senatormendoza
197685
2011
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Mar 24, 2014 9:06 AM
senatormendoza
197685
2011
84
CapriciouslyConspicuous
There is fairly strong bias towards 'Middle-Eastern Female' going on here, who knew?
smither1
So Black females have the best reply rate but they are the least replied to. That kinda sucks.
Moosecock
We're all racist
M0MUS
More relevant:
NorthKoreabestKorea
TIL black women have it rough in the world of online dating.
Step1BeAttractive
Step 1: Be attractive
WillWorkForNetflix
Be attractive! Be-e attractive! A.T.T.R.A.C.T.I.V.E. I said to be attractive, be-e attractive! :D
Redbullie
But there are "hot asian sluts" looking for a good time in my area.
Snigs
TL;Couldn't understand... were all pretty good matches for everybody but everyone is a racist and women don't respond to shit
kootiepatra
Or, women get flooded with messages, many of which are hostile and creepy, and have to be more selective who they respond to.
gamblingpoet
There is a question on OKC that states "I strongly not to date outside my race/culture". IIRC, 55% of white females agree with that. :(
KrisTiger
As a black woman I met my white bf on OKCupid, guess we beat the odds
pmmedemboobies
As a "Hispanic/Latin male", I get a lot of black female attention though...
chiquita0bananners
As a black girl I am sad to see that no one likes the black girls :(
TheAntiheroOfCanton
As a white dude I am sad as well, but on the bright side you're beating me in every category but one... me responding to you :) lol
jamy123
today i learned black females reply a lot...
jamy123
but get replied to the least...
SomePeopleSayThatCucumbersTasteBetterPickled
poor black chicks :( they're a lot of fun guys, just letting ya know
HipsterHippy
http://imgur.com/A8eN55R
AdonisInGlasses
Nobody replies to black females, but they reply to everyone.
IWannaBeTheVeryBest
It could be that less people are sending responses to black females, so even if it's the same number, it can be a higher percent.
thedoctorwhopostsdoctorwho
well I can't say, as a black woman, that I'm surprised
mustbefunatparties
Explanation from Reddit: http://imgur.com/1nImWvr
Blendoom
White people like white people. Whoda thunk?
knowkithe
how's it weighted?
Continous
White males get the most replies of all males where as middle eastern females dominate their charts.
bearplaybass
As an Asian male who like Black females, I should get on OKCupid.
YourNotFunny
Honestly a lot more even spread then I was anticipating
AraFace
I... Have no idea what I'm supposed to do with this information.
notjeffreydahmer
Critical thinking time! White men have more options. Black women have the least options. Desirability reflecting cultural norms? Probably.
droomph
Put your brain in it.
walterpeck
No one responds to black women and Asian women respond to no one, that's what I noticed.
Barley426
and nobody responds to men
njwest
As a gay man, I find this broadly useless.
GoodOlZR
Same
BevanWalling
But do you have the problem of people not replying to you?
WillWorkForNetflix
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/same-sex-data-race-reply/ More or less useful?
tarataqa
As a straight man, me too.
LowKeyTroll
*sigh*.
aShogunNamedMarcus
My non-mouse hand: 100 100 100 100 100 100 100 100 100
JokeDudeR
I laughed uncontrollably for a minute. Then cried.
unknownuser0
If nothing else, your chart helped me comprehend the axes of the other charts.
TheMonsterWithinYou
As an unattractive person.... this hits closer to home than it should. excuse me whilst I go weep in my bed of fries and burgers.
bulbsy117
Thief. Thats my statistics.
misterplasma
*unzips*
Shlits
I know them feels
3DSarge
That pretty much covers my experience, too.
