My Eldest son turns 21 on January 5th. Challenge accepted?

Dec 26, 2013 11:56 AM

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Here he is, 2003

That would be me, goofing with him, back when the local Mickey-D's had a kids' playground.

The eldest of five

His biological brother is only a year younger than him, as is the step-sister. The four of them would be in his care in my absence. There's a long story to that, which you don't wish to read.

Proud boy scout

With his best friend at the time.

Here he is, in perhaps 2004-2005

For a sense of scale, he's blinding his younger brother, who is only one year junior to him.Rail-thin, the kid just wouldn't stop growing! He always was a goof, and my then-digital camera afforded him this golden opportunity to foul the pic. Flipside, it afforded me a perfect bribery pic [I'm not always a nice mom]

Here's his 2006 pic

I hear throwback images tend to get upvotes. Here's my eldest, in an old school pic. Yes, he's always been a skinny fella. I promised him at a young age I'd keep him anonymous from my internet wanderings, so I'm not parking his name here.

I forgot to mention

He plays guitar

Here he is, goofing around again

This was last year, in Job Corps

Chef Cabo and Chef Shaggy

Lol...that's one of the nicknames they have for him at Job Corps. He's out there, working on culinary arts, building a life...way the hell across the state. This is his pic from last year, with his instructor.

So here he is

On January 5, 2014, he turns that "magical" age of 21. He lives out in Miami, and, due to unfortunate circumstances, will be out there, rather than at home, though at least he's here for the Holidays. Seeing this on the front page would Make His Day.

Edit: he got this early, and it Made His Day

Used later on an update folder: He was on http://imgur.com/gallery/hsFXC - my idea of a birthday card.

But you asked for the front page... twice.

12 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 5

Terminator

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I turn 21 on February 5th!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Happy upcoming Birthday :)

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Lady, my kids haven't had X-mas or B-day presents for years. We try to make up with 'special' dinners, loads of laughs, etc. But I'll upvote

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I used to try to come up with "something" - even if just a picnic in the park...this is the first time I was out of ideas, but thank you :)

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

"aww...cute....haha....OH GOD NOT A SKULL FEDORA"

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

...and moustache glasses. Like I said, he gets goofy.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I used to go to the North Texas Jorps Center. An upvote and some advice: Encourage him to continue schooling. JC doesn't got far anymore.

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

I've suggested culinary arts at college after, but he needs exit funds.Home is too far from city to do much, so...roof, school,edu.Tryin'...

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If he asked you not to put his identity on the internet, I don't think he'll like this...

12 years ago | Likes 49 Dislikes 11

I made the promise when he was little. In a way I did keep it, but he broke anon for facebook, and I posted his creations. Hopefully [1]

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

as a culinary student, that facial hair wouldnt fly well with many chefs

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

He has cropped off the long lanks and keeps a tiny goatee and 'stache, well groomed and with comb, though I think he has something for it.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I went to Gary Job Corps in Seguine,TX. Not the best experience of my life, but I got some skills and became a machinist. Good on him!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Dat brick phone in the first picture doe

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I upvoted. But it was pretty winded.

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

Mybad.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Another one to add to the "omgwtfbbq - that's my b'day as well!!one!" It's also the 12th day of xmas, depending on what religion you observe

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday, and Happy Holidays :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Is your son single? Because I would like to take him in a womanly fashion.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

At this point in time he's taken, and also focused on getting his feet on the ground, though he'll smile at the sentiment :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Lol he is exactly 1 year older than me :O

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

That's awesome :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

you have my upvote!

12 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 8

...and MY axe!

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Axe body spray is useless against Florida heat, but I'm hoping he'll take the bow :) Upvotes for the both of you.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Damn the downvote brigade!

12 years ago | Likes 104 Dislikes 24

Helps?

12 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 11

Working on it, lady

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Many huge thanks :) <3

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The tide is turning OP.....

