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He was the best guy. He stayed close to home, but hated being inside, even in the worst weather. I put a huge cat tree out for him, fed him the best food, built him little shelters all around my house, and did everything I could to keep him warm and safe.
The neighbor a few houses over abandoned their mean tomcat when they moved. He started running my kitty off when he wanted to take his food.
After a few days of not being able to stop him, I tried to find options for the mean cat.
I was too late. Last night, the neighborhood coyotes came closer than usual, and they got him after the mean cat chased him away.
I'm crushed. There is nothing more I could've done. I tried making him stay indoors many times, but he would just hide until he could sneak out.
Once outside, he was so friendly and loving. It's sad and I just wanted to tell someone.
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Send cute kitties