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So this situation is really awkward and I hate it. A friend of mine came over the other night and we sat on my bed and watched a movie. When he left I kept smelling something. The first couple of times I brushed it off. Then I kept smelling it. I was like umm what the hell is this smell coming from ? I smelled the pillows and nothing... so this is embarrassing to even type but I smelled the area he was sitting and it was like pure body odor. It made me furious and weirded out. I remove my blanket immediately. The smell had also penetrated to a quilt under that blanket. WTF.... I removed it immediately. 2 sheets underneath all that... B.O. smell. WTF again... all the way to my mattress cover... and slightly on my mattress. I'm pretty mad about this situation. Have you ever dealt with this ?
TL;DR - friend isn't taking care of his personal hygiene. How do you discuss this or bring it up ?
neos501
used to have a coworker who didnt use deodorant. One day someone brought in deodorant, wrote their name on it and left it in break room.
erickwhite9
Invite friend into shower and show them how it's done
waeraj
Buy him a large amount of deoderent
ThoughtsAndBeers
One breath at a time
BrickShakes
There's no easy way, but I learn towards a proactive route, lending them your shower etc, it tells the issue but also let em know you care.
eatyourmeat
In the military, we would use a bucket of high concentration soap water. They have to rinse off and bam. Clean
Chimpanzeezeetop
Ask him if he's celebrating Bastille day.
ifihadhandcuffs
If you aren’t exaggerating, this sounds like more than just not bathing. Sounds like some kinda medical problem.
Quasime
Just spray him with bathroom spray, just make sure to put a lighter in front of it to show dominance. Jk, private and truthful is best.
fartmasterflashitsagasgasgas
https://imgur.com/cnMyCOA
SaintStarman
Had a co-worker that when he talked I felt queasy, one day was so bad had to tell him "Not trying to hurt you, but you gotta do something."
MissingImage
As a staff sergeant, there is always one dirty kid. Be honest, and ready for him to be upset. "You smell nasty."
VendettasWhim
RadiDaddy
schmidy
BRAK!
Saulot99
All the awkwardness is on his part. Means he doesn't respect himself or others. Oddly enough too he may not realize his own smell or
Saulot99
that others can smell him.Dont beat around the bush. Just politely let him know he needs to take a shower and deodorant before he comes over
frustwrited
Assert your dominance by having even worse body odor and hang around them more than you do now so he asks what he should do about your odor.
FerricGuy
honesty, but privacy. he'll thank you for treating him with respect.
RandyJenkins
Yeah. I just hate to even bring it up. Such a hard thing to do.
outlawjosey
Buy him some deodorant
RandyJenkins
It's not underarm BO. Its stinky ass.