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My family has been struggling with money. Lately there hasn't been much food in the house, so obviously we haven't had takeout food in a while. I bought us a huge takeout meal last night... enough so we could eat left overs tonight. Unfortunately, my sister ate everything by the time we got home today. My sister is overweight and has had problems with lying and self control since I can remember. I have always felt like food was a competition of who could get to it first because she eats EVERYTHING as soon as it's bought with total disregard for her other siblings or parents. When I confronted her about why she ate more than her fair share, she first says she didn't eat it (guess it was a hungry ghost?), then changes her story to "I hate all you people anyways I don't care if you eat". Of course by the end of it I got yelled at for confronting her and "starting drama" because I know she's "sensitive". Posting here because I have no friends who care about listening to my problems and Imgur seems like the new place to vent.
LichChicken
An adult with an attitude like that? I can't see her going very far in life..
Amadmanwithabox0
Dude.... I'm sorry you have to deal with this shit... I say a small cheap fridge.. or a freaking padlock.... get out asap
Thirddead
Sounds like me and my sister growing up. Think I have weight issues and that because I always had to grab what I could or lose out.
anicyril
Same with me and my dad, I'm only just now getting over it and learning healthy eating habits.
bhobby1212
Best thing I did with my family as a child was move the fuck away.
HoloBu88les101
I'm sorry to hear you are having troubles on top of being hungry, it's free to vent here
BurntheBabies
Remember me. When I get my first paycheck at the end of June, I'm buying you a pizza or something.
MakeTabbouleNotWar
Same
haki23
I remember when I was a kid and we were broke af. Take out was like a major holiday by itself. She basically ate Christmas
zappyguy
Sounds like you need to have a chat with your parents about her. It sounds she needs a councillor or psychologist.
zappyguy
In Australia you can find free ones, our universities offer cheap ones, might be a place worth looking.
bpjarMemePoster
I don't know if this is true or not because of how detached I am from this story. But if it's true you're sister sounds like the problem.
avervetmonkey
Her parents do: They yelled at OP instead of dealing with the sister and her illness. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binge_eating_disorder
Noimbatmannotyou
Next time go to a restaurant and do not invite her. Let her fend for herself
ZombieJonSnow
I think we found out why your having trouble keeping food on the table.
69Voltage
At least you made a nice gesture
snackmanistan
No good deed goes unpunished.
ThatThog
Good for you, on both counts. Tired of people who coddle. Awesome job treating your family.
XenoWoof
You got friends, vent away buddy. That would be incredibly frustrating and it sounds like it happens way too often
BrickShakes
Sounds like she needs help, and your parents need help to realize she needs help , I wise you luck OP you're gonna need it.
myselfasme
Actually not uncommon for people who grow up with lack of food to binge and horde. Your parents failed you both. Show compassion.
ElectricalOwlet
While I agree with the binging, going against your family means you don't know the value of money.
CairoLen
Or, you lack self control because it's a compulsive eating disorder.
avervetmonkey
She can know the value, just be so fucked up she can't stop herself. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binge_eating_disorder
UberWulf
Yeah, actually fucking shun her from the next meal. If shes gonna act with complete disregard for other people she should see how it is.
whatupcorgibutt
Only buy food for yourself. Or if ever want to share again make sure you hand the food to your family when you’re going to eat it
PsycheClone
Suggest counseling, seems clear to me that isn't healthy.
Inimposter
If they don't have the money for food...
PsycheClone
There are services that can help, I got free therapy.
43rdpresident
Sorry to say bro, but that it's quite shitty parenting for you to be the one that gets told off by them.
Gamatori
yeah, id straight up tell your parents they dropped the ball on this one.
dennisstamp
Sounds like there is some enmeshment going on with the parents and your sister that needs to be addressed by a professional. Boundary work.
BlacksMcNutt
I second that , shitty parenting. Teach your kids right from day one, DO NOT get lax, or we all pay and bad parents will cover for 1/2
BlacksMcNutt
and for their demon spawn, get your kids help if needed stop covering it up.
FwdSlashRoot
If someone wants to give away their share, it’s their choice. But fuck you if you steal my part of the food THAT I BOUGHT.
tzxAzrael
"mu-fuh, she's 'sensitive' and 'got issues' because you let her get away with whatever she does. give that cow a smack upside the head."
usersubbordercontrol
And to enable her to be that fat...
kindawhitchy
As a recovering fatty totally agree with this.
PaperCl1p
Dibs on that rapper name
roads88mph
Yep. That'll teach him to do something nice. Keep your money next time bro.
ElectricalOwlet
As shitty as it is, society teaxhes us family is #1 but often they don't deserve it. You are #1 and don't give in to the pressure
quattroformaggix4
100% agree unfortunately. My fam teaches that bullshit but they really are selfish assholes that try to get over one another & yell hardest
quattroformaggix4
they are ever excluded. They & I are adults but I’m still *rude* if I say ‘why do you expect better treatment than you give? Live up to your
quattroformaggix4
own expectations of others. Why don’t you start taking ownership of your own life & circumstances?’ or any variation of that theme.
Affray
"The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb" really starts to make sense after enough life experience.
Idsertian
+1 for the full quote.
