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GreenOnions3
Classic case of projection
churlee
cleverbeans
When people think like this they've either been cheated on recently or they have trouble keeping it in their pants themselves.
Probablynottotallynaked
" You're not allowed to... "
candar
As the last 5 years of politics have shown, you can often suss out the crimes of others by their on stated fears
Kickback
men and women can't be friends
Deswran
Friendly reminder: before you started fucking her you were just a friend. Always leave the ones that tell you who you can and can't see
Slyons875
Been cheated on whole relationship with his female friends I thought they were mine to, 18 weeks pregnant currently. I trusted him.. stupid
mackenziewalters
My ex had a guy friend and she told me not to worry about him that she doesn't like him and they were flirting for months and she said...
mackenziewalters
That she didn't know they were flirting then she left me for him
rubbarz
Pretty much how it goes 9/10 times. Dont have girls as friend but likes guys more because "its less drama"
PocketsYo
Never understood this logic. Men are MORE drama IMO. I happen to have more in common with men (gaming) than women (what even is makeup)
rubbarz
If you are in a relationship it will cause more drama having guy friends. Not with the friends but with who youre in a relationship with.
iH8myPP
Thieves are always worried of getting robbed. Those who are afraid you'll cheat on them, usually do so because they would cheat on you.
ABillionDucks
Oh, so that's why I'm worried that everyone is masturbating to me.
FunkyCake
Or because they've been cheated on several times in the past and it's hard to trust when theyve grown fearful of that trust being broken 1.2
FunkyCake
Not that this particular 'reason' for worrying would ever justify the behavior of girl in post. Thats just wrong. 2.2
SeenTheWolf
Fuck him and make her watch.
oddganic
Toxic
TheSevvy
Been there, dealt with that. There's a reason I've been single for the last 5 years.
grantavius
Why the hell would you date someone wearing a Scumbag Steve hat? You should have known better.
MotherRingo
Well, she knew that's not how it works. Unless he's gay, from childhood, or mutual friend, any a guy "friend" is trying to fuck.
CPatricoo
YOU SAID HES JUST A FRIEND. YOU SAID HES JUST A FRIEND AAAAAAHHHHH
phunkshun
OH BABY YOU!!! YOU GOT WHAT I NEEEEE-EEEED!
Pangs
CPatricoo
My man
PaulQueue
Lol whenever someone brings up fears like this it is because they fear themselves doing the same. When people speak they speak about thmslvs
phukerstone
Bitches, amiright? *sobs with loneliness*
subatomicparticle
*sigh* yes. Your fucking correct
UnforsakenClamtrap
Don't cry. Just sort out those 99 problems
GreatestPossibleBeing
You are going to be okay. The bitches can't hurt you anymore... anymore.
phukerstone
i'm okay... i'm okay. i'll be okay...
SunBrolem
Is it wrong that I think the chick in this meme is super hot
GilaMonsieur
No. For all we know she's a very nice lady and doesn't really act like the meme.
HazerWanKenobi
Its one of the biggest signs they are cheating on you. Learned that first hand, hang in there op.
icwatududther
She's just a feminist expressing her sexuality! Don't oppress her!
ballsmcnadfrop
Did she go outside of the house dressed like that?
SpitefulRed
My ex slept with every one of his chick friends. I feel I was justified when I told him he wasn't allowed to spend time in private with them
Tamzzzzzz
My bf never had to worry about my guy friends...all of them are gay
PocketsYo
"I'm gay, let me see your tits"
FlappinBurgers
.... Or are they....?
ClumsyBagOfSaltWater
Ah to be young...
Lezio
Oldies do that as well, come on.
xmaneds
...and to feel love's keen sting." -- Dumbledore, Half Blood Prince
Expectopatronshots
Define young, my ex pulled that in her 20s
ChronicD
20s is fairly young. On the other hand, people are people regardless of age. Some of them are just shitty.
MotherRingo
That is young.
MyOtherAcctIsBanned
That's young
Expectopatronshots
Fair enough
Senikko
I just wanted to let you know that I love your name, even if I dislike patron :)
Expectopatronshots
Thanks!
SiRoj90
Slutty is as slutty does.
krapmyself
Here's a pro tip for the young'uns here on imgur: if your bf/gf is wildly paranoid about you cheating on them without cause or reason>>>
WTFIJustRead
Where were you when I was 15 5 years ago mate?
krapmyself
Its because they've already cheated on you and the reason they act so jealous and controlling.
Jesusdo
My neighbor's gf blamed him of cheating on her. He didn't, then it was revealed that she in fact cheated on him. He broke up with her.
BillyMaysHereWithOxiClean
Even if they haven't cheated, someone dictating who you can and can't spend your own time with isn't exactly a good person to be around.
DotSlashNatalie
Especially if they kick you off Xbox to play their game. That is a huge red flag.
