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This probably will need some backstory, it’s not exactly what the penguins say. I have never been able to orgasm with a partner, I can get myself off pretty easy but was never able to translate that over. After about 10 months of no luck with my wonderful boyfriend, he suggested butt stuff. I said a firm no but eventually let him put a finger in. It felt wonderful and I got so close but it always disappeared at the last minute. We googled it and he suggested masturbating next to him to get used to orgasming in front of him. I did and later that day (today) we tried again (with a finger where the sun don’t shine) and success! I am on cloud nine
sayitsoooooooooo
icameheretolaughbutleftdisappointed
Mybrainfartwaswet
Displicentlickeroflittlethings
Now you have your G SPOT available 24/7 for your wonderful boyfriend.
WhiteDemon
Communication and suggestions and being comfortable with each other. Now this is how you have a relationship!!!!
MontanasFinest
BurgundyBurrito
Congrats on the sex
ChickenROAR
Going to show this my fiancée. Thank you 'n' wish me luck.
kittydetonator
Good luck! Tell her to give it a shot, she may be pleasantly surprised
TimeToSmile42
sLAppyMcBaLlz2
PepsiFluxX
Way to be communicating and not faking it! Grats on the gasms!
Clarhilary
He googles how to help you get off? Husband him.
kittydetonator
@poppatiddy it has been decided
FilYouWithMe
Just keep exploring, as long as you both are willing to figure out your sex things, you'll find ways to make each other happy!
toasteheh
My GF and a fair few exes all love(d) fingers in their ass during, so youre not alone.
daasrocks
BF comin in like
SwarthyBastard
I'm not shocked, honestly (no pun intended). I find for some women anal gives them an intense pleasure that vaginal can't compare to.
gmc02hd
That's a great story, I like the ending.
Unverified
There's two kinds of girls. Those that like a finger in the butt and those that don't know it yet
SirBrendan
People*.
ZeroZeta
johnvalley3686
nipplepanties
Interesting. Genuinely interesting. I can't reach orgasm with my girlfriend oddly enough because she mostly doesn't exist.
TheMovieGalaxyQuest
Only mostly? So she partly exists?
soejmud
This needs more info, here!
kittydetonator
That’s the best laugh I’ve had today
boopysnoot
I mean who doesn’t like a finger up their butt every now and then?
HillOfBeans
Me. You don't want to open that finkster without a toidy.
duojet
Honest question. Do people like the smell of dirty ass on their finger? I've never had interest in putting my finger in one.
Craicerjack
Hey some people like scat so Im sure some people do
IamCommanderShepardAndThisIsMyFavouriteStoreOnTheCitadel
Then don't smell it... Wash your hands after that...
notnowimpooping
Check out my user name.
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Flyndaran
I don't kink-shame, but your kinks aren't everyone's.
XoxSmotpokerxoX
Lol its you again, frigid much btw not a kink, just an erogenous zone that can be sensitive.
Flyndaran
Erogenous to you. I'm sorry you seem to have problem understanding that.
SirBrendan
Hey, thank you for disagreeing with a sexual flavour without making it some weird conflict. You're a lovely example.
Eclaircissement
Something like 2/3 of women can't get off with just penetration (vaginal, that is). It's all about the clit, apparently.
elizardo
But not to over do it. If you stimulate the clit too much it goes numb and then ya gotta focus on penetration a lil bit. Then back to clit.
idontcareifthesundontshine
yes, you got to imagine you are booping the snoot of a baby mouse
whatupmyknitters
or it just hurts
hairybeanbag
Crapidapity
*Sigh* -Unzips-
salemblack
Azuur
GalacticCrunch
MayorDeweyMayorDewey
rehbecka
It took me about 5 years and a few sexual partners until I had my first orgasm with someone going down on me. (Never had issues when 1/?
rehbecka
masturbating either) Now it has become way easier :)
AnOtterMistake
I envy you. I've never had one, but it isn't because of lack of trying. I just can't figure out what it takes.
rehbecka
For me it just clicked one day. Keep trying :)
AnOtterMistake
Hopefully, it's getting frustrating for both me and my SO. Thank you!