Affray
BallsLikeWatermelonsPeckerLikeAThimble
Sounds like she needs a healthy dose of “knock it off.”
saphy
She needs a healthy dose of a slap to the face
ElectricalOwlet
She needs a healthy dose of sugar free gummy bears.
figgy1252
Op please do this and post an update
glitchead
She needs a healthy dose of "Sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up", as my older brother used to say to me.
DutchKincaid
And a treadmill.
formallyknownas
She needs a healthy dose of humble pie
blainetog
She needs therapy. Not joking, this sounds clinical.
JerryWhinefeld
No, she needs professional help. Belittling people for having a problem doesn't help when it's that bad, (1/2)
BallsLikeWatermelonsPeckerLikeAThimble
Some people are just entitled dicks. Where’s the line between nuts and dick? Giggity.
JerryWhinefeld
It just ends up with them still having the same problem, but also feeling like a piece of shit for having said psychological problem
hislam13
I feel like we have the same sister. I tried addressing the problem with her too, but she's literally the same, complete disregard for the
avervetmonkey
Look into https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binge_eating_disorder and if your parents are anything like OP's they need to radically change.
hislam13
Rest of the family members. I think the best way to deal with it is either to confront it and have a bad relationship, I'd say this is the
hislam13
Better thing to do if you guys live in separate places. But if you share a roof, it just causes unnecessary drama. Just avoid her as much as
hislam13
You can otherwise you get drama every time you guys interact with each other. Best of luck. You can message me any time.
BrotherQuinoa
One time I went out to grab pizza and beer for the family. Come back to them fighting so I ate all the pizza...and I drank all the beer.
completelyunreIated
Did you pee the bed?
BrotherQuinoa
I piss the bed on a good day.
IIIIlllllIIIIlllIIIlIIllIlIlIlIlIIIIlll
These situations are a bit different, also what type of pizza did you get?
HawaiianWithExtraPineapples
Hawaiian with extra pineapples
BrotherQuinoa
Ain't no damn pineapple touch my pizza ever
HawaiianWithExtraPineapples
You're missing out
Davincimode
and then he hurled...
BrotherQuinoa
Pepperoni with cold fresh jalapenos. It's a game changer.
Coolbacca
Put some pineapple on that and you got yourself a damn fine pizza
BrotherQuinoa
I put extra cheese on top so it held everything down. It was glorious.
RdizzyC
If she uncontrollably ate your entire families dinner in a short period of time, she needs some psychiatric help/counseling help.
meowtothemoon
Binge eating disorder sounds a lot like this.
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RdizzyC
Your parents refused to have your sister treated for binge eating disorder then. Bad on them. Now she has passed on the traits to her kids.
ilovemyboobs
This is what I was thinking. Binging isn't discussed as much as Ana or Buli. Its scary to be stuck in a cycle where you can't stop eating.
BobHasselhoff
Or she is just a fat bitch, we will never know
ITryToOnlyRespondInGifs
Well if they can hardly afford food they probably can’t afford to send her to treatment, unfortunately
Dionysus187
'murica. can be overweight, malnourished and can't afford proper medical care.
TheDarkDestoryer
Unless she's not from the US then it would be free
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AlkeneThiol
She might be leptin deficient or something. There are some people who never feel satiated no matter how much they eat. Every day is torture
SnappleCactus
Or shes a massive cunt, either or
frankg101
I've not heard of that. How is it treated medically?
PajamaStripes
Supplements and hormone therapy, but even then it can be difficult.
RdizzyC
Probably has an eating disorder mixed with severe depression and some type of personality disorder.
hoopinghannah
I disagree with personality disorder. Nothing in this hints toward one.
KeyLimeAnxiety
Personality disorder is extreme, I would say eating disorder/addiction
DevilDisowned
Not an excuse for being a bitch
Affray
Definitely not, but it certainly could be a reason.
DevilDisowned
I hate that as a society, we blame mystical forces for why people are garbage.
Corrodias
Acknowledging the cause of something does not require you to allow it to run rampant without treating it. That's a fallacy. In fact, the »
Affray
1)Mental disorders and/or wonky biochemistry aren't quite "mystical forces". Not that they are the cause of all human douchery, but a solid
JustLadyPug
Mental illness is a confirmed medical thing by you know...doctors, science and shit, nothing mythical.
yourmotherandIthinkyoushouldmoveout
Just kill her and eat her. Dinner for months. Problem solved.
YourBossAndLandlordLikePolitics
Yeah bro
c3r1h5
too much fat, probably not worth the effort (the eating part not the killing part).
Boothie20
Cannibalism seems like a win-win in this situation.
avervetmonkey
Humans usually contain too many heavy metals and other contaminants. It's common for "top level predators", bioaccumulation.
DevilDisowned
Somehow I don't think she would taste good
PopeyeTheSailor
you do know that the best part about bacon is the fat that comes off it right?
DevilDisowned
Imagine all the chemicals and weird shit shes probably eaten.
yourmotherandIthinkyoushouldmoveout
There’s a reason fast-food is good.
RandomDudeOnTheInternetThatOwnsAFewWellKnwonBusinsses
With all respect. If you're the one that gets confronted by parents for doing what's obviously correct. Bad parenting is to blame here.
