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Looks like the guy I posted about earlier found a new number. Back and even creepier.
We ended up calling the police. They found him in the (relatively empty) parking lot. He's currently detained and we are waiting at a police station.
armeniandonglover
I highly recommend getting a restraining order, it is relatively easy to at least get a temporary one.
LucaBrasii
Why did you block out the number? we could’ve made fun of him, or made him change his number ..hopefully they stop that creep
CB2015FourU
What the actual fuck is wrong with people.
casuallyalive
This is so scary. I’m glad your sister was able to get help from police!
Moosecock
Sick fuck
BigDaddyLove
Someone will do the same to him in prison and only then will he realise the error of his ways...
Bam906
People like this, the reason people carry weapons of all sorts......oh and the stalker too!
Howdoilife
It's weird to me how you can write something like that and not think you should be locked up
MiLK42
sad part is...... he's gonna sit in jail, wonder what went wrong, and end up blaming her.
lordFaceGuyBanditZ
Good job OP, sorry u had to deal with this. I don’t understand how these people think their behavior is ok.
BlueCanaryInTheOutlet
I know it's not the point of the post, but... is there really a Dave Boulevard somewhere? Sounds dope.
gabemcc
Not that I could find. Not even close
Theverant
Stay safe random internet friend.
R6FlyBy
This is why I teach self defense to anybody that wants to learn.
DwigtSchrude
Mace up, be safe OP.
TheDogEnd
"I really am nice" *immediate followed by* "No, bitch"
SexualConsent
If I could comment on people's texts, I'd put the "Sike nigga you thought" in there
Stinkville
You ate so much bread.... Im not watching you.
cousteau
Call the police. Ah, you did. Good.
nibblekibbles
Get bear mace or ccw
sinergy
OHH MYYY GODDD.. That is cringiest of the cringe.. Wow i read the source encounter. You poor thing.
mattadore
What the hell is wrong with people?
SleepGeezy
right?! The Olive Garden sucks!
DaniusJones123
Dick pic... so he sent you a portrait?
YourBuddyBill
underrated comment
SomeOneHasBeenLookingForYou
damn that's bad. the fuck is with guys/people like this? [I'm a dude] it's horrendous and therapy is req'd. with a 2x4 or steel pipe, YMMV
Comet260
Ranged weapons are better for that kind of "therapy".
TacticalGrape
LMAOOOO
Jnyedi
I really wish you hadn't protected his privacy by blocking his name. He needs a taste of his own medicine
kahdri
OP uploaded here to post on reddit's /r/CreepyPMs and one of their rules is that identifying info must be blocked out. Name + avatar.
YourBuddyBill
vigilante justice is seldom just.
Proxymanity
Has a dick pic EVER made a woman interested? Like, they were gonna say no, but then that dick pic made them go yes.
BlackHartMTB
Phoenix0rion
(1)My girl and I have been together for 9 months and we started over a dick pic. We were acquaintances and liked each other, I was horny and
Phoenix0rion
(2)she waa going through some stuff, thought it would be a one time thing but the sex was so good and we found we liked each other the more
Phoenix0rion
(3)time we spent together, we eventually started dating. We joke that there is no reason we should have worked out the way we did yet we did
ignimbrite
/r/creepypms, now, they'll give you advice.
bob7010
GonyBob1
That's what this was originally posted for. Thanks though!
stormegedendarklordofall
Link?
kahdri
https://www.reddit.com/r/creepyPMs/comments/7ue81b/creepy_guy_with_a_creepier_comeback/ et voila!
TacoPoweredHelicopter
No one should have to deal with that crap, creepy and terrifying.
MyHumanForm
It's scary that this is becoming more and more common for women when it comes to online dating.
MyHumanForm
I assume that men are getting some of the creepy ladies as well. I just haven't heard of it much from the males in my life.
sweatyballs6389
Had a guy match with me and he found me on Facebook. Sent a message saying “I’m not a creep, just wanted to find out more bout you.” What?!
MyHumanForm
I had a guy match with me and then proceed to find out every detail about me. He even showed up at my job when I didn't respond to him.
MyHumanForm
If I have to get the police involved before a first date, maybe you need to scale it back a bit.
Arrowheadx1
Ya know, sometimes I like to think us guys ain't so bad then one of us pulls this crap.
Garaam7
Really? Murder, organized crime, sex trafficking, its perverts that made you realize your gender isnt representative of you? wtf am i readin
twoticketstopoundtown
You guys arent so bad. But there are some weirdos out there
AlexMakesJokes
Please don't take responsibility for shitty men's behavior. Your honorable apology further reinforces that we as men are all alike.
SomeRandomLiz
Hopefully most ladies know not to blame all you guys for the couple crazies that snuck in the batch, we have our fair share too.
kellycorn
I don't blame all guys but it does make you have to be careful with all guys because you don't know which one is gonna be like this.
Kairamek
Then I remember the astronaut who wore a diaper so she didn't have to stop during an 18 hour drive to stalk a married coworker.
