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Sorry for the formatting. I'm on mobile and am also unfamiliar with making these kinds of posts. I didn't want to put this on my main account because I'm a coward. I will be light on some details about myself for fear that someone I know might be able to recognize me. Also, there isn't anybody that knows about my "little" problem.
I've never been in a serious relationship, until a few months ago. I've known my gf for about a year and half, but we started dating in November. We got to know each other first. She's great and very understanding towards my inexperience. I'm pretty comfortable with the pace we've been going, and she has been very accommodating. My first kiss was actually with her (which she's aware of), though we've done nothing beyond that. She also knows I'm a virgin.
We've brought up the topic of sex a few times and I've discussed some of my other insecurities about it with her. I never mentioned the main insecurity, but I've kinda beaten around the bush about it. I did tell her at one point that I was afraid I wouldn't be able to satisfy her, I wasn't detailed about it though. She said that we could learn together and she is happy doing "all the work" till we get in the groove.
I want to take that extra step now, but I am TERRIFIED. I know people say that size isn't everything, but they haven't seen me naked! I'm pretty sure I qualify for some type of medical condition. I realize sex isn't everything in a relationship either. It is important though, and the other relationships (using the term very lightly) I've had were ended because of my fear of intimacy. I can't really blame anyone for wanting someone bigger either. It just feels bad, yuh know?
Anyway, I'm hoping you guys may be able to give me some good advice. Advice on how to break the news or move on if it doesn't work. Heck, anyone who's had experience with this knowing of some techniques even. Let me know if y'all need anything clarified or have questions. I love this community and I appreciate you guys reading to the end. Thanks friends
P.S. I didnt mention my age, but know I'm well passed where I should be for experiencing all these firsts
Tl:dr PP small, halp
Cat Tax
Edit:
Thank you guys for all the encouragement! I can't believe how many of you took the time to give me advice. I'm blown away by how you guys can come together to help someone!
I've gotten great suggestions in the comments and some very helpful and touching DMs. The most common piece of advice, logistically, is oral. I'm more than willing to provide there and am comfortable enough with her to take directions and learn. Another option I'm seeing is toys, mainly sleeves. Again, solid advice and I'll bring it up if she doesn't.
Some pills and "techniques" were brought up also to increase size, however, I've done research and most, if not all, is unsafe or unproven. I'll be skipping this suggestion.
My biggest takeaway from this though is I just have to be honest and tell her what's up. The worry I have won't go away unless it's dealt with. She's a dynamite gal and she does really care about me. I'll probably feel silly for worrying about it so much afterward.
Thank you guys again for taking the time to help me! Whoever labeled this post as entertaining, I'm glad I could provide that! To those who dm'd me, I'm forever in your debt. It means the world to me that you guys reached out. Thank you, thank you Imgur!
Also, since a lot have asked, I should address the less than average elephant in the room: 2.5 Sorry ladies, I'm taken
Anddroid
Relax. You have nothing to lose. Go for it. It works for her, or it doesn't. If it doesn't, you move on.
LordChapstick
Just like all those posts that say al boobs are good boobs, all dicks are good dicks my dude.
PaleAsFuck
There are alot of toys and your own hands as well with plenty of fingers to have fun with. No need for a dick at all.
ianrl337
Well except for Steve. Just kidding steve, your ok to.
Potatoespotatoespotatoespotatoespotaosoupforeveryone1
I've been with partners both big and small. The truth is what mattered more to me was the intimacy, kisses, cuddles. Turn on a woman's mind.
