"... the same sexism that hurts women also hurts men"

Sep 6, 2016 8:54 PM

TotallyNotAGirl

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Not mine! I was just browsing my favourites and thought it was good to be reposted.

FP edit: I didn't know but there is a full version of the comic: http://imgur.com/gallery/k2Z4G Thanks to those who pointed it out!

As it is my first time in FP, send me your cat pics!!!

okay, I'm a chick, and I'll call ANYONE being coward a sissy or wuss bc they are synonyms for that word.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 5

If you're a body builder in drag, you have to be a funny queen, wesley snipes in too wong fu vs gia gunn

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 4

My wife left me for a guy who identifies as non-binary and wears women's clothing. I really stopped caring about any of that shit.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Truth. As boys we're told only girls cry, toughen up, then when you do, you're a fag. It has to stop.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

I feel like I saw this before, but with a lot more panels.

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Except the issues stem from toxic masculinity and patriarchy you shitlord.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 20

You should be thankful people still care enough to try to toughen your hide so you have half a fucking chance of becoming an adult.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's more about what you let people say hurt you. Someone calling you a fag or gay says more about them than you. Their ignorance not yours.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Whats the option for not becoming a victim (as a guy that is)?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Its all, you know, like, just about, labels and stuff right? Seriously though well put

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Say 'because' one more time, pussy!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

I wanted to smack whatever kid or teacher that told my son he shouldn't want to play with girl toys. He didn't even know there was a 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Difference because we always just got him toys that were in line with his interests. I've been trying to correct this ever since 2/2

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

This is how you men's issues

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 4

It's great taht this is a message that supports everyone. Makes me happy

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

I just fucking hate everyone

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

If only there was some movement for equality, like... REAL EQUALITY. Something with a name... That RESONATED and spoke to EVERYBODY

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

And didn't imply one gender was inherently right, built on a foundation of claiming the other was inherently wrong.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

I'm bi. I have respect for both genders, some days more on one side.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

also crossdressers are hot

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

How about toughening the fuck up?

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 21

How about shutting the fuck up?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

For the unaware, this is a "Why we need Feminism" thing. Feminism is for both men and women, Dawgs. (Thank you, @op)

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 11

exactly! =)

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Everyone you meet... Shoot them in the face. Problem solved.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

How about, no.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 11

A yes. The "guy who likes cute things" issue. I distinctly remember being called a faggot on many occasions because I liked kittens

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 4

As a straight woman, I'm a faggot for kittens.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Anyone who DOESN'T like kittens is a faggot.

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 4

Hey! Plenty of faggots like kittens too! Can't we all just like kittens???

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

We all must love kittens. Failure to love kittens is a death penalty offense.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

It's almost complete bullshit, but, whatever dude. Human beings are hardwired via DNA. All the talking in the world won't change it.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 5

Oh look, more shit that was relevant 30 years ago but is no longer pertinent.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 30

You're just a special kind of fucking moron, aren't you? There there :pats your head:

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

No longer pertinent? Male suicide is higher know than it's ever been, and you think this message doesn't matter anymore?

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

why is it no longer pertinent?

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Because I've been out of school for a decade. And even back then, before all this special snowflake bullshit, men were not picked on for

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Being weak or having feelings. Being a male virgin was not a bad thing. Everyone knew you could be sexist against men and women.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

And I went to a county school in the heart of the bible belt. And all this is coming from a male that was in the marching band and graduated

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

a virgin.;

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Once, stereotypical masculine attributes like being tough and stoic and fearless were in high demand. These days, mostly... they aren't.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 12

and that's a good thing. all of those have bad sides to them. being tough means not being able to seek help or get therapy, even when

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

you need it. being stoic can be lonely. no one is truly fearless, some just hide it better, but it still affects them.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