12 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 3

Many much thanks :) <3

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I turn 21 on January 5th too! Send him my best wishes and congratulate him on achieving so much! I'm still figuring out what I want to do!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

*scrolling down* pleasedon'thavediedinanaccident, pleasedon'thavediedinanaccident, pleasedon'thavediedinanaccident...

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Nope. It's a mom, proud of her son, glad for his independence,sad that it might be a bit til next meeting,seeing him soar. So I did this.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Don't get me wrong, I think this is fantastic, it's just how most of the other similar posts end.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I know, right? Still and all, he got this early, and kind of tripped out that this happened - in a good way.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

+1 from me.

12 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 4

+1 returned :)

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Awesome! The glasses and 'stache rock!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's still a shade of goofin' off :)

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I turn 25 on January 5th! :D

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My roommates birthday is the 5th, I'll upvote

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Happy Bday to the roomie :)

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Do 21 year olds depend on mom for a good Christmas??

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

I know I do!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

:/ no one should really consider caring for 5 kids if they aren't sure to be financially sufficient until they are all adults...

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's somewhat what I said to the ex and his wife but when in over our heads, what do we do but collaborate the best we can?They split[1]

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My ex husband's wife arrived with three kids.I had two jobs and a husband, but couldn't afford lawyer, so, long story. Oh, and I'm 43 [2]

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

and I agree with you. [3]/fin

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

As someone who did Job Corps, I hope things get better for him. They helped me out so much!

12 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 0

What center were you at?

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Roswell Job Corps in NM

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I have my fingers crossed. He's busting his skinny no-butt out there, for what it's worth. Hoping for the Best...proud he got this far.TY:)

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I did automotive and so I know how hard it is. But if you can make it through it then you can do anything!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

:) And congrats to you for yours.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Thanks! Best of luck to him!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Your eldest son is a good lookin' chap.

12 years ago | Likes 194 Dislikes 5

I've told him, and now here's an outside,impartial source to confirm it :D Thank you :)

12 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

To be fair though- I also think your son is pretty fly. (source: is girl)

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

:)

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If it's any consolation, it's also coming from a girl. I hope your Holidays went well OP!

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Low on presents but lots of presence this year :')

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

presence > presents. I'm deployed so I didn't get to spend it with my family either. I prefer presence. Boxes aren't the same.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

They never are, but the heart still knows, near or far.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

"Hey honey, this nice sweet girl on the internet says she likes you!"..."What's her name?"... "heygofuckyourself"

12 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

He wouldn't bother asking. But, yeah, that was funny.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Atleast he will be with family. I get to miss Thanksgiving (gone) Christmas (gone) New Years next. Then my Bday in Feb. Desserts fun tho.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

He made it for Christmas, will be here New Year's, leaves...on his B-day.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Welp..Cannot get them all! Enjoy the time together!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Holding tight to every moment we can catch :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

..... ZAK?!

12 years ago | Likes 86 Dislikes 1

The Lego Maniac?

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm not sure of my sons' online names, we do the whole anonymity thing. If he breaks anonymity, that's his department.

12 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 1

Sorry, your son looks like my ex boyfriend that I had back in high school.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

It's all good, no worries.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

he shares my bday :D

12 years ago | Likes 147 Dislikes 5

My daughters birthday.. she'll be 3

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Your username is relevant, go to him (preferably via noble steed)

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I upvoted the whole stack of those sharing the Birth month:) Happy Birthdays to all :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

MINE TOO

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Mine too :)

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

and mine!

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

ME TOO! :D

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I turn 20 on the 5th! The best part of being a January 5th baby is its long enough after Christmas that you still get b-day gifts.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

happy birthday!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

18 this coming January 5th :D

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

me too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Mine too I turn 22

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Oh my god we're so many! I turn 16, and btw It's also the bday of the most famous singer here in greece!

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

mine too!