BlueRonin
Hi im 16 and i get jealous of my gf sometimes but im getting better at controlling it and i dont tell her not to hang out with others, 1/2
UsuallySpecial
Normal for teenage - don't beat yourself up about it, as long as it doesn't make you behave like a twat :)
BlueRonin
But I still get jealous but i keep it to myself and ive never cheated/will cheat bc i love her, i just hate that I have these feelings :/
BadReactionToSimochi
Trust. Trust can be a fake it 'til you make it thing sometimes. Just tell yourself "nah she wouldn't" over and over.
NEINTOES
And remember kids.. your relationships at 16 will almost never last ;D
MasterGamer2476
Not always true, my parents met when they were 14 and my dads grandparents met when they were 9
JeSuisIvre
Or they've been cheated on
HumansArePrettyNeat
I think you get more no bullshit, "If you cheat on me I'll cut yer balls off" once, strongly. Than this paranoid crap. I'm with OCommenter
HumansArePrettyNeat
If they do this they've either cheated on you or are trying to justify doing it or having the urges.
subatomicparticle
...and the truth, it hurts
DarthFutuza
officerofthelol
I lived that relationship. It's rough. Just get out when it starts getting so controlling because it's just going to get worse and end bad.
AZDan2012
Those who are extremely jealous can't trust themselves. They know what they're capable of doing therefore others must be as capable
legacyweaver
1) Yeah, no, there is no truth to this. I'm extremely jealous and I've never cheated. It's literally built into our DNA to perceive threats
DickCheneytheDefilerBanned
Which I'd why I regularly beat the jealousy out of my wife
idotherock
Totally. I've experienced this a few too many times.
MrMugg
There is the saying "takes one to know one" and it tends to be true more times than not.
davehaze
One cannot trust an individual more than they are aware they deserve to be trusted by said individual
WTFIJustRead
We have a saying for this ''Person knows from himself/herself.''
Affray
I love it when random dudes try to flirt with my wife/check her out. I know she's solid and it makes me proud of my choice in forever friend
fluffycake25
My cousin was extremely jealous & possessive with 1 partner. And not jealous at all with the 2nd one. I think it depends on the partner too
Sparru
Was the 1st one "hotter" than the 2nd? I could imagine becoming jealous cause of low self-esteem and being afraid of them jumping ship 1/2
fluffycake25
Nope. Quite the contrary. But the second didn't love him as much as the first. He couldn't control her. She was confident.
Sparru
the moment they find someone more attractive than you since they are out of your league anyway. 2/2
ImScaredToUseMyRealNameHere
Unfortunately I am jealous, and in a happy marriage for 23 years now and would never ever cheat. Or even think about it. Rules have exeption
OfficialJoeBiden
I'm jealous as well and I'm pretty sure I ruin relationships due to my lack of trust in men.
swipeysnipiesbois
This is me, too. There are still good ones though. I have a wonderful guy who understands this about me & helps me. He's out there. :)
OfficialJoeBiden
Yeah. I just finished an argument with my boyfriend over the fact that he hasn't spoken to me in four weeks because he was too busy gaming.
legacyweaver
2) to what is 'ours'. Even if I totally trust my GF, I get jealous if she gives or receives too much attention from another guy. She's MINE.
WTFIJustRead
what is bullshit about this is Jealousy is something and fear of getting cheated on another. İts not rocket science.
itsalwaysalyssa
vegemitelover
Wow that sounds so possessive and creepy.
legacyweaver
Why do people take the most literal form of what I've said? She's mine. If your BF cheated would you be upset? YES, because he's YOURS. Duh?
legacyweaver
Wow you've never been in a relationship ever, thanks for your input from the peanut gallery.
vegemitelover
I've been in a relationship for a long time and I get jealous like you. But I never see my SO as mine - I don't treat him like property.
Dawnstempest
Yes, other people after all are not only property they are also to be treated as steaks and prizes to be won... Oh wait. No, no they aren't.
legacyweaver
And the prize for most literal interpretation of my words goes to....you. Clearly never been in a relationship, keep it up.
Dawnstempest
No, I have. I'm just not a psychopathic control freak unlike you.
legacyweaver
And you jump straight into thinking you know me from 140 characters. Stay classy Dawn.
CheermeupScotty
Valid point. Don't think it counts for everyone though. Being cheated on can/does tend to make people more jealous + cautious (insecure)..
nikseen
Indeed. It was difficult to trust again after getting cheated on.
PrincessThunderBallz
True. We don't want to blast people who've been through some shit. But they also need to realize this is not the person who hurt them and (1
PrincessThunderBallz
They need to be honest about their experiences and treat this new person with more trust and respect than that unless they show reason (2
PrincessThunderBallz
Not to be trusted. I was with someone who told me they were hurt too much and they gave up being nice or trusting and that is not cool to do
PocketsYo
Easier said than done. Deep seeded trust issues here, not with cheating, but lying. Left my ex of 10 years for current bf, have constant (1
krugle
Probably shouldn't date someone who dictates who you hang out with.
