Confused not confused

Mar 14, 2017 12:12 AM

confusedkoalawolf

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TL;DR I got out of a long relationship because I didn't feel a connection with my ex. Hooked up with a trans chick for the first time and loved it.
So I was in a long relationship with my ex girlfriend that I didn't feel an attraction or connection. My friends took me out to a bar in the city to get my mind off things this past weekend and I ended up meeting this wonderful chick. We hit it off and after a few drinks she invited me home, but told me she had something to tell me first. Me being kinda buzzed, I told her that whatever it was, she shouldn't worry. We ended back at her place and sat and talked for a while then started making out. She led me to her room and we started to undress each other. Once I got to her skirt, she stopped me and told me that she was a trans woman and that she wanted to let me know before going further. I have had friends who were once straight and turned gay or bi after they started to venture out to get to know themselves. So, in that moment, I said what the heck and told her it was a problem and that I still wanted to go on. After a wonderful night together that I can't put in words, I got my thins together and left. Before I left, I left her a note with my number saying we should get coffee, but that I had to go early because I had plans that day. Now I'm sitting here at work, thinking back to that night and just how much of a connection I felt with her, both physically and sexually. Now, I am wanting to start dating a trans woman, but don't know how to come out about it or if I even should. Not to mention, the trans girl I was with hasn't contacted me. I just needed to get this off my chest as it was my first time and I have no one else that I can talk to just yet.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As a Bi male, sounds like the best of both worlds. Do whatever you want, as long as everything's consented to.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Been there a time or seven

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hope she calls you!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ok no hate or anything but did anyone notice the TL;DR is just....that's not how it works. Lol

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Best of both worlds. Boobs AND sword fights

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My only real issue with this is the tl;dr at the beginning of this .. be happy dude who cares about the rest

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I couldn't split the two T-T !! I don't know how to edit the post either ...

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

It doesn't change your sexual orientation at all, so no need to worry about coming out. Trans women are women! You do whatever feels right!

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 4

That's the literal opposite of a tl:dr.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I don't think you need to confess to being open-minded.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

If you want a relationship with her, I wouldn't "come out" about it until you know where she stands. You don't want to out her.

9 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

Post updates

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I feel like at her place is way too late to be told that

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Yea this is likely fake

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sounds like you will be seeing some new bars too. All good if you're happy.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Well I don't really know of any in my area. I live near Atlanta, but I spend most of my time working and in school. I've seen her before!!!

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

From Macon, where do you do your trans banging?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Coming out? What for? That you fell in love with/have a crush on a girl? v0v You do you.

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 5

Maybe you were shit in bed?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Maybe I was maybe I wasn't. Who knows. She must have been good at faking it.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

If she still had a penis, even more so.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Bravo good sir.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Good for you. I am trying to do the same. There are a lot of nice trans girls here on Imgur to chat with about anything. They will

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Help answer any questions you have, and teach you a few things about trans girls. Good friends.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

How do you get in contact with some? I have questions and would like a few friends

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I simply created a reply to a similar post, asking trans girls to message me to talk. They did. Several of them. I have been gaining 1)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Valuable information on topics in general, as well as sharing personal information back and forth. If you are respectful and courteous, 2)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

They will help you anyway they can. These are very nice girls that want to talk and help anyone that wants to learn more.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Trans or not, you felt that connection bro! Go after her, she's the best thing for you.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

You should put a space after your tldr because it seemed your whole post was the tldr

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

What is a tldr

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Too long didn’t read

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Aaaaah it all makes sense, thanks ?

5 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Good for you. My opinion: she should have told you sooner, cuz what if you went psycho...

9 years ago | Likes 88 Dislikes 10

But she still did stop him before it got too too far which is good, thats a turn off for me so its relieving that they were honest about it.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

Right, risky move on her part

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

She tried to tell him before they even left the bar. That's plenty early enough.

9 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 1

She started to; he stopped her; she shouldn't have stopped for her own safety, not because he was a bad guy.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

But she didn't really tell him until they were in the bedroom

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I see how that could have happened, but I'm not one to judge. Hell, I wouldn't know how to tell someone if I was in her shoes.

