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Check her out: c-cassandra.tumblr.com You'll relate to her so hard.
MrDevilsAdvocate
We just broke up on our six months anniversary while I was a thousand miles away, was about time honestly
OKiluvUBuhBai
I'm not cutting onions YOU'RE CUTTING ONIONS! Wait. Whatever @OP I'm crying I hate you.
LapisScarab
So, the less invested you are the harder it is to get over. No shit, College Humor.
amahler
I love Cassandra's work. As a curly haired girl I relate so much to her.
Huldra
And dont forget those who jumps into new relationships all the time. I wonder how they do it tbh. It baffles me.
Stuebydoo
Been 8 years and I'm still not over one of my exs
Vespy
No empathy with the right-hand side. Also, deleting photos and getting rid of gifts is usually stupid if they were a part of the good times.
Dougamer
I do like how these comics skip over the idea that it could ever be the own persons fault the relatiomship failed.
FajitaPrinceofAllMexicans
As someone who's dealt with it, do not let them leave you and drag you on for over a fucking year.
tundraplain
Honest question: What's a short term relationship?
daytimedrinkingincoffeecups
When you are in a relationship with another person that only lasts a short while. Usually 6 months and under is considered short term.
SoDogeHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEEHEHEH
so if you go into long-term relationship, you'll see less vibrant colors?!
brassinpocket
fuck me, I havent had the balls to MEET the guy I have a crush on and I'm in a funk. I am doomed.
TeeShirt9101
Funny. 30 min ago I was crying about my relationship from 3 years ago that I'm still not over I hope that one day I can find happiness again
assnoodle
You will. Have patience.
ShaVuklia
Same here... it's been 2.5 years now and it's the only thing affecting me emotionally.
DonnayWinter
When my marriage ended, I turned into a hardcore alcoholic for an year. When I left my second wife-to-be, I just lived normally but 1/2
DonnayWinter
dealt with the aftermath of living with a narcissistic person. Fine nowadays.
Snaggley
It's almost like it takes more than a few days to form strong emotional attachments.
CatbugOKAY
Recently broken up with... The feels are all too real with this. 4 years gone.
LostHisMitten
Yeah that is how it feels, like someone stole three years of my life where I actually was happy for the first time in a long while...
CoolSnackChris
Right there with you amigo. God damn heartbreak suuuucks
Buucho
Am I the only one that keeps the gifts? Cause eff it, it's free stuff. Reward for enduring pain.
megleon
After a year together all he had gotten me was a mug & a vibrator. You sure as hell know I'm keeping them. Along with the cozy pjs he left!
Sparru
I can understand wanting to sell/throw out certain kind of gifts but I don't see point of getting rid of normal stuff.
jagerben47
Did she do these for collage humor is did they just steel it and put their watermark on it?
IvorJBiggun
Naked theft.
FreshWater13
My bf and I have been together for 8 years, I had a nightmare he got in a car accident and woke up sobbing
JamesJabberwocky
Dunno. I'm recently single after a long-ish realtionship. It's not a general feeling. just the little things that hurt. 1/2
JamesJabberwocky
Like discovering stuff that was hers or doing something you used to do together. On the other ahnd i'm a dude. Mileage may vary.
CoolSnackChris
Remembering the stuff you did together is the worst man! I find myself hating places I loved because we went there together and won't again
JamesJabberwocky
I LOVE to drive, so we made excursions a lot. Whenever I drive long distances now I miss her hand on my shifting hand. Fucking sucks.
eruantienthewise
As someone who's never had a relationship, I've had crushes that were harder to get over than the right side...
Doodleyduds
Me too and for real I got FUCKED. UP. by this. Picking myself up more but this is a really shitty rollercoaster.
