse, a heavy storm was about to start — so Presly went one step further.
"I took her inside that night, kept her warm and fed her more," she said. "I thought I would put her out the next day, but the weather was bad then too. So I kept her inside."
Presly contacted the Bumblebee Conservation Trust for help and came to learn that the bee likely had a virus known to cause problems in wing development. The queen's chances of survival in the wild were slim without the ability to fly.
But seeing that the bee was otherwise healthy, Presly decided to give her a chance to live. And that meant getting creative.
"I made a garden for her," Presly said.
Since the bee, now formally named Bee, would have to walk from flower to flower to feed, Presly built her a private floral buffet. Using some netting, she built Bee an enclosure full of blossoms where her winged counterparts couldn't reach to deplete the pollen.
Bee now had it good.
Presly continued to check on Bee daily, bringing her tiny cups of sugar water if she seemed lethargic and carrying her indoors if the weather turned sour.
Little could Presly have guessed that a remarkable bond would soon form between her and that fuzzy bug she rescued.
Eventually, each time Presly would drop by the enclosed garden, something unexpected began happening — Bee would eagerly emerge from the foliage to greet her.
"She'd walk toward me and crawl on my hand," Presly said. "She seemed so happy to see me. It made me stop and think — there’s something going on here."
For reasons that Presly couldn't explain, Bee seemed to genuinely enjoy being in contact with her. She seemed to light up whenever Presly was around to hold her.
"It was like her whole being came to life. I think she liked the fact that she wasn’t alone," Presly said. "I think she thrived on company, even from another species. They are naturally sociable creatures. That would be in their instinct."
Presly was likewise smitten with Bee, who seemed to regard her as a real friend.
"We were quite comfortable with each other," she said. "There were things going on with this bee that were quite something."
To Presly's family and friends, it was clear that she and Bee were bonded.
Normally, a queen bumblebee would spend the spring and summer building a nest, mating and starting a colony — finally dying at the approach of autumn.
Under Presly's care, Bee had outlived them all. But her time eventually ran out.
Five months after being rescued, Bee fell asleep in Presly's hand and never woke up again.
"I was sad when she died, but I knew it was going to happen. She was already older than she should have been," Presley said. "It had been very special to stay with a wee creature, like Bee. The fact that she lived more than just a few weeks amazed me. That was rewarding in itself."
Afterward, Presly buried Bee's body in her garden — joined by a favorite flower.
Presly's experience with Bee, and the magical bond they formed, was unexpected — but it's opened her eyes to the notion that the world may be more filled with feelings than most people realize.
"Now I view all insects in a different light. It’s changed my perception of what insects are like," she said. "I think there’s an awful lot we don’t know."
Though Presly admits she doesn't know what Bee actually felt in her little heart, she suspects there might be something to learn from their time together. So, she contacted Lars Chittka, professor of sensory and behavioral ecology at Queen Mary University of London, with her account.
And in an article on the topic, Chittka acknowledges that Bee's example could change our understanding of creatures like her as a whole:
"Sometimes it takes an outsider’s careful observations, such as Mrs. Presly’s, to generate fresh views and prompt important questions."
Original article: https://www.thedodo.com/in-the-wild/woman-befriends-wingless-bumblebee
FPEdit: Another article with words from Presly: https://www.scotsman.com/news/environment/highland-woman-becomes-first-known-person-to-keep-bumblebee-as-a-pet-1-4707630
“She made sort of clicks, buzzy sounds when she was in close contact with me and was happy to sit and groom, eat, drink and sleep on my hand,” Presly said.
LadyWidebottom
I love bumblebees so much
abigbiglove
I'd sure love a hug from this gentle character
jimmyv723
madjo
Missed opportunity to call the bee Bee Arthur.
Yourmomthinksitsfunny
This should be a kids movie about life and dying.
realmdweller
boopsboop2
It's so fuzzy and cute!!
TherealNickyboy
I never thought I would cry over the death of a bumblebee, yet here I am.
HalfIagoHalfFuManchuAllBastard
Yahellno
That's one sweet woman. Good on you.
koolforkats
That is so awe inspiring. Left me with a smile on my face after a really tough day. Thanks to you Mrs P and Bee
TheMaskedRaven
As someone with a fear of bees, this is beautiful.
Rebockymeow
ThisIsAnAlaia
Wow that was way more of an emotional rollercoaster than I anticipated. When I grow up I wanna be Fiona Presly
diabolika
Same.
