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I'm so sick and tired of people complaining to me about petty things. I have a coworker who will start crying if something doesn't go their way. Then I have to consul her or else we get no work done. It is bullshit and tiring, and if I don't consul her then I am being insensitive. If I am insensitive then I could get in trouble with the boss. Seriously, it is not my fault her personal life is crap. She needs to leave it at home and do the fucking work.
Sorry needed to vent. Move along now, nothing to see here.
jakunen
I often hear a coworker crying in the next cube. I never ask what is wrong, because she slacks off all the time and it irritates me.
DavyDavyDave
Quit being an over sensitive little bitch.
y0usurname
No console, PC master race.
SpoilerAlertClarkisSuperman
Emotionally unstable people tend to control others' behavior.
rncd89
As an insensitive prick I agree. Although I'm sure there's some middle ground to be found.
hardytardigrade
It's "console", and unless you are her supervisor I don't think you have to do shit.
mrwizeass
That's when you just own it and say "yeah I am being insensitive. Because I don't fucking care about your personal problems!"
vindik8or
I don't think @OP has ever really been bullied, the gigantic faggot.
wingnutie
I believe the word you're looking for is "manipulative"
JohnWickdidnothingwrong
Nobody cares.
Muchbeefsodinner
Umm. Irony?
srslydude
*console.
ShamnusMcfee
OP is a bully
softballguy
Speaking of sensitive people....
HarryDresdenIsMySpiritAnimal
My mother does this intentionally when she feels like she isn't getting enough attention. I've tried so hard to get her out of my life...
okayyeahigetit
UNPOPULAR OPINION: I agree with OP.
Kiore
It is entirely possible to empathize with people going through difficult times/being self-absorbed without making yourself 'responsible'.
KuuroiYuki
I think OP is more angry about having her time being wasted and coworker not trying to fix things
HorriblePHD
Thats a bit difference between being sensative and being a little bitch, just sayin
dEdGrimley
That's not how bullying works.
thatoneguywhoyouthoughtwasryanrenaldssexclamation
Not technically, no. But kinda.
hotdogtime
If that coworker insist to their boss that he/she wasn't nice when they were having a hard time then yeah it can be. If it happens often.
EveryonesRaping
"crybullies" are a fucking thing nowadays. hypersensitive politically correct mafia forcing people to bend to them....
marcusosappus
It's called crybullying.
Lastxittoforever
I really hate people like OP. Who knows the shit that girl has had to go through in life that made her the way she is.
Tequilaislife
I have a friend who complains about this kind of thing. He complains about a lot of things.
KuuroiYuki
Have you tried talking them into being less sensitive?
Tequilaislife
I told him to stop bullying me
frjackhackett
why should she be more considerate of your feelings than you are of hers?
yourewastingyourlife
amen
intris
So do we need to be sensitive to you, @OP? Or can we just tell you to man up and deal with it?
rncd89
Suck a dick @OP
okayyeahigetit
I'm gonna guess OP has heard that a couple times before and has grown into a person that is okay with it.
johnson21
I'm gonna guess that OP is a wizard that breeds a forbidden type of dragons
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Callumy
People don't seem to like your opinion but it's the proper way to do stuff, personal life and work should be separate. +1 to all yo comments
intris
What makes you think that @OP's coworker wasn't just "voicing frustrations"? Life's hard on everyone.
EllEzDee
Look at this here bitch bitching because someone else got called a bitch. Stop being such a bitch and man the fuck up.
Dragongirl7256
The problem is, when something severely stresses me, I HAVE to cry. Not crying is just not an option; it is a forced 1/?
Dragongirl7256
Reaction that I absolutely hate. I don't expect you to console me; but let me get it out, calm down and 2/?
Dragongirl7256
Do NOT get mad at me for something I can not stop. I hate the fact I cry under massive stress. I would 3/?
Dragongirl7256
Stop if I could, and if by some miracle I do hold it in I am jittery and anxious until I do. Crying is a rapid and relatively 4/?
Dragongirl7256
Healthy outlet for stress. Sources: http://www.drjudithorloff.com/Free-Articles/The-Health-Benefits-of-Tears_copy.htm 5/?
Dragongirl7256
http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-">aring-up">http://www.m.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/features/why-we-cry-the-truth-about-tearing-up https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crying 6/6
temujin9
"They're bullying me with their feeeeeeelings."
JokeDudeR
Source on this please
JokeDudeR
I know that's Michael k white, just need the show
temujin9
The Wire. Absolutely worth a watch: his character, Omar, is my favorite.
shootsewvintage
I had to drop a friend who was like that. It was too draining after a while and every time I got a text I would just groan. Not healthy.
KuuroiYuki
Why not scold harshly? To drop downright might just make them even worse
shootsewvintage
I tried everything under the rainbow for three years and it always got deflected, warped, denied, etc.. It got pretty toxic.
rostit
OP , your new name is kettle. Kettle meet pot. pot meet kettle. Youre a cockwarmer OP.
Lionskull
that would require @OP to be a warm person. Which he just proved to be not true.
KuuroiYuki
OP might be a warm person but just sick of it after so long, you know.
rostit
then OP can be an adult and not pay attention or change the dynamic. Its not that difficult and its much more rewarding.
2shy4you
Well. This post is a tad ironic.
peoplepersonplacespeople
Not ironic if you read the title.
spookyu
What is ironic is this makes it to the FP (popular opinion) but top comments are all scathing. Bunch of self loathing idiots myself included
ShamnusMcfee
like a fork when you need a spoon
hotdogtime
I feel like there's a teaching Mrs tingle moment here
MrYoop
graehall
Fucking Alanis, Jagged Little Pill was a monster album. It was something like 6 of the tracks off it became smash singles, including Ironic.
itmightbeamemorableday
In fairness, I up voted the post and this reply.
App1eJu1ce
Hardly ironic at all: OP isnt using emotional sensitivity for attention; he/she is just expressing frustration about people who do so.
temujin9
FluffyKittyLover
Console him otherwise we won't get any cat pics on imgur.
mikeatike
http://pghsportsinitiative.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/8703874523_953984f772_b.jpg
SwitchPusher
Yeah! Throw a xbox at his face so we can get some cats!
klucky
Halo there mate! Bioshock you out of that slump!
gravyandfries
This isnt irony.... you need a dictionary. OP is literally discussing his opinion of sensitive people and voicing frustration. 1/2
whatwhuuuut
It is irony. He's bitching about someone bitching. Can you not see this?
bluedragon878
It's would be hypocrisy rather than irony
mineovermatter
No, he's frustrated by someone using controlling behavior. No irony.
whatwhuuuut
You're right. I actually agree with OP - she's kind of taking him hostage emotionally. I do see a wee bit of irony though. Just saying...
gravyandfries
Irony would be OP saying these things, and then ending up being a sensitive little bitch. 2/2
2shy4you
Yup which is why this is ironic.
bluedragon878
Not irony. It would be hypocrisy
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2shy4you
http://i3.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/newsfeed/000/661/900/bf5.gif
gravyandfries
No, because discussing a topic of frustration doesnt make you sensitive or a little bitch...
2shy4you
Isn't it nice for us to have opinions?
Callumy
Its not ironic since OP isn't being a little bitch about it. They're just saying they are frustrated by this emotional cunt being sensitive.
2shy4you