Potatoespotatoespotatoespotatoespotaosoupforeveryone1
Then you can get her to cum. She won't care about your dick if you are open loving and confident.
beaubrent
What do you mean small? Is it like 3 inches? What are we talking about here?
speedysh
Asking the real questions
anonfuzzbutt
As mentioned before eating out is fantastic but also as mentioned the clit. Had an ex who preferred it smaller so I could bottom out ¹
anonfuzzbutt
basically and allowed her to grind her clit against the area above the dick. ²
anonfuzzbutt
Oh and vaginas are a lot smaller than most people think. Yes they're incredibly stretchable, but you don't need to be massive to fill them ³
SpaceTaco22
I’m sorry but the cat tax left me f’ing dead. Then my wife walked in and took the phone to see what was so rofl inducing. Awkward. :/
DespiseEveryone
Especially when she told you to tell OP not to worry a small dick is fine, her husband has a small one.
itsppearsyoucanindeed
I would need gallons of aloe for that burn
SpaceTaco22
Bruh I just cried all night and then my wife looked at my smol peener and laughed again
oprahslovechild
One of my most memorable lovers was on the smaller side. He made up for it in many other ways. It doesn’t have to be the end of the world.
DespiseEveryone
Smaller side: Guy means 1 inch. She means 9.5 inches instead of 10.
PaleAsFuck
I'm pretty sure she means smaller than avrage of she write it like she did. I'm not even a fan of anything over 6.2 inches. Too big can hurt
oprahslovechild
Dude no.
DanaConti5
Male average is like 7. You think the average straight woman is mainlining Internet porn or something?
DietCokeIsTheBest
You think the male average is 7? Lol
DanaConti5
Sources are saying 5-7 erect
maybejeff
Male average is closer to 5.5
MyPunsAreBadAndIFeelBad
Get good at oral and dont be afraid to bring in toys if she needs better penetration. I'll leave the curse of Bad Dragon for you to peruse
Gremlynn4023
Curse? You mean magnificent blessing right!?
SparrowBird5000
I absolutely love BD. Expensive, but worth it. Husband enjoys his sheath, and I also enjoy my dildo. Good company. Fun one. Very useful.
FriendlyNeighborhoodGrammarPerson
My bf is pretty decently sized but even we occasionally use a BD sleeve for something different. Bad Dragon is awesome.
SalvalecRhaplanca
BD isn't the best of their lot, they're just the most well-known.
MaitreMechant
I had never seen bad dragon's products befaore this thread... which company would be better ? I'm in Canada
SalvalecRhaplanca
Good start would be Twin Tail Creations and A Krow's Nest!
swarthod
There's more ways to have fun sexy times than just P in V. It sounds like your lady is excited about you as a person, not just your pp. Make
swarthod
Sure to keep communication open and ask her to help guide you. She knows what feels good to her, you don't have to guess! Vulnerability can
swarthod
Be sexy, too!! Have fun, be safe! You got this!
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Thank you for the encouragement! Excluding the current subject, we are pretty good at communicating. I just have to put it out there!
Goldensands
You’re gonna suck the first time. That’s ok dude. Go for it, laugh and enjoy yourselves.
guamarama
I’m a urology nurse. Meaning I am a woman who looks at penises daily. First off: you are probably not as off being “normal” as you think. 1
guamarama
Secondly, “Normal” is very rare to see. Everyone is very different. Thirdly, even if your penis is as small as you perceive it to be it 2
guamarama
Is not the as much as a problem as you think. Everyone’s body is weird in some way. Trust me I see at least 4 men or women naked each 3
guamarama
Day. Having something “abnormal” about you that prevents you from intimacy is heartbreakingly common. Please don’t become one of these 4
guamarama
Ppl I see who hide & miss out on life.As long as you are interested in pleasing ur partner u will find someone. Value urself & you will b ok
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Thank you for the professional view point and encouragement! I definitely have issues with self worth. I'm always actively working on them!
evocatiranch
Genuine question, how many guys are zero inches or less when not erect? Like kind of indents from the surface?
ElzyB
Let her know this is your hesitation... if you attempt to hide it she will know something is off, but will only have guesses as to what.
ElzyB
Unless she’s very superficial or has a specific sexual need to be satisfied the size really won’t matter. Confidence is the sexiest trait.
ElzyB
And sex in a long term relationship is all about communication and trusting someone more than ever before. Telling her shows that trust.
ElzyB
And size is just part of the equation. Like basketball, the tall guys can dunk, but the little guy might run way faster, both can score.
