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I'm military, I'm working on being happy, and I'm overweight. I should lose weight for my career, my health and happiness. All I can focus on is how lonely I am. So I thought long and hard...if it gets me to where I wanna be, then that's my motivation. I'm dry from thirst traps and I'm tired of being that guy that wants the best but deserves nothing...so lemme work on me!
Edit: Woah, FP?! NOICE! I've received a lot of feedback, good bad funny and indifferent. I appreciate it all. Send uh, meal prep, exercises and recipes for insanely good foods.
ChicanoBatman
Started yoga and pushups less than a month ago. Feel way better and GF is mauling me daily now. Worth it brother. Trust me.
23897FitVillain
Is there another motivation?
308Ryan
Hey man, good work working on yourself, but also, know what it is to be content in your singleness too.
Valfheim
This isn't anything to be ashamed of.,there's nothing wrong with wanting to look good.
kozmo403
Good luck.
trhopkins
That works too!
FilmMagician
FreaksOnWheels
Yeah same
ppbjackson
I accidentally read "I want to get in snape" and already had a Professor Snape - Yaoi going wild in my mind.
LuciusD
Wow.
ibejp
Imgurfit is still a thing if you need more motivation
Actinius
That's good motivation. I use the idea that Batman could burst in and ask for my help any moment now and I don't wanna make him regret that
DelightfullyOdd
Mine was be bangable and I was sick of being winded walking up the the second floor.
Kirijama
Fuck Motivation https://imgur.com/XXtREED
ThisIsNoCave
That's why everyone tries to be in shape, FYI
HerrFraeulein
Don't you get in trouble in the military for not being fit?
ice1712
Bad news - it still won't make you happy
Donttouchthatwithoutgloves
Unless being unfuckable is their root cause of being unhappy... Plus getting off your ass and exercising does wonders for the head.
misinformednerd
Any motivation is good motivation
JamesTarrou
sex is fun if you're fit and attractive.
twentyfivehundred
It's a lot more noble than expecting a 10 to like you because you're so nice. Nothing to confess here.
ASquirrelNamedLloyd
Lmao
SolidestCurve
onlyangrywhenitsbs
Who cares about 10s but superficial people anyways?... I say fuck’em, fuck the 10s! Wait...
Goku
@op good luck and remember, if you want something you have to work for it! Best wishes
RetardAIert
I’ve been going the gym about 7 years and for the first 3 years that was my motivation. It worked!
poppinfresh92
I’m right with ya man! Just started keto today. Trying to ride this keto-flu Out
isamux3
Bro its totally worth it. Im almost 40 pounds down and ive noticed im happier now. I guess this hapiness also = attractive
callmethelizardqueen
When you feel better about yourself it really does show through. I can look at pics when I was younger & weighed less, but miserable with
callmethelizardqueen
my looks compared to ones now and I look better now. When you feel good you also groom more and dress better.
Kryosite
And it's easier to take care of yourself when you feel like you can be proud of your body
ManBearDino
Happiness is a more important factor, but being pleased with your reflection does make most happier :)
Benruryefri
Fuck motivation, just get off your Ass and go. Im doing more tyre lifting tomorrow. Can't wait
Sfinski
Just getting off your ass needs motivation.
rollercostarican
most people need motivation to do things they dont particularly enjoy lol
PorkyPigginit
The right one will find you fuckable no matter what.
astrangehop
Maybe someone has to be ready to find the right one and that sometimes includes being fit.
callmethelizardqueen
But if you aren't happy with your body (find yourself unfkable) the right one will keep walking too. Self confidence affects your appearance
HerrFraeulein
But then that right one deserves a hot partner :)
probshouldntsayitbut
There are more than one “right ones” in this big world and first impression/appearances are important to draw them in for what lies beneath.
PhuckinFoneticJenius
You’d be surprised how motivated this can make you! Good luck brother
CritterJoe
True, key thing is dont stop if it does yeld success. True success is to twist it/adapt and keep going.
BreastInspector
https://media.giphy.com/media/2tkGpzWAsbzaw/giphy.gif
PhuckinFoneticJenius
Haha that movie hit close to home for me!
HD2composer
Same
PhuckinFoneticJenius
If you sit back and look at the big picture, everything we do is so we can fuck more or pass the time until we can.
pauldegraaf
You can do it!
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jrellis462
You're gonna be in a world of shit
wipethatfaceoffyourheadbitch
You disgusting fatbody!
