Whelp, I think the issue was that I was TOO successful at stimulating conversation/feelings.

Feb 3, 2022 3:32 PM

neospor1n

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That’s the point!! You aren’t supposed to like the main guy, he’ll, you probably aren’t really supposed to like ANYONE in the movie. You can say the movie is badly made, but just because you feel angry/dirty afterwards does not make it a bad movie.
Movie clubs for conversations are supposed to outrage you or get you talking about the subject matter, not simply watch a hallmark movie and gush about it” But fine, I digress. Told to pick another movie, yes stimulate conversation but not make it such a downer.

In laws are about half religious, no one particularly devout.
My first question at the movie club night was “so what was the most offensive part?” In laws proceeded to scream at each other about whether it was funny, offensive, bad, or great.
Ok good that’s kind of the point of these kind of clubs…proceed to have picking privileges revoked because “clearly you don’t understand the point of book/movie clubs.”

Youre thinking of the "club" as an actual discussion, introspection exercise. They just want "a movie night"

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Lol, the prophet that was left out of the bible because he was black. Did they miss that line? Do they know what their mouth says?

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sounds like your inlaws are racist rednecks who don't like any of their opinions challenged.

4 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 1

My parents are offended by Coco because the religion doesn't line up with theirs. It's their grandkids' favorite movie.

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Tell them that they aren't mature enough for a book or movie club. I can say this, bc I won't be there for the fight.

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Man, I loved Nightcrawler. I don't know why anyone would feel bad after watching it unless they're also staging accidents to sell footage.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I think it’s the “yup, accurate portrayal of some people. Man people are garbage”

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Can you divorce your Inlaws? They don't seem like good people.

4 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 2

Yes.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Disliking Alan Rickman not having a penis is fair critique.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Well, sister in law loves Matt Damon and he also doesn’t have a penis in e movie, though we never see it.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I absolutely loved nightcrawler, but that seems WAY too intense for a movie night. Something safe and casual is the right pick.

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Not a movie night- a movie club where you watch it on your own and then discuss later.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Next time, watch Flubber. Week after week, over and over. Flubber Flubber Flubber Flubber Flubber. Then die.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Groundhog Day. Over and over

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Pick Django Unchained next. Or Idiocracy

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Ok I guess now they get to watch Human Centipede or Tusk.

4 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Tusk was weird. Didn't they make a weremoose movie after Tusk? It might've been a fever dream of mine, idk anymore.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I said that In another comment “if they come back for a 3rd round I’m giving them human centipede, just to burn this whole thing down”

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Yeah. I was gonna say Alien but then I was like "Nah we need the gross factor" And I saw that comment and said "nailed it!"

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Go with “A Serbian Film” I read the Wiki and gawd I can’t stop thinking about how fucked up that is.

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Ohhhh try Sophie’s choice

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Nightcrawler is a nice guy! I never could understand why people would indulge in anti-mutant racism

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Next movie. Requiem for a dream

4 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Off

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

just got this in 4K last black friday for $8 or so! ♥

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Damn that one is a humdinger

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Night crawler stressed me out so badly and I had like palpitations. I love Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, brick, romance and cigs

4 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

What about Nightcrawler stressed you out?

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

The tension. If he had gotten caught he would have been in deep shit.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Try Jojo rabbit. Fuck them right up.

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See that one you kind of know it won’t be happy. Found out recently no one has seen My Girl. I want to ninja kick their emotions with that

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We all know you’re just shit stirring. Pick a “nice” movie if you want to be friends with them or don’t get involved.

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 3

Right? Read the room…

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hahahaha are you me? Spot on comment!

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Next movie up for discussion : the 5th element.

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Solid choice.

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Sounds like your in-laws should just be watching Hallmark Christmas movies and you can find other people to discuss the real shit with.