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Good God, how the heck do you guys find these analogies?! They're fantastic! Thank you for the advice
polarbPilot
Put, put your dick in it
AnxiaTeaDD
If you’re comparing your penis to say the ones you see in porn, then almost every guys dick is small in comparison. Porn is unrealistic to1/
iExplainTheJoke
The penises in porn are on average two standards deviations above the mean, making them mega penises
iExplainTheJoke
(micro penises are two standard deviations below the mean)
Larktonguesinadicecup
Appreciate the precision
AnxiaTeaDD
2/what sex really is. Also I know it’s hard to feel confident but confidence can be very sexy. My advice is just be in the moment with her.
AnxiaTeaDD
3/she seems to care about you very much.
StillPimpin
AmotsEinhorc
DefinitelyNotASynth
Oof
StuckInBetweeen
You'd think she'd bring that up before getting married. God damn son. RIP ego and all self confidence.
TrashPandaAddict
Maybe she's given birth since then. Hotdog. Hallway. Not his fault if the hallway was smashed and reno'ed
JohnnyTheBlade
That's grounds for divorce right there
ObviousThrowawayIguess
I'm willing to do what it takes, though I am not looking forward to that haha
AllGloryToTheDarkLord
Get a strapon for her Vagoo, your penor for her Anu. If its small, she might love it. Im a little sad that no girl will ever let me do anal.
dangerXX
Sorry mr. My-dick-is-too-big-for-anal ?
AllGloryToTheDarkLord
*sigh* Its my cross to bare. Lol
grootybooty
It's a 6 inch penis. Around!
StillPimpin
Not trying to be funny. I think that if it really came down to it, it's an option. Obviously if you're comfortable with it too- easier said.
FeChefImgur
I think you'll need to keep your mind open. It's something you can both go shopping for together :)
Zahnradfee
If you really think you qualify for a medical condition, speak to a doctor. Nowadays trans men can get a penis, so there should be options >
Zahnradfee
to enlarge an existing small penis if necessary. But of course, at the very first step you should talk to your girlfriend and see if it's >
Zahnradfee
an issue at all. I mean, look at ancient greek statues and how large their penises were. ^ ^
IHaveABigTruckBecauseMyCockIsTiny
I feel you op. My username ain't no lie, but you'll need to try intimacy at some point. You can ask what's too small, and see her opinion.
natgo
Don't do that. Just act like it's normal and do your thing!
mity0k23
I don’t care how big your dick is. Are you a cool dude? Do you like this chick? Does she like you? Do you want to make her cum a bunch?
mity0k23
Make her feel awesome and don’t worry about your dick. That’s for the other party to deal with. You go ravish her, you stud-muffin you!
ObviousThrowawayIguess
IdUpvoteYouButYoureAt69
mity0k23
Love through the fear
TalkingSnake
If you’re whole body and your ability to connect with a partner is how you engage intimately, you and a partner can find some joy.
TalkingSnake
Also, cock sheathes exist. Interchangeable wangs are an option when y’all feel like playing around.
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Thank you, I am willing to experiment. That ability to connect bit is especially helpful.
TalkingSnake
Hand, tongue, teeth, sight, hearing, taste and feel. If all you cared about was bashing your wanger around you’d miss out on good living.
Cassiopeia1023
Work on knowing the sex organs and finessing with the mouth and fingers. Women rarely climax via penetration and tend to get a lot out of
ProgeriaProstitutes
Not rarely
edelleaa
yes from penetration ALONE, very rarely.
Cassiopeia1023
foreplay such as prolonged kissing, touching, etc. The best thing you can do is learn how to treat a clitoris. The main thing is, once
Cassiopeia1023
locating it, don't play with it like it's a gaming system controller. Lightly touch it in a figure eight or "come hither" motion. She'll
Cassiopeia1023
be more thankful for that than any porn-sized penis.
IncognitoPanda
Well that varies immensely. Some girls I swear could take a diamond-tipped construction drill to their clit
Cucumberclouds
So very much this.