JamWaffles
Any other Imgurians on OKC? http://www.okcupid.com/profile/JamWaffles
BigBirdForPresident
yes but I'm also a dude and i'm not proud of okcupid.
bobbykens
Mad life bruv.
corneliusgansevoort
I was, but haven't been on in almost years on account of me finding a GF. For the record I = white man and responed to several black women.
ninjagaidensigma
MaliciousCuntWithoutAReason
I don't understand these.
schokobaer
Me either. Can some smart science guys help us?
YouWillNotLikeThis
Women get a lot of responses. Black women get the fewest among women. Men gets fewer responses. White men gets the most. Black men the least
mustbefunatparties
I braved Reddit for a full explanation: http://imgur.com/1nImWvr
Proudfoots
dude I saw a whole bunch of numbers and just scrolled down to the comments. Fuck numbers, I'm out of school damnit.
MaliciousCuntWithoutAReason
Pretty much my point of view too.
Nathanfake
amen
buzzboy
Message was responded to that percentage. For example a Pacific Islander female has a poor response rate from Indian men at 35%. (2/2)
buzzboy
For OKCupid messages. Look at the second two graphs. Sender on the left and receiver on the top. Big numbers(more green) show that the (1/2)
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
The high numbers mean more than the lower numbers cause theyre more than the lesser ones. The color is nice. And on the side theres words.
sassygassylassie
Ooh NOW I understand! bless you
JFlitt
http://imgur.com/9J3ZL8m
HipsterHippy
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
Genau der bin ich. Du ja auch!
biotechonista
So Indian dudes have big beef with Pacific Islander females? sup with that?
smaug777000
but strangely no problem with native americans or asians... two similar races
Memaleph
A too small absolute number of matches leading to inacurate stats?
baronridiculous
Probably a small sample size.
funshine
Yup. Fijian Indian girls don't have the best reputation with Indian guys.
oneofakindusername2
"Don't even get me STARTED with those fuckin' Indians." - My sister.
viswa543
Indians in this stat is negligible. And most of them are foreign-born, unlike other races.
VikingsAreNinjaPirates
"Big beef"? It sounds like there's a Hindu joke in there somewhere.
ishalovesyou
I lol'd!
Graphically
Poor black women.. :(
TestNamePleaseIgnore
It's okay. They don't need no man.
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
Why, they get the most and send the least...
edyc292
Good god people downvoted the fucking shit out of this misunderstood comment. Damn. I'll go upvote all your other stuff to make up for it.
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
haha, its alright mate, i dont give a crap about it. But i appreciate!
besttom
I think you have that backwards.
JosefTheFritzl
(2/2) they respond to more inquiries from men. That is to say...they take what they can get more often than other women do.
JosefTheFritzl
I think you're reading the graphs wrong. They receive the fewest responses when initiating. Their response column is so green because (1/2)
wherearethenoodles
No, they reply the most to messages sent to them and get the least replies to messages they send.
Graphically
You're reading it backwards.
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
How appropriate that you explain it to me ^^ - but yea thanks. Think i got it now... the simple word "reply rate" changed my perception...
biotechonista
And you know you can trust this guy, just look at the name!
YouWillNotLikeThis
They get the same amount of replies as they reply to messages sent to them
Graphically
1) Well its okcupid. Guys are supposed to be ignored much more than women.
Graphically
2) I never get starters from women though, so I consider all these people hella lucky. o-o'
MrGreggle
Know how all the women complain about guys just saying "hey" or "wats up!?" Women are just as bad with that shit.
Graphically
I always try to start conversation based on something on their profile but I just never get anything back x3x not even a hey xD
CerebrawlHemmorage
At least they're better off than ALL THE MALES. :p
delonwheels
I'm "In a relationship" and I still get like 10 messages a week. Trust me, quantity is not quality on OKC.
Graphically
It's a hard life out there.
dudeskis
itd be interesting to see weighted %. im sure males flood messages out and females are more exclusive, but there are always exceptions.
