krysten34
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Living a lie
My boyfriend of 8 yrs and I recently split up for about 6 wks, come to find out he left me for one of his co workers and she left her husband for him. About 2 wks ago he came home and we decided to start over with a clean slate. I know he is still texting thia girl and im pretty sure he is in love with her. I feel like he is just going through the motions and when i try to ask him about it he says im just being paranoid. I cant stand the thought of losing him again as I love him with all my heart so I jusy go through the motions right along side of him and take what I can get. I dont know who I am the real me would never allow herself to be treated like this. I really hope im all wrong about this but i dont think so
DavidCocking
Sleep with his best friend... That will solve things... Probably
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bluecollarbiochemist
Seriously, do yourself a favor and end it. These kinds of things rarely square away.
ColonelSheepshanks
Time. To. Go. - You are not a doormat.
icanchangemynameatanytime
Get out asap. He doesn't deserve you. The longer you stay, the harder it will damage you.
strawhousepig
Would you make the effort to love a pile of sand?
Rebelminion
Anyone that would cheat with a married woman - or go after a married woman - is a scumbag at their very core. Is that who you want?
vigarious
What? That sounds like "that woman is property of her husband." In reality, any married person who cheats on their spouse is the scumbag.
Rebelminion
Yes, obviously it goes both ways. Since that is not the situation the OP was discussing. How you got to the "property" place is a stretch
Rebelminion
My comment actually implies the exact opposite of what you state. If she was his "property" then he would be free to do as he wishes.