TupacAintDead
Now, you put your finger up his butt.
Poppatiddy
@kittydetonator Imgur has spoken
NNextremNN
I like that you're both active here in the comment section keep having fun and I wish both of you a happy future together.
kittydetonator
That’s adorable, thank you :)
8livesLeft
The real success here is that you were willing to talk about it with him
Redheadgal
Yeah, will admit I would have just started faking. Which I know is wrong.
kittydetonator
He’s a great communicator when it comes to the sex, he’s always making sure I’m comfortable with everything we do
TheSweetReleaseOfDeathCarrysMeAway
Now let him put 8===D in ur ☆ and be on cloud 99
attagirl
Yeah, I'm definitely the person who's too insecure to be able to do that so I pretend just to keep my anxiety at bay. :/
djangodjangodjang
Do you think not being able to orgasm was just a physical thing, or was it a comfort/mental thing too? just ignore if too personal
wyatt8740
Mental, 99.99% sure. Even as a guy if my mind's not in the right place I can't orgasm
kittydetonator
Definitely mental, I got myself all worked up in case I orgasmed weird or something but once I’d done it in front of him I felt much better
BobsonDugnuttTakenAlready
So do you or do you not click your mouse while sex because I found a lot of people don't stimulate clit during sex and that's the problem
Riyakou
You have a keeper, love. Don't let him go.
Metallica93
Told a girl this and she said I was a keeper, too. Is... this not a normal thing or...?
Prunebane
Different people, different intentions, imho. I don't dare say what defines the good and bad, "keeper" might mean something else for anyone.
Metallica93
I mean, my intentions are far from pure, lol. I just think that should be communicated in and out of the bedroom.
ThinkingOfOneTakesTooLong
When you play with yourself do you climax from clitoral, vaginal, or anal stimulation? Different positions stimulate different places better
kittydetonator
All 3, I guess?? I’m a complicated woman
ThinkingOfOneTakesTooLong
Try missionary with his body laying completely on yours and have him use his hips to move. This should be able rub your clit and vaginal.
kittydetonator
We did it with me on top so I was lying on him. Basically upside down of what you suggested and that way I was in control
ThinkingOfOneTakesTooLong
Whenever I do this she cums in couple minutes. Also try kegel exercise, heard that helps female orgasms or something.
ohdeepthought
Also it gives you a lot of control and helps keep it all tight.
ThinkingOfOneTakesTooLong
Think if he's on top, should be easier since he's probably heavier and gravity helps push him down on you. Not sure though.
ohdeepthought
Both work
ilovepeachesmorethanyou
Nah the guy never gets the rhythm right that way.
dtek
Backstory, eh? :)
Seethreepeeoh
I'm getting the hole picture now
UrinalPube
Backdoorstory
Whazitooyah
SexualConsent
somanyfeels21
I see what you did rear
VierasMarius
For that pun I'm gonna have to charge you with assault and buttery.
theslybanananana
Prunebane
I like how Liam Neeson is getting all this attention, it's really wholesome
kittydetonator
SmileyBonesArt
daiwenqian
Damn it!?! I lost it!!!! I am at work laughing so hard I almost cried.
ThighHighsSaveLives
43rdpresident
That creepy guy look. +1
sLAppyMcBaLlz2
The8obman
THE GREAT INTERNET PROVIDES
PrfctDrk
AH! I forgot about him!
IamTheNesT
bendoverrover
Try wearing a buttplug during sex
kittydetonator
It’s sounds uncomfortable
mosephus80
I dp my chick with a dildo and my dick, she loves it.
bendoverrover
It takes experimenting and getting used to. It's worth it once you do though.
bendoverrover
I think the fact a finger up there makes you cum is a good sign
FsImgur
They come in different sizes. Just measure your butthole and bring to the sex toy store.
kittydetonator
Can’t I just bring my butthole to the store?
FsImgur
And "try before you buy"? I'm not sure they'll have that option available.