TharrickLawson
So quarter-circle-forward and punch isn't a good input then?
andthatpostreallytiedtheroomtogether
Nah dragon punch aka dp
spacecadet103
If Mitch McConnell can get someone to fuck him, so can you!
Habitman
Speak plainly to her and don't be so serious abt it. I'd usually say "yeah it's not huge but it's what I've got to work with"
Habitman
It took years of practice and to gain confidence and get good at sex, communication is important
ObviousThrowawayIguess
I'll have to make that a habit, man. Thanks!
Habitman
Np one thing I wish I would've done was be more open to partners about being inexperienced instead of being shy about it
whatseventhepoint
If she likes you, you’ll both find a way to make it work. Being a self-deprecating wuss is never attractive on anyone. Cut that out ASAP
ObviousThrowawayIguess
I've actually worked on that a lot, though I tend to fall back on it when I'm extremely uncomfortable. It's never something that's fixed 1/2
ObviousThrowawayIguess
forever, and I shouldn't expect it to be. I do need to control it better however, I realize that. Solid advice, you'd be a great hype man!
MsWhereILeftMySocks
@whatseventhepoint is right. You are a lot more than the size of your penis, so don't use that as your shield. 1/
MsWhereILeftMySocks
Fixating to one 'flaw' quickly turns into a situation, where you self-destruct every chance to happiness. 2/
MsWhereILeftMySocks
And I have to add - good sex doesn't even have to involve penetration, so the size will not be issue in an adult, healthy relationship❤️ 3/3
MostlyDinosaurs
Seems like shes really understanding, she may even be anticipating that you have a condition.
MostlyDinosaurs
Plus it sounds like sex isnt a priority for her. Whatever you do, do it confidently, maybe with a joke & i promise ull be fine
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Jokes was one thing I've always been pretty good at! Thanks for the encouragement
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Hmm I wouldn't say she's anticipating it, though I can see why you'd think that, given the information. She is very understanding. 1/2
ObviousThrowawayIguess
It's just scary, especially knowing the other people she's been with. I know it's unhealthy to compare, but it's hard not too 2/2
MostlyDinosaurs
Yeah thats really tough dude. Theres something she likes ab you, thats for sure. Gott shoot your shot
naley23
Easier said than done but try not to compare with her past when you’re her present. There are some solid advices here. Sex will be (1/-)
naley23
changing with time, just as your relationship will too. I agree with a lot the comments. For most women, penetration (2/-)
naley23
isn’t always the means to an orgasm. If you take the time to explore her, she will more likely greatly appreciate that! (3/3).
Newfehotep
For most people sex is very intimate and we all feel vulnerable at times. Relax, be vulnerable, be intimate, follow her lead. You're enough.
AdultPersistentAngst
SMALL WEINER CLUB MEMBERS, UNITE!
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TheProofIsInDePudding
TINY MEAT GANG
ElbowDeep
Yeh I need to renew my membership, I understand I'll need to be remeasured?
SpaceGK
@op Ask her if she prefers internal or external stimulation. Either way, bring in some toys or break out the ol' tongue. (1/2)
SpaceGK
(2/2) My wife prefers that and I'm not even lacking in size. I don't think it would be a big deal to her if I suddenly shrunk somehow.
FuckingTurtleBear
Thunder Thimble Heroes!
poofitsagoner
Meatshield80
One of us!
Golgothanworm
Listen guys, after starting Testosterone cypionate injections in my 40's I started breaking condoms constantly and had switch to magnums.
Rogermooreseyebrow
All pull together!
bagoffishstix
Just remember, most girls can get off with their fingers. Fingers average about 3 in.
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bagoffishstix
Or a tuna can
MasterGunsmith
SHORT BARRELS FOREVER!
llatre
Finally! A club worth getting rejected from!
JHord1985
Modest dick game doesn't mean shit if you know what you're doing with everything else.
mentallychallengeaccepted
Adult ffs
monkeyfly
Dude, chill out. You're as welcome as the next person.
mentallychallengeaccepted
No i know this guy pretty well. We do this all the time. He knows i’m joking
Ilikecreativepeople
#docking
AdultPersistentAngst
First thing I thought of after I typed my comment. +1
RacecarIsRacecarBackwards
Look at it this way: you have the best excuse for driving a massive pickup truck.