APenguinInATuxedo
MissSpelledTattoo
bee-utiful*
OuchYoureonmyhair
Cue the orchestra: Walk of the Bumblebee
ButteryCommissar
Honestly this is top comment for me.
slappyJo
I pictured this-the conductor whispering "andante" to the orchestra.Love your comment hahahahahstill laughing+1
whyWontKeiraKnightleyReturnMyPhoneCalls
..... human beings will bond with anything won't they
TerranAmbassador
Marvelous, isn't it? Also fascinating.
siler7
Written in pollen in a hidden corner of the enclosure: SOME GAL
Ninoue
AHAH :'(
bingotown
TERRIFIC
leeardamer
Im internin at a radio station and we had her as a guest speaker. She is full of love but also she's aware some ppl will see her as crazy
WisconsinHome
Could you send a link to the show?
ButteryCommissar
She sounds pretty sane to me, recognising that the bee was social rather than over romanticising it.
leeardamer
It aint no Bee Movie. And I think it takes a big heart to care for something so small
Justaweirdbitch
I once rescued a female Carolina Mantis. She lived about the same amount of time and handled her frequently. She seemed aware that we 1/
Justaweirdbitch
Her no harm. She'd watch us from her little setup we made for her, and walk to your hand when you put it inside. Rip Margaret. It was lovely
erischilde
I love mantises. They are cute. And since I started scuba diving, I've seen shrimp that have personalities. I mean. It looks like they do.
ButteryCommissar
Apologies, fixed the description to explain who Lars Chittka is, and why he's talking about Bee.
TrueSandwich
Why are there no Bee Movie comments?
bannyd
i literally had to do a Ctrl+F to find only 4 instances of the word "movie" in the comments.... i'm so so so upset at the imgur community
TongueWagger
Jerry Seinfeld was right! A woman and a bee CAN fall in love!
wh1skyd1ck
Bee deserves more respect than that.
aSophiebear
We have more respect for Bee
EricFromAccounts
Seriously I thought all top comments would be Bee Movie gifs
MrAppendixX
IKR?? Imgur's slackin'
ididntgetthejobatfruitloops
Gob's not on board...
lewaq
She so hot.
DeepFriedFrenchTart
ididntgetthejobatfruitloops
"They don't allow bees in here." Lucille
VardtheBard
Bees are obviously social creatures, so for a bee to be alone, the woman was it's only form of interaction.
Magicflutefreddie
I know. I love this story.
ITalkAboutGoats
But bumblebees are solitary bees
atarujun
Eric the 'alf a bee. A demi-bee, you see.
qwijybo
Scoured the entire comments section to find this. Hope she got a bee license.
MrSideBurns
Cyril Connelly?
schleppelthebogeyman
No, semi-carnally
atarujun
Python sketch.
MrSideBurns
https://youtu.be/MlrsqGal64w?t=107 at 1:47
atarujun
Thanks was hunting for that. The Python lads' intellect shines through referentially in so much of their work.
atarujun
And 0% chance Fiona Presly was not singing along in her garden in Scotland.
Flonaise
I'm not crying, I just have some pollen in my eyes.
DracidWasTaken
damn pollen jocks flinging polen everywhere
MissSpelledTattoo
It'll bee okay, honey.
FuccTheDevil
What a beautiful story, that lady deserves everything good in the world.
FartedWhileMakingUpName
All of it? Damn...life's about to suck for everyone else :(
notashill
Much better story than bee movie
FuccTheDevil
Furthermore, we could all learn to be as compassionate as this lady.
Doopapotamus
I wish I wasn't so afraid of more or less the entire arthropoda family. She looked so nice with her Bee.
sundaymondayhippyday
MissSpelledTattoo
Way to bee positive!
OrangePasta
Yes, what a beeutiful story. :)
SchrodingersDictator
It makes me wonder what would happen if you tries to compassionately befriend a colony of wasps.
sophiesmommy09
I give red mahogany wasps water every spring, summer , fall. They have landed on me not been aggressive. People need to stop being fearful
sophiesmommy09
A dirtdobber measured a space in front of my eyes to make her mud " nursery". Still stunned. We have fed flies to a mommy jumping spider
sophiesmommy09
And ppl need to slow way down and observe insects. They're amazing, serve great purpose FOR US and SMART. Watched in shock and amazement as
sophiesmommy09
When she wouldn't leave from guarding her nursery of babies not even to eat. She would come down to us. :)
SchrodingersDictator
Ok, that is really cool. You are an awesome person.
KarmicBee
I agree :)
sundaymondayhippyday
KarmicBee
trumpypumpyinyourrumpy
This actually upset me. Wtf is wrong with me?
DignamWhenAskedaQuestion
You are evolving. Congratulations.