TheAntiheroOfCanton
on adult friend finder at least, women don't actually need to send messages out, 90% are men who flood messages out. 1/2
TheAntiheroOfCanton
there is actually an evolutionary basis for this, men are generally less sexually picky because they invest far less in producing children
roonmian
I bet there's something cultural in there, too. Gender roles and stereotypes and all that. Maybe even more significant than biology.
YouWillNotLikeThis
Maybe. I bet a female friend who would have the most likes on Tinder.
YouWillNotLikeThis
She "liked" 102 and got 99. I have stopped counting how many i have "liked" and i have three
njwest
So you’re saying… if I want a reply, I should message black women ?
kingofblades18
I am a white male and my girlfriend is black. So I would say yes!
Justinicus
No, if you want a response, you should be a middle-eastern woman.
kraftwahrheit
With this new information I might just try OKCupid!
Pornegranate
It looks like strong independent black women do need them a man after all.
raphidae
No, obviously its the weak dependent women.
Metroda
I am a white man, and I love love love me some black women. Time to sign up on Okcupid.
Hibi
Hello, I am a black woman. I don't know why, but I felt obligated to reply to this comment.
Warranty
You are marvelous. Also, if you don
Warranty
't reply. you must return your black female card.
Nahxela
Are you strong and/or independent?
Hibi
Yes, and I also don't need no man.
pickinganameistoomuchpressure
well that kinda defeats the purpose of OKC
Hibi
There lies the inherent problem in the system.
UseTheSource
hi
brokenmasquerade
Sup.
crazycelt
worked for me
rockmasterflex69
the fatter and sassier, the more replyier
TheAntiheroOfCanton
or pretend to be a woman and message any man
lily10110
Yes. White women are too busy with Starbucks and yoga pants to message back anyone.
Granolaclusters
At least we reply slightly more often than the asian women.
Gollary
THERE ARE JUST SO MANY FLAVORS AND LEVELS OF STRETCHINESS. OUR LIVES ARE COMPLICATED
lily10110
It's okay. I understand. Just tweet the emotions out.
GrimmThistle
I'm tired, so I did a double-take when I read it as "massage back" not "message back."
cutecatpicturesarewhyimhere
Hey, some of us multi-task, drinking our Starbucks in yoga pants while replying to emails.
MitchBeaucannon
I need photographic proof of the yoga pants!
cutecatpicturesarewhyimhere
Here you go. http://imgur.com/LvC4amI
MitchBeaucannon
http://img.pandawhale.com/post-30203-Jaime-Lannister-NICE-gif-Imgur-dW3Y.gif
lily10110
But, how can you when you're supposing to be Instagraming? #Nofliter #Mintlatte #Somethingwhitegirllike
cutecatpicturesarewhyimhere
Oh dear God I've forgotten the Instagramming! #Blondemoment #Caffeinehaze #TheseyogapantsarereducingmyIQ
lily10110
#NahIthinkitsjustthebleachinyourhairdye #Lol
switchfootiepajamas
I want to see the gay/lesbian rates!
ArdentSlacker
I'm pretty sure dating sites don't charge anything different. It'd be kinda discriminatory.
andybrice
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/same-sex-data-race-reply/
WillWorkForNetflix
Fascinating! Thank you for sharing :D
switchfootiepajamas
I have seen the snobbish preference that white gay males seem to have. Pretty pathetic, but I think it's usually just looking for sex.
IHaveAHugeCrushOnTinaFey
As a white man, I'm not really sure what to do with this information. (Other than talk to more black women.)
IHaveAHugeCrushOnTinaFey
I just wrote this and went back to work. I came back and I was like![]()
copingcabana
If you're into Native American girls, pretend to be from the middle east.
Digssweet177
Oh, hey there!
PizzaAmnesia
This data supports why we don't like commonwhitegirl. And commonblackgirl would be a terrible idea for an username.
theevilm
It's already a twitter account
PizzaAmnesia
I'm not even going the question that, it seems you are much more qualified to make that statement.