AdultPersistentAngst
I DO drove a massive pickup truck!
evocatiranch
I'm in this picture and I don't like it.
DJPoppinFresh
2in gang wya!!! ?
Thehatewizard
Dude you missed the 2in wang gang. Why did you leave out wang
filben7
Lesbians dont have a penis and they have plenty of sex.
Mightynineftw2000
Go on
GuacamoleMoleMolester
Boobs tho
TheInitiated
NachoPete
They often buy penises of various sizes when they want.
TheRobinHoodChamp
They really don’t. It’s not that common to go for the toys. Most lesbians don’t.
filben7
Some, but its not necessary and that doesn't discount the fact that a man can use a dildo on a woman too.
bushwog
Dude a woman who loves you will not care at all. Also comparing your dick size to porn (we all do it) is not good for the psyche.
Zallus03
Ill put this out there too. Most women do not give porn head. Porn is a bad way to think that is how your sex life will be. Sometimes it is.
Ilikecreativepeople
Yeah... Too small
TheInitiated
No, we don't all do porn. I, for one, had to give it up because of my back issues.
ilhares
Never thought I was particularly, especially having seen the Kong dongs in porn, but multiple partners complained about cervical impact.
bushwog
I do not have a large penis by any stretch of the imagination and I have an incredible sex life with my partner because we deeply care for
bushwog
each other. If you want to pleasure a woman your dick isn’t the best tool big or small anyway. Learn to be a gracious lover and it will
bushwog
pay dividends my friend.
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Thanks for taking the time to write that out, it really does help me a lot. Best wishes to you and yours!
bushwog
Nest of luck to you @op
glovelyday
There's a more to intimacy than a penis, a lot more.
Jimmysuploads
2 penises?
theleprechaunviking
Was gonna say that ☝?. The worst sex I’ve had was with big dick men. Be passionate and communicate. Use the pubic bone! Foreplay helps alot.
B2SteakSauce
You gotta finesse the breast
NoTalentForNames
I can vouch for this. I don't have any intimacy.
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Thank you for saying so!
Euphoria29
Other appendages can be very important, such as hands and fingers.
Olgarie
My husband is technically the smallest penis i have been with. He's also the best sexual partner i have had. Miles & miles & miles ahead.
JahSureYouBetcha
Same for me and my partner.
MonocoleWearingSeaDragon
Im going to be honest, the best intimate experience I’ve experienced with a lover was “the kiss”. It was just as good of if not better
TheSongofRiver
Its true. And a lot of those things are lot more fun and intimate than the actual sex.
ThePunnyGuy
Foreplay is the key. You do enough foreplay, and do it right, you'll barely have to do anything. Don't be afraid to use toys, too.
Nakeela
There's also different kinds of uh.. 'wearables' which are designed to be pleasurable for you as well in case you really need
Nakeela
Don't be afraid to use toys for fun or for need and not everyone can cum without help no matter size or technique without them
spiritussancto
If anything it's been my experience that the guys with big dicks think that excuses them from acquiring any skill
IIikethecutofyourjib
Dude, like seriously. She seems really cool. I had a shot with a micro guy and would definitely have stayed with him outside of other things
IIikethecutofyourjib
We really clicked and he was SO sweet and funny. I really liked him.
spiritussancto
Guys who think sex just equals penis in vagina and thrust hard are terrible in bed
W1ckedw1lly01
Sometimes the best sex doesn't even have to have this happen at all. Having sex doesn't have to mean penis in vagina:)
hesbeginningtobelieve
Two penises?
MysteryShack
Two?
cptcr
not during a pandemic, heh... heheheh...heheheeheheAAAGGGGEHGHGHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH .... god i need to get out
Nincompoet
Yeah like the balls. And the SUPERSOAKER XP-50. And snacks.
ianrl337
There are other ways to achieve your goals here. Lesbians make it work without dick. Communicate see what she likes. It'll all work out.
