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TL;DR I got out of a long relationship because I didn't feel a connection with my ex. Hooked up with a trans chick for the first time and loved it.
So I was in a long relationship with my ex girlfriend that I didn't feel an attraction or connection. My friends took me out to a bar in the city to get my mind off things this past weekend and I ended up meeting this wonderful chick. We hit it off and after a few drinks she invited me home, but told me she had something to tell me first. Me being kinda buzzed, I told her that whatever it was, she shouldn't worry. We ended back at her place and sat and talked for a while then started making out. She led me to her room and we started to undress each other. Once I got to her skirt, she stopped me and told me that she was a trans woman and that she wanted to let me know before going further. I have had friends who were once straight and turned gay or bi after they started to venture out to get to know themselves. So, in that moment, I said what the heck and told her it was a problem and that I still wanted to go on. After a wonderful night together that I can't put in words, I got my thins together and left. Before I left, I left her a note with my number saying we should get coffee, but that I had to go early because I had plans that day. Now I'm sitting here at work, thinking back to that night and just how much of a connection I felt with her, both physically and sexually. Now, I am wanting to start dating a trans woman, but don't know how to come out about it or if I even should. Not to mention, the trans girl I was with hasn't contacted me. I just needed to get this off my chest as it was my first time and I have no one else that I can talk to just yet.
DerpyUserID
alttt
As a Bi male, sounds like the best of both worlds. Do whatever you want, as long as everything's consented to.
MyPatronusIsVernonDursley
Been there a time or seven
LetEmEatCake
Hope she calls you!
poopypostapproval
ImRickSanchezBitch
Ok no hate or anything but did anyone notice the TL;DR is just....that's not how it works. Lol
dropkickprime
Best of both worlds. Boobs AND sword fights
EtherealTaco
ICUPee
My only real issue with this is the tl;dr at the beginning of this .. be happy dude who cares about the rest
confusedkoalawolf
I couldn't split the two T-T !! I don't know how to edit the post either ...
GiraffeLoveImgur
It doesn't change your sexual orientation at all, so no need to worry about coming out. Trans women are women! You do whatever feels right!
RV49
That's the literal opposite of a tl:dr.
StTriniansHeadBoy
I don't think you need to confess to being open-minded.
theguythatsignedinwithhisfacebookaccountbecausefrakyouthatswhy
TL;DR was TL;DR
HermioneGrangerAndARocketShip
If you want a relationship with her, I wouldn't "come out" about it until you know where she stands. You don't want to out her.
Erebus265
Post updates
InFin0819
I feel like at her place is way too late to be told that
personalspaceinvaderspiff
Yea this is likely fake
lordyhalvey
Sounds like you will be seeing some new bars too. All good if you're happy.
confusedkoalawolf
Well I don't really know of any in my area. I live near Atlanta, but I spend most of my time working and in school. I've seen her before!!!
PikachusThug
From Macon, where do you do your trans banging?
Chereazi
Coming out? What for? That you fell in love with/have a crush on a girl? v0v You do you.
DennisDoesStuff
Maybe you were shit in bed?
confusedkoalawolf
Maybe I was maybe I wasn't. Who knows. She must have been good at faking it.
DennisDoesStuff
If she still had a penis, even more so.
Whitetiger7654
Bravo good sir.
stockinglover
Good for you. I am trying to do the same. There are a lot of nice trans girls here on Imgur to chat with about anything. They will
stockinglover
Help answer any questions you have, and teach you a few things about trans girls. Good friends.
confusedkoalawolf
How do you get in contact with some? I have questions and would like a few friends
stockinglover
I simply created a reply to a similar post, asking trans girls to message me to talk. They did. Several of them. I have been gaining 1)
stockinglover
Valuable information on topics in general, as well as sharing personal information back and forth. If you are respectful and courteous, 2)
stockinglover
They will help you anyway they can. These are very nice girls that want to talk and help anyone that wants to learn more.
ZombifiedNixon
Trans or not, you felt that connection bro! Go after her, she's the best thing for you.
WhydidTip
You should put a space after your tldr because it seemed your whole post was the tldr
Rogermooreseyebrow
What is a tldr
WhydidTip
Too long didn’t read
Rogermooreseyebrow
Aaaaah it all makes sense, thanks ?
cjpoet
Good for you. My opinion: she should have told you sooner, cuz what if you went psycho...
Fishnuggs
But she still did stop him before it got too too far which is good, thats a turn off for me so its relieving that they were honest about it.
wasonceapotato
Right, risky move on her part
skepticalhippo
She tried to tell him before they even left the bar. That's plenty early enough.
cjpoet
She started to; he stopped her; she shouldn't have stopped for her own safety, not because he was a bad guy.
WisconsinHome
But she didn't really tell him until they were in the bedroom
confusedkoalawolf
I see how that could have happened, but I'm not one to judge. Hell, I wouldn't know how to tell someone if I was in her shoes.
cjpoet
Right, but there are numerous accounts of transwomen not telling til the last moment that end in obituaries.
Dani3113
Preop or postop?