Thatguythatknowsbetter
I copied those when I was younger lol
Felextheminimal
1 2 3 4 I love marine corp
SadLonelyStupid
I’ve lost ~100 lbs. I’m not trying to discourage you by any means- it’s awesome you have motivation, but your physical appearance won’t
SadLonelyStupid
magically make life easier, better, or more worth living if it isn’t now. It’s better to go in with realistic expectations that it’s not a
SadLonelyStupid
cure-all. Things may be great at first but the high of weight loss doesn’t last forever. Do it for you, not others’ perception of you.
LuciusD
Thanks, I'm working on it, but we often identify ourselves from the mirror of society until we learn how to look at ourselves from within.
LuciusD
Eckhart Tolle's work is teaching me how to fix that.
rohittee1
Not much of a confession cause I'm pretty sure that's most people motivation to work out...
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rohittee1
What is combat mom?
AnotherExhaustedMillenial
My coaches call it the "LGN factor" (look good naked)
lokikismit
I disagree, for a lot of us (I.E. me and my friends) it's a hobby. I enjoy seeing how much I can lift and if I can beat that number
chargeling
Mine is not being in constant pain from my wrecked back, but that is a nice bonus. ;)
ChristaE
word
BluffinMuffin
Dats my motivation!!!
tillinfinity93
That was my motivation when I started but then later I realized im still not fuckable. Now I cant just stop :)
TorchNRun
Men and women both work out for the same reason: to get the perfect female body.
THRAWN18
I want to look like... wel pick any of the Marvel Chris actors shirtless
ThoughtfulTortuga
Yeah, I've seen this confession bear maybe six or seven times now.
maximinusthrax1
Deep down, we all want to look better naked...
straberrymilk
mines 10lbs = 1in ;)
dininek
Loose 10 lbs - loose 1 in?
pimpquisition
Some just doing it for the gains bro
Mapplemoose
Same here!
Madderrs
Yes. It’s 98% be fuckable 2% not die from diseases dujour.
LuciusD
Fair enough, but honestly honesty is the way forward. And I often feel the same about most confession bears.
uberleet
my reason is just so I have more energy and my knees dont' hurt when I squat to play with my kids... doubt it has any impact on frequency.
catsaregroundowls
Honestly it improves my mood too.
auserwithaname
Mine is so I can lift patients easier on an ambulance and be in shape enough to do SAR
surlyghost
Volunteer fire fighting and wildlands hiking, ftw!
sux4younerd
That's the initial motivation for a lot of people, but once you start going and the gains start coming in, you start going for you.
ShitBricks
This. I dont see how getting laid can be longterm motivation. At the start for sure, but once you feel how good it is, you will do it for u
sux4younerd
Once @op finds out the only ones noticing your gains are the other dudes at the gym, he'll have to find new motivation.
ShitBricks
Or he changes his sexual orientation ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
alpoopy
my boyfriend is into chubby guys soooo the more I work out the less fuckable I am.
rohittee1
There's cute chubby then there's morbidly obese, you probably have to work out a little to maintain the perfect ratio.
alpoopy
well i'm pretty sure, according to him, i'm in cute chubby range. But I want to be down to healthy/active/belly-less range. He's not
alpoopy
down with that, but I told him I'd move slowly so he could get used to it.
Taxicat
Eh, mine was to avoid ending up like my parents. Both are obese, family history of multiple forms of arthritis (not all of which 1/
Taxicat
I can really avoid, but less weight might help delay it or make the symptoms lighter), etc. Also, I just don't like the physical 2/
Taxicat
sensation of carrying extra weight on certain areas. I'm used to it around my hips, thighs, ass, etc. Not my stomach or arms. 3/
Taxicat
It throws off my balance and my sense of my own body. 4/
djoyce98
Yeah it was my motivation too until the gym gave me a God complex. Now I do it just to try to look poifect and lifting feels good.
TheBraveToaster
This
OB1Kenobi
Mine is just because I’m competitive at everything and I hate running but now I do triathlons because I must defeat my friend
fnhngest
poifect sounds like such a posh accent. i’m sure you’re poifect the way you are, honey.
GrizzlingtonBear
Once we captcha that Poikachuw da baws'll tink we's poifect!
djoyce98
Thanks Dad
IOnlyPostThatOneGorillaGif
sounds more like a new yorker to me.
chardlz
Fekkin jersey folk out here thinking they're posh
MoneybagsMcGee
And they can't even pump their own gas...poifect
Nathanfake
dat user name
jondakota139000
It's too late. The body dysmorphia has already set in. You'll never look the way you want now. Lol
djoyce98
RRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEE
MoneybagsMcGee
2true
sux4younerd
feelsbadman
OB1Kenobi
And if you ever go slightly out of shape you’ll be angry every time you see your reflection