Intriny
Be open to the use of toys. It will only help ?
JOKERZwild86
Lesbians have 15 inch dildos bro they use toys
AGGRESSIVECOMPLIMENTS
Not all of us.
Sageypie
They have strap ons meant for use by guys. The fake penis on it is like a fleshlight kind of situation. Get that mental feel of BDE and-
Sageypie
-some actual physical stimulation to enjoy as well.
catapostrophe
honestly....honestly oral > sex
DutchGuyMike
cuddling > oral > sex
CirB
Exactly! Trust me, you'll have far much fun than someone with big(ish) dick who suffers from crushing performance anxiety...
Kirkleberry
This is a golden statement. We live in a world of sex toys and new experiences. Although having small pp is still demasculating.
Sp1ffy
100%
NickRivieraMD
100% this. Lots of sex is not dick in vagina sex. You got a tongue, you got fingers. Then there are toys, there are cock sleeves.
NickRivieraMD
So many options to work with, if your partner is down. Only way forward is to find out what works for both of you.
mushroommunching
TOTES!!!
CangodCreateAStoneItCannotLift
But they still can't get pregnant this way, which is one of the functions of the penis.
investigation27
.... ....... ... ... ... Yes... .... Why is this relevant?
andsy
Penis size was a concern to OP due to fear of unsatisfactory performance in bed. He can still ejaculate and thus impregnate someone.
andsy
When time comes to work in the baby factory you can easily separate the “make me pregnant” bit from the “make me scream” bit if necessary
Jonavilez
Very good point
mashaii
First of all foreplay. Learn to be sensual, spend time on the neck, boobs, back, butt. Lots of kissing, rubbing, playing. Then learn to 1/2
mashaii
work the clit. Learn what she likes, and learn how to do it from any position so that you can do it while getting your fun on. 2/2
mashaii
(and lastly, don't be afraid to be weird. Try stuff. If it doesn't work out, have a good laugh. If it does, well... enjoy)
shaunofthedab
ObviousThrowawayIguess
I tend to forget that a lot haha Thank you for taking the time to remind me!
PocketJuice
After talking with Ur s.o. And size is a problem. You can also buy extenders. Toys that go over your junk that can make it better for her.
PieMasterOfTheRealm
Omgyes.com is the school I've used
DaikonNoKami
Legrooveth
Hopefully helpful. I'm quite large, but oral is still the most reliable way to get a big reaction.
mountainofpuppies
I have the opposite issue. I end up having to use a lot of toys for a long time before a partner is relaxed enough, smash cervix = showstop
JadedStormm
Hollow strapons or cock rings or cock sleeves can all help. Also don't forget you can learn to be skilled in other ways like oral or kink!
JadedStormm
It's going to be embarrassing but it's easier to tell her, then ask her what else does she enjoy doing in the bedroom. Just be open minded.
iwantlaughs
I'm wondering if a sheath would work. You can buy a wearable and find a way to make it work (stuff it or something) if you both choose to 1/
iwantlaughs
Whatever you choose, try not to let your anxiety cripple the experience. It's intimate and fun, and whatever you both make it. That's why 2/
iwantlaughs
It's so easy to see love and intimacy in different forms. Trust me, there are more ways to pleasure your partner than size. Have fun! 3/3
RanOutofWit
@Op this, actually. Heaps of good advice in the replies, but remember there are wearables that are designed to be pleasing to both sides.
SchrodingersDictator
If the dock isn’t enough, learn to use your hands. May take some time, but you can get it.
TeronMoonshaft
This. Take the time to research and use your hands properly and not like the jack hammer many men I've known assume because of porn
ianrl337
Also trim your nails. Scratching is a thing and don't learn the hard way. So again TRIM YOUR NAILS.
probablynotanorange
Also, find the clit: look up anatomical correct diagrams that have it (a lot of vulva ones don’t list it), and listen to your partner
Unix347
Also : toys. If size is ACTUALLY an issue (bodies are all different) then go buy a dildo. Boom! Now you have two dicks! Success.
