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It's been almost 4 years since we adopted him, and EVERY encounter with another dog has been a disaster. He was a bait dog used for fighting, so instead of learning that other dogs are his friends, he learned that other dogs are going to hurt him, and he's been an awful mix of emotions and reactions with some extreme fear-based aggression. When he wasn't growling at dogs to "GET THE F**K AWAY FROM ME," he was cowering and trembling with fear.
I've been working non-stop to teach him that other dogs are "buddies" and have finally gotten him to the point where he can sit and wave hello when I ask him, "What do we do when we see a buddy?" Or when I ask if he wants to "say hello to the buddy!"
Today I brought a little buddy home for a few hours, and after some initial awkwardness (my pup has no concept of personal space; the poor little pup got annoyed a few times) we were able to go for a walk together, and they were able to lie next to each other on my bed (the muzzle was removed once the excitement died down).
It's not ideal, but it's a fuckton of progress from where he started.
AnotherGarcia
You are amazing. This dog is so lucky to have you and your patience. I hope great things come to you and your pup gets to a zen place
adultswim74
OMG! You are doing great work! Thank you and keep it up!
firstlaughofthedaythankyou
Well thank you. Do you keep like pepper spray or something around to break up a fight if it happens?
bouncymcgee
Thank you for not giving up. Humans hurt him and now he has to unlearn all that hurt. I hope he learns gentle and kind is now in his life
Budcmw
JupitersWitch
Unfortunately no matter how much work is done this pup can never be trusted alone with another dog. PTSD is very real in dogs as well.
mydashound
Omg! Thank you for having the patience to help these sweet misunderstood digs
Dipityseren
You're a pretty wonderful person. I hope you truly know that core deep and completely. Because you are. Lovely pup and buddy pup.
Bluegrasslass
Our cat was bullied by all the others at the breeder's house. She hid for the first few days. Now she's a snugglebug. Well done #OP
GeenHenk
I really admire your perseverance and your undying love for this little screwball. Your buddy looks really cute and keep up the progress! Yo
dbdulaney
Get a basket muzzle, like racing greyhounds and police dogs wear. Allows for panting and drinking water while preventing bites.
CeeSilver
They make some really soft nylon basket muzzles. Safe for biters and comfy too.
CeeSilver
And because they are nylon, they can dry and clean quickly.
watchingtheworldgoby
Safety first, and you didn’t give up. Good on you, bro.
ItsPronouncedDick77
Cheers to you and that beautiful pupper! I work with a jack Russell rescue and I applaud your progress.
benadrylbumblebutt
Jack Russels are another level of crazy I imagine
Individualsocksinthewashingmachine
They're incredibly sweet dogs and super loyal. If you can manage their energy they take to training well, can also be bags of nerves though
0GreatSnakes0
Mine is a real jerk to her buddy. Mega mood swings.
STINKPICKEL
No bad dogs, just bad pack leaders. I'm dealing with a JRT the previous owners thought of putting down for aggression, it's fear biting.
GemsAreOutrageousTrulyTrulyTrulyOutrageous
We need to go Thunderdome on the asses of those that breed/train fighting dogs/baitdogs/puppy mills.
PissedOffOoberDriver
datjuan
Be patient get professional help
ddriscoll3
You’re so awesome. A lot of folks would have given up. I pray you have many years of love and happiness with your furry friend.
OrnamentalTurtle
Honest question. Weren't you concerned for the other dog when removing the muzzle? Incase I find myself in a similar situation.
JeremyBearimy
Really admire your commitment! Great job.
Demoncorgi
My razor gatti is the opposite he loves everything and everyone. He was a bate dog that was found in a raid with ether gunshot wonds or -
Demoncorgi
+ stab wonds. The previous owners were moving to FL and couldn't take him too cuz his breed. We got him and he would not stop trying to -
Demoncorgi
+"hug" everyone he meet.still does to this day. I have to say @op thank you for being a awesome dog owner and hope it works out in the end
JohnWilliams9
I admire and applaud your commitment. You are succeeding where others (including me) would not have tried. Well done you.
Everyoneisacritique
Heck some cities just make it illegal just to own the breed. One i know of puts them down after 3 days too if you don't move them.
TeeWrecksQt
Sounds like maryland
Everyoneisacritique
Kinda sad ,since ik some that are absolute sweethearts and really its the owners alot of the time that fail these dogs not their genetics.
BOSSMOPS
magmufbtheness
There’s a case of a pit service dog from an out of towner that was grabbed by police while the guy was driving through Denver and killed-
magmufbtheness
He’s obviously suing now. But the policeman said “those dogs are banned in city limits and I have a right”.
witalaska4
Thank you for not giving up on him. Thank you for your forgiveness, mercy, and discipline
sumthinclever
You are undoubtedly a good person. Thank you!
storytaletime
That's a really good way to get a dog killed.
sleepyimgurian
Ignorsnt comment.
storytaletime
1. No, its not. I work with dogs every single day, many of them rescues. A dog aggressive dog should not be unmuzzled around a new dog
storytaletime
2. hours after meeting, ESPECIALLY on their home turf.
thecontractor
People that don’t see improperly bred/raised Pits as loaded weapons left lying around are why Pit owners can’t have nice things.
ajpimpsalll
Yup. These stories always end badly but everyone wants to pretend like cute pictures deny reality.
