I lost a friend today.

Wallaceman105

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Just found out that I lost a very good friend today.
It's late and I don't have anyone to talk to until tomorrow, so I'm throwing this into the air here.
2 years back, I got frustrated with a bus stranding me in my town.
I looked at the local paper and saw a story about transit issues, contacted the reporter, and that kicked off a special issue looking into all the problems.
That reporter introduced me to J, a former marine and avid cyclist who was deeply involved in the community and advocacy for all kinds of these issues.
Over the last 2 years, with plenty of guidance from J, I've gotten to know so many incredible people and become active in advocacy myself.
I just had lunch with him Friday, his life has been troubled for a while, and while I don't know the details of his passing, I fear the worst.
Value and treasure those in your life, you never know how long you have.

eisenhornuk

I'm very sorry to hear that.

1 year ago |

hoopsnek

Sorry for your loss

DutchBoeremeisie

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We take life for granted, even when we are reminded at times like these that it's short and precious. From what you wrote, I think J lived a very full life and certainly made a big impact on the lives he touched. I hope you can take some solace in knowing how much of the good he has done is still present in the world around you.

DutchCraft2050

This.

I understand you "fearing the worst" concerning his passing, even though it doesn't detract from his life.

I am sorry for your loss and wish you strength during your grief.

Thank you. J made an impact with his life, and everyone who knew him is better for knowing him. We're still all in shock, it's hard to fully take in.

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