Imgur Secret Santa to the Rescue

Feb 12, 2017 1:40 AM

Molotopheles

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Ended a 3.5 year relationship tonight with a very good man because it just wasn't right. I couldn't see myself marrying him, and I couldn't see a full future with him. This is the first time I've had to end things with someone I still love, and it's a bad day... I was cleaning my house and drinking wine when I came across this card from Imgur Secret Santa 2015. Figured it was as good of a night as any to open it. THANK YOU, IMGUR, for being there for me for laughing, learning, comforting words, and the occasional skin-crawling post.

There could have been a really bad message in that card to mess with you. I'm glad it was positive. Hang in there!

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Aww shoutout to your SS & sorry to hear about your situation :( (Side note awesome username)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

v I believe in you @OP :)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Man makes me want to start sending people letters to open on hard days. We need to make this a thing. Bad day letters.

9 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 0

This is excellent

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

A grand idea.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

I'm interested in this

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

When you realize they are not the one, ending it is the best option for both parties. It sucks, but must be done. Imgur high five op

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Thanks. I'm continually reminding myself of that

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not judging, just curious

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't understand how you can be in love with someone but not see them as "the one"?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm not "in love" with him, as a lover. I love him as a person. Idk, hard to explain but I love him like my best friends, not a husband.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0