I feel like my point is missed. Since modern life in America is NOT a hellish war zone, there is therefore not much demand for boys to (1/?)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

train to be potential warriors from childhood. But Western society evolved from that- we used to send boys to the front lines at a (2/?)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

moment's notice, and if it came to it we demanded that they dying fighting for the nation/tribe/clan what have you. That's WHY people (3/?)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

stop hating on people, treat the peoples with respect, simple stuff

9 years ago | Likes 110 Dislikes 5

Unless they camp in call of duty.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

listen here fucko

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Instructions unclear. Accidentally joined tumblr and third wave feminism

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

To quote Wil Wheaton, "Don't be a dick"

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

but what if I hate everyone equally?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't know man, I think that's too much to ask from people.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oh my God, Ill call the UN and check; maybe noone has ever thought of that as the solution to all of the worlds problems! :O

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yep, golden rule: Treat others with the respect you want them to treat you with, regardless if they ever return the favor.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Wait weren't these the characters from that time travel show or some such? Very vague, I know

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

More or less, Keanu Reeves and Alex Winter in Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, movie from the late 80s

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

But is it though? Hear me out, devil's advocate kinda thing here, don't care about votes I have plenty of rep. Here goes:

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It seems like it's a complex issue and not simple at all. The concept might be, but the execution is terribly complex. To put others...

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

...before yourself? Goes against our nature as animals. Yeah, we're smart animals but still. And what do other people need? How can we...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

...know? I'm not saying don't try. I hardly know what I need myself from day to day. I guess all I'm saying is we're all in this together...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

...even if it's our nature to be assholes, we can still try. But it's not simple. And it's not easy. We gotta fight the good fight...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

FINE I'll stop hating the nazis.

9 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 1

I can still nazi what they did that was so wrong

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

wait no

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

To clarify: Treat people with respect until they give you a REAL reason for you not to

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

So do we hate Nazis or not?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well, contrary to popular belief, not all Nazis were evil. So I'd say it depends on the person

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

So, what do we think of Goebbels

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Indeed, Don't respect Himmler, respect Rommel, for example.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is all fine. I just don't get why some people insist on calling it "feminism".

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 30

Because we acknowledge history and truth.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 5

Feminism is about women's rights, Equalism is about equal rights

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 16

Wow, didn't expect to get downvoted so much. I guess feminism isn't very open for questions or criticism.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Are you for real? Do you think someone just came up with the term a couple of years ago or something?

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 6

Don't know what makes you think that.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's obvious why it's called feminism. Because women have been the ones who had to fight for equality for centuries, now us dudes are <1>

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

just now jumping on the bandwagon and too many of us are whinging because it's not immediately being made all about us and our feelings.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

3/3 and after the hostile response I got for the initial question I don't really give a fuck anymore.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

1/3 Everyone have been fighting for equality throughout history, feminism is just one branch of that fight.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

2/3 I still don't get why the term is so important, why you can't be for equality without calling yourself a feminist,

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You can be for equality while calling or not calling yourself whatever you please. Being anti the term feminism suggests you're not tho.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

because it has to do with gender roles and troughout history those gender roles legitimated suppressing women and taking away their 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 9

2/2 equal rights but don't want to be associated with the feminist movement.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

1/2 I know what feminism is. Just don't understand why it's so important to cling on to the term and why it is frowned upon if you support

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

rights to vote, to study etc. because the roles women were given took away their power and made men take over the power - that's 2/3

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 7

and that's what we call the patriarchy. that's what feminists fought for - to destroy those gender roles. that's why it's feminism :)

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 6

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

what's with the recent upsurge in pro-feminist posts that are intended to make feminism look bad by pointing out a part of feminism?

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 11

How does this make feminism look bad?

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

not this one specifically. just a lot of posts about "Men have it bad too" which is a part of feminism as well so the posts make no sense

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 4

But if you're on imgur then you'd know that not everyone knows it. try to imagine what the normal imgurian thinks feminism looks like (1)

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

I wasn't saying anything about that it was more just what prompted the upsurge

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

(triggered, etc.) then maybe you can see why this could be helpful. (2)

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1