Kairamek
Bitches be crazy and we got bitches of every gender, race, religion, and nationality.
biggwhytey
This is not masculinity, this is mental illness. That needs to be thoroughly understood.
Arrowheadx1
Some of you can't see how one of us being shit makes the rest look like shit. Get off the cross we need the wood.
LurkingAtTheOffice
Men arn't bad. This person is obviously a deranged individual that needs serious psycological help.
DrMichaelMcQueeferton
Why are you judging “us guys” off the action of one individual? That’s problematic thinking bro.
ThatKidWhoYoyos
There is no need to bring in gender, people tend to be crazy. Gender, color, height. People be crazy. Guys are fine.
HellfireJags
Guys aren't the only ones who can do this. Crazy has no color, creed, gender, what have you.
wolverineprostateexams
Hello! Guy here. Been a guy most of my life. I agreed with both of you. Crazy can come from anyone at anytime. Even people you know
Tyanet
Take above statement, and replace ‘guys’ with ‘humans’, and now it applies to everyone.
WhiteningMcClean
But he SAID he was NICE!
Claystead
"I am nice, pls inhale my dong via this hot pic!"
Saxxon92
I demand you take my penis
Thoraxe123
They always do - _-
ITryToOnlyRespondInGifs
“Yeah! I’m nice you fuckin bitch!”
Comet260
"I hope you get raped! REEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!"
Upvoter2000x
All men aren't "us guys". Don't judge half the world population by the .0001% of "those guys"
Tomyris
It is NOT just .0001%. While behavior to this extreme is more rare, men who stalk, harass, etc. are fairly common.
Upvoter2000x
Sure, and women who would rather be stay at home moms rather than engineers and CEOs are fairly common. 2 can play this insipid game.
Tomyris
Being a stay at home mom is a stereotype - but those moms aren't harming anyone. Men who stalk are. What's your point?
Upvoter2000x
Point is broad sterotypes don't help anyone. Women are by far more likely to kill their children. There, happy?
GonyBob1
We are back at home. My sister has gone to bed early because of the stressful day. We will be talking to a lawyer tomorrow.
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GonyBob1
Obviously we're getting a restraining order but I can't let someone get away with doing this to my sister without real punishment
MatrimBloodyCauthon
Damn straight.
CuriousFen
Get a restraining order
hobbitbandit
This!!!
amahler
look up some easy and quick self defense moves just in case
EnderMoth
I've got one: push in their eyes.
Heavenissize17socks
https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Fear-Survival-Signals-Violence/dp/0440226198
AnaNada
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Heavenissize17socks
Gavin de Becker. Great advice on how to deal with these situations and keep them from escalating.
GorgeousGen
I've dealt with two stalkers. One rule of thumb, don't talk back. They're getting what they want. Block, and if needed, call the cops.
gammelgubben
Well, you should typ "stop texting me" first, then you have grounds for calling the police if the person continues ;) (But ye I agree!)
wouldntyouliketobeapeppertoo
This. Stop talking to the creep.
ICanOnlyGrowCactus
It's been 10 months, 20 different numbers, he's had 10 different Facebook accounts ... he'll give up someday tho, right?
ITalkAboutGoats
Or kill you. I would do something more about it.
ICanOnlyGrowCactus
He's a vagrant now, I've no address or info for him.
ITalkAboutGoats
How does he contact you on media, then?
ICanOnlyGrowCactus
He has a phone, I don't know the actual number for it. He makes new Facebook accounts when I block the old ones.
Denvercoder09
For me I was told by the cops to explicitly mention to not contact me in any form again and then drop off contact.
MonstersFromTheId
This is exactly right, speaking from unfortunate experience.
IcedMyself
Always carry something or self defense. Whether it be pepper spray, a gun, one of those hard metal stick thingies you hit people with
JustAnotherPOG
ASP or extendable baton is the word you were searching for there.
IcedMyself
Thanks lol
ZOMGNO
Your name............... is Gorgeous Gen.... I mean.... no wonder people want you
GorgeousGen
It's beyond that though, not a "Oh wow you're hot!" It's "you're the only one for me, only one who understands me" where you barely talk.
ZOMGNO
I somehow knew I'd be downvoted for ironically saying that. Yeah, I have had friends get experiences like that. Its unsettling.
ZOMGNO
We went to a bar at lunch, then the evening. Free drinks all night from the bartender, who also gave her a rose, and begged to be with her
ZOMGNO
He texted her for weeks. She had a boyfriend. He'd seemed innocent and sweet until the texts continued.
GorgeousGen
One, blocking and changing number worked. Second one, calling police was required. They called him but weren't able to enforce much. I moved
GorgeousGen
Deleted all social media and changed number again. Cross fingers, I have not heard from him in six months.
MyPalmsSpaghettiKneesWeakArmsSpaghettiTheresVomitOnMySpaghetti
What if it's not within your limits to move and they somehow know where you live in the neighbouring country of theirs?
GonyBob1
Fortunately we caught him because of his extreme creepiness. But yes, in the future she should be more careful
DecapitatedJizzWizard
Get a pistol
Firetowerdude
and training to go with it. And I hope you'll never need either.
