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Been going through a period where my mental state is all types of fucked. On top of my poor mental health, my car isn’t reliable and my job is cutting my hours. I know this place can be harsh, but could I have some kind words thrown my way please?
azechini
If you can, talk to a therapist. If you can't, do your damnedest to find a way to keep going!
OldDanTuckersDaughter
I was nothing nothing at all, and when you're nothing at all, there's no reason to be afraid.. Sam Tarly
jconway37
You will be alright.
GoobleGobbleGoobleGobble
billyO68
Every thing of beauty has to go through forging and shaping. Even butterflies bury themselves in a coffin n r reborn. U beautiful. Tuff
Elmhafudd
Life brings down even the strong
ilovecosmetics
Bananasr00l
Don't be afraid to ask for help. There's no shame in talking about mental health. Prozac worked miracles for me.
lncorrectGrammerNazi
WokeenFenix
Hodor
SmartAssRN
5555252545
Time to start meditation exercises.. then do homework. Improvise. Adopt. Overcome.
MoldyKumquat
Homeless about 8 years ago to now owning house, new car, and anything I want. It gets better. Life is tough but you're tougher.Kick it's ass
EatAFatDick
blacknflat
i believe in you - you’ll get passed this and be stronger
Tthhhpphbbbphht
You are worthy of good things. Keep working to get there. I'm proud of you for your accomplishments to this point, and what's yet to be.
Account4this
Every storm runs out of rain. -Maya Angelou
surv3y0r
I also just lost a job and my car insurance. You're not alone. Hang in there! Things will get better. :)
BunnyNoose
Tell yourself 10 good things. Morning and night. 10 things that you have right now that are good. It may not be much, but it might help(1)
BunnyNoose
Shift your mental state. It's real easy to focus on what we dont have than what we do.
alyoshaspupil
Keep your hands busy. Busy hands breed a quiet mind. Make or fix something. Maybe that car. :)
wherethehorriblethingsare
babawanyika
Were I unwed, I’d take you in a manly fashion.
LegitNESSLmT
This to Shall pass.
TheBrokenRuler
It may pass like a kidney stone... but it'll pass!
grifterdawg
Cars are stuff. Jobs are things. But you are an eternal being with immeasurable importance. Keep your head up and shoulders back.
grifterdawg
Set your eyes on the horizon and keep moving forward. Something amazing is going to happen and you will see it.
milkinyococopuff
Thankyou
Playmaker101
Syrpynt
Fuck. dude. These emo heart characters are so old that my Xanga/LiveJournal/Myspace pages are requesting login.
DumberBlonde
But still effective! ❤
lordFaceGuyBanditZ
@ryanjoseph666 and @mrpuckett posts always have kind supportive comment sections. Might find someone that can help ya out 1/2
lordFaceGuyBanditZ
From personal experience, trying something new can be helpful when your mental is all fucked up. It can sorta recalibrate your brain :)
milkinyococopuff
Been binging their posts! Needed a good smile
lordFaceGuyBanditZ
They set up a list of imgurians that are able to talk/counsel other imgurians, DM them and ask for it ?
ryanjoseph666
You'll get through this like you've got through everything before @OP and feel free to message me if you want to talk <3
CallMeRobt
You've survived 100% of all the bad shit thrown at you so far. That's an impressive track record. Keep going.
Anrath
This.
herebecausecats
Well, there it is...
BigMistakeBigHUGE
Last yr, my company had 2 BS lawsuits (& we’re honest, pay as much as possible w/bonuses, family biz) this yr, thriving. U have to dig DEEP
chevymonster
Thank you so much. That statement really hit home with me. A much better perspective of what I've been through. Have a great day!
chevymonster
I'm making a wallpaper of it right now so I see it every day.
CallMeRobt
Sorry I didn't see this sooner but I'm glad it helped. Never hurts to remind yourself that you're undefeated at surviving bad times
milkinyococopuff
Love this quote Thankyou
thatguyintheplacewiththething
If you’re going through hell keep going, it doesn’t matter how fast you move, only that you don’t stop.
Kralizac
Things get better. Something ive learned is that you have to make your own happy. Take time to enjoy something. And talk to your employer.