Ambeam
Jonny 2 dicks over here
andsy
If your goal is female satisfaction: Get a good clit vibrator before investing in a dildo. Just saying.
Unix347
Also, porn is not accurate. I thought I was playing with a short cue for years, once I slept around a bit it turns out he ain't half bad
LimpMufasaWasABetterFather
Great moments in #internetting
Kumonryu42
Dude same. You should've seen my face when a girl pulled it out and loudly said "oh, thank God!"
CatatonicCowMoo
This this this all of this toys can be wonderful to help out if you can't quite get it there and also sex is NOT porn. I tried way too hard/
CatatonicCowMoo
To act like a porn star when I first started cause it was all I knew, but I learned eventually that those girls go through... training?.../
BofusTeefus
Just buy a really big truck.
elgwango1
A BMW ?
Slixxerman
Dont forget the large number of guns, gotta have those as well
UlloRT
holy shit, i legit laughed like hyena
IdiotSavantTinker
DontTazeMeBrah
Don't forget the nuts
DatGringo
with a lift kit, extend the wheels, and tailgate everyone in front of you
dmay1210
Well, this was funny. Hope he has a sense of humor.
BofusTeefus
Judging from the post, I'd assume so.
LazerHawkAttack
But then anyone knows you have a small dick
a2s2020
Well, we all know. But we aren't judging!
HailKingZoidberg
Because I have the biggest truck! You can't judge when I have the biggest...
a2s2020
If it's clearly the biggest truck then I don't need to judge. You automatically win in truck bigness
HailKingZoidberg
knowmeandsayhello
Or just put a hole in your muffler and heavy on the gas
BofusTeefus
I'll put a hole in your muffler
ElzyB
BreakTheCode
LOL
ShipsPassingintheNight
Somebody downvoted this, haha, poor guy.
sdmbmx
Probably drives a lifted dodge
TrundImaginationBandit
Squatted. And rolls coal
sdmbmx
But has to get in through the passenger side because the driver door won't open.
IdiotSavantTinker
With huge, but bald tires.
sdmbmx
With the tow mirrors out without a trailer
GarmBlack
Bro, she's already spent THIS long with ONLY kissing. Like... do you really think your dick is worse than no sex at all? And think of all
GarmBlack
the OTHER good things you have to use. Like most women don't get off from penetration alone anyways, so it's not like every other dude is
GarmBlack
solely dicking his way to other people's orgasms. Just be honest with her, find what you both like, and have some fun.
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Yo this actually made laugh out loud. It seems obvious, and I can't believe it had to be pointed out. Sometimes my head is too far 1/2
sqishd24
yeah man.. what @GarmBlack said dude.. shes hung around this long dick isn't important, communication is more important! GL
ObviousThrowawayIguess
up my ass for me to see the forest for the trees. Thanks man, this really helped haha 2/2
WorthEveryPenny
For real dude. You'll be OK. I'm decently endowed but it still takes the assistance of a vibe to get her off during penetration. U do u boo
GarmBlack
Good, glad it helped old sport. You'll do fine. And she'll appreciate it.
FuzzyAdventurer
As a woman may I also recommend reverse cowgirl, doesn't need to be big to hit right in that particular position
DreamingOfDistantShores
Now ask to see her forest. Seriously though, don't overthink this. She likes you. You like her. You'll have fun playing around and finding
SlyFinkley
@op Dude shave the Forrest. ?
GinTea
as the (former) gf in this situation, I can tell you what not to do - don't turn it into an ego thing. Be open & talk with each other, even
TheGddmnBatman
make sure the oral is on point and she probably wont mind
Sp1ffy
110%
iputmymouthonit
I couldn't agree more, it can be the best part!
mushroommunching
even just hands (and some kissin')! Every gal is different. Is it getting hot in here?
nellietta
Does everyone else like that? I've always hated it. Receiving, that is.
ElzyB
That’s making some assumptions about her preferences. Just ask her what she likes and work on that.
