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Make up your mind
Mar 24, 2018 3:33 PM
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limeyptwo
Why Does Everything Need To Be Capitalized?
bellbebellbebell
Wife usually indicates a level of income higher than living with mom
thesmelge
Jokes on you, women won't date a guy who lives on his own either. Though I don't think the living alone is the deal breaker.
Valfheim
So basically its like very old gta, spend ages looking for a perfect super car and then when you finally have one they're everywhere.
LogicDude
TheRealJuggernaut
Aldray
thedill2000
Jokes on her. Wife and mom are the same person
heebiejeepie
It's the DANGER component. Plus, the EGO angle.
NoFoxLeft
I don't care if they live with their mom but it better be because she's sick or they're paying down debts. Otherwise it looks like you can'
NoFoxLeft
Cant* take care of yourself or don't want to. As for the spouse thing, that's also a nope but at least it shows you can be dependable.
Carefuler
Having a wife means he can support a woman, living with his mom, maybe not.
KingKrown
No that does not,lol.
Carefuler
Fair point. His wife might be supporting Him. Some women are stupid enough to still want to fuck a pos like that.
TimberWilly
Hoptimonium
I find that it's 100% fine for women to live with their folks, but yeah guys are expected to have their own place if they want to date.
maximilianfragglebottom
I date a woman who lives with her husband, but they're not together.
Imapancakenom
Are they planning on divorcing?
ShamanShacker
blackNmild
Only in America people think you are a loser if you live with your mom. In other part u get respect for being there for the women who gave..
Nazacuckoo
Are you American? If so, it's understandable why you're wrong. In other parts of the world it is still considered to be shameful.
DirtCat
My widowed mother lives with me and my fiance so dunno on what the big deal is. Some families are like this, like me.
neufala
Gotta have standards!
mentallypsycho
Either way, she's not dating you.
Bennings
Damn, TWO borderline-misogynistic posts on the FP? More than usual!
KingKrown
How is this misogynistic....
Bennings
1) "nice guys finish last" bullshit and 2) shite like "90% of women are like this" and "women are biologically meant to do this"
AndyTheDorkPunk
BlankhasdiedofDysentery
So he's successful enough to support two women at once.
w0od
*to pay off 2 women at once
LithiumOd
The side piece
muckinpattis
And in this economy no less
Irreal
What if he supports his mother?
pirateninjaunicornattacksquad
Single dad here, I've lived with my mom and grandmother (4 gens, 1 household), couldn't get a date for the life of me.
fudgesickle
I lived with my dad & younger brother & supported both at one time. Never had a problem getting some. Just couldn’t do it at home.
Jonnymarre
Tom Petty
Iamabuffalo
This is so fucked up but it is what it is. Morals only work till it's not about sex.
MamaSaidNoo
My husband wasn't hit on by random women until we got married. It doesn't matter if I'm standing right there.
pirateninjaunicornattacksquad
It's the ring.
pleonidas
Not thay I'm asking for it but I wasn't hit on by random women before marriage and it still doesn't happen after being married lol.
Begotten
I did the fake wedding band experiment for a brief period and found similar results. Seemed to make me more approachable to everyone.
memberwar
Most tail I ever got in NYC was going to the bars with a fake wedding ring. Never trust a human being.
DeathStarSpinning
Is this a female competition thing?
soapghost
I think it's more that some women like easy, no-strings lays with less chance for pressure to commit.
tangybreath
Nah. Evolutionarily, there is a difference. One dude is considered immature and a poor provider whereas the other is a proven mate.
Mostlydeadpool
probably. more likely "another woman thinks you're good enough to sleep with so I'm going to poach rather than try my luck"
causality
It's been documented that men in a relationship are more attractive than single men.
MarioBoon
It's the challenge
imheretomemeandrespectwomenandimfreshouttamemes
Formgen
imheretomemeandrespectwomenandimfreshouttamemes
:(
JupitersWitch
You won't date a chubby girl who can support herself but will date a skinny girl who will cheat on you and take your money?
pirateninjaunicornattacksquad
Fuck that, I'll date the chubby chick with a good head on her shoulders. And I'll pick her every damn time.
KingKrown
Body types wasn't what the post was about... You're attracted to what you're attracted to. Simple as that.
missleadinginiformation
Or you're just not attracted to chubby girls and I you didn't know she'd cheat and be a B.