SparkSkyBanjaMU
You're going to be fucked in the heart when you have your first relationship and it breaks.
mibango
Lucmily tjat will.never happen :')
Percalope
Are you okay?
assnoodle
Let the man have a stroke in peace
iamthedoctorthisismytardis
Heulengeist
I'm struggling with feeling anything but dead inside at this point. I keep finding shit to delete or throw away and hear about her from 1/
Heulengeist
friends since she spends more time with them than they do with me. 2/2
massInsomnia
Hang in there guy, time heals all wounds and they will come back
Shohanna
At least they still hang out with you. He took all "the" friends, haven't heard from one of them since. :/
Heulengeist
They actually don't. I see things on Facebook and saw a few of them on the 4th. In the past month and a half, I've seen a haldful of 1/
Heulengeist
of friends only one time. Basically doing everything on my own and hanging at the gym hoping to see gym buddies. Definitely feels like 2/
Heulengeist
I lost my friends in the split. Hope things go better for you. Definitely crappy positions we're in :/ 3/3
andthedicestoppedrolling
Yeah, my "friends" convinced her to leave me for another guy...who had a girlfriend until he learned she was suddenly single...we don't talk
Gamemaster64
except everything here would be replaced with me hanging...
rainingmud
U alright fam?
stespike
... Out with your friends?
WhitePhoenix
Guys are more successful at suicide attempts than girls are. FeelsBadMan
TheVRay
Yeah, I'm a swingin' guy. Throw a belt, over the shower curtain rod, and swing.
Gamemaster64
Mine is one of those twisting ones so it will fall easily if I do that.
bloxman
How does it not break
TheVRay
I don't know, it's a song.
MrScud
You've given me an idea for a song on my blues album
TheVRay
I'm somewhat curious to see where that goes.
MrScud
It's been in pre production for about 5 years because I'm awful at songwriting. And have no way to record
Thorslax
Are you looking for good quality recording or just a decent recording?
nycterelis
Mine falls if i even slightly lean on it. Now a gun on the other hand...
itsallmckay
Canadian!
scrivi
Get oot, ya moose
spektrumm
sorry!!
ThisIsCanadaWinterIsAlwaysComing
It looked so normal to me that I didn't even realize it. God I love being Canadian.
itsallmckay
So true, I've been alert with all the Pokemon go happening in the states and none here
doodledee
I live in Ohio, USA and there's Tim Hortons here as well.
MetaAdInfinitum
You probably don't have a prime minister though.
VIAI
Dat Timmie's coupon
whysoseverus
prime minister
WhitePhoenix
Being a guy, I've been kinda in the left mode for.... awhile.
tinybabyslothdawww
don't worry, you'll be a strong independent woman by 2060 according to these pictures.
Rendili
It takes time man. No one can tell you how you're going to get over it. I did things that made me happy and feel better about myself.
WhitePhoenix
Well.. I can tell you it's been a bit longer than I wanted to.. several years to be exact.
Rendili
It took two for me, and I'm still single, but it doesn't hurt anymore. Friends are good, make new ones if you feel stale, it can help.
LostHisMitten
Been in the left mode for half a year now, it gets somewhat better but not really. Makes you wonder if you want to risk it all over again.
seqkoya
He left me for someone else a year ago after being together for 8 years, I'm relating to the left side. Just still can't seem to get over it
Shohanna
Same, 9 yrs together, 4 married. He left me on my bday. 5 yrs I can't seem to get back in the dating pool. It sucks, I justwanttogetitover.
Hemispheres
Wow, he sounds like a real shit-cannon.
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Shohanna
Haha, I already do that! I don't have to do his laundry, or pick it up to do it. That IS helping get over it. /nod
LonelinessAndDespair
You are an idiot. There are tons of nice guys and you chose the one that would cheat, while i cant even find a single female to talk with.
seqkoya
I wasn't to know, you would have thought after 8 years he'd be able to talk if there was a problem, clearly not :( an idiot i may be
XianArchangel
Doubtful... being a guy and all. There's some charm to the style though.
Equinox13
And now I'm picturing a guy proclaiming he is a strong independent woman, thanks to you.
Xaldyn
HAHAHA YEAH TESTOSTERONE AND BEER AND FOOTBALL!! [weeps in the corner]
Icameheretoupvoteandcomment
Yeah this is totally interchangeable
damspam
2/2 in a fedora / neckbeard "men-are-so-persecuted" kind of way, but actual science way.
damspam
Funny, I read that it's harder for guys to recover from break ups because gender norms make them less likely to open up to friends. Not 1/2
AnalBeadsPulledOutLikeStartingALawnmower
I don't know dude, it took me a shit load of time to get over a long term (5 year) relationship. I didn't even know what being single was.
