Domestic Abuse Really Sucks

Jan 20, 2017 5:54 PM

1st time ever posting on Imgur. S/O to my co worker Luis for putting me on.. so here goes.. my bredrin totally crossed the line other day and it's still bothering me.. the other night I went to my friend's crib after I got off work.. my friend is by no means a role model and can really come across as an asshole if you never got the time to know him.. Pretty much he's really an angry, brash, hard, and cold ass person to anyone who doesn't know him personally. You come at him incorrect, you're going to deeply regret it. I have to say he's really fair in treating everyone the same, friends, family, strangers. Pretty much anyone will get it from him.. despite this he's still a good person really.. anyways, back to the story.. I got to his place that night and immediately I knew something was amiss at his place. My bredrin has a newborn daughter. He's super protective and quite vigilante of her. If his girl is not watching the baby then he is. Anyways I must've showed up at a very bad time because I heard their baby coughing from the back patio where me and my friend was. His girl was in the dining room right beside us. All I did was nonchalantly ask who's watching the baby.. if I could go back in time and not utter this words I would because that set off a ridiculous argument between them.. Mind both people are angry individuals so to be honest they seem perfect for each other but then everything changed in an instant.. in a sly undercutting tone and remark I heard his girl say "that's why you argue like a little bitch" OMG in an instant, like in the blink of an eye homegirl was in a headlock getting the life choked out of her and my friend literally threatening to kill her. My friend can be verbally abusive but never or rarely ever does he get to the point of bring physical unless provoked.. it's all still surreal and shocking because he did this in front of me. No Fucks given..we even ended the night normally like we usually do.. anyways I'm just sharing this to get this off my chest..

Oh and here's the best part, home girl wants to still have his second kid, she wants him to have a son.. SMFH

They might have blood sugar issues. That's what I find turns good people evil. They just need a protein rich meal every 4 hours or watch out

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Non of what you said makes me conclude "he's still a good person really." They both sound like twats who are going to raise a twat.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Tell someone. Maybe his family? You'll feel way worse if he ends up killing her.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I can't believe you think deep down he is a good person, because I don't see it. There is just no way this guy can be a decent human being!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If he's actually an asshole and verbally abuses and physically abuses his woman, he's not a good person really. He's deplorable.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

They verbally abusive to each other.. They're like two angry ass people that don't know why they love each other

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

What defines a good person in your eyes, I wonder

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I've known him for years, and we grew up together.. I'm not letting one baf mistake erase a lifetime of good I've seen from out of him..

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Tag team with him and give that bitch an elbow drop...

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah. Your friend is not a good person.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't believe one bad action defines someone

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

DCF aren't technically cops, so calling them technically isn't "snitching." Just sayin'

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Who fucking cares if it's snitching. Dude's an asshole and an abuser. He deserves it.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Not saying anyone SHOULD care, but lots of people DO

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0