HoeBagSupreme
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So this is the first time I have ever asked anybody out. I like this guy, he is cute and funny. So I asked him if he'd like to go out sometime and he said.. well you saw.
Never going to ask anybody out again. :P
P.S- He didn't go out on a date with me.
mehlec
You should be more explicit and brief... Guys typically dont fully pay attention... If you drone on you lose us.
Nejar
Also depends on whether you're a guy or a girl.
evolutioninaction
Try again, explain it to him, men get asked out so rarely that when it happens we misunderstand..
arranrp
yeah that didn't mean he wasn't interested, just we've been conditioned to assume thats never going to happen to us
angelsichor
We have gone through so many years of believing that no girl would ever just fall into our lap that we need absolutely titanic hints.
Greymalum
He could just be stupid, it happens.
Ubiquitousdarkhumour
Don't get discouraged, he missed out! "If you ask 100 girls to fuck on garbage, 1 is gonna say yes" - saw that on the internet and love it
ParanoidWithGoodCause
@OP that wasn't a polite no he just completely misunderstood the question and probobly has no clue you were trying to date him
n6n43hix
Vykoz
Who else is coming? MY VAGINA!
Imadeanaccountsoicanbecool
I like your user name
HoeBagSupreme
Thank you. :P
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HoeBagSupreme
Yeah OP prolly just isn't that good of a catch. :/
degenerateace
I am sure the guy just didn't realize you were asking him out.
RWebb00000
date your dog. he will be better than any man.
HoeBagSupreme
Yes. I love my dog more than anything in the world. But she's female. And my parents wouldn't approve of us dating.
RWebb00000
( normal side)...(the line) ..... (me) yeah, but that tongue. ;) but seriously, take her out. find dog friendly places. she will find
RWebb00000
you a good dog loving guy. then ask him to join you. ;)
HeyOP
Are you a dude asking another dude out? Any chance he's straight? You consider maybe figuring out if said dude likes your gender beforehand?
HoeBagSupreme
Nope, I am a girl. And he is very straight.
HeyOP
1) Well then see the multitude of other responses. He probably had no idea you were asking him out. We're not used to it. Don't get me wrong
HeyOP
2) he might not be interested as well, I don't know. As an aside, keep that feeling of rejection in mind the next time someone asks you.
ComradeCorgi
See, as a fellow man, i have to say something: We require a giant runway of hints before we ever get the idea in the first place
BroDameron
"You wanna go out sometime?" vs "You wanna hangout sometime?"
ItWasMeIWasTheTurkeyAllAlong
ComradeCorgi
This has become a small thread of lonely people, please send stable relationship
RackhamTheRed
giant. like in "big red flashing letters on a billboard the size of a building" hint
pachyderm
this ^
jeroenemans
Try to Mumble the question while holding his penis in your mouth
HoeBagSupreme
His penis was so small, I didn't really need to mumble.
bnuihj
It would work.
kurotan
Even then I still wouldn't believe a girl actually wants to go out with me. Skip the hints, go straight to convoncoing me it's not a joke.
angelsichor
This
MemeSins
"I was thinking just the two of us, like a date" he says no, you move on and ask somebody else down the line. Giving up after one attempt >
MemeSins
goes south makes you a coward and a weakling. Pull yourself up by the bootstraps and get back out there.
HoeBagSupreme
Well thank you. I will try. It just takes me a long time to get over people. :P
MemeSins
Understandable, but it should take you longer to get that invested in people. If you're that attached before you even ask, you're setting >
MemeSins
yourself up for misery.