12 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

Eeeeee I'm 22 on Jan 5th!! :):)

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Me as well! 22 yeeyahh Jan 5th everyone forgets our birthdays cause they are drunk from Nys!

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Same here! I will be 28.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Same! And turning 21 as well :)

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

JAN 5TH BABIES UNITE!

12 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 1

Happy Birthday!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday! :)

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

We shall rule the world

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

NO FUCK WAY. I'm even turning 21. WE ARE SO COOL!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Me too! I turn 21 on Jan 5th as well! :D

12 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

THANK YOU!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

SAME!! YAY! Happy 21st!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Haaapppy birthday!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday!!!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I also turn 21 on Jan 5!!!

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday!!!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Happy birthday!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I turn 21 on the 6th. Can I join in anyway?

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Happy (Almost) Birthday!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(Almost) Thanks!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

YES! Happy birthday!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

He shares your birthday? You share my birthday.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

how old are you? eldest gets dibs

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Turning the big 3-0. Instead of celebrating, I feel like I should be mourning. It's an end of a great time.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

got me by 5 years. hitting my last "adulthood" milestone and getting my insurance breaks :D

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Me too! I turn 30 this year!!!

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

I turn 30 the 4th! AHHHHHHHHHHH

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I turn 30 as well on the 5th! Wait.. why am I happy about that?

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

THAT'S WHEN MY 30TH BIRTHDAY WAS TOO!!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well then, HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!!! :D

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

YOU TOO!!1 YAY FOR BEING OLD! wait...

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday to everyone!! :D!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Mine too! I'll be 25!!

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday!!!

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same here!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Me too!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So, I love your screen name!! I had the opportunity to work with owls. They are AMAZING creatures!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just out of curiousity, are any of you Jan 5th Babies perhaps named Justin as well?

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Mine too I'll be 23!

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Have yourself a Glorious birthday, too!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Happy Birthday!!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

holy shit we are many

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I upvoted but it seems the Christmas cheer has disappeared :/ Tell your son Happy Birthday from Karen in Ireland :D

12 years ago | Likes 415 Dislikes 4

Hi Karen in Ireland! Can I come live with you? I think I don't belong in the states

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Will do...and I'll point him to the link here :)

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Christmas cheer was ruined by scads of skank selfies, but I upvoted this and btw Happy Birthday from scenic rural Delaware!

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Thank you, out in Delaware :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Upvoted, I don't really celerbrate Christmas much but taught to respect others traditions,Happy birthday from Trenton in Singapore :D

12 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

You have a good family :)

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You're the type of person that everyone should be like.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I thank you very much, and may you have a glorious 2014 :)

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

happy day from nicky in NY

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Thanks :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And Lindsey in North Carolina!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Mike in Ohio too!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Thank you :)

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I misread the caption and looked through the entire post thinking he was mentally challenged.

12 years ago | Likes 1092 Dislikes 6

To be honest i thought so too because of the first picture. But he is not soo happy!!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Makes it a much funnier post.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

What lol

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Me too...

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

He was either gonna be challenged or dead. That's how these things like to work

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

i laughed way too hard at this. i wish i could upvote you more than once

12 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

I'm still trying to figure out the misread. o_o

12 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I'm assuming it is the part where it says "challenged"

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I don't know if being awake for 22 hours has anything to do with it, but I laughed so hard I grew a six pack.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

oh god, you're the worst

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nah, we're just financially challenged...and perhaps a teeny nutter from time to time.

12 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

I didn't read the bottom caption, so without your comment I would have kept on thinking he was mentally challenged.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just to be safe I assume everyone is mentally challenged.

12 years ago | Likes 167 Dislikes 0

A safer bet there never was.

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Everyone has a challenge s/he has to overcome at some point, I guess? I dunno. I'm busy playing upvote fairy here...stunned a bit...

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Sorry, your son looks just like my ex-boyfriend from high school. I flipped out a little.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's all good, no worries.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0