TheMonsterWithinYou
As a middle eastern woman currently with a white man... idk either... but I'm happy ;P
zaphodthegrate
Well, white guys look like they get the least replies when they send to middle eastern females, even though the data suggests they (1/2)
zaphodthegrate
prefer them. So from his position he's lucky to have you and from your position he's the *ahem* diamond in the rough. (2/2)
TheMonsterWithinYou
lol well, I absolutely love him to death. I was lucky to have had the opportunity to meet him xD
TheAntiheroOfCanton
I've decided to feel more guilty than I already did about my privilege... while I message black women...
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
You better. Cause they won't text you.
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
Or... do they ? I still dont get the graphs...
notjeffreydahmer
Black females respond to everyone more than any other woman. They also get the least amount of responses from me across the board.
althanan
They do, more than any of the other listed demographics. Actually, it looks like they respond more in general by this information.
TwinkleTwinkleLittleShit
Yeah.... got it now ^^ I was reading it backwards.... ...
Blissfully
Hi
SashaTheGray
TIL white females dont like white males.
worldstop
Um, no, they like them more than they like any other race...
trelina
Why don't you have more upvotes for being right?
copingcabana
White females don't like anyone.
awesomeplata
TIL you don't know how to read these charts.
CerebrawlHemmorage
Ah, but they dislike them the least. On the other hand white males like white females less than all other males do.
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BigBirdForPresident
How about me big guy?
ItsOkayItsOfficial
I'm a short white dude from KS living in DC and on Match am only ever hit up big black chicks. It's like a superpower or something...
BakedOn
Tell me more
mandrewsf
The1Remington
As another white man, black ladies love getting attention from us, b/c they think most of us are too intimidated to approach them while out
WillWorkForNetflix
Sweeping generalisations based on gender and race are bullshit. As a black woman, I don't appreciate you speaking on my behalf.
EnchantedDildo
Likewise.
The1Remington
WillWorkForNetflix
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IHaveAHugeCrushOnTinaFey
First of all, if you're serious, I half-agree and think no one should have advantages and it sucks that one race does over any others. (1)
IHaveAHugeCrushOnTinaFey
That's why I'm cool with programs like affirmative action or anything which promotes racial or gender awareness b/c it is sorely needed. (2)
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IHaveAHugeCrushOnTinaFey
The reason for affirmative action is the people who hire pick the white person even if the other person is more qualified. GJ for ignorance.
IHaveAHugeCrushOnTinaFey
At the same time, I'm not going to feel like shit because of the color of my skin b/c
(3)
DuckMom
At one time I would have assumed this was sarcasm but time on the internet has robbed me of that confidence
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IWannaBeTheVeryBest
What bothers people about what you said is that "society should give preference to literally anyone else." They shouldn't give it to anyone.
TheAntiheroOfCanton
actually according to the numbers above, women reply to white men at a higher rate than any other category
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1Rogue
tl;dr White males reply the least, Black females reply the most, and for some reason everyone replies to middle-eastern females
blondie147
Because they're gorgeous.
KalmiaKamui
Uh, that's because middle eastern women are gorgeous.
SwagatroniusRexTheIV
I got with a Iranian burka derka before. Skin smooth as silk and body fine like presidential wine. Basically they're exotic and appealing.
sandband
Middle Eastern women don't tend to date outside of their race. I think we should because most Middle Eastern men are jerks and selfish
blondie147
lol what? Middle Eastern men have always treated me the best. Especially the one man from Iran I dated.
notjeffreydahmer
Now think critically about what this means.
copingcabana
Middle Eastern women are da bomb!
EdgelordPrime
....okay, that one took me a minute. Damn you.
BigBirdForPresident
LOL oh no
BigBirdForPresident
I mean, yes they're awesome
sandband
As a middle eastern woman, shame on you...lol but I still laughed
copingcabana
As a white male...how you doin'? ;)
Addonexacy
Ouch....