FranticHalibut
Two years out of a pretty serious relationship (false pregnancy and whatnot) still recuperating
Kizsurian
I've only been in long term relationships. My first one was through high school, and lasted almost 8 years. By the time it was over, 1/2
Kizsurian
I was completely done and over the guy since he fucked me over royally. Got together with my husband after and been together 5 yrs. 2/2
ComeJoinTheMurder
This is my one true terror. I wouldn't know how to be single again. Straight fucked my social life would be.
Amesus
Being single is easy, you can do anything you want to. Social life is a breeze too. My cat talks to me all the time.
AnalBeadsPulledOutLikeStartingALawnmower
Yeah but what you want to do is be with her/him. You don't know what else to do, you've become so conditioned to being with that person. :(
DerpyWerm
Same here, mate. Two and a half years for me. I'd never imagined life without her, and I was just... Lost.
jazzy663
Dating sucks.
nightmarerunner
If you play your cards right, yeah ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Dreadends
I just got cheated on a few nights ago. I hate relationships.
samtherat6
That's why you go into an arranged marriage, where both of you are miserable, but at least honest about it.
Oakenmoon
I wouldnt know. :/
jazzy663
Woah. That awkward moment when a half-assed comment gets a ton of upvotes.
13thDukeofWybourne
My wife and I are soooo glad we don't have to date. And yes, we're still in love and have lots of sex (in both cases with eachother even)
reaperhead
That's why I chose to not do it
Alighierian
you just skip the dating and use the van, don't you?
jazzy663
Smart.
TheFoxyVixen
Life's a lot easier that way.
bittergiraffe
"chose"
ThisIsTheHardestPartOfAnRPG
You beat ms to it. +1
IShouldBeStudyingRightNowInsteadOfBrowsingImgur
Uhh yea.. Me too, totally by choice.
ultrasemen
I never had anyone and still always like on left panel.
gabadabagool
Dating is awesome.
AuntSharron
It's relationships that suck
gabadabagool
Nope, still disagree. Been in a relationship for 4 years and they've been the best 4 years of my life.
kryptoniteblunts
You'll find the right person, auntie.
Bombideer
#1 I don't have friends who'd do that #2 Can't bring myself to do it #3 Literally wearing a shirt she got me right now #4 Sounds about right
Aslandus
I dunno about #4, sounds like a lot of work for one day
Bombideer
#5 Well she moved on pretty damn quickly but it still hurts nonetheless #6 Time will heal, but I still need to move on for myself.
QueenMerciful
It takes time, so don't be impatient with yourself. Mourn it, cry, feel better eventually.
CoolSnackChris
I couldn't delete the photos either man. Too many epic memories. You doing all good? Flcik me a message if you want to yarn
Bombideer
Honestly at this point I don't really know what good it'll do
CoolSnackChris
Keep your head up bro. The first few weeks are easily the worst. It fucked me off when people said it gets easier but it actually does.
CoolSnackChris
You have to remember that you were a complete person before you were together and you will be again. As much as that hurts
Bombideer
Thanks man. I'll take you up on your offer a little later once I'm off of my job
Sparru
And I really think you shouldn't, except for maybe dirty ones. Those memories are part of you and it's healthier to understand that and 1/2
Sparru
move on instead of pretending things didn't happen. You can't erase those memories from the brain anyway. 2/2
Bombideer
Yeah, I still cherish the time I had with her. Deleting happy memories, even if they were together, just seems so bad to do
RhealityBytes
To be honest I had a 6 week relationship that was harder to get over then a 3 year one..
Norriko
I actually had one of these a long time ago. Internet hug*
100PercentGradeABumblebees
Ditto, with a two month relationship harder to get over than a one-year one.
BewareTheJabberwockie
I think the short ones are harder to get over because its still in the honeymoon phase, while the long term ones kind of burn out.
beeea
Breaking up during the honeymoon period is really painful. In a longer one at least you know their flaws.