9 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 1

Right, but there are numerous accounts of transwomen not telling til the last moment that end in obituaries.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Preop or postop?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Alright is it just me or has there been a bit of a larger influx than usual of "attracted to trans girl and conflicted" posts?

9 years ago | Likes 134 Dislikes 0

Maybe there's a super hot super fun trans woman seducing her way through the imgur thirst. Quenching imgurian's lust like a delicious oasis

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Not like i haven't thought about it myself, get a cute little mexican midget..

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Asking means you are one step away from figuring out there is an agenda. Believe it.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 17

There is an agenda trust me. I wrote it

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Illuminati confirmed!

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

It's a nice a break from all the anti-trans circlejerk

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I'm indifferent either way but I swear there is something going on.. maybe because spring is coming?

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Shemale/futanari is one of the most searched porn keywords in the world so...

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

It's possible it's just becoming more accepted to talk about. Like how some old people will complain that "there were no gays in the 1950s".

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 2

I liked chicks with dicks before it was cool

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I guess because it isn't so dead and dreary outside anymore. Life kinda sucks, but the sky has been nice and blue

9 years ago | Likes 53 Dislikes 6

UK? Because the sun shines so rarely, when it does you have to make it count.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As someone in Washington it's been raining for 3 months straight please send help

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

Sounds plausible, spring must be making imgur frisky lol

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

i read one the other day that really sounded like it was a trans woman trying to convince guys to sleep with trans women

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

To me, these stories read like men describing a sex fantasy. I don't think any trans woman would be so suicidal as to make out with a guy...

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

go to a room with him, and only then tell him "hey, I'm trans btw". Simply doesn't happen. They know some would throw punches or worse

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

It's fun, you have the feminine touch from the lady and the hard part form the man. Sadly here in Bulgaria transgirls are prostitutes or 1/

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

drug addicts, no middle ground, either crazy drug addicts, or greedy prostitutes. It's sad, but.. well I'm waiting to meet such girl one day

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Keep your hopes up, you'll find the right girlguy someday!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Whatever floats your boat. We've all got different tastes. And of course...

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

No messages yet :(. But then again, it's been only a day. Any trans girls who I can talk to please pm me if you have time for questions ^_^

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 7

Mac? Is that you

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Who is mac ?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Always Sunny reference. Season 1 I believe

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

In the supportive way, be true to you and be happy. But, date people for who they are, don't just fetishize their being trans.

9 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 3

I guess I see how it comes off as a fetish, but i didn't mean it as so.

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 3

Yes but you didn't do that so it's more advice going forward :)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I'm not part of the trans community, but my friends tell me a huge problem for them is guys just wanting them because its new or kinky/taboo

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

I think the fact OP was already getting hot and heavy with them before knowing that is proof enough they were already sold on personality.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Really ? I can see that happening, but I guess that's why I want to think about it some more and see how things go.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

do what you want homie, life's too short not to pursue your happiness

9 years ago | Likes 276 Dislikes 10

@PoopFrosting you goddamn Right!!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Unless it's immoral ????

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 11

Damn I got down voted to fuck but if murdering people is the only thing that makes someone happy, you probably shouldn't follow your dreams

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

In the context of this post your addendum seemed less along the lines of "if it harms none" than "if you meet my personal/religious morals"

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I nearly downvoted you thinking the immorality you mentioned was existing as a trans person or having a relationship with one

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Your username is relevant, OP.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

YES. This. Life is short if you're unlucky.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Behold, The Flesh And The Power It Holds.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thanks ! You're right and I should live it ^_^

9 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 5

So let me get this straight, she had a dick and a vagina, or just one?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

Just be sure to let her pitch every once in a while, if she's ready to throw.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Well said poopfrosting

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Sage advise indeed

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The quotes that are left behind from our time are going to be amazing.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

To be or not to be- Shakespeare. I think therefore I am- Descartes. Life is the arrangement of insignificances, that give meaning - Isharted

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Herpenis.

9 years ago | Likes 103 Dislikes 6

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I grinned outloud at this. Woulda laughed but my neighbors are early bed/rise and I'm outside.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I wish everyone here found your comment as funny as I did

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Was plain as day when I read the comment. Couldn't help myself.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0