4 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 1

That’s what I think it more is. Don’t want any challenge

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4 years ago (deleted May 16, 2022 10:24 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

As a Kevin—-we need to talk about Kevin.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

So.. you're just testing out your prenup agreement? Like.. what's the end goal here aside from saving a shit ton on xmas presents?

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Well like any book/movie club. To stimulate conversation and make people think at least a little bit

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

I applaud your efforts. Drag them kicking and screaming into consciousness. Good luck!

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I don't know if I could marry into a family that didn't watch movies like this. Every long term relationship and the one marriage, the

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Parents watched these movies, horror, Month Python, and the stuff we (their kids) watched while we were growing up (some of it was pretty

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Raunchy, gruesome, and disturbing). Then again, I have issues with my mother, so I looked at people's parent when I dated them.

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Man, if a movie has Alan Rickman in it and doesn’t show his cock. Then I just can’t watch it.

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Yeah if he didn’t whip it out when he had Harry Potter in detention, I was gonna turn it off

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

How is Harry Potter in your fine estimation? Since they did not show he sorcerers stones and all of that?

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Oh they did. You just have to get the exxxtended cut

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Galaxy Quest

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Well, the movie showed where his cock would be. We also know from other conversations that he has no anus,

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Were they fine with Selma Hayek's lack of genitals?

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They weren’t happy with Chris rocks ass.

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Perf.

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Maybe try a fight club instead. But we don't want to hear about it afterward.

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But not the Chinese cut

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“For this meeting, we will be following rules #1 and #2”

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I want to hear about it. Just don’t talk about it.

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“Why aren’t you picking movies that make me feel good or reaffirm my sheltered beliefs!?”

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“How about Meet the parents”. Like it’s a perfectly fine comedy, but not exactly a movie that makes you think in any kind of larger view.

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I suggest Restless. It's a documentary about CFS/ME and its devastating effects on life.

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or The Holiday. so benign they had to castrate Jack Black prior to filming.

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Interesting experiment. See if they can find something that makes them uncomfortable in even the blandest, most inoffensive family movie.

4 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

Yeah! Like… “Paul Blart: Mall Cop”

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I’m offended by the surname.

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Protip: If Ben Stiller is in the movie, it is 90% less likely to provide any amount of mental stimulation.

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I dunno. Heavyweights has some social commentary

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Pick Midsommar or Hereditary next.

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Nah, "A Serbian Film" or "August Underground's Mordum".

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Cannibal Holocaust

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Requiem for a dream was a fucked up for me

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Martyrs

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You all need to watch a family fun animated film (cartoon), ya know for kids. Like “Graveyard of the Fireflies.”

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

So wholesome

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Ever see the old 70s movie , “Joe”? That also will not leave you feeling good.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Maybe Old Boy, nothing to make them uncomfortable!

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

The VVitch, or maybe The Blackcoat's Daughter?

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Salo: The 120 Days of Sodom should would be another one to add to the list.

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I was telling my wife, if they tell me to pick again, I’m gonna burn this mother to the ground with Human Centipede.

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Dude pick the movie the house jack built. Super fucked up imo

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Or Feast!! & FEAST 2 SLOPPY SECONDS!!

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Martyrs but the one from France. Never going to get that film out of my head.

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It manages to both be pretty much conversation unnecessary and unwatchably disgusting. That'd certainly do it.

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Anti-Christ if you want to be hated, too.

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Give 3 options and have everyone vote. That way, you don’t hold the responsibility solely for what others deem “bad”

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Audition

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This might be one of the best ideas I've ever heard

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My wife did one of those “oooh nooooo…..do it”

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Man Bites Dog

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I support this keep us posted

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A Syrian Film, incoming.

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serbian.

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Watch part 3

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I never finished part 2. Like I can stomach a bit of stuff, but it was just a painful watch as a film even started the best of times

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Oh there's WAY more dark shit if you want to burn shit to the ground. I hear there's a film from Serbia that's is legitimately EVIL.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

*coughs* a serbian film *coughs* 120 days of Sodom *coughs*

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Son of a bitch stole my line

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And a very wide selection of Japanese and Korean gore/revenge flicks.

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Hahahah I just posted this one as a response to another comment. If you’re gonna sink the boat this movie is the perfect torpedo.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

which one?

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I mean, fuck that'll torpedo near 100% of movie clubs that are totally secular, too. It is....something else.

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Best movie about eating shit. +1

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Uh excuse me, John Water's Flamingo was the best movie about eating shit

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

SOMEONE SENT ME A BOWEL MOVEMENTTTTTT!!

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It has the entirety of the phrase “eat shot and die”. Which encapsulates my feelings for all of you at this moment.

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No reason

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I want the part of my life back when I watched this garbage

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Is that movie in anyway related to "Blood Car"?

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Well now I want to see blood car

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I think you can buy it on Amazon streaming service for like $1 if you are in the US

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Eraser head, the best first date movie there is. Or watch w pregnant wife. Good times.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Loved this movie they would hate it

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Man that was awful. Interesting sort of format, but awful for entertainment purposes.

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What's not to love about a VW Jetta Mk III tire going walkabout? My wife hated it but damn if that wasn't riveting, in the "How can this >

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possibly get worse?" kind of way.

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I was expecting something more along the lines of maximum overdrive.

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"I hated that it had a black prophet."

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I thought they really hate black profits

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But all profits are in the black…

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“Literally every single person in the Bible was black to dark brown, but okay…”

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Have you ever actually seen someone from the Levant? By non-European standards they're pretty light-skinned.

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More like mostly middle-eastern with some North Africans and Southern Europeans, but okay.

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Not in the whitewashed evangelical churches they aren’t.

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Brown, bronze, olive, off-white, tan, beige, mahogany, and if you were lower class/caste: shit brown from farming in a desert.

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Wait, weren’t the Romans white? You know, the baddies who killed the main character?

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Not Lots wife.

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She was dispersed upon fire potatoes for the last supper. It’s true look it up.

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A piller of the community

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She's just salty

4 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 0

I dunno man, a lot of these churches have a white Jesus, are you implying that Churches don't know the truth /s

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Let's not forget that anyone today exhibiting behavior like prophets, would be in a mental health facility.

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But they weren't "Black". They were pretty much all Jewish. I wouldn't be black just if I got a really dark tan.

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To super white people, the other end of the color spectrum start to blue together.

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The Ethiopian eunuch probably was. There's not much evidence either way for any of the 'main characters' but given where the Bible accounts

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took place, it's extremely likely black people were around (travelling and trade) for much of the later stuff with the apostles at least.

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Lmao. This answer...

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But, But, how are white evangelical preachers going to take my money to do God's work, if he's brown?

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“Does it help if I tell you he became brown via a tanning bed? You like tanning beds!”

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No, they like cheap spray tans.

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“By the way, the church needs a new tanning bed. Let me pass this tray around.”

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Okay if I make change from the plate?

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I think it was less overt racism and more so “I believe Jesus and everyone else in the Bible was white like me, all the paintings he’s white

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That's still overtly racist.

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Believing that everyone good in the Bible was white IS overt racism, though.

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I find it interesting that when I went to school, all the crosses and pictures of Jesus, he was tanned. Even in church.

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They missed the entire point of the movie. Kinda sad.

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Yea, I tried to show them videos from one of the protests where Kevin smith is holding a sign. They didn’t get the humor in him protesting

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So overt racism

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That's the I can't believe it's not butter of racism

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The first miracle was that of the SPF 30, dontcha know?

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So like slightly hidden racism and narcissism?

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Stupidism, more likely.

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All of the above, theyre comorbid

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Or ignorance racism because I’ve never been to, seen pictures of, or thought about what people around Jerusalem look like

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Wouldn't refusing to see/understand anything about the most sacred place of your faith sacrilegious ignorance? I'm not religious so *shrug*

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