RandomDudeOnTheInternetThatOwnsAFewWellKnwonBusinsses
I am expecting down-votes here, but being pampered has it's disadvantages in later life.
PapaNurgleLovesYou
She needs professional help
SorenAziz
She needs some manners.
JerryWhinefeld
Seriously, this is textbook resource guarding, a massive red flag for eating disorders.
MistressLyda
Or more stability in life.
avervetmonkey
Both, basically. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binge_eating_disorder
MistressLyda
Maybe, maybe not. A lot of people can mend if their life is not constantly breaking them, and she is young.
avervetmonkey
18 is young but not young enough for it to easily mend. The behavior has probably been going on for half her life or more.
MistressLyda
Easily, not at all. But for someone in poverty, the financial drain professional help causes can cause more harm than the help helps.
Duffman26
thefeckamisigningupwithfacebook
Your sister is trying to cope with her loss of control by binge eating. Only solution- refuse to see it as a food issue. It's bigger than
BrickShakes
It don't always have to be that deep, sometimes it's just: sad because fat, eat because sad, even fatter and sadder so more food, repeat.
avervetmonkey
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binge_eating_disorder
imnotarealgiraffe
Maybe, but i got fat as a kid *because* we never had food. Anytime we had it, i ate like crazy. Maybe she's scared of being hungry again.
thefeckamisigningupwithfacebook
That. Deeper than that. She ate because she needs to be confronted but not about the food. It's something deeper.
UberWulf
Thats nice and all, and entirely possible, but they had to skip a meal because of her. Consequences dont disappear because you have issues
thefeckamisigningupwithfacebook
Never said they didn't. But it's a choice- deal with the symptoms or deal with the cure. You can do both.
Derpbeard
FUCK her and her symptoms the issue here is a fatty eating food she shouldn't, its not therapy hour because shes a prick.
draxxthemsklounst
Maybe she got fucked by an uncle or a friend of the family, and it hasn't been addressed. If they're having issues getting food sounds 1/2
anicyril
She won't ever stop without therapy, she'll just get better at sneaking.
anakhasilver
If she wasn't overweight but was still binge-eating, you wouldn't be citing her weight at all, fuckface.
thefeckamisigningupwithfacebook
OK so this is how it goes. You get to shout and issue punishment. Go ahead. Better? Meanwhile the grown ups will solve the issue next door.
GTA3Fan
Don't include her in the next family meal and tell her "I don't care if you eat"
Comunistrussianplaguedoctor
Damn, as cold as Claude
PopeyeTheSailor
"I got yelled at for confronting her and "starting drama" because I know she's "sensitive"." being a greedy shit pisses me off, ^^^ that too
jdm2
It's one thing if there's impulse problems but the lying about it makes it worse.
jdm2
And the parents should NOT be backing up the child that lies about it.
BinaryDomain
THIS!
SuryaSuv
Or if family is ok with it Eat yourself and give family's share to her All the Time.
Badtz3
"You had enough to eat!"
iancarry
i'd watch her reaction
NoTalentTech
"survive on your body fat"
IhatemyJobKidnapme
ronangelo
Or just spike the next takeout with some laxative. This should provide some entertainment for the family.
Cthulily
Yeah, taken everyone else out for dinner.
BrokeMyFunnyBone
Fuck that, don't include anyone else in your next family meal. Your parents shouldn't be taking sides especially not the wrong one.
SentientFlapjack
Even if your family is in the wrong its still tough to just cast away blood like that. They hurt you but you still grew up with them.
darkdragonempress
Maybe include the other siblings as they don’t seem to have done anything wrong.
ShooterMcGrabbin
This whole story is depressing and jerry springer-ish to be honest.
VodkaReindeer
But what if OP's family hates him and this is the only way to get any positive attention?
BrokeMyFunnyBone
Buy a big ol' tub of food and eat it alone while watching everyone watching you eat it.
AverageTortilla
Didn't you read? He doesn't have money. /s
watthefrak
I now have the urge to go and purchase one big 'ol tub of food.
albl1122
YES I ALSO HAVE THAT URGE TO BUY HUMAN FOOD!
POTKC
@OP do this. If they’re gonna do that to you, don’t include any of them next time.
Mxlespxles
Maintain eye contact. Assert dominance
TESTER610
Maintain dominance. Assert eye contact
IfYouAreReadingThisILoveYou
Something Something shit through their ceiling.
Sm3xym3xican
The one person downvoting this definitely doesn't get the reference
SPQAAE
I would make food with spicy ass seasoning. So she regrets it.
IMABLACKSTAR
You must not be fat
SPQAAE
Not anymore I've learned control.
DaveWesh
I have done this - people have been taking my food at work, Unmarked bag of Carolina reaper jerky, needless to say i found the culprit.
Jusmar
Bear mace curry it is
beadcrazy
Ha! Love this story, I HATE food stealers!
QotU
Brilliant!
stoutde
Tell her everyone hates her and doesn't care if she goes homeless.
BrokeMyFunnyBone
Too far
stoutde
Sure, it was meant to be relatable to how OP feels, not so much as guidance. Although, sounds like she could use some kind of wake up call.
