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My baby is about the size of a lime.
Today I booked an appointment for an abortion.
I know that it's the right thing to do, I know that I need to be healthier (I have an autoimmune disease that I need to get under control), I know I need to be more financially stable.
I know all of this, but I feel awful.
I keep thinking that this little, innocent life is gonna be ripped out of me and thrown away like some piece of garbage. I'm worried that he'll feel pain.
I'm worried that once it's done, I'll just want my baby lime back.
It's 23.00 and I'm crying in bed thinking about all this, my partner is fast asleep next to me and I have no one else I can talk to.
choicebutts2
You're doing the right thing.
JhasmyneBlocker
You have my support OP , sending positive vibes your way
RebelDreamer
I feel you will make the right decision. Even if its a heartbreaking one, I know you'll make it through.
rockjock29
My wife has one the size of a jalapeño at the moment.
Iggister
Knowing that this is best for you and your fetus will help give you relief after. You are doing what's right. Stay strong Op
nervousbitch
You've got this, OP. Stay strong.
littlemorte
If it makes you feel better, it won't feel a thing.
PrinceSamaSanChanKun
Dont be a bitch, wake him up and talk to him
Regdor
Rude much
TheMailMan
I know some autoimmune diseases can worsen terribly with pregnancy, and you are making the choice that you feel is best. I'm sending hugs<3
AbyssusPuella
I'm found I'm pregnant last week with my first, you're not a bad person for wanting whats best for you at moment, good luck OP
13Alpha
Wake their ass up and talk to them. Even if not their kid, it is still part of their life.
PrinceSamaSanChanKun
God dammit, i get hate cuz mine is rude, girl damn, yours still has the same principle,
zechor
Adoption is always an option. However, I hope that whatever you decide you find love and support.
ShitStorm12358
You're doing what's right for you. It's perfectly fine to have an abortion especially if you aren't financially or mentally ready.
SparkyDave
I hope you got some sleep. O and wake him up and share your tears
HumorLeech
If it helps you to be at ease. Unlikely it would feel pain. : http://www.prochoiceactionnetwork-canada.org/articles/fetal-pain.shtml
HumorLeech
Sometimes, I find that a little scientific backing can help life make a lot more sense. Good job for being responsible. You got this.
RedneckYokelFromBeyondTheStars
You are not alone OP, I went through it last spring. It was very sad, but I don't regret it. I became a member of a group on fb to help 1/2
RedneckYokelFromBeyondTheStars
Cope with my feelings afterwards, and it helped me out soooo so much. Your lime will never be apart from you. ❤️
Schooner8642
Financially Stable...freaking ridiculous excuse!!!
Blaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Why? It is so unfair when children have to bear the weight of their parents poverty.
CrowdedElevatorsSmellDifferentToMidgets
My autoimmune disease has stopped me from working sometimes and cost me a lot of money. So yeah, I want to be in a better place for a child.
TinyHusband
Did you intentionally ignore the part when she said she has a auto immune disease? A child could create complications to her condition
iamwaitingdeary
I have an autoimmune disease as well, and what you are going through is my biggest fear. I want a baby so bad. I am so so sorry.
iamwaitingdeary
But at this time health & financial stability are more important, because if you can't take care of yourself, how can you for a baby? Its ok
AbstractSquid
It will be okay. There's no evidence right now to suggest at this early that little lime feels pain, or truly much of anything. If this is
AbstractSquid
The choice you feel is right for you right now then it is the right choice. It may be on your mind for a long time but eventually it will
AbstractSquid
Feel okay. Don't let anyone guilt you. Especially if your life is in danger to carry full term, or the baby would have been endangered
iboopthesnoot
should've worn protection instead of being irresponsible. just sayin
sexyfuk
You are very brave.
cuntimus
I hope everything goes smooth and lime baby feels nothing
izzitekk
You make the decision that's best for you, but coming from someone that had one, it still haunts me fifteen years later... It stays with you
izzitekk
But I had made the best decision for my life and his.. But I still have all those "what ifs"... Just be prepared to have spiritual pain too
IDontPostForYourEnjoyment
You have a autoimmune diseases, you and/or the baby would be greatly affected by this, and by getting the abortion you are caring for
IDontPostForYourEnjoyment
You and the child. Just stay strong wake the SO next to you even for just a hug. You need it.
MangOhMang
I believe you should carry the baby, my reasoning is too long winded to explain on imgur, but the best gift you can give sometime, is life.
TinyHusband
Pregnancy might compromise the mothers health. It is a sad thing but there is enough human life that has no stability. We all need to take
TinyHusband
Responsibility for our decisions and be conscious that life is not so simple to give and even more to take away
MangOhMang
OP hasn't said anything about her own health, and besides, the life of her child is more valuable than what little harm might come to her,
MangOhMang
Although, if he life is at risk I would say she should try to find some way to ensure the baby's life without compromising her own, whatever
MangOhMang
That might be