IThinkYouGotAFineBrainJack
You have this fatal illness called "being human". I'm sorry to tell you that there's no cure.
jy3192
Absolutely nothing’s wrong with you. It shows you’re compassionate and have a heart.
SaikyoStyle
May I add that Hitler showed moments of compassion? He cried like a wee baby when his mother died.
JupitersWitch
ButteryCommissar
I had no idea it was gonna make people feel sad, I feel terrible. I thought it was joyful.
GenjyPlayer
It's ok you made people sad man. Sadness is all around us, and people should learn to ignore it less and maybe think about it sometime.
trumpypumpyinyourrumpy
It is a very warm and endearing story. Its just too much for me. Some songs get me too. I might have depression
MeAnd2Bs
You have empathy.
sumowoman
You don't have depression. In depression you don't feel anything.
theycallmewillywonka
Everything feels the same.
sumowoman
Well it's always a good idea to go and talk to someone. Take care of yourself, because this stage will pass and something new comes along.
everythingisalieexceptthestuffthatisnt
It is a joyful story and as it's essentially a story of life it has to end. That's the sad part. Thank you for sharing and don't regret
everythingisalieexceptthestuffthatisnt
helping strangers access some feels
smooshiebanana
Why couldn't that little bee live forever?
LaziestGoodBoii
She’s now in Valhalla with Space Bat.
hesaidsarcastically
Oh honey, It just wasn't meant to bee. I'm sorry for being a buzzkill. But not for the puns.
andaction
A bumble-ing pun-dit!
Kvothefefe
AudaciousCheeseburger
Damn it. The feels got me, fuckin onions. It's a wingless bee I know but that was a well told story.
TastelessBuildABear
My exact reaction. Cmon bee!!!
dietderpsy
Because it wasn't an A
chinesefingerhut
I know! I'm pissed and bauling over a stupid bee with no god damn wings!
gneissgirl27
This is exactly how i feel also..
but it did make my black heart happy
KirchoffsVoltageLaw
Bee movie
NoiceSmart
May I ask which movie this is from?
FirstSlaveKing
Damn ive never seen DT that mad. When was this?
leitwelpe
There is that one comment we need and the one we didn't know we need.
elcee50
When the kicker missed a chip-shot field goal a few years ago.
ItsCaptain0bvious
When the bee died. Are you even paying attention?
imightnotbelonghere
You need more upvotes. User name relevant!
piirus
MerToo
beecause it had a horrible viral infection that causes crippling deformities that would do serious harm to the bee population?
smooshiebanana
Not in her tender care and seclusion though.
MerToo
TIL viruses can be stopped by net curtain fabric
smooshiebanana
If said netting keeps other animals from going near the bee, yes.
MerToo
right, because no known virus is airborne, i forgot.
HaikuCarChase
That bee is soaring into eternity, shiny and chrome. You just have to beelieve.
MangoLassi
GirlWithTheDragonSticker
Mayyybe
IFindYourLackOfACreativeUsernameDisturbing
DignamWhenAskedaQuestion
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7DiWxcilWtU
AnonymouslyGratifying
Welp, I just cried over a bee on the internet.
elGuapo4211
Inappropriator
No, you didn't. Stop lying for fake internet points.
everettscott
Its hard to understand for you but some people cry over things that move them. Crying also doesn't always = blubbering.
TheForkLiftGuy
I'm close to doing the very same. :-/
tylertooo
same
ilovefluids
The bee lived a better life than me
figment128
That makes two of us.
mrscharmingmotherfucker
Doot... *sniff*
CongratsYouAreHereNow
To the internet
AmericasRealBaldEagleCaaaw
Here here
hernameisri0
a new low for me....
macncheeseme
Me too :'(
NefariousBueller
YUP
slappyJo
*Internet crying intensifies*
alwaysupvotekitties
There are more people like me in this world!
omygusMaker
That's good story telling then.
getmo
The more I learn about bees, the more I love them. Such amazing creatures. Nature is amazing. In all its vicious glory.
pareidoliaperson
Do you mean the creature that's essential of your existence? Cry, cry a lot!
Olympia1024
I’m so glad I’m not the only one
LadyWidebottom
Let's hold a memorial service.
BiBiBiBiBiBiBi
Me too friend, me too.
zootch
Me three.
theGoldenTrashbag
Me four
aheartlessartist
PedanticAndIKnowIt
Did you know that swans can be gay?
AmericasRealBaldEagleCaaaw
I did not. Did you know seagulls can be lesbians?
surfturd
DatSEAsian4ever29
chewybrian
Hersenbaard
I think they're all pretty gay
KonaDrogokiin
I find this to be Shallow
elGuapo4211
pareidoliaperson
Bees can be Queen so...