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Dec 23, 2019 1:49 AM
ryushadgon
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CheekyLittleCunnnt
Since my fiance left me. This hits hard. Very hard. Fuck you OP +1
EternalSunshineofthePotlessMind
Thought I saw you yesterday, but I know it wasn't you cause you passed away
vengalaxia
Im in this, 2 years now. We try to solve the problems and back together, but she dont care about me, and the silence back again.....
LifeInNightVision
Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is mystery. But today is a gift, that's why it's called the present ?
AxoliaTheAxolotl
My feels, they are hurt beyond recovery
cheesynoodlerunner
This makes me really sad
Unverified
Damn, I lost my yesterday 2 months ago. Still hurts
morithum
It’ll get better
iamthecomet
We care about you, lean on us. Message me if you want to vent or talk.
jewru
Get a hobby go to the gym and fire up some tinder. Also having a dog helps .
TheyCallMeJimmyButMyNameIsJames
Does it help that the original lyrics were "scrambled eggs..." ?
SemperCallide
Now do Helter Skelter
iamthecomet
Boner in third panel/both in ferris wheel.
Selkj
I feel you bro. ?
GrosseChung
It sucks, but we all have to figure out how to deal with getting a hole in our heart at one point in our lives.
BearMcBeary
Did you notice, that when the girls is gone from the Ferris wheel, so is the guys bulge too.
PhallicTransporter
Finally I had to scroll too far down to find this comment.
ThorAKG
4 years and sometimes I still get these feelings. But it does get better. It just varies how long we need. Just hold on, buddy!
stuffIfindfunny
Same last two years for me. Decided Fuck it all and went to South East Asia. Sold everything and gave a shit ton up.
stuffIfindfunny
Now chilling in Cambodia posting on this stuff. Getting ready to get coffee and meet some new friends.
wattavan
I put this into my "ART" folder
shimmernshine
I ended up with a handful of pills as well after she left. Fortunately, they were prescribed and not opiates. I still miss her but I'm okay.
ilejk
You and me both buddy. Every day yesterday makes tomorrow harder to wake up for.
JOKERZwild86
I’m right there with you, I’m sitting in my patrol car arguing with myself why she left me for her friend, it boggles my mind
DarmokAndJaladWhenTheMemesFell
HabaneroHN
Love of my life was murdered by a drunk driver 16 years ago last November. I have not dated since. It's like that pain box post.
HabaneroHN
But it never gets better.
AStrongFemaleCharacter
You’ll be dead before you know it. Is this really how you want to spend your life?
AlwaysInDenialSon
Have you tried talking to someone? It sounds like you're not letting yourself move forward
Lobkestar
I am so sorry I hope the pain gets easier for you
rcderp
I have been here, more than once. I wish it on no one. You expect closure, but it never comes. You have to let it go and move on. 1/2
rcderp
Learn from the experience, but don’t dwell on it too long. It will only bring pain and you will miss out on the joy in the world. 2/2
ashkbyeeeee
It’s so cliche but time really does heal all wounds. There were times I never thought I’d get over it, but slowly things got better.
ozjuggler
Time can't be the healer because the past is not changing. Our belief in what we are, what we should aim for, and can do, is what changes.
ATLandNerdy
It doesn't. You either become a new person that can deal with the shit that happened. Or you don't.
McFluffySundae
Went through this, tried so hard to find those feelings again in another person. In the end had to learn to be content in what I had and 1/2
McFluffySundae
accept that I may not get the feelings back, but what I had was ok enough and maybe one day Id be surprised again. The pain isnt forever 2/2
howimetyourauntrobin2
Hey bud, I can't imagine what you're going thru, so I'll just hit you with my experience and hope it helps. (1)
howimetyourauntrobin2
I loved a girl once, was in the perfect relationship. I RARLEY remember a dream, yet I'd frequently wake up having seen our kids come to(2)
DarmokAndJaladWhenTheMemesFell
I rarely remember dreams, except the one I can't forget. One night I dreamt she pulled me into bed and started kissing me, out of the blue.
DarmokAndJaladWhenTheMemesFell
She rolled on top of me and took off her top. I thought, "is it over? Is the nightmare finally over?" And then I woke up.
