he said, “He didn’t think he could make you happy.” He was absolutely right, and you proved it, twice. This is why men walk away. Just fucking tell us what you want. No fucking mind games. Jfc. Soooo glad I got married 30 years ago to a woman that was able to speak her mind. Wow. I don’t know how people put up with this whacked out shit.
Dude heard “no” and knew “no means no” and took her at face value and didn’t try to push at her consent boundaries. Good dude. This lady though….needs to get her head on straight.
My SO and I met on an app. We both specified that we were looking for long-term, committed relationships. We discussed it briefly on our first date. We also discussed that we are both pretty happy with the people we are and that we're not looking for someone to turn us into someone else, and that, while we want someone we can be happy with, neither of us wants to rely on the other for our own happiness. We like each other the way we are.
Seconded. I only recently realized I am too far along in my life to spend energy on chasing invisible goal posts. So now I do things that make me and my cats happy, and the rest can tend to itself.
Stay open to ideas though, you never know when you might meet someone spectacular. I was looking for a friend with benefits online when I met my partner, who as it turns out is the most phenomenal man ever to exist (according to me). We were both just looking to fuck, but then we got to know each other and fell wildly in love. Three years later, we are even more in love than when we first met. I was 49 and he was 53. So you never know!
When meeting a woman like this, be the man in the video (either one I guess, they both seem to be on the same wavelength). It will save you a lot of headaches in the long run.
Yes, definitely. Someone's skewed sense of dating psychology definitely warrants extreme physical violence. Good call. Let's stone the whore. You go first, you completely rational and mentally balanced individual.
I see we have a couple of geniuses who agree with the sentiment that women are responsible for men not taking no as an answer and need to be physically reprimanded for it. Gorgeous reasoning, silent dumbasses. I hope life rewards you in kind.
Women are responsible for their own actions. In this case, shespecifically requests men to not take a "no" for a "no". She is not the only one doing this, this is a sentiment relatively common with "traditional" or wannebe "classy" girls who want to be chased and play mindgames instead of direct and open communication. They are reproducing mysogonist behaviours and creating content off of it, for millions to watch. Teaching girls to ask for abusive behaviour is abuse and kids don't know better.
Women are not responsible for actions performed by others which they didn't consent to. This woman is actively bluring the lines of consent in the most toxic way. CNC is a practise performed in the BDSM community and there are VERY strict rules on how to do it safely. CNC in actual every day life is DANGEROUS if you don't know what you're doing and have not discussed with your partner specifically. Her call is a call for abuse on a platform mostly used by children/young people. This is evil.
T be extra clear: She is actively using the same statements actual stalkers and rapists have used over and over again. "But yes means no, she was just playing hard to get. But she actually wanted it." "She was not like the other girls and I knew she will love me if she just gets to know me better. I just have to put more work into it." "Everytime I think of her, that means she thinks of me, too! She likes me, but she can't show it." "I know I'm the best man for her, so I'll get into her life.
My suspicion is she always needs to be in control. During the date she probably got the impression that he would not be easily manipulated so he wasn't "husband material". The next day when she called to tell him that is wasn't going to work (I'll give her points here, this is all too rare), he responded calmly which threw her as she still didn't gain the control. If he begged her then she would be in control and would change her mind.
As does this trend for people taking other people's videos and inserting their own shit in it. The opinions expressed by matey are hardly a revelation. I assume some people just need another video to tell them what to think about another video?
Popnitro
Just young and learning?
CALAMOSCOPYJANE
Ugh, “I’m only looking for husband energy”?? She’s not dating, she’s taking job interviews. That’s big pathos energy. Which I suppose is just pathos.
CaldariBob
Yeah... when he says he doesn't think he can make you happy, it's not quite as kind or polite a reply as you think.
charondaboatman
he said, “He didn’t think he could make you happy.” He was absolutely right, and you proved it, twice. This is why men walk away. Just fucking tell us what you want. No fucking mind games. Jfc. Soooo glad I got married 30 years ago to a woman that was able to speak her mind. Wow. I don’t know how people put up with this whacked out shit.
IgnisInvictus
On the crazy hot scale? There's no level of hot to deal with that level of self delusional crazy.
Daphault1
40s and dating. There are all types and this is definitely one of them. I wish people would be open about intensions whatever those are.
korndogg83
Intentions
Twrecks123
Dude heard “no” and knew “no means no” and took her at face value and didn’t try to push at her consent boundaries. Good dude. This lady though….needs to get her head on straight.
unremarkableasterisk
He dodged a bullet.
aChungusAmongUs
can't wait for a tiktok ban
bluto1415
I hold women like this in the same regard as men who say” no doesn’t always mean no”
ElbowDeepInAllTheThings
My SO and I met on an app. We both specified that we were looking for long-term, committed relationships. We discussed it briefly on our first date. We also discussed that we are both pretty happy with the people we are and that we're not looking for someone to turn us into someone else, and that, while we want someone we can be happy with, neither of us wants to rely on the other for our own happiness. We like each other the way we are.
bamcobra
You sound healthy.
