Be kind to yourself.

May 12, 2025 9:16 PM

gentlemanmouser

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I relate to my cat very much.

It’s the only thing I’m good at.

I think we could be best friends if you had caterpillars in your hair.

What is this thing called “re-lax-ing”?

This duck is my hero.

And scream!

Everyone should have adjectives.

My pain is in my shoulders but I get it. Just got my shots though so it’s not feeling too bad today.

I wanna be this cat.

50%?

Silly cats inject a modicum of sanity into my life.

I like this.

Me after a long day.

He’s heading in your direction right now.

I have to remind myself of this all the time.

Live in your own world.

Cat tax.

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#3 a moth divebombed my hair as I was browsing my phone in bed last night. Tried to remove it and it got stuck, deeper. Wasn’t a caterpillar anymore, but it’s the closest I’ve got.

Probably wrecked its wings pretty badly, considering how moth wings are composed.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

#15 Unless you’re at a barbecue buffet, like I was this weekend 🤤

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

#8 That's a 100% me

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

#1 but give them a (logical) REASON why something should be so, and they'll just self-regulate until the reason no longer applies. So much easier, unless being in control is more important to you than actually getting things done.

10 months ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

#3 Does finding a dried violet I put in my hair a week ago count?

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

#4 Baby steps...

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

#7 when you used to think typing like this was people saving time on phone keyboards but now you think they're probably just illiterate.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

#5 Dancing duck sauce. https://youtu.be/anW4OZ5VnZ8

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

#10 You need more voltage for overclocking your CPU like that.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That’s where the chocolate wafer cookies dipped in chocolate pudding comes in.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

#10 "There's no way you're autistic!" = I hate autistic people but I really want to fxck you

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I have double hulls. So if I hit an iceberg, the water stays out. In case of emergency, I also have high volume bilge pumps, and A life boat as big as my original ship.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Be prepared!

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

#4 what is the difference? Maybe im missing something.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The exisrential dread….

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

#10 The other night I was at dinner with coworkers and running EnsureNobodyFeelsLeftOut.exe the whole time. "X isn't interested in this topic, it's rude if I realize that and don't try to fix it but also rude if I disrupt J & S, who ARE engaged in this conversation. I don't want to invalidate them, so what do I say that can gently transition us to a new topic without anyone realizing that's what I'm doing?" Calculating every word, analyzing every reaction. Masking is exhausting.

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

#1 I had a small rebellion about wearing hats in school. I thought it was an absurd rule.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Team Hat!

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Dunno where you are but in the US it's a carryover from a military etiquette rule about not wearing "cover" (hats/helmets) when indoors. Because male military service was until quite recently nearly universal, it made a bit of sense to inculcate those habits early. I'm not sure why the military rule exists, probably just traditional.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

#6 You don't have to be a goat. This is a toddler. At least, it is my toddler currently.

10 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I just got head butted by a toddler yesterday. "I'm a panny!" "Oh, you're a panda?!" **WAM**
Parents: "He meant Pachycephalosaurus."

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Either way, it's called being a kid.

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I love that!

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

#10 we autists pick this up usually by default. Info dumping about dinosaurs to some other kids in class that prompt strange looks from them. Odd behaviour getting negative reactions, questions that are met with "it just is". NormalHumanBehaviour.exe is v156.3 and my specs struggle to run it these days

10 months ago | Likes 51 Dislikes 0

This is why I'm not sure I genuinely don't find interest in things, or if it was just beaten out of me

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Also the constant anxiety of wondering if something you do/say is acceptable in public or around others, especially if the group you're in is also neuro-spicy and aren't following societal norms

10 months ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I have a bit of a cheat on. Because I'm large and appear intimidating(6'3 will do that to people)absolutely no one messes with me, so I can continue on existing whenever I have to go out in the public. Online I can be my goober self with the few friends that I trust.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I learned to thoroughly enjoy shock humor. I call this side of me, my Imp. Doing what they didn't expect became fun.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I totally respect your Imp.

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Jhonen Vasquez (The Invader Zim fella) did a bit in one of his comics or a post or something about how we all have a goblin and how important it is to feed the goblin from time to time. Some goblins like shock humor, some like absurd splatter horror but regardless - they all need to be fed and in return they leave you alone.

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Man... I broke a couple of months ago, and I don't know if I can ever start that fucking executable up ever again.

10 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

The older I get the less interested I am in running the latest version or at all...

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Whenever I start Adobe Eyecontact the fans make a high-pitched whistling noise.

10 months ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

I put a lot of effort into hacking and optimising eye contact and it turns out the results were all ... unsettling (unflinching staring is bad apparently, staring at their general face is too, watching their mouth - total no-no), so I gave up and adopted an air of appearing as if I were plucking divine truth from the air which, as it turns out, is also, apparently, unsettling but they seem to respect it.

10 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It has a lot of bugs. As does my audio driver, everything is just so loud! But then again, all my sensory drivers are like that.

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My taste and smell drivers got knocked out during Covid. But oh man are my Audio Drivers operating at 150% capability. The buzz of lights are my favorite lol

10 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oh you know what I absolutely love at 3am? Being able to hear myself blink. SUPER relaxing.

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My elder son and I are both thoroughly on the spectrum and share a fair bit of common sensory language and my least favourite of all is when outside is a bit too 60FPS 4K resolution with HDRI. It tends to happen to both of us at the same time which makes me a little suspicious of the allegedly subjective nature of perception and observation.

10 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I use some darker shaders to counter-balance the brightness and noise-canceling headphones for the background noise. I notice quite a difference in my mood, energy, and lack of headaches because of that. But it will cause people to complain about coming off as anti-social. Well, I'd rather get a headache from their complaints than from the sun.

10 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0