ThaFoeHammer
She's projecting
JKJM
First red flag right there.
JagdPanzer38T
better than no one, as long as you don't plan on marrying them.
IJustLikeToArgue
*whom
krugle
Don't be that guy.
jcraig919
My buddy learned that lesson the hard way. Married her and she cheated on him like 2 months in.
LiterallyYourMom
A lot of people date whoever pays attention to them despite treating them horribly because they think being single is the worst thing ever.
krugle
Agreed, though I stay single because I can't stay faithful and I know it isn't fair to whoever I'm with.
RelaxoChillaxo
Exactly.
SwarthyBastard
Even more so if it's a double standard and she's allowed to have male friends.
YoullHaveNothingAndLikeIt
Uh oh...
k1drue
Usually if a girl says you can't have female friends i suggest you fuck all of her female friends so that way she cant have any either
HisDudness
Now that's the type of revenge I can get on board with.
k1drue
Fair is fair. Equality!!!
ChaoticAtmosphere
http://imgur.com/9SoP35Y
darkoneko
yeeeup
rodland57
Speak for yourself dumbass. If your SOwants to hang out with someone you question, then they aren't worth being with in the first place
krugle
If you can't trust your SO you shouldn't be together. You don't need to trust other people with them, only what your SO would do.
rodland57
Not true Faggot. The decision to hang out with this person is a fault in and of itself
krugle
So you're response to a differing opinion is to try and insult, yeah I could see why you'd want to dictate rules to your SO.
MyLuggageAteMyHomework
No need to be rude.
ElMeanYo
Correct. But if you are in a relationship you should be considerate and not hang out with attractive members of the opposite sex.
Retromorphic
Probably.
yourmomisminenow
or don't date people that you know that will cheat on you
imgnoon
I mean it's fine if you don't have friends or hang out with people in the first place
CamoSpiderMan
I see comments like this on every post like this. Where y'all finding women who don't dictate who you hang out with? They don't exist man.
TheBearsMaiden
you need to get some better social circles, if all the women you know are like that.
somenerandom
Most women tend to have a different attitude depending on who they're with.If they feel they can pull shit and get away with it, they will.
somenerandom
The above most likely goes for both genders, but as a male, I have a wider perspective on women in relationships.
glittermcsparklepants
We totally exist.
PrincessThunderBallz
Yup
VegetaIsAPrisonBitch
What if the friend you don't want them hanging out with is the significant others ex?
mobileimgurlags
Then you have nothing to worry about cause they've already had sex so it's less likely they'll do it again
ichasesquirrels
Ex's honestly don't bring anything in your life but trouble with your current SO.
failphins2
It's situational. Lots of breakups end in continued friendships. Toxic breakups should be permanent.
NotSoSmartAlek
Err... I've known people who were genuinely good friends with their exes, no issues.
samjam10412
My boyfriend let me go meet up with an old ex that I still had some of his mother's stuff (long sad story). He trusted my judgement and me(1
samjam10412
And knew I would leave and call right away if anything for weird. It made me love him all the more and our relationship stronger. Having (2
samjam10412
Complete mutual trust is a beautiful thing and I feel so blessed and lucky to have someone I can share that with. Not trying to gloat here(3
samjam10412
Just making it known it is possible to have trust in not only your SO decisions, but also their judgement. I hope everyone can experience it
PrincessThunderBallz
Still friends with an ex, known eachother since i was 10. We talk very sporadically and rarely hang but my fiance is cool w/ it. 1/2
PrincessThunderBallz
He knows has nothing to worry about and he isn't an untrusting ass and honestly it made our relationship even better because of that. 2/2
samjam10412
Right there with ya girl. True trust in one another makes a happy relationship much easier to maintain. Congrats on getting engaged! :)
VegetaIsAPrisonBitch
Congrats on that but does it really make you an ass to be untrusting? Some people have reasons for having trust issues.
VictoriousSecrets
I disagree
wetfeet
Down vote into oblivion
stuartotaku
Ya why. If you can't trust the person to the point that YOU have to dictate who they can and cannot hang with....the relationship is broke..
FireLizzard
Why?
VictoriousSecrets
What if you have different views of the person, and you love the person you're with, and there is truly a reason to not want them too
Sanosky
If she makes me choose between her or my friends it's going to be my friends
ZebraMuffin
What if there isn't?
VictoriousSecrets
I am just stating a reason to support my side
FireLizzard
If someone is dictating, that relationship is not healthy. If we are dating and you think one of my friends is bad news, talk. (1/2)
kevlarburrito
That's exactly what they're saying..
FireLizzard
(2/2) If we're both reasonable people, after talking it out, we should be able to agree one way or the other, or find a compromise.