MrGrundy
Nope, not far enough. You then have everyone slowly eat everything in front of her, never breaking eye contact, until finished.
carpaltunnelsyndrome
Most people don’t act like that in real life & to suggest doing something like that is a stretch Obv the girl has issues & needs actual help
MrGrundy
What I suggested was a joke aimed at the old, "never break eye contact and assert dominance" joke.
nonrelevantname
My youngest brother was an asshole growing up, got everything he wanted. He's 22 now and me and my other brother have turned him down 1/?
jdm2
Yeah it sounds like your parents enabled that fuckery and you're totally right to not take part in it.
nonrelevantname
I love my brother, but that fucker has to learn the hard way or he'll end up dead sooner than later. And i refuse to be a reason he dies.
nonrelevantname
Every time he's asked for a place to crash for a few months, he's not homeless he just likes getting shit for free, our dad asked us 2/?
nonrelevantname
How he can get him to change, my advice was "you gotta let him go hungry, he gets everything too easy, nothing humbles a person like 3/?
nonrelevantname
Being hungry and having doors closed to you because you shut them"
EdgardVazquez
Yay 666th upvote, hail satan, tell her to go fuck herself, that's not fucking fair, I'm overweight and would never pull something like that
AtaraxiaPrime
616. Ya got it wrong.
EdgardVazquez
666
minimallism
Hail!
NASAguy1000
Smoke meth hail satan!!!
DoctorGoldfish
What?? Meth is dirty. Do something classier.. like cocaine.
NASAguy1000
calm down Lucifer, it isnt always about class.
ImgurianGeographic
Or say, "None of it is for you, fat fuck". At some point you've gotta shame people that act that way.
BeginnersLuck00
It honestly sounds like she's mentally ill. That's not a mature or helpful way to deal with that situation.
NuriInuki
Both of these are solid advice!
itisshinobi
ItWasCool
animal shaming isn't a bad thing, may as well if she's going to act like one
SomeoneSomewhereOrSomething
Humans are animals, so can we still fat shame?
IMABLACKSTAR
Depends. Being fat has a lot to do with mental health and I wouldn't shame that. But if you're just 'big boned' you're fair game.
hazeleyedfreak
If they steal all your food and then say fuck you, I guess so.
Cheesecakecrush
But fat shaming is not good according to all of the things I hear in the media!
ReginaFinklestein
The media also tells you the government is not lying through their tax payer money plated teeth
anicyril
I'm not a big fat shamer myself, but I would absolutely shame someone for being a thoughtless greedy pig regardless of size.
catman31
She is a pig.
catman31
PopeyeTheSailor
well considering how shitty the media is, they can fuck right off too
SnarkySophia
You can ignore that she's fat if you want. She's still an asshole who ate an entire family's dinner.
Cheesecakecrush
It seems sarcasm isn't appreciated on the internet.
Rubeuss
I think many people missed the sarcasm here...
badmanpuntbaxter
I picked up the sarcasm, it seems a few others did not. Or God forbid they actually believe shame isn't a tool
ShadowScorch
How I feel upvoting this right now
Sefforia
She's 18 btw not a kid
RubberWheat
Have you considered buying a harpoon?
Roseria
She needs help.
Daniferd
Her fatass is the reason why your family dont got money in the first place
DerpNerpem
Tekktokk
same here OP. I don't live with her (lives w/ my folks) but 0 self control and I get yelled at if I try to have a gentle conversation w/ her
OrochiTheMaster
At 18 you're still very much a kid. I'm 22 and I definitely am still a kid and so are my mates
GhostbusterGuy
Sounds like she has an eating disorder. She could probably really use some counselling/therapy.
BinaryDomain
She is a cunt.
JuxtaposeIsANeatWord
Eating disorder?
CoryBingo54
Sound exactly like my sister. She would eat everything when we couldn't afford food, and stole money wherever she found it. She 1/2
CoryBingo54
doesn't live with us anymore and we eat very well since she was like 50% of the budget in a 5 person house.
InaneOctopus
18 can still be a kid. I'm sorry for the struggle OP, some things don't get better. But sometimes they do. Stay strong, keep showing love.
CamperIV
Obese?
victologreen
Sounds like she has an unhealthy relationship not only with herself, food, but her family. /1
Amousewithchees
18? Meh, tell her to get her own food next time.
Hellindium
The response to sensitive assholes is, "fuck your feelings!"
thebeifongbandit
Sounds like she might have Prader Willi syndrome. look it up. my sister in law has it
Jutana
18 Is still a borderline kid- It sounds like she wasn't disciplined well. Show her what it's like to be disciplined like an adult.
Liamer88
Dude if you're the one who bought all that food and she ate it while knowing the expectations for said food, damn right you should be angry
ChelsTehHazelnut
18 is basically still a kid.
forgetthisnoise
She might have an eating disorder, seriously
victologreen
Maybe she has some sort of issue that makes her seek comfort in food. /2
MayorDeweyMayorDewey
naw. my cousin’s just like that. keeps denying her weight and wearing too tight clothes. im not one to judge much weight-wise either cause
MayorDeweyMayorDewey
im a fat bitch and i know it, but jesus fuck im surprised by how in denial some are or just genuinely dont seem to care at all.
