newimprovedjack
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Dec 19, 2016 9:23 PM
newimprovedjack
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joushikijin
My spouse and myself have no children by choice. We agreed if she gets pregnant despite contraception that I just push her down the stairs.
ihavetwosnakes
Adoption? Accepting your parental responsibility? Adulting?
13Alpha
Sorry to hear about that. Good luck with whatever decision the two of you make. (If I get a vote - Adopt)
rebeccaINgreen
Biggest issue really is the cost. Very simple safe procedure for women. Make decisions for yourself; never for anyone else
Jesusthe3rd
Good don't being a child Into the world of your not ready
Sentwy23
Better than raising an unwanted child. Discuss it with your partner as well, look in possible side effects, and know you decided right.
WaterLaunchedFireFly
Scarlet Letter A?
Evilwall
You can get a big A at many crafts stores, made of foam.
teenylilsuperguy
Does it rhyme with schmamorshion?
Sampotatos
You might be stressing yourself out a lot which might be pushing your period back
Kichini
Also major changes in lifestyle (diet/activity).
PoopFrosting
anal? good thing to consider, might prevent this in the future!
nounthennumbers
BDMatelier
Not for nothing but if you can't say the word abortion or adoption, you probably aren't ready to be a parent.
MrFunreal
Is it too late for "the pill after"? Sorry if this is a stupid question. I'm a guy.
pinkystar
After morning pill works best in the 24 hours. Two weeks is def too late
newimprovedjack
I think so. But we shall see.
FanOfFanboys
Try the DIY method, cheaper
neteazy
There are plenty of parents looking to Adopt also.
atmospheric
Alcoholism?
ParanoidWithGoodCause
didn't that cause the problem to begin with?
AlottaFangina
Been there, done that. Best decision for me and my SO. Dont let others bring you down, you gotta do you.
mondanmondan
Yup, that's the American way. Had sex, don't like the consequences, so let's kill it because it inconveniences ME.
newimprovedjack
Wow.
Roboman0516
shmishmorshin
bubup
It's called abortion and definitely do it. Don't ruin a child's life because you weren't ready to take care of it financially or otherwise
ReJokeStatistics
Adoption?
LadiesInboxMeYourInsecurities
Yes because the adoption system needs more children. All of the ones in it are having their needs met so well.
justwatching
So... you were irresponsible with your body?
newimprovedjack
Nope. Married. Don't feel like I am. But thanks for the kick while I'm down.
justwatching
Good that you're married. Bad that you're going to have surgery now.
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LadiesInboxMeYourInsecurities
Here is an idea. Quit being a fucking asshole.
newimprovedjack
I'm married...had sex with my husband.
hexparadox
makes me sick that American's seem to have to have this thought and people demonise them for it. grow up!
hexparadox
Note that was grow up America no @op
LadiesInboxMeYourInsecurities
"A clothes hanger"?
newimprovedjack
Thanks for the chuckle.
LadiesInboxMeYourInsecurities
Not a thing. Also don't let the shitty anti-abortion people get you down. If you don't want a baby don't have one.
newimprovedjack
Thanks!
newimprovedjack
Guess I should've mentioned, I'm married. And this lovely issue is something we are figuring out together. It would be his btw.
pinkystar
May I ask, if you have a partner, are u not ready for kids or just dont want kids alltogether?
newimprovedjack
Not sure we are ready OR if we want them or not.
ParanoidWithGoodCause
then those would be very good reasons to consider keeping it an making yourselves ready. losing a child even by choice hurts
FrozenFoodGuy
I can confirm this sadly. Even though me and my ex both knew it was for the best, it still hurts like hell...
newimprovedjack
That's what I'm worried about. As well. Just add to the list.
ParanoidWithGoodCause
you know your situation better than we do but anyone who's said they felt like they were ready for their first kids is a filthy liar
FrozenFoodGuy
To be fair, we both have genetic deseases. So the chance of getting a very u healthy child made the choise more reasonable for us.
FrozenFoodGuy
But it still hurts, even though there was no other choise...