BuncjoVilla
Yep, in that now. But actually, I'm feeling really good today. Starting to wake up and realize how much of a user he is. Still friends tho..
foxfire1112
Me too. I'm seriously a wreck right now and really need to talk it out or something. She lifted me up and crushed me in 6 months
DoctorWhoNerd07
I know how you feel. My boyfriend dumped me after 2.5 years together. I'm still a wreck about it. The worst is he left me for his ex wife.
deathclawhandupvote
Same. My girlfriend of two months broke my heart and my girlfriend of 2+years was an easy breakup. Idk why
aldea
Depends on who you were. Omegas suffer more
rabbitraider
I think a lot of long term relationships you get over whilst in them, the short ones (if you like them) you want more time
TheGrumpest
Might be interesting to figure it out over time.
mymylee
I agree. I think it is more the emotional involvement than the length of the relationship that impacts how you deal with the breakup.
DVSBSTrD
BondageBurrito
depends on the person you're with sometimes it can be three years of blah then 6 weeks of amazing
Kaiolas
My 6 month relationship tore me up 10x wise then my 2 year one.
tabIeandchairs
Than
Queyonce
I didn't even care about anyone else's repplies. I scrolled to find this.
shouldbestudying
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Queyonce
Dammit! Didn't catch that.
vvti713
So true.. had a 2 year relationship and I didn't bat an eye, then I got out of a 6 week one and I was hurting for a few weeks..
canesminior
The 6 weeks you invested were more worth it than the 3 years you wasted.
HulluSteve
A girl I dated for 8 weeks two years ago, still not over her :( I miss her every day and I'm in a happy relationship right now. But still...
GrandOppai
I was with for 2 months. Full fucking year it took me to get over her. I dont understand why; i know she wasnt right for me...
Paydog
The heart doesn't have wear a watch. It doesn't know time. It just wants what it wants. There is no correct time for love.
Melanorosaurus
Right there with ya.
Verfolne
I was in a relationship for almost five years, I related much more to the right side of this comic tbh..
ThePsychoanalyst
Fucking been there
gawdeenie
That'll happen
breakfastburner
Soo you're single?
TheDarkLordOfTrees
Hot and fast
corneliusgansevoort
Oh shit, Rhea, is that you?
RhealityBytes
Oh shit i've been compromised, my name IS Rhea.
corneliusgansevoort
i'm just fucking with you, i don't know you. Sorry for the bad break but honestly i never liked that dude/chick anyway you're better off!
ThirstyBeaver
I had a 10 week online relationship that was harder to get over than my failed marriage. Thank god for Imgur or I'd be a wreck.
broncos80girl
We got you!
EmeraldLight
Mine was over a year and we had met and gotten engaged :S that was Jan 2015 and I'm still not the same...
DVSBSTrD
humbook
Story time?
OtterlyKim
Why do I understand this feel.
andrewtater
Probably because you had a chance to realize that the marriage was over before it officially was, so you processed it during the marriage 1/
andrewtater
Also, you had plenty of time to grow angry or bitter about things, all while in the morning, so when it was over it was easier to walk 2/
HelenWhat
This is so true for me right now. Thank you!
andrewtater
3/ away. With the 10-week, you fell hard, and really tried to invest yourself. And they appreciated that investment, more than you remember
andrewtater
4/4 your spouse appreciating the investment. So when they broke it off, it was sudden, and you still were falling for them, not already done
flamingflamingo
I'm more in love with an old friend than I have ever been with a partner, and we'll never even be together. :(
ThePowerToKillAYakFrom200YardsAway
Why's that? Married? Happily? Things change.
flamingflamingo
He was married. I was getting married. Now we're both single but we still live about 1400 miles apart.
BeeAtPeace
Have you, you know... talked to this person about it?
myr14d
You are a wreck. Imgur is just distracting you from looking in the mirror.
OvenKnight
Holy shit that hurts. True though. Not like truuuuuu xd but like, really true.
mrhue
damn, no chill
Racealistic
BRUH
ThirstyBeaver
Probably. But imgur will be here for a while so I can keep kicking the can
demonic
At least till the next several crash
Bladeroller
Imgur IS the mirror, dude! *puff*...*puff*
ginniper
Bruh.
BadgerMushroomSnake
A Dirty one
murks
Bladeroller
Weeds no joke, it'll take your places. Unless you're still parked, maaaannnnn.