DarmokAndJaladWhenTheMemesFell
She was still asleep, back to me, and I had to go through the realization that my wife doesn't love my anymore all over again.
howimetyourauntrobin2
Me after being told no by her so I could say yes and see her give me a begrudging smile. Now...6 years and 5 girlfriends later...I still (3)
howimetyourauntrobin2
Have dreams about her. Still see her face at night every month, while I haven't seen her face in the waking hours in years. It doesn't (4)
howimetyourauntrobin2
Go away. It doesn't just become easy. But it does become manageable. It does become something else, something that you can live with. (5)
howimetyourauntrobin2
And if it doesn't, or if you need someone in the interim, I am an ear that is here for you. I don't know you, but I love you.
usersubbordercontrol
.. sometimes shit like this hits hard, where I lost my older sister when she was 21. I was 15. She was my only sibling and now she's gone.
CrookedCherryBlossom
This is why I will never commit suicide. I struggle with anxiety every day but I am the older sister
wheelow
It just passes the pain and depression on to someone else. My mom took her life 3 years ago. I struggle everyday with depression and anxiety
bananakitten
This is what stopped me the only time. I couldn’t have forgiven myself for what it would have done to my younger sister.
usersubbordercontrol
Gone forever. But I guess that doesn't matter, what really matters is that I've got a future ahead of me.
Magicalunicornmayonnaise
Keep fighting. It's what she would want
applesunshine33
I lost my older sister too, she was my only sibling. I think all the time about how happy she would be to see be happy though-gives me hope
CanIHaveThisUsername24
When i was around 7 or 8 my mom became pregnant for her 4th time and it ended in a stillborn. It still kinda hurts..oh im an only child too
usersubbordercontrol
A stillborn is less painful than your older sibling that raised you, passing away without you getting to say goodbye
CanIHaveThisUsername24
Not trying to compare the 2 but ok
usersubbordercontrol
Sorry, I couldn't understand the pain of losing someone before the story begins. Like a book you could never open
evolution4407
Start living your life again. Travel, exercise, learn new skills, help people, enjoy the arts. And of course give yourself time. Be happy.
CatSiddhartha
Try to bang everything. Eventually your ego will overtake your depression. And don’t stop that drinking!
Splinty05
After 8 months of loneliness, no hugs, or affection from this cold world.. I went on 2 dates with someone before getting a much needed hug.
Chainhealer
This is a fancy way of saying "Have you tried not being depressed?" and "Stop being poor" combined. It's useless. "Be happy". If only it was
Chainhealer
that simple.
CatastrophicUnicornAttack
Like its that easy to find the motivation to get out of bed. Its easy to say do this do that, I can’t see any compassion or humanity in this
StrawberryJamJam
Thank you.
evolution4407
1/2 These are coping mechanisms I've used when suffering a job loss, death of a loved one, or a breakup (as described by Paul McCartney in
evolution4407
2/2 this song). My advice, like my compassion, is offered to everyone. But it is never forced opon anyone who doesn't welcome it.
strideo
Take some time to be sad but never give in to despair. Learning new skills and doing things outside helps so much.
jsuischa
Don't be afraid to seek help from others, medication when prescribed by a licensed physician is not failure even if it takes a couple tries
jsuischa
To get the dosage right. Don't base your self worth on others.
athleticpizzalover
What I've heard that helps alot is doing on relief trips, out and helping 3rd world countries, if you are religious there is options
athleticpizzalover
For relief trips too, and never forget people are meant to stay in your life a certain time, might be someone is better waiting in thefuture
sheebalasvegas
it's not all that easy to just 'be happy'. if it were that simple, depression wouldn't be a thing. People need coping skills and therapy
BionicBeach
And money. Most people I know struggle to get out of it because their waking time is devoted to work. Hard to travel working 12 hour days...
SpaceForceRanger
I know the comment seems generic but forcing myself to get out of my comfort zone and to “live” pulled me out of 1 of my darkest depressions
Strawberrybell
Cracking advice, I'm sure you helped.... I believe the advise is to focus inward for a bit. But it is easier to critique that to contribute.
sheebalasvegas
it's a known thing that telling people to just 'be happy' when depressed has a negative effect
neochiken1
Yeah but like living going out and learning new skills are legitimate coping skills
CatastrophicUnicornAttack
You can have hobbies/learn something new & still be deeply depressed I would know. You need therapy not distractions from what you’re feelin
sheebalasvegas
sure, but the last 'be happy' is not needed
evolution4407
1/2 Choice is very much a factor in happiness. We try to find happiness, inadvertently reinforcing the belief that we are not happy. Rather
evolution4407
2/2 than trying to find happiness, it is better to choose to be happy. That's why I needed to say it.