MayorDeweyMayorDewey
oh, the bitch is in her mid-30s btw, lost 3/4 soon to be 4 of her kids custody. i’ld say you still have time to get your sister professional
MayorDeweyMayorDewey
help so she 1) can maybe feel better about herself since binge-eating is usually centered around some hard shit and 2) doesnt turn into a
MayorDeweyMayorDewey
narcissistic selfish cunt permanently like my cousin.
HairyPicklePuller
I'm guessing she's bi-polar based on my experience with a bi-polar sister.
SwampSuccubus
I'm bipolar and having bipolar disorder literally has nothing to do with binge eating
auscaliber
This sounds exactly like my sister who's 20. kinda feel better im not alone lol
ILikePizzaWithPineapple
If that story is true she is quite a retard and your parents are stupid for complaining to you about confrontation
HeilHasselhoff
Kick her to the curb, or psychiatric therapy
78Hamster
18 is still a kid.
IDontKnowWhatToDoAnymoreAndImTired
18 can still be pretty stupid, especially if they're sheltered. Just talk to her and ask her why she does this. Non-judgmental, and open.
ReplyingToTopCommentsIsHowIGetPeopleToReadMyComments
Hold up. Who yelled at you for confronting her? Other family members? If so, they are also a part of the problem for enabling her.
SirSpiffyDijelos
Childish, but not a child.
derpygirl
All I call provide is :(
DerpNerpem
And then you learned how to eat at the restaurant
DerpNerpem
By yourself* shit I knew that trick when I was 13. How did you get takeout and it was gone? Chinese takeout or some shit?
DerpNerpem
Chinese delivery*
DerpNerpem
Hey I got my own comment chain wassup dog?
DerpNerpem
Just chillin, Killin..sup witch?
Bancheis
That's old enough to go out, get a job, and live by yourself. Then she can have all the food she can buy with her own damn money.
Chemnerd263
She sounds like a cunt
designmajor
She ate EVERYTHING?!
kambojah
and EVERYONE
NihonJinLover
Sounds like she’d rather you think she did this because she doesn’t care rather than she has such low self control that she couldn’t stop 1
NihonJinLover
Herself. I wonder if deep down she didn’t want to eat it, and it was a battle that she lost and she can’t face her shame
DevilDisowned
Sounds like its time she move the fuck out. 18 and graduated? You gots to go.
SexyAttackHelicopter
Im gonna get shot down but as a sibling, "fat bitch" goes a long way sometimes. Helped me.
wowfan85
This is incredibly typical of the kind of stuff I used to read on r/fatpeoplestories. Might wanna introduce her to it so she can come to...
wowfan85
terms with what she's doing and decide to make some changes.
AWarningToOthers
She is 18 and an adult now. Man the fuck up and kick her to the street. If you don't she will not change. Your kids will suffer.
robsprofileonimgur
So a big fat shithead instead of a little shithead?
Ryanator50
I feel bad for her kid
Attackbob118
Nope still a kid with that shitty, bratty attitude.
jurassicfantastic
She's gonna end up My 600lb life
Ipoststolenreactions
Hey Bud, a serious thing to consider is borderline personality disorder. It can come off as being a spoiled brat, but much worse.
Chrishankhah
Does she work?
DeeeeezNuts
How much does she weigh? Just curious.
aRancorewithbutterflywings
Sounds as if she may be self obsorbed or have a complete lack of regard for others.
PermaBannedDolphin
post her pic @op so we can mock her properly
SmoothberryBluethie
It sounds like she might have Prader-Willi syndrome.
BlackHawk44
Spike the food with Laxatives and Carolina Reapers? I tend to be evil in cases like this
AhDumTheHermit
... ross?
Chenbag
18 mostly is a kid
Secretsquid
Punch her in the face and look your parents in the eye and tell them "selfish bitch is not synonymous with sensitive"
magicrhombus
Or say it, but don't punch her, because what the fuck man?
Secretsquid
It’s been my experience that 100% of people like that need a physical recalibration for the words to be effective.
PyllyNalleMissionaries
Other one i like is "Percussive maintenance"
jennym123
18 years old is a kid, IMO.
Californiasnow
Time for her to move out and be on her own.
rainbowmuffyn
Tell her she's gross.
Fingerintheass
Vyvanse works for eating disorders. My son doesn’t steal/sneak food when on it and is more productive.
somespazzoid
Dude, you're a kid until you're 25.... and even then you're kind of still a kid.
kebbitevoke
Here you go OP, the solution you so need!: /a/3Z76JBF
RobotMassacre538
In that case the parents should have immediately kicked her out of the house, while saying "We don't care if you eat"
mindolluin
How soon can you move out and get on with your life?
yaugarap
Happened to me as well but I was the one that ate all the delivery food because we was in a bad financial situation. 1/2
yaugarap
My older sister take her fries that I left when they back home and gave to me as well and hugged me.
kambojah
God bless her
yaugarap
Amen
wildwiredweasel
Move out.
Odmanra
So she like a real life version of pear Mr. Crabs daughter! Bring home food with diced Carolina reapers. That should stop the food stealing.
imnotarealgiraffe
It kind of sounds like you guys are low on food pretty often ... sometimes people binge eat out of fear they won't have more later.
MistressLyda
Yeah. I grew up like that, and I'v kept on eating very unevenly. That said, she is still selfish.