Minoruok
There’s currently a movie about this kind of thing and it seems terrifying. Sorry you went through that.
Alavar
What movie?
Minoruok
I believe it’s called “Unsane”
GorgeousGen
I know, I won't be seeing it.
Need2Vent
Most people don't realize stalking laws cover texting after being told to stop, too. Good for you, be safe!
discardedusername
I really wish my judge would care about that in my case.... texts wishing I'd die along my way, texting staking texts, blast texts....
Ladyglittersparkles69
Shit wish I knew that... met a creeper on okcupid FIVE years ago and he would me saying he "found my number". Finally blocked him
Pssstyeahyou
Great name.
nateglen350
Want me to beat his ass.
Pssstyeahyou
In FL yes that's called harassment by electronic device and they absolutely will arrest you for it.
noimthebatman
It’s true. They love arresting people in Florida.
LoudBirb
Specifically, they love announcing who they arrested and why.
dramaprism
They really aren’t in most states. I had an ex do similar shit. Cops could only ask him to stop. He wasn’t breaking an enforceable law here
dramaprism
I had to go through the trouble of getting a restraint order and my apartment complex supported me by having their lawyers legally can him
dramaprism
From the complex, so that if he came to my place again he could be arrested for trespassing
RageCuddles
Not in Canada unfortunately. Source: have a friend being stalked, RCMP cautioned the stalker but can't legally do anything about it.
MyPalmsSpaghettiKneesWeakArmsSpaghettiTheresVomitOnMySpaghetti
What about someone from America who might be secretly/subtly stalking you in Canada after threatening suicide/murder/social exposure if (1)
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MyPalmsSpaghettiKneesWeakArmsSpaghettiTheresVomitOnMySpaghetti
Thank you! I hope you're right
MyPalmsSpaghettiKneesWeakArmsSpaghettiTheresVomitOnMySpaghetti
You stop responding to them? (Social exposure = revealing private conversations, pictures, etc from the past.) Asking for a friend. (2/2)
bananahag
I’m pretty sure if they threaten suicide you can call the police. They’re a danger to themselves
MyPalmsSpaghettiKneesWeakArmsSpaghettiTheresVomitOnMySpaghetti
Thank you, but what if the suicide threats were from months ago?
ayeseaturtles
If you have visual confirmation of this occurring (texts, messages, etc.), you can still report it.
TheThingNoNotThatOne
Just texting someone after they say "don't text me anymore" isn't covered by stalking (or even really harassment) laws. Now, if it's a 1/2
bachpad
This. The nature of the messages being sent matter for whether they constitute a criminal act as harassment as well as stalking here.
TheThingNoNotThatOne
lot of texts in a short period after saying "stop," you might have a case. 2/2
Isorikk
I think it was more the dick pic and standing in an empty parking lot of a restaurant that did it
GorgeousGen
There are, but it's hard to enforce. I had a guy harass me on every social media platform, he would create 20+ profiles a day that I would
gaijiin
If that's not dedication, idk what is. jesus christ .
GorgeousGen
Tbh, behind the annoyance and fear, slightly impressed with the amount of time this guy took to be instantly ignored. Sooo unhealthy.
gaijiin
damn, I've always wondered how people could just dedicate themselves to something so unhealthy and unproductive to society.
Exceptionelli
More like obsession
iwassurprisedtoo
Mmm, I wouldn't call a guy in an asylum butting his head against a wall until he passes out bleeding, "dedicated". "Dedicated" is positive.
gaijiin
"dedicated to committing murder" doesn't sound as positive
GorgeousGen
Instantly block. The police came, took statement, called him and members of his family he had had call me to convince me to be with him.
thecrossthebridge
What did his family say about his behaviour?
GorgeousGen
It helped, for a week, but it took me completely resetting every way to contact me to stop it.
ThomasThundersword
good for you going the legal path, if someone was doing that to someone in my life, id handle it myself. which would be wrong.
cheekybuttcheek
Not to tell you how to live your life, but I can imagine a dude who has limited interactions with girls being weird and creepy around a 1/2
cheekybuttcheek
2/2 girl who responds to a "rack request". There are some pretty fancy spice racks out there, they could get overly intimate.
RoxxHlne24
Yeah I work in a domestic violence shelter and these laws work about as well as all the other ones that should be leaving me out of a job..
asm80dfa8sdfj
Unfortunately for this guy, responding with "No bitch -dick pic-" and then following with stalking info really kinda seals the deal
RoxxHlne24
I wish you were right. My professional experience indicates otherwise.
asm80dfa8sdfj
Really? If I whipped it out on the street and harassed a person and there was proof, ho boy. Why would it be different online?
RoxxHlne24
I mean, the street scenario also happens all the time without consequence. There’s just not a whole lot of enforcement with these laws.
RoxxHlne24
Rehtaeh Parsons is one case study of how even clear proof of cybersexual abuse/harassment often fails to translate into criminal charges.