JustAGuyTryingToBeADude
Alright is it just me or has there been a bit of a larger influx than usual of "attracted to trans girl and conflicted" posts?
imightbeananimal
Maybe there's a super hot super fun trans woman seducing her way through the imgur thirst. Quenching imgurian's lust like a delicious oasis
istealthepixelsfromreposts
Not like i haven't thought about it myself, get a cute little mexican midget..
wtoddp
Asking means you are one step away from figuring out there is an agenda. Believe it.
JustAGuyTryingToBeADude
There is an agenda trust me. I wrote it
wtoddp
Illuminati confirmed!
PillowPumpkin
It's a nice a break from all the anti-trans circlejerk
JustAGuyTryingToBeADude
I'm indifferent either way but I swear there is something going on.. maybe because spring is coming?
intotheEnd
Shemale/futanari is one of the most searched porn keywords in the world so...
TGWeaver
It's possible it's just becoming more accepted to talk about. Like how some old people will complain that "there were no gays in the 1950s".
BrightColours
I liked chicks with dicks before it was cool
confusedkoalawolf
I guess because it isn't so dead and dreary outside anymore. Life kinda sucks, but the sky has been nice and blue
ButterfaceTaintClown
UK? Because the sun shines so rarely, when it does you have to make it count.
IUpvoteYourCatPics
As someone in Washington it's been raining for 3 months straight please send help
JustAGuyTryingToBeADude
Sounds plausible, spring must be making imgur frisky lol
CongratsYouAreHereNow
i read one the other day that really sounded like it was a trans woman trying to convince guys to sleep with trans women
FiftyShadesOfCauliflower
To me, these stories read like men describing a sex fantasy. I don't think any trans woman would be so suicidal as to make out with a guy...
FiftyShadesOfCauliflower
go to a room with him, and only then tell him "hey, I'm trans btw". Simply doesn't happen. They know some would throw punches or worse
Keepcalmandfapfapfapfap
It's fun, you have the feminine touch from the lady and the hard part form the man. Sadly here in Bulgaria transgirls are prostitutes or 1/
Keepcalmandfapfapfapfap
drug addicts, no middle ground, either crazy drug addicts, or greedy prostitutes. It's sad, but.. well I'm waiting to meet such girl one day
JustAGuyTryingToBeADude
Keep your hopes up, you'll find the right girlguy someday!
FinallyGotAUserName
Whatever floats your boat. We've all got different tastes. And of course...
confusedkoalawolf
No messages yet :(. But then again, it's been only a day. Any trans girls who I can talk to please pm me if you have time for questions ^_^
frozenelephant
Mac? Is that you
confusedkoalawolf
Who is mac ?
frozenelephant
Always Sunny reference. Season 1 I believe
srslysterling
In the supportive way, be true to you and be happy. But, date people for who they are, don't just fetishize their being trans.
confusedkoalawolf
I guess I see how it comes off as a fetish, but i didn't mean it as so.
nijlonkai
Yes but you didn't do that so it's more advice going forward :)
srslysterling
I'm not part of the trans community, but my friends tell me a huge problem for them is guys just wanting them because its new or kinky/taboo
TGWeaver
I think the fact OP was already getting hot and heavy with them before knowing that is proof enough they were already sold on personality.
confusedkoalawolf
Really ? I can see that happening, but I guess that's why I want to think about it some more and see how things go.
PoopFrosting
do what you want homie, life's too short not to pursue your happiness
CheeseBallscake
@PoopFrosting you goddamn Right!!
ATribeofAfricanNatives
Unless it's immoral ????
ATribeofAfricanNatives
Damn I got down voted to fuck but if murdering people is the only thing that makes someone happy, you probably shouldn't follow your dreams
Purpl3y3s
In the context of this post your addendum seemed less along the lines of "if it harms none" than "if you meet my personal/religious morals"
Purpl3y3s
I nearly downvoted you thinking the immorality you mentioned was existing as a trans person or having a relationship with one
butterpopcorn1
Your username is relevant, OP.
AngurProne
YES. This. Life is short if you're unlucky.
Betyde
Behold, The Flesh And The Power It Holds.
confusedkoalawolf
Thanks ! You're right and I should live it ^_^
iAmNature
So let me get this straight, she had a dick and a vagina, or just one?
DrWhoTheHellAreYou
Just be sure to let her pitch every once in a while, if she's ready to throw.
ienjoywearinghatsthatdontletthemonkeystouchme
Well said poopfrosting
someassholeontheinternet
Sage advise indeed
goodguygonebad
The quotes that are left behind from our time are going to be amazing.
Dicho83
To be or not to be- Shakespeare. I think therefore I am- Descartes. Life is the arrangement of insignificances, that give meaning - Isharted
Eveythingistaken
Herpenis.
wdawsonMKY
AngurProne
I grinned outloud at this. Woulda laughed but my neighbors are early bed/rise and I'm outside.
KlRKLAZARUS
I wish everyone here found your comment as funny as I did
Eveythingistaken
Was plain as day when I read the comment. Couldn't help myself.