Porridge
My sister is 21 and VERY similar. I feel your pain!
avervetmonkey
If that's true, please encourage her to seek help for her eating disorder. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binge_eating_disorder
Porridge
I don't speak to her anymore for a number of reasons, and she is refusing to seek help anyway ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
SpicyFlamingCinnamonRollTigerBearOfRage
Honestly she sounds like my sister a little. Same age too
Lunaura
Tell her to go buy her own damn food then
sweatshopkids
Being 18 doesn't mean you're not a kid.
Quizz25S
Sounds like your family has boundry issues. Your sister takes what she wants and your parents can't say no.
Blackheartedsilphy
Sounds like the perfect excuse to start looking out for just you. Make it clear to family that if they won't defend themselves, you won't.
warriorofdiscord
I'm 20, I was definitely still a kid 2 years ago.
PolkaDottedSheep
What a shitty person. I’m an overweight woman with siblings and if I had pulled anything close to that I would be straight murdered.
srslydude
Screw her. My 14 y o sister has a bottomless pit for a stomach, and she knows not to eat other peoples food. Your sis is just selfish.
Tastesicle
She will always be a kid.
numonster
Oh also! YOU Rock for doing something fab for your family!
numonster
I have mates in their mid to late 20s who never matured past 15. Good luck with her,OP~ Yikes....
vvonneguts
time to learn respect for the family or kick her ouuuutttt
CyriousLordofDerp
At that point, make the bitch pay for it. Even if you gotta drag her to small claims court, ram that fucking point home.
samepiceverydaytillFP
She sounds like a bitch. Tell her your taking her to McDonalds and just stop the forklift and roll her down a hill. She wont get out till
samepiceverydaytillFP
Shes skinny enough to climb
IShootPplInTheFace
So she contributes how much exactly to groceries/food monthly? none? starve bitch.
BurntMomWarfare
My 18 yr old stepson is like this. Ive started only buying food for the next meal. Anything else gets eaten.
avervetmonkey
That sort of behavior is legit sick, please get them help: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Binge_eating_disorder
BurntMomWarfare
Im trying but as an 18 year old that has eaten his whole life this way its hard. Ive changes the other 4 around though.
HooskerDuuude
I have the exact opposite problem w/my siblings in that whenever I buy food they eat it & I'm fatter than them but I can't eat what I pay 4
Ifavouriteallthecatstuff
Not sure that's a bad thing for you personally, apart from the fact that you're "losing" money which you could spend differently.
HooskerDuuude
It's a horrible thing because it's any meal I eat when they're around, but I'm not blowing through my $ solely on food 1/2
HooskerDuuude
They're just inconsiderate a holes cause I'm the youngest & I never bother them for food cause if I want some I'll go get some 2/2
napalmEnema
What in the actual fuck. Tell that fat bitch to shove off. Next time make a bait meal full of laxitives. Enjoy that landwhale
avervetmonkey
That sort of thing can actually kill people https://www.cbsnews.com/news/fda-warns-exceeding-laxative-dose-may-be-deadly-for-some/
napalmEnema
You don't load it up with a whole pack tard carnival you just put enough in to teach a lesson. Christ everything has to be spelled out now.
avervetmonkey
Fair enough, but people encouraging others to put megadoses of laxatives in office lunches (instead of a bit more than normal) is too common
avervetmonkey
...office lunches when the office worker has problems with their lunches getting stolen, that is.
cheeseburger
She needs mental help before she kills herself fom overeatting
Frazzledragon
Give her the ol' Mustard Pastry treatment. Hot Sauce. If you wanna go far, Laxatives.
Deadpoolisfunny
Seriously, don't pay for her anymore. Everyone here thinks it. Your family and her aren't being helpful. Let us know what happens.
Deadpoolisfunny
I'm sure all of us want to know. So I'm favoriting this so I can find out what you did. We're counting on you to do the right thing.
aminarra
Sounds like an eating disorder
MomijiInada
She's 18, and said "I hate you all, I don't care if you eat..." WELL, BYE FELICIA! kick her ass out.
kojenk
livinglife9009
Your sister is a fat cunt OP. Just saying.
TwoLemony
Yes
Chewie07
Agreed.
Imgurblowsmidgets
Sugar free gummy bears. No fat person can resist.
BlackberryCobbler
Hari-boo-yeah, baby... Learn a lesson AND lose 18lbs in one fell swoop hahaha
MFDork
This is a funny suggestion, but if they don't have money to eat they probably don't have money for a prank
Imgurblowsmidgets
I would blow someone for the 8 dollars.
TheMightyElk
Bake a cake with laxative Coco as a goodwill gift. Then remove all The toilet paper from The house and take your family. Camping
SweepTheLegsJohnny
This would be epic. Please.
boobearrooroo
This is aweful, but brilliant
usersubbordercontrol
But have a paper on it saying "do not eat, this is for me". Then when they eat it, just say 'well, it did say it's for me...'
Stephoknee
Whoever downvoted this doesn't understand how revenge on a shitty sibling can be so amazing to watch unfold.
LemmeSmashtheSystem
Maybe leave extra TP. Life uh finds a way.... who knows what will be used if not TP...
savagestarshine
I'm willing to bet that someone who can say (in anger at least) doesn't care if her family eats is going to way outdo this revenge
GrandPoobahDeDoinkOfAllOfThisAndThat
escalate, assert dominance at all costs. if you must kill, then kill.