RepostFromLastWeek
And then some time later you think you'
RepostFromLastWeek
re at a point where you can take the muzzle off and boom, someones doggie gets ripped to pieces.
mjbc80
That's what I was worrying about. Dogs escape -- people leave gates and doors open by accident. Things happen.
ajpimpsalll
yup. and pitbulls are crazy strong and able to scale all kinds of shit when they get mad (which happens frequently and randomly). Dangerous.
Hoof3
My little female pittie has been with me for 5 years, and she is still dog aggressive. However, we got her a puppy, and she loves him.
Dani3113
My female Belgian malinois hates every dog except our gsd. It's going to be a lot of work to get her to calm down and not be so aggressive.
Sandyundertones
Why do you not have pictures!
ultrarunningawayfromyou
I love that it's her puppy
haleyboo24
Aw mine is the same way. She is dog aggresive but i brought a boy pit puppy home and she loves him. They are forever together 8 years later.
PickleMorty
But of mine are. I think it has to do with not enough socialization as pups and their need to protect. But we are making progress :)
frankiethefrankfurt
You can socialize all you want same as us but if they don’t like a dog they will attack :( it’s so sad because they are the sweetest dogs
PickleMorty
His motto is hippitie hoppity get off my property.
HumtyFuckty
Educate yourself as best you can. Lots of excellent dog training videos on YouTube. Hiring a trainer to teach you what to do is awesome.
HumtyFuckty
One of my best friends is 6 months in with her pit mix who was extremely dog aggressive. Hes playing with other dogs now.
pancakemonkey
My two braincells read that as '6 months pregnant with her pit mix'. V confused for a second. Own stupidity aside, that is super awesome!!!
BuddahsBrother
Any recommendations for how to get a dog calm? Vida sites etc. I've a sharpei pit cross that's 16months old. We got him 5 weeks ago and 1/2
BuddahsBrother
2/2 found out he'd never been outside for a walk so we're constantly on edge with him. He lunges at everything.
HumtyFuckty
Hes on edge 90% because YOU are on edge. They take cues from us. I've helped several friends with this. Hire a professional to help..
Vlasco
Use a harness if you're not already, please. Less likely to cause throat/neck injuries. Also, short leashes might help.
DirtyGravyring
thanks HumtyFuckty!
thelonepig
I spent 2 days this week at the vet, and I'm horrified at how many people assume all cats and dogs are friendly. Even if they ARE friendly,
Individualsocksinthewashingmachine
I agree, never assume a dogs friendly, picking up on the dogs queues is something you can only learn with experience. Still good dogs tho
thelonepig
4) almost broke out right there. You're doing good, and this is an important lesson that all dogs don't consider everyone buddies.
thelonepig
3) act aggressively while sick. And I saw a girl lead her German shepherd up to a dog without asking if the other dog was cool. A fight...
thelonepig
2) the vet is full of sick scared animals! I had to tell a woman to get her toddler away from my cat bc I couldn't guarantee he wouldn't...
sosotired
rule of thumb answer to does you dog bite? "She has never bitten anyone before, but she has teeth and she might". Most people leave her be
thelonepig
Excellent answer!
lifesblissful
(1)I had a few encounters like that. I now have 1 that's not friendly all the time so I hate when people with friendly dogs let them run up
lifesblissful
(2)run up to her. IDC if yours is, mines on a short leash for a reason. I picked her up for a reason!
Individualsocksinthewashingmachine
Yeah if the other dogs on a lead you shouldn't let your dog go up to it tbh. It's a solid way to end up with a bad interaction
ale624
Normally I will look at the owners facial expressions before letting my doggo approach, if they look chill I'll let him get kinda close(1/2)
ale624
To see how they're both gonna react before letting him get close enough for contact. My pup is super excited so older dogs can be grumpier
ale624
Which is totally cool and I get that. If it's clear they're not going to get on I'll just pull him back or pick him up depending
magmufbtheness
If you haven’t already, r/reactivedogs is amazing also I have a great training. My boxer mix was v dog aggressive and in a yr he has -
magmufbtheness
-dog friends and loves most people. Hard work but definitely worth it.
magmufbtheness
**great trainer I can give you
AnnieBahde
Thanks! We have a staffy who is incredibly sweet but walks are a nightmare.
magmufbtheness
Having a reactive dog is horribly difficult. Henry is my first and I didn’t realize the kind of planning and stuff I was going to have to-
magmufbtheness
Put into every outing. So stressful. He’s much better now though. I feel your pain!!
AnnieBahde
It’s encouraging to know you’ve had success, I’ve been browsing the Reddit page and sent it to my husband. She used to get along great with