Valfheim
Hey, I'll take someone if their heart is in the right place and they have genuine feelings, but they need to be somewhat attractive. 1
Valfheim
You can't date somebody you don't feel an attraction to. appearance plays a part, though Personality and other things are more important. 2
JupitersWitch
Not true. Sometimes their personality draws you in and then you learn to be attracted to them.
missleadinginiformation
There's only so much that can do
Valfheim
Yeah you're right. If somebody cared enough to tell me about how they felt, even if it wasn't mutual I would be willing to try. 1
Valfheim
Maybe I could come to love them too. in that case I would only accept if somebody approached me, If I'm not attracted I won't chase. 2
tangybreath
Unfortunately, we are animals. We are hard-wired to be attracted to the proven stud versus the poor provider.
hepokudust
I think it's difficult to say what we're hardwired to be attracted to, as you can't disregard culture having an impact. How are you so sure?
prodmerc
Since when does stud = provider lol
tangybreath
It doesn't. But I'm using stud loosely. Man living with wife has proven himself to be mate material.
sagelobu
ya know, i've never thought about it from that angle. Most men excuse behavior for being animals and needing to spread seed
sagelobu
so seeing the other option that women look for a provider who is a capable is also somewhat understandable
darkdragonempress
Essentially there is an evolutionary explanation for many things. But our brains have evolved enough to overcome a lot of that.
sagelobu
I would also imagine our brains have evolved to give excuses for further shitty behavior too though
darkdragonempress
Oh yeah. There’s lots of psychological phenomena explaining such things.
siler7
We're also hard-wired to shit wherever we are when we feel the urge. You're only an animal if you choose to be.
tangybreath
I'm not excusing the behavior of cheating. I'm saying why the two situations (living with mom vs wife) are vastly different.
siler7
Not necessarily. Not by a long way. I, for instance, used to be a provider for my mom.
darkdragonempress
Technically evolution wise, living with parents isn’t a bad thing. We are designed for collective family units. It ensures more help and 1
darkdragonempress
Resources for offspring. The stigma of family living is a purely cultural thing. 2
funnystoryaboutthat
Americans in general have a big aversion to multigenerational living. There's nothing wrong with Mom living with you.
prodmerc
Eh, privacy kind of matters... get your parents a nice apartment in some small town, if they don't have their own place for some reason.
malachitedragon
In my case its because I have a disability and literally cannot make enough money to live on my own. :(
SadToSay
It really only became a stigma when it was so easy to be prosperous and get your own place, the baby boomers fixed that problem.
funnystoryaboutthat
But in response to the rest of the post, thots gonna thot.
CrazyCatLad
I'm 27. My GF is 42. She lives with her 7 year old son and her mother. Doesn't bother me.
pirateninjaunicornattacksquad
It's a lot harder when the roles are reversed. That said, good on you!
Nerdygasm
I live with my mother-in-law, father-in-law, and grandmother-in-law. From my kids to my husband's grandma, we're a 4 generation household.
Nerdygasm
And we're in Missouri so yes, American.
VodkaReindeer
What about living with your partner's mom?
Neorago
As someone not American living in the US: I agree, as long as your mom doesn't do everything for you. So many grown-ass people still not-
Neorago
-doing their own laundry/cooking/general chores while living with their parents in my home country.
angelwkw3
Many mothers refuse to let you do some of those jobs however, as if its insulting to them
Neorago
I know, and that's part of the problem. You have full adults that never learn basic chores until they get married...and that's not good
Mimsey
Nothing wrong, no, but it makes bondage night somewhat uncomfortable.
flomasterdelux
I’ll send my mom right over, save paying her rent for her!
Lfedora1
Only becomes an issue if he’s never paid rent or helped or cleaned or cooked
AwkwardKeming
There's a big difference between living with your mother and having her live with you.
Begotten
No difference come sexy time
kaamila
30 yr old and live with my parents. I pay bills like everyone else. They bought the house to give me when they retire(3-5yrs) so I can save
spaceindian
Uhh... Are they willing to adopt? I could use a house!
ldbv1983
After the divorce. My ex left with everything except the house which was mine. I rented it and move in with my mom. That literally...
ldbv1983
saved my life. I would probably ended it LONG ago if not for that.
squireltactics
I actually agree about the unnecessary stigma, however there's a world of difference between living with mom and mom living with you.
stjohnallerdyce
Agreed! Also a big difference between leeching off mom and pulling your own weight in her house
imgonnahurtu
In most cultures you live at home until you get married, at which point you go start your own home where the cycle repeats.
ProgeriaProstitutes
Often the oldest son will stay with his parents until their death
1metalnation
I technically live with my mom, it's her name on the house, but she's disabled as shit and needs the help so I moved in. Dating is hard now
LeadByBadExample
Can your disabled mother resist your advances?
Renkyu
Jesus Christ dude. +1
LeadByBadExample
I mostly go by the name given to me by my parents. I'm not much for using my official title. It comes off as a bit pretentious, I think.
1metalnation
I just audibly gagged. +1
LeadByBadExample
My pleasure!