IJustWantToBeUser
Or just take them out to eat.
Ben1045
Maybe the down voters thought you meant just take the girl out to eat. Which wouldn't really teach a lesson lol.
IJustWantToBeUser
Take her out to eat at the pig farm. My anus is prepared.
Iwantedthenamezerocoolbutsomeoneelsetookit
Wow. Downvoted for having a reasonable response. Here's an upvote to even you out.
charlottadupont
I object to his comment because OP clearly said her actions were a problem because they don't have money. They can't just go out to eat
IJustWantToBeUser
If they don't have money they shouldn't be eating carry out in the first place so clearly they don't care about wasting it.
CheekyHorseBoy
Sounds like a kid to me. Act like a child, get treaten like a child. It's just right. "I can't control it" and "I'm sensitive" won't cut it.
SeriousAnteater
the can't control it part is believable which means she needs to see an addiction therapist
CheekyHorseBoy
Still. Sucks that you have it like that...
OtterlyMagnificent
Sensitive...Yep, I tried that line. My parents made me spend 2 weeks camping.
SexuallyAwkwardDonkey
You had good parents it seemed
fatman6288
Story time please!!
UrsaUrsa
"Toughen up, princess!" - your parents, probably
OtterlyMagnificent
They still do that. Of course now, as long as I act like an adult, I get treated like one, so...I pay for my own shit, I don't mess with 1/
OtterlyMagnificent
anyone else's stuff, and I mostly live in my bedroom.2/2
imnotarealgiraffe
Might consider getting some kind of financial or food help, too, so you get all your nutrients. She might have nutrition definincy cravings.
BlacksMcNutt
Or bad parenting
NotIrony
it's usually both.
GdSvThQn
Fridge lock, bro
DerpNerpem
I knew a kid, his parents actually had a lock on the fridge..fat bastard
domestomp
she will eat the lock
Bancheis
By the sounds of it, she might be able to bite through that.
vulturedoors
This. If money is that tight in your household, food needs to be rationed. Lock it up.
wildwiredweasel
Fuck yes.
isthiswhereiputmyusernameat
Damn, I didn't know I'm privileged af. I've literally never thought about rationing food. Ever. I'm sorry you've been through this.
ampleapple
Tbh thats still a kid to everyone except a law, but she without a doubt has issues
StarkRG
Yes she has issues, and the parents scolding the sibling for confronting her isn't helping.
Zrkled
I don't understand why it's common to give younger people condescending excuses. Let them take responsibility and grow like they should.
Zovanget
I was doing my military training at 18 and in Iraq by 19. We expect too little from our youth which keeps them from maturing.
NASAguy1000
I both agree and disagree. Im 23 and feel like im just catching up to most 18 year old in some ways. Yet im 30 in others. Its been 1/
NASAguy1000
Rough. And im happy with who i am. Im going back to college and its getting there. However shit like ops sister is unexcusable.
YetAnotherNewAccount
I agree, completely. We really don't hold the youth to high enough of a standard. I was in the same boat as you.
YetAnotherNewAccount
That's not a kid. That's someone responsible enough to live with the consequences of their choices.
BlacksMcNutt
Parents fault
RandomDudeOnTheInternetThatOwnsAFewWellKnwonBusinsses
+100
trynnagetdownvoteddan
Lowkey roasting op's parents ... i domt think its fair to blame parents without prior knowledge, op seems like a conscious good human so.
trynnagetdownvoteddan
Pt 2: no disrespect to you though
obizues
He’s a conscious good human because he posted a meme on Imgur? You don’t know anything about him either, so why believe him or roast fatty?
Asturien
18 is not a kid by ANY means, most places other than the US it's even younger than 18. To not treat her like an adult only makes it worse.
VioletMoonRising
Brains don't develop fully until 25.
busybee
^^^This right here.
Mangomancer
then why are we putting them on trial as adults. they are clearly kids still.
VioletMoonRising
using the law in an argument is retarded. Just because it's a law doesn't make it morally right.
busybee
Because our legal system is punitive, not rehabilitative.
LetumComplexo
To someone of a certain age, everyone under it is a kid. Honestly, I’m 24 and can honestly say I’ve never met a 24 year old adult.
Thatguyovertherewiththehat
i dont think i started to really become an adult til a few months ago. and im 21.
nanyatenyaa
18 is still a kid. If you were 18 and in my house, I would consider you a child. I'd still have to take care of that dependent ass.
nanyatenyaa
The fuck you going to do on your own at 18?
RupertR
I moved out at 18. It's extremely common
nanyatenyaa
An 18 year old is still a child in my eyes. Andddddd it really isnt. And going to school doesn't count as moving out.