PraiseAzathoth
This dude is the personification of my inner monologue. I'm not sure why it had that accent, but he is extremely accurate.
madjo
And here I thought “no equals no”…
DodgyMerchant
“He didn’t think he could make you happy.” He recognised an unachievable goal and walked (rant?)
whatdidyoureallyexpect
Sooooo, no doesn’t mean no? She must me a republiKKKan.
jnmjnmjnm
Reminds me of “the husband store”
https://jokesoftheday.net/joke-The-Husband-Store-8211-Still-True/2017032149
CALAMOSCOPYJANE
Cute, I like it.
JennyLawless
What, and I cannot stress this enough, the FUck.
3rdoption
Glad I'm single.
rotodisc
Glad I’m already married.
DarkSock
I'm in the deep south, so I reckon I'm sangle...
LariCheltsy
DeadeicPrints
See I'm not glad I'm single lol. But there's little that can be done about it.
feren
Seconded. I only recently realized I am too far along in my life to spend energy on chasing invisible goal posts. So now I do things that make me and my cats happy, and the rest can tend to itself.
CALAMOSCOPYJANE
Stay open to ideas though, you never know when you might meet someone spectacular. I was looking for a friend with benefits online when I met my partner, who as it turns out is the most phenomenal man ever to exist (according to me). We were both just looking to fuck, but then we got to know each other and fell wildly in love. Three years later, we are even more in love than when we first met. I was 49 and he was 53. So you never know!
3rdoption
scoozydoozy
how u doin?
3rdoption
scoozydoozy
standard response
MaryAlicexoxo
Bitches like this are one of the reasons why some men still think "No means yes". She needs a brick in her face.
MrsHowVeryDareYou
Not loving the use of “bitches” here, but I absolutely agree with the sentiment.
Ifarsenicfailstrysalgebra
When meeting a woman like this, be the man in the video (either one I guess, they both seem to be on the same wavelength). It will save you a lot of headaches in the long run.
Rips4w
Yes, definitely. Someone's skewed sense of dating psychology definitely warrants extreme physical violence. Good call. Let's stone the whore. You go first, you completely rational and mentally balanced individual.
Rips4w
I see we have a couple of geniuses who agree with the sentiment that women are responsible for men not taking no as an answer and need to be physically reprimanded for it. Gorgeous reasoning, silent dumbasses. I hope life rewards you in kind.
MaryAlicexoxo
Women are responsible for their own actions. In this case, shespecifically requests men to not take a "no" for a "no". She is not the only one doing this, this is a sentiment relatively common with "traditional" or wannebe "classy" girls who want to be chased and play mindgames instead of direct and open communication. They are reproducing mysogonist behaviours and creating content off of it, for millions to watch. Teaching girls to ask for abusive behaviour is abuse and kids don't know better.
MaryAlicexoxo
Women are not responsible for actions performed by others which they didn't consent to. This woman is actively bluring the lines of consent in the most toxic way. CNC is a practise performed in the BDSM community and there are VERY strict rules on how to do it safely. CNC in actual every day life is DANGEROUS if you don't know what you're doing and have not discussed with your partner specifically. Her call is a call for abuse on a platform mostly used by children/young people. This is evil.
MaryAlicexoxo
T be extra clear: She is actively using the same statements actual stalkers and rapists have used over and over again. "But yes means no, she was just playing hard to get. But she actually wanted it." "She was not like the other girls and I knew she will love me if she just gets to know me better. I just have to put more work into it." "Everytime I think of her, that means she thinks of me, too! She likes me, but she can't show it." "I know I'm the best man for her, so I'll get into her life.
SterlingArcherSecretAgent
So, he respected her decision and she's giving him shit for it... This is part of why I stopped dating...
Ifarsenicfailstrysalgebra
My suspicion is she always needs to be in control. During the date she probably got the impression that he would not be easily manipulated so he wasn't "husband material". The next day when she called to tell him that is wasn't going to work (I'll give her points here, this is all too rare), he responded calmly which threw her as she still didn't gain the control. If he begged her then she would be in control and would change her mind.
RedStarVidal
Is the other part of the reason because of what happened to Harambe?
SterlingArcherSecretAgent
No
RedStarVidal
Ahhh, it must be because of Bee Movie. That movie is a curse on us all.
SterlingArcherSecretAgent
Sorry, not in the mood for this now
RedStarVidal
I understand - I also like jazz.
Einstein9073
single word captions need to die in a pixelated fire
nickasaurusrex83
As does this trend for people taking other people's videos and inserting their own shit in it. The opinions expressed by matey are hardly a revelation. I assume some people just need another video to tell them what to think about another video?
Mojohandz
Hrumph
CouldntCakeLess
Ruling seconded.
RagingSlab
Validated. Kill it.
mksu
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WaterUnderTheRocketAppliances
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DeadeicPrints
No. I like them and yall just suck at reading.
Badgerbadgerson3
WHY??! This is the second time today I've had to downvote someone with fox in their name :(
DeadeicPrints
It's your own fault for having little baby whiner eyes lol.
Badgerbadgerson3
Dude, did something happen? You're usually really nice.
DeadeicPrints
Sorry that was meaner than I intended :(
I just really like them lol.
Einstein9073
Rude