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So I've been seeing this girl for about 2 months. We don't call each other boyfriend/girlfriend and it was never explicitly stated, but we've been seeing each other regularly for these 2 months, and I feel a pretty good connection with this girl. Now it's worthy of note that I haven't been in a relationship that's lasted for more than a few months. Idk if I'm fucked or whatever but that's beside the point. We got to talking about our sexual history and I asked if she had been with anyone else since we started talking. She said she slept with an old fling when she went back home 2 weeks ago. She says she hasn't planned on it, it just kinda happened and that she felt bad afterwards. Now it kinda irks me, because if it was right after we started talking and still didn't know each other I wouldn't be that mad, but this was a few weeks ago. Maybe I'm just not mad yet or it just hasn't set in. Even now I'm not that upset, just kinda confused; I don't know how I feel about it. I guess I'm just venting to a website based on made-up points to express my confusion. Since we never explicitly said we were exclusive, maybe it isn't cheating? What are your thoughts, imgur?
TL;DR- She slept with a former fling 2 weeks ago and we've been talking for 2 months. I'm not mad yet. Thoughts?
AndyBlacksmith
Can tell you after the first two sentences you weren't cheated on
lurkingwombat
You've been seeing her two months. Two. You barely know her.
MoldyMashedPotatoes
Cool story bro! She a hoe!
xninex
If you haven't had a talk about being exclusive then you are not exclusive
Dearmeat
Dude wtf is wrong with you? You guys were just talking
Catitapillar
If she didn't think she did something wrong, why did she feel bad?
CanoeArtist
This
SoThatsWhere
Cheating, not really. But if you two were sexually active before and after without her saying, then there's the risk of STIs. 1/2
SoThatsWhere
That part was reckless on her part, regardless of condom usage. But I think you're just upset about betrayed (unspoken) expectations.
HideoKojimaJr
Maybe I'm the weird one here but why the hell do people have to go on dates for months before it's considered official?
LiteCow
I think we would put a label on it when it felt natural to do so.
QueenAntifa
If you're already jealous then you don't deserve her
LiteCow
Not jealous, more nervous bc she is WAY out of my league. It's kinda awesome.
QueenAntifa
Does she even know that you like her or are you just in the friend zone?
LiteCow
I've eaten her asshole so yeah I'd say I'm not in the friend zone. Plus we talk about how we care about each other.
QueenAntifa
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LiteCow
It's possible. I prodded a bit further into that possibility in our convo, doesn't seem likely, but it could be true.
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LiteCow
Likely. Maybe I'm biased, but it seems like a moment of weakness more than "eh, im done with you."
LiteCow
Yeah but we've had sex many times since. And she's said and showed her enjoyment. Is it really possible that it's all lies? Doesn't seem
FineChizzles
I hate to say it but she sounds really easy. If you're cool with that then more power to you.