RupertR
It's extremely common. I moved out to a full time job and a place of my own. School counts as long as parents aren't paying your rent
XanCrews
Grow the fuck up perhaps?
watsoned86
18 is well old enough to know better. Claiming them to be a child is just enabling this kind of behavior.
nanyatenyaa
They are a child and need to be treated like a child. Which means understanding they probably have an eating disorder.
nanyatenyaa
And that at that age it's still more than appropriate for a parent to have a guiding hand.
nanyatenyaa
Claiming some one is a child means they depend on others. This individual likely needs psychological help.
dolphinbagel
I have a 28 year old sister who blows the smallest god damn questions into WWIII. My mom watches our kids. She doesn't bring baby wipes, foo
PhranksNBeenz
Upvote for "Diaper Creme Fraiche"
dolphinbagel
Food, juice, diaper creme friche, . Doesn't give my mom anything in return. So, when I politely ask, "hey have you brought wipes lately?" Bi
dolphinbagel
Big fucking blow up in my face. Yay family!
domestomp
our kids? what the fucking Alabama is going on
dolphinbagel
Lol god damn it. My mom watches my daughter that I had with my wife. My sister has two kids with her husband.
domestomp
^_^
dolphinbagel
My wife is my grandma and her husband is my son.
Predacane35
I was really fat, I'm still overweight. Ignore parents, continually remind her she's fat and that she needs to lose weight.
BlacksMcNutt
I think thats good advice, it NEEDS to be said.
Predacane35
Otherwise she will get comfortable with being a gross pig and will not desire change.
Duz2
Coming from a blunt culture about weight. We tell fat people they are fat. Doesnt make them change. They know they are fat and dont care.
ThisIsLiterallySatan
Why should I care if I’m fat ifnI’m healthy? 31 years and overweight. I also have a normal blood pressure, normal glucose levels, no health-
ThisIsLiterallySatan
- related issues from being overweight. I have a fiancee and a job. Seriously. What harm does my weight cause again?
ExtraExtraExtraUpvote
I get pissed when I see fashion adverts and such on TV that normalise obesity and obviously unhealthy weight, it makes me angry that these
ExtraExtraExtraUpvote
Fat cunts get paid to parade such bad body types as healthy and safe
JustLadyPug
You in now way have to be hateful to promote change, honestly you're the kind of person that makes it hard for those who want to change
designjunkie
Here we have a medical professional! No, obesity is not a good thing but there’s significant evidence regarding how some people carry weight
thedarkviolet
As a fat person that this advice does NOT work on, always remember not all people react the same. I'm glad the reminders help some people
YourBossAndLandlordLikePolitics
/// But I was empowered during that dialogue. Too much distance between feeling negativity and being the active party is dangerous, I think.
YourBossAndLandlordLikePolitics
/I'm guessing trying every angle, and living a little life alongside you, to where there would be some legitimacy in the interest?
YourBossAndLandlordLikePolitics
//When I quit smoking I did it by having negative emotions towards smoking and breaking down the comfort I had towards it.
YourBossAndLandlordLikePolitics
What would work on you? :)
thedarkviolet
Good examples. Gentle and positive reminders that indulgence can't be all the time. Better self esteem, so some sort of compliments. 1/2
GrandPoobahDeDoinkOfAllOfThisAndThat
being told i'm fat hasn't worked on me in all the years i've been over weight. it actually made it worse because i started stress eating 1/2
Greymalum
You're basically a kid until 35, sorry, but that's how it is for many.
BlacksMcNutt
I was a KID until 21, now its until at lest 35 or 40, you losers! Grow the F up!!!
FlyingDorito
Some 40+ are still kids. They are sensitive to say the least. They blame every misfortune to other people. No wonder they are alone.
Davies46
doesn't mean she should be acting like she's 10.
kittykat
I know 50 and 70 year olds that act like children.
AntzInMyEyezJohnson
I think 25
SirSpiffyDijelos
I've met some very mature 16 y/os and some very immature 30 y/os. I feel that your metric rings true enough.
afterdinneromelets
Yeah I'm almost 25, I have car payments, a mortgage, make salary/benefits and supervise others at work, and I STILL don't feel like an adult
RichCorinthian
I’m 46 and I have bad news for you.
Ifavouriteallthecatstuff
Why are those bad news?
FlyingDorito
Sounds like an adult to me. Keep those loans under control at all time by the way. Too many people take out too much loans these days.
afterdinneromelets
Yeah luckily I'm currently well within my means and overpay on my loans most months. But it's a horrifying amount of debt to think about.
AmateurCaulkRingEnthusiast
I left home at 17 and joined the service as soon as I turned 18. Was a combat vet by 20. People are kids because they are enabled.
NotIrony
Being a combat vet doesn't make you a man. Not that anyone is ever going to tell that to your face. It's a curse and V.A. benefits no? :P
UnrustleYerJimmies
1 People of legal age are considered kids because they think and act like kids. Human brains don't stop developing until about the mid 20s,
UnrustleYerJimmies
2 and it takes a few years of life experience to develop maturity. The fact that you were a combat vet by the age of 20 didn't make you an
UnrustleYerJimmies
3 a mature adult magically, because biologically, no human can be a real adult at that age. You just had a shitty adolescence, but were
WobblyOtter93
I wholeheartedly disagree with you. I joined the service when I was 18, during which time I became I got my nursing license and became a
WobblyOtter93
Licensed professional by age 20. Now I'm in the army reserves, have a full time job as a nurse, have my own car, have my own place, have my
WobblyOtter93
Own insurance, and have my own bills to pay. I've worked in a career field where I'm literally responsible for peoples health and even lives
WobblyOtter93
For the past 5 years. I'm a 25 year old adult.