Things are finally falling into place

Nov 11, 2016 1:10 AM

dizuckai

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2016 has been a year of hell. My dad passed away from lung cancer earlier this year, shortly after my dog died too. I lost my full time job and been working on side gigs this entire year. Barely getting by.

On top of all that my hearing aids broke so it made it more difficult to hear anyone and get a job.

This week alone. I got new hearing aids that help me hear a thousand times better and today I just started my first day at a new career.

I feel damn proud of myself for never giving up.

I just wanted to say that.

* Front Page update *

WOW! I woke up this morning to this post on the front page! thank you for the words of encouragement and remember that even tho 2016 sucks, it's not over! and to just keep on moving! <3 <3 <3

Thought this would be about the election, pleasantly surprised

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My dad was diagnosed this year with lung cancer and bone cancer. You're incredibly strong, hang in there! You're not alone!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Here's hoping this comment isn't buried in amongst the other shit... But good on you. I don't know you yet somehow I feel such pride :)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

congrats, OP.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This is one post that brightened up my day. Thanks @OP. Never give up!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm right here OP. If u ever need help lemme know.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I know what is like losing someone you love (coincidentally, my father). My best wishes for you and keep holding on!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Plus the election is over!

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

That it is!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You got thru 2016, you are a fucking warrior. Never forget that

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My dad had a heart attack a few months ago, driving to the hospital i was physically shaking. I can't imagine. Sorry for your loss @op.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Interesting contrast between your user name and your sentiments.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Here's to 2017.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm proud of you too. It's not over yet. Keep on keepin on

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I just got my hearing aids fixed, but my range is so fucked it hardly matters anyway. I wish you the best!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Aw man :/ I hope they help a little

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I didn't know your father but as one myself I'm sure he'd have been incredibly proud of you - with love from other side of the world

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'll get you your next hearing aids. I got spares too.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry 2016 was such a bad year! I'm glad you did not give up!! Make 2017 YOUR year!!! :)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fate said to the warrior, "you can't handle the storm." The warrior replied, "I am the storm."

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

@op I hope you find everything you are looking for. You deserve it.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Congrats on the new hearing aids. I know the feeling when they break. I'm getting mine on Monday. Hope 2017 brings better things for you!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

In one week I will have lost my father to cancer one year ago. Keep your head up. You'll never be able to erase the pain but it gets easier.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Never Give Up @OP

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Thank you! There were times where I really wanted to but I just kept going

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

NEVER SURRENDER!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Wow! Who are you? I am deaf- wear a cochlear implant - my father passed in Jan 2016 and my hearing dog died this Easter

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You know what's weird? That's the same exact times that happened to me too. My dad passed away in the end of January and my dog in Easter

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Didn't mention the election - you get an upvote. Also, congrats, and I hope things keep improving for you.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Maybe @OP hadn't heard

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Damn, and I had to open my big mouth.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

With all due respect "fuck cancer" 2016 hard for my daughter she has cancer.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fuck cancer indeed! Im sorry to hear, I have hope she'll get through this <3

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

My father was also lost to cancer this year. To a better year my friend. Chin up in 2017.

9 years ago | Likes 54 Dislikes 0

Fuck. I am so sorry for your guys losses! My old man is about to go get his check up to see if the pills quit working or are still working.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my father back in 2007. If you want someone to talk to, I'm here.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Best of luck @op! Glad to see things are looking up! What's the new career?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Thanks! It's an e-commerce manager ^_^

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Awesome! Best of luck!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's messed up we live in a world where people have to pay for hearing aids. I'm glad that things are getting better for you!

9 years ago | Likes 64 Dislikes 6

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9 years ago (deleted Jan 31, 2017 6:31 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Hearing aids can go from $2,500 - $6,000 each :/ out of pocket

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

*country, please.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It is :/

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

Yep. My hearing aids are well past their expiration date (over 10 years old), but I can't afford it. They keep making a static noise =(

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Try to look into the local vocational rehab, since I was unemployed, they helped me get new hearing aids and also helped me get a job

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We don't live in a world where people have to pay for hearing aids. Sadly, though, there is a specific fucked up country where this is true.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sshhhh... the Americans are a little sensitive ar the moment due to the elections and shit. Show some decency.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You are right. I'm deeply sorry. I love your burgers, guys. Best in the damn world.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This. My boss has two cochlear implants and she said the surgeries were cheaper than hearing aids.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

As I'm literally deaf without hearing aids, IMO this is fucked up. That said, I'm lucky, living in a country where the state pays for mine.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hang on there @OP and the rest of you (@TheWittierRape and others). Hope it will get better for you!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Healthcare in America is a joke if you're poor. Drug companies can and will charge thousands of dollars for life-saving medicine/treatments.

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 2

I live in a country where basically all healthcare is free, but not hearing aids. Who knows why.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Did you just assume op was American?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

There are other English speaking countries with healthcare as bad as what they're describing?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Did you just assume America was the only English speaking country with bad health care?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Did you just assume that I just assumed that America is the only English speaking country with bad health care?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Hope 2017 is better for you

9 years ago | Likes 340 Dislikes 1

You go @OP! Well done.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I hope we get to 2017

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Nah even better...hope @OP he has a better December '16! :D

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If we live to see it

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hope 2017 is better for everyone!

9 years ago | Likes 117 Dislikes 0

Honestly, I don't anyone who can say they had a truly good year in 2016.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Agreed!

9 years ago | Likes 49 Dislikes 0

Sorry if you hadn't heard the news, but Trump won the election and will take office in 2017...

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 8

No way didn't know that!

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

and leonard cohen passed away..

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0