Sep 15, 2022 12:45 AM
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BastardMan1977
Me when I get to work
DrDred
Bookstores are about the only place I don't say this at.
chancellordemario
Literally everywhere I go.
Skizzlesnap
That’s what growing up is all about. Fuck this place. I want to go home.
victalany
Unless it is a Library or a botanical garden.
HCBailly
JustAnotherCynicToo
I am invited to one social gathering a year, and I am okay with that.
pauliUpvoteModel
Maybe you were at the wrong places all along. That background bar whatever looks awful.
Sauroctonus
The problem is the place focuses on drink when it should focus on food.
OntDave
This is why I don't go anywhere in the first place.
brianthefly
I hate going out, but i make myself go out occasionally only to feel the satisfaction of returning home.
johnnyhasadhd
But if you don't go anywhere you might spend your life not knowing you didnt want to be there.
MizWeirdo
PastaLaPizzaBaby
Yeah. But then l feel the same home…
METROlD
JOMO- the joy of missing out.
SpaceHaggis
Its about the journey
JohnPtempkinReborn
Well I got news for you bub, because I didn't much like the traffic or finding parking either, so the journey can bugger off too
Absent
The journey back home?
Wevebeentryingtoreachyouaboutyourextendedwarranty
Why are we like this. I mean I totally get it, but still.
PolyTheWicked
Because we *want* to be social people who go out and have fun, but we also have hang-ups and anxiety.
pleaseconsiderthatImightbejoking
the fantasy of socialization is better then the reality.
FuryM0nk
No, the anxiety associated with first entering a place can be very hard to overcome, and feeling comfortable takes time, so reply is to bail
Typically the social anxiety. Many people, loud noises, bright colors. Even a place you’ve been before has new people, and alter-attitudes.
I will have to agree that there is a bit of a romanticization of these things in the mind as well. We imagine it better than it be, always.
cheesedogs
Not to mention everything you do in public costs money. Some places it's wayyy too much
BastardMan1977
Me when I get to work
DrDred
Bookstores are about the only place I don't say this at.
chancellordemario
Literally everywhere I go.
Skizzlesnap
That’s what growing up is all about. Fuck this place. I want to go home.
victalany
Unless it is a Library or a botanical garden.
HCBailly
JustAnotherCynicToo
I am invited to one social gathering a year, and I am okay with that.
pauliUpvoteModel
Maybe you were at the wrong places all along. That background bar whatever looks awful.
Sauroctonus
The problem is the place focuses on drink when it should focus on food.
OntDave
This is why I don't go anywhere in the first place.
brianthefly
I hate going out, but i make myself go out occasionally only to feel the satisfaction of returning home.
johnnyhasadhd
But if you don't go anywhere you might spend your life not knowing you didnt want to be there.
MizWeirdo
PastaLaPizzaBaby
Yeah. But then l feel the same home…
METROlD
JOMO- the joy of missing out.
SpaceHaggis
Its about the journey
JohnPtempkinReborn
Well I got news for you bub, because I didn't much like the traffic or finding parking either, so the journey can bugger off too
Absent
The journey back home?
Wevebeentryingtoreachyouaboutyourextendedwarranty
Why are we like this. I mean I totally get it, but still.
PolyTheWicked
Because we *want* to be social people who go out and have fun, but we also have hang-ups and anxiety.
pleaseconsiderthatImightbejoking
the fantasy of socialization is better then the reality.
FuryM0nk
No, the anxiety associated with first entering a place can be very hard to overcome, and feeling comfortable takes time, so reply is to bail
FuryM0nk
Typically the social anxiety. Many people, loud noises, bright colors. Even a place you’ve been before has new people, and alter-attitudes.
FuryM0nk
I will have to agree that there is a bit of a romanticization of these things in the mind as well. We imagine it better than it be, always.
PolyTheWicked
cheesedogs
Not to mention everything you do in public costs money. Some places it's wayyy too much