Wow Guys...

Apr 5, 2019 8:08 PM

yuyufan43

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So a month ago I got out of the hospital after spending over a year in-patient for a suicide attempt. I was suffering from severe depression and physical ailments that I just couldn’t handle anymore. My family and I even went so far as to seek treatment in Germany for chronic Lyme that was giving me seizures and caused me to lose my job as a dog walker and trainer. I lost my job, my house, my best friend, and then my fiancé left me while I was in the hospital. It was so much to bare but I’m glad I made it through.

This was my hospital room for over a year. Clearly I wasn’t doing well thus not really keeping the place tidy. By the time I left though, my room was spotless.

This is my service dog Matilda (I live in a group home now where I’m not allowed to be with her so she lives with my dad and I see her on weekends. Once I get an apartment she and my cats will be back with me).

Anyway, during Christmas last year I was very lonely and I decided to reach out to my friends at Imgur for help. I couldn’t believe the warm reception and support from this community...

The letters began to arrive. Over 80 of them.

So many wonderful notes, letters, and postcards. Even stickers, socks, candy, stuffed animals, etc.

Family cards

Pop up cards

Cards from all over the world

Homemade cards

Funny cards...

and a special note from my mum.

Words can’t describe how much healing this has done for me (maybe even more so than the treatment I got).

In the month since I’ve been out, I’ve started dating, driving, jobhunting, helping family, and just staying busy and putting meaning into my life.

Someone asked me if I am still receiving letters and I am. I send postcards in return whenever I can. I like spreading the love too!

Thank you all.

TL;DR: Imgurians send letters to OP in the hospital

Tax: Ophelia, my baby Bearded Dragon that I’m allowed to have at the group home!

Fp Edit: Thanks for the support. I feel humbled. I only hope my story helps others! Quick shout outs to @SchitzyShatteredShadow, @nezo, @perpetualnoize, and @SweetieTodd for just being awesome

Also, if there are any artists out there that can draw my service pup, I’ll send a postcard with a drawing in return! I miss her terribly and I’m trying to make a wall of pictures of my Matilda. PM me if you’re interested!

That is awesome. Glad you are doing better!

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

Celebrating you OP!!!

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Little known fact; they won't let you out of the hospital until your room is clean.

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

7 years ago | Likes 98 Dislikes 3

Redford understands how awesome you are

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

See, this is what Imgur can do when it stays away from politics.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Really glad you feel better!

7 years ago | Likes 87 Dislikes 3

Thankful that you're doing so much better, OP!!

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

As a dog walker that might need a new job due to back problems, yeah this whole thing sucks. Really proud of you for pulling yourself up :)

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

@OP you are so loved and cherished

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

We respond because we’ve been there. There is one thing that unites us all. And that is crippling feelings of inadequacy.

7 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

True dat, been baker acted twice. I kno the feelz!

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

We’re like every other family. We’re assholes, but we’re our assholes

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

There are drs in the US that are trained the German method. Message me if you want names. I went through it myself. I feel for you.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

See... this is a positive message. I like it. Good work @op. Things can get better, and people need to know that. Have an uppy.

7 years ago | Likes 260 Dislikes 2

Also... why does this only have 2 points. This should be front page for everyone to see.

7 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

A personal redemption story involving the kindness of strangers on the internet. This is beautiful @OP very well done.

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7 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Glad you're still here @OP. You did a wonderful thing by sharing. <3

7 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 1

Aw, I know you! Thanks for your kind message!

7 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

:)

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Glad you're still here @op. Keep on keepin on...

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I'm so glad you got better. If you want, I send out Christmas card every year. Want me to add you to my list? <3

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yes!

7 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

If you could DM me the address you want me to mail it to. I'll make sure yours gets sent . <3

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

So happy to hear you are doing better, keep it up.

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7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I didn't help at all, but I'll take all the credit. Regardless, you can do this & we got your back.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If your dog is a true service dog they are NOT allowed to refuse it! I'm getting one soon! Learning alot.....see link and get him back!.....

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The world is better with you still in it. I’m sending you joy thru this message. Remember how much people you don’t even know care about you

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

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@Mrpluckett we got some wholesome shit here.

7 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

I already claimed @MrPucket looks like Ive got to get another one to!

7 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Omg. My stupid auto correct did that. I can’t believe you found me anyways. Lol

7 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

This is the first time I have ever responded to a Imgur post...nothing is worth ending it...

7 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

I don't mean to sound jerky but there's more than a few everyday in usersub. I try to respond when I can. Even when i havta lie with a smile

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Can't have a dog... But you can have a dragon. This place has interesting rules.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It has to do with allergies

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm glad you made it. we're all in this together fighting the same war, just a different battle. We'll keep being weird if you do it with us

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Yes... Yessss.. Wash me with your weird daddy

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7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If there’s one thing I’m happy to see you fail at, it’s a suicide attempt. But in all seriousness, glad you are doing well. Keep it up!!

7 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

Also your service dog is beautiful.

7 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Did anyone tag @MrPuckett? This is an amazing story. Good on you @OP I wish you the best

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7 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

I posted on fb 12 things to do for somebody(me) going through depression. One was write me a card No one has done a single thing on the list

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I would love to send you a postcard!! Pm me :)

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It absolutely helps others. Its amazing how lonely or overwhelming human existence can be. We are all trying to find the balance. Love you.

7 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You have the same sheets as me, and the same heart it seems, I rescue animals in disaster zones. Also have major depression! Hit me up!

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7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Your fur baby is beautiful! How often do you get to see him/her?

7 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Maybe like once every two weeks now. Hopefully more often soon!

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Animals are the best therapy, they make for a great reason to keep going

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