Everyoneisacritique
You might also look around for a another job/part time job if your hours are being cut. Stay strong and keep pressing forward I usually tell
Everyoneisacritique
my friends that if you think about something to look forward to it makes it easier. Thats what made it easier for me just thinking of one
Everyoneisacritique
thing that gives you hope and inspires you. Best thing is to say that to yourself and push forward no matter what bad things happen.
DumberBlonde
I'll tell you what I tell myself when life sucks: it's temporary. It's just a moment and someday very soon it'll be a vague, crappy memory.
spalone
This is the way
heWhoRunsWithScissors
Can confirm have been in. Similar situation. Toxic job with blame culture. Now 6 months out I’m so much better off. Hang in there.
beneottercumbersnoot
My dad always said, "I could shovel shit for a year...as long as I know it's only a year."
WineIsNoice2
wish it worked that way lol
TheWhiteRat
Unless you're just unlucky as hell and god perpetually just shits in your cornflakes, and I know a few people like that, sadly.
HavUSeenMyBaseball
I've been telling myself this after my recent shit situation and it helps cause I know now. I've been through it before.
HavUSeenMyBaseball
Changes come, keep your dignity, take the high road.
boxmeister
"This is a temporary state"
Anamethatwasntused
Yes. Life will be over before you know it.
QueefBurglarSixtyNine
That’s the spirit!
monocline
"This too shall pass..."
Agent670
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=it7mVLJaWIc
HavUSeenMyBaseball
Keep your dignity. I Love that song.
AzraelEternity
"It might pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass."
HavUSeenMyBaseball
It's just a broken heart son, this pain will pass away
Dudewalker1
Find out what isn’t reliable on the car, youtube that shit. Fixing a problem on my car and saving lots of money gives me a great boost!
Chaoslost
100%! I've learned how to fix so much stuff on my car and my mom's car. Check out ChrisFix on youtube!
Knave333
Heyyy guyyys! Chris Fix here...
warmNchewey
Fixing anything feels amazing!
Trigonix
Can you do that in modern cars as well? I have a Skoda Fabia 2016 model for example, I can switch the lights but more?
Kunitsu
best thing is to start with a problem you know you have, and see if youtube comes up with anything. if there's a video on youtube of how to
Kunitsu
do it, you most likely can figure it out on your own. most of my vehicles are a bit older, think the most recent one was a 2011... but we've
Kunitsu
done nearly all the work on it ourselves
FokkenLazer
Idk, I consider many common repairs to be easy, but if you’ve never turned a wrench then you should find a buddy who has. Also tools.
Kunitsu
you can also ask the guys at places like autozone/advanced auto to loan you some tools, they will even help you with some minor repairs that
Kunitsu
can be done in their parkinglot. we replaced my brake pads and lines in advanced's parkinglot one winter when my line blew. dude there was
Kunitsu
super helpful and even got us a cardboard box to lay on so we werent laying on concrete and snow =)
Fadi5772
My car's heat blower motor stopped working 2 days ago. Prophet YouTube showed me how to diagnose the problem. Ordered parts from Jeff Bezos
Fadi5772
, who delivered them overnight. Fixed the car today and felt great about it. So, I strongly second this suggestion.
Kunitsu
my jeep went from having heat one day, to fucking none when temp hit 15 out. a lil youtube and 3 days of work (radiator flush) and how to
Kunitsu
burp the system with a vacuum and i had heat again. used youtube again later to walk me through replacing my engine radiator panel, hoses,
Kunitsu
and thermostat housing and still had good heat when i was done. =D now just gotta do the water pump housing gasket and i should be golden!
LovelyLadyLumps
Yes! I changed my alternator & it made me feel like boss ass bitch!!!
TheTrueHippy
I hope it was easy for you. For me it was the most annoying crap ever
Kunitsu
think the worst repair to date we've had to do in my household, was a starter replacement on an 07 jeep 4x4... fucker was above the exhaust
Kunitsu
and transfer case... transfer case was so locked up we couldnt get it off at all, ended up wiggling the starter out from around it and the
Kunitsu
exhaust piping in the rain. was a miserable several hours with alot of bashed fingers... but we got it