TheRealTwoFace
This. Fucking. Comment. Right. Here. Seriously enjoy the oral you give and it’ll be great, regardless of size. (1/2)
TheRealTwoFace
The sex will blend in with everything you do, and the ratio of the activities will even themselves out eventually where you’ll both be happy
ObviousThrowawayIguess
I see this being said a lot. Definitely willing to work on it
Hashbrown123
I was taught a good way to strengthen your tongue is to eat pudding cups with only your tongue.
fillingupmycup
Am female, have dated guys of different sizes. The best ones listened and we worked together to have the most fun. Size didn’t really matter
bububub2
Look, here's the deal. Sex is a skill, and if you are willing to learn it and get better at it you've got a leg up on most guys.
Myrectumhousesasmallindonesianfamily
Just note: if your nose & chin aren't getting wet, you 'aint doin' it right!
Booplesnootle
Please, for the love of all that is holy, do not use your chin
Spudders
secret is consistency, my friend. if she likes it, don't switch it up.
Goryofa
Basically, most women don't cum from penetration or vaginal cavity stimulation. The clitoris is crucial. Don't need a big dick for the clit.
rowingrowingrowing
This! Especially post menopausal women.
Roune
Also, buy a hitachi magic wand and use the hell out of it on her
rowingrowingrowing
Seriously, this!!! Mine is 38 years old (I've known it longer than my husband) and it's the happiest making marriage device on the planet.
smaard
Tongue and fingers mostly more effective then penis. You good this, @op!!
ifavoritethingstoshowmywifewhenigethome
go slow and tease a lot with the tongue, get her to the point of finishing and then back off, do this until she pretty much begs you to end
ifavoritethingstoshowmywifewhenigethome
i'm on the lower side of average and my wife continues to reinforce that she's happy with our sex life
ifavoritethingstoshowmywifewhenigethome
another thing to consider is pegym, it's dangerous if done wrong but there has been success stories for micropenis guys
squeakyleeks
Fingers are wonderful tools to please a lady. Just ask her what she likes. If she doesn't know, just experiment and ask her what feels good.
ianrl337
practice makes perfect
Stacyed16
Noo..alot of chicks dont like oral..visit a sex toy store together
PaleAsFuck
Or maybe that's just you? Alot of woman Havn't had a pleasurable experience during oral because the man don't know what he is doing.
Stacyed16
True
macandcheese21
Don’t forget: if she’s not into receiving oral sex, there’s still a world of options for you.
Mexrose75
Ask her. I have a friend that isn’t into it. I would be upset without it.
PaleAsFuck
I wasn't into it until I found the right man. So maybe that's the case or she genuinely isn't.
thisclose
UnconditionalSalmon
There's a great book "The Lowdown on Getting Down" that is very educational.
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Absolutely gonna look that up, thanks man
rowingrowingrowing
"Come As You Are" by Emily Nagoski. It's on the female orgasm and the different aspects of it: physical, emotional, intellectual.
AllGloryToTheDarkLord
Dont bother reading up. Every girl is different and theres no secret moves that are universal. Only your girl can tell you what she likes
ObviousThrowawayIguess
Also very sound advice. I don't expect everything to work, and communication is the most important thing, but it'd be nice to have a 1/2
UnconditionalSalmon
it wouldn't hurt to have a reference point. Giving a woman oral sex isn't intuitive for first timers
MostlyDinosaurs
True. The penis is only one of many avenues on the road to climax.
SuperHir0
Women seldom cum from penitration alone. Clitoral stimulation is oft the best route
MostlyDinosaurs
Seriously, i met these hippies who taught a class on how to make urself orgasm using breath control. Best course i ever took
TalkingSnake
More than half of women orgasm from direct clitoral attention, not penetration.
mossfox
More like less then 20% get off with penetration alone.
Whatdoyousaytoanicecupoftea
Hello Clit! *waves*
TalkingSnake
Direct “attention” because direct pressure and contact for some is an overwhelming sensation and doesn’t get the job done.
PaleAsFuck
Oh god. You almost got me.... Smh. You can't just go giving attention to woman's clitoris at random. They might come in their pants... :)
Disgustinglyantisocial