Culture shock

Dec 7, 2022 2:00 PM

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(originally posted by @VeliReign on 2021-12-08 11:58:21)

Masks were neutral until Trump and the associated victims and shitheads decide to make a big deal about them

3 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 1

If the public health advice had been wear a mask if you feel sick, then people may have been more receptive to that advice

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

"Masking is [...] showing kindness to others." I do believe they just answered their own question.

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3 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

I wish this was more of a thing during cold/flu season. It’s become political instead of being respectful of others.

3 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

America has a long way to go when it comes to empathy.

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Americans don’t like being told what to do. Except by celebrities, athletes, our bosses, police, and traffic lights.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I LIKE wearing a mask quite a bit, I'd just as soon not have my face on cameras everywhere. Love the privacy of it.

3 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Same here. I enjoyed talking to myself out in public without looking crazy.

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I remember playing Persona 5 during the pandemic. My conservative step dad saw people in masks and called it liberal indoctrination.

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I had to explain the game is older than the pandemic and they do that in Japan to be polite to other people when they are sick.

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

That's the part they don't like - showing kindness to others.

3 years ago | Likes 352 Dislikes 6

I'm leaning towards the "if liberals support it, it must be the devil" kind of explanation. Killing themselves and others is just a bonus

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

They don't like showing kindless *equally*. They want all to suffer like they supposedly did. Why try to make their lives better/easier?

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Amazing when something isn't considered controversial by any of the major political parties. I guess News Corp doesn't own outlets in Japan?

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

It's really not complicated. But these fuckstains....

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

We're fucking spoiled here any minor inconvenience is looked at as a trampling of our rights. We fucking suck

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 3

Because U.S. culture has been overtaken, for generations, but anti-intellectual bullying. Compassion, empathy, altruism & generosity are >

3 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 0

all considered "weakness", which is not only repulsive but dangerous and to be rooted out by force...

3 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

I am from Europe. I was always angry at the 10% in my City who don't wear their Mask in Public Transport. (It is mandatory) i recently

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Visited Berlin. Turns Out 90% of the people there don't wear their mandatory masks in Public Transportation.. -.-

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Rugged individualism has morphed into “I’m a huge selfish, shortsighted asshole, I got mine, fuck all y’all” and it’s a huge problem

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Kindness to others isn't a white Christian thing anymore.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yes, but in the USA, it's not about "kindness to others" it's about "Am I being inconvenienced in the slightest way that could be perceived

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

as someone infringing on my rights!?!?!?!?!?" There's no logical, or otherwise, rational behind it other than ingrained selfishness.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I wear one now whenever I'm not feeling 100%. Nobody else wants my sore throat or cold.

3 years ago | Likes 102 Dislikes 5

Which is why in a real civilized society you don't go out... I understand you can't in the US but this Japan business is not the right way.

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 7

I still wear them because (as a grandma, lol) they cover up wrinkles! Win-win!!

3 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

I've been forced back to the office and people come in with hacking coughs and full on illnesses. I'm baffled as to why that's okay

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Japan teaches responsibility to society, America teaches self centered greed.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It was never just the mask. It was being TOLD to wear the mask.

3 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 3

Please, for the love of God, don't shoot yourself in the face... /s

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

Yup. self-centered and entitled people don't like being told they should do something, even to save lives.

3 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

Americans are heavy on individualism. We pretend to have kindness for others, but only as far as it extends to not having to do something 1/

3 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 4

I think a lot of that has to do with misinterpretation of Christianity. Tithing is important, and easy. You don't have to DO anything, you 2

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

give money, and you're done. It costs no time or inconvenience, other than a few dollars. The Bible also teaches to DO good to others 3/

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

and to self-sacrifice for others, but that requires you to actually do something. Now it's a real sacrifice, and ain't no one got time 4/

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

for that. Besides, I made on my own, with no help from anyone ever, so everyone can do it on their own. Sarcasm in those last 2 sentences5/5

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

As a (former) NY'er, it's been common to see (mostly) Asians wearing masks since forever. We should all start doing it when we may be sick.

3 years ago | Likes 229 Dislikes 4

Sw the same when I started withing downtown San Francisco 10 years ago, and agree.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I was literally in China like a year or so before the COVID, everyone with a sniffle wore masks. Asian immigrants in Canada did too.

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I've always done that, especially if I had to go to the store for medicine while sick. People looked at me so weird back then.

3 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 0

I was doing that for years too and no one ever batted an eye. Suddenly it gets recommended and MAG folks get mad.

3 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

I always liked the idea, and kinda hoped we'd do it here in the states as well. Just didn't expected it to take a literal global pandemic.

3 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 1

People struggle to breathe in them as well, apparently. I've fallen asleep in a mask before so I don't understand that problem.

3 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

I do occupational training and I'll say that with in-person sessions it was very hard for me to talk for an hour or two with a mask on.

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

It is ever so slightly harder to breathe through them, and probably easier to sleep, I used to nap most of the time I had to wear a gas mask

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

And those were a bit harder to breathe in than a mask. But any filter causes some resistance, that’s why race cars don’t use air filters

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

They don't struggle. They just feel mildly uncomfortable and are such babies they can't handle that.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yeah, i have asthma and i worked out in a mask with zero issues

3 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

I only had issues on very long runs when I would sweat a lot. The mask would be soaked though.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same, only thing that gives me issues is using sanitizer cause the alcohol smell comes through very potently. Learned to deal though.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Gotta unwrap this a bit here. Japan is a group-think society where people do things that benefit the group, not themselves.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Many western countries, like the US, value independence and self reliance more and priortize caring for oneself over the group.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

One is NOT better than the other. Japan is experiencing problems with worker burn out/mental health as a result not focusing on individuals.

3 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I’ve heard this many times. The burn out sucks, so much of it.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The different approaches to whether a group or individual gets preference for being prioritized for care has different benefits/issues.

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When you consistently hold the group's well being above that of individuals, there are draw backs.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

To simply say "we do it to show kindness" over simplifies the culture as well the benefits and drawbacks of the cultural norms.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

A collective society vs independent society

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independent? not so much. more like arrogant selfishness.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

No... the cultures are very different. One will consistently priortize group well being even if its to severe detriment of individuals.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

You are vastly over simplifying the difference between 2 cultures, simply because it makes to easier to digest and have a witty retort.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

For example in Japan its pretty normal for people to be asked to work many extra hours often for no extra pay.

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Individuals might suffer as a result but the group you're a member of does well, so it gets a pass.

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

You lack reading-comprehension. I am fully aware of the cultural contrast. My objection is your 1950's cliched 'independent'.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It has evolved into something much more foul.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah...collectivism doesn't automatically mean altruism/good ethics.

3 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

I mean, you don't even have to leave Japan, they were essentially Asian version of Nazi Germany, and they're still denying their war crimes.

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Over half the country (60 to 75%) still supporting the emperor, saying 'Great Imperial Japanese Empire (i.e. Nazi Japan) did nothing wrong.'

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No shit. But collective societies are better at protecting each other by wearing fucking masks.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Yeah, that whole 'kindness to others' thing...that's just un-American.

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But we have moms apple pie and baseball, so we have that going for us, which is nice.

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Kindness runs counter to this: https://imgur.com/qVpqoSe.jpg

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No time for kindness when you're driving the Manifest Destiny Steamroller

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And un-Christian.

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Jesus would hate us being kind to each other

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kindness to others is taken as weakness to middle America/the right wing

3 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

This is a conservative-American problem. They are undeniably the core group pushing the anti-mask narrative.

3 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

Good point, thanks for putting this out, no one else has put this out

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Self-awareness? Kindness to others? Oh, you mean COMMUNISM!

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I les Socialism is the scarier word. Then they use that one.

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yes, communism, the sort of economic structure which supports the community and not the individual. Yes. Communism.

3 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I suppose you want some of the free medical care too??? /s

3 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0

Thats the entire west. Swedish here, I barely saw any masks at all during the pandemic. 1 in 20 or something wore a mask.

3 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Wasn’t Sweden the home of the infamous ‘dry tinder’ quote?

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And if they were 50+, they did not cover their nose with it. I've felt so different being one of those who would wear a mask proper.

3 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm in Ontario, Canada, and they were mandatory for quite a long time. About a year. Now not many are wearing them. I still do.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I got berated in Japan for wearing a mask. Think he was american xD

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"What did he say?" "Be kind to others." "Oh yeah, that'll do it.".

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Definitely un-Christian.?

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We don't want that "kindness" aka Communist, Marxist, Fascist, Socialist, hippie, woke, tolerance, understanding, here in the USA /s

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Interferes with that rugged individualism you know.

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fuck you, I'll sue you for that. /s

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Unfortunately true, some people believe that it is their "right" as an American to be rude to others.

3 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Isn’t kindness to others socialism???

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"Sounds like a commie plot" ~ Bubba

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Around half the country takes pride in never helping anyone but themselves. Only filthy commie liberals help people.

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The venn diagram of those prideful people and supposedly Christians is too close to a circle, despite Jesus's teachings.

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Refuse to help anybody who needs it because they'll "get dependent on handouts and be too lazy to work," but also claim to follow Jesus.

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No, really. Conservative voters are hesitant to help others even in minor ways like holding doors, for fear of being considered liberal.

3 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Holding doors is more common than you think in red areas. Middle of iowa, we all hold doors when the person is close enough.

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yeah, but the fact that theres even a few that fit what hes describing is a significant issue and failure of society as a whole

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Some people legitimately refuse to do even minor good deeds for others, purely for political reasons. That's a serious issue.

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A lot of American is now... Got mine so fuck all of you.

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But MUH FREEEEEDUUMMBS

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Couldn’t agree more

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Not just in US my friend. Selfishness is everywhere and getting worse and worse. The sad truth.

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Most Americans:

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at least since the red scare made empathy=communism=dictatorship

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How about if they name their AR-15 "Kindness"? Would that qualify as showing "kindness to others", or "killing with kindness"?

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Really funny because Texas’s state motto is “friendship”

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And Philadelphia is the “city of brotherly love”, which I am positive is sarcasm

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Kindness to others is pretty common in the US (if you know where to look). But people want to show that kindness 100% on their own terms.

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The moment authorities budge in and tell people in detail how to show kindness and mandate it, heels will dig in. That's just how the US is.

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I'm just gonna say weird for word what a Trump spatter said to me once. "If you love socialism so much, why don't you go live in China"

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They also told me I have a ton of typos in this post

3 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 1

But you have a cute username, so at least you have got that going for you

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** blushes ** :3

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Weird for word sounds appropriate for a chat with a trumper.

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Yeah especially since he thought he had a right to a handicap parking spot with absolutely no placard or anything because he was ex military

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That's because you're a communionist

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Damn socialites.

3 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

It’s not socialites those are the things than form on the roof is caves. You’re thinking of somatotypes.

3 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Living in their aviary towers.

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Because compassion is seen as weakness

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Well, Christianity clearly states that the down-trodden should be ostracized and marginalized right?... right? /s

3 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

Toxic masculinity in action

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 4

Yes. American "culture" is very barbaric

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Benevolence is not human nature, we are scared apes with advanced prefrontal cortexes after all. Damn lizard monkey brain stem...

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Are you saying benevolent actions are always the product of psychological damage?

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Yes it is.

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But, in fact, we are mostly benevolent.

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Lol mostly yeah sure

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Just because you are a selfish prick doesn’t mean everyone else is as well.

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Maybe it’s just you

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Sociopathy and Psychopathy. I'll keep saying it. It's literally the evil we read/see/hear in all of our fiction, and non-fiction.

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Lead poisoning imo

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm 100% with you. I've been saying for a while now that a disturbingly large portion of Americans show psychopathic or sociopathic traits.

3 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Its not only generational wealth that the upper class inherited. Its also the consequences of having a mentally ill parent raising them.

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And they also forced "middle class" into mental illness. No, working 80 hours a week is not normal and has consquences. now it shows

3 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

As someone with trauma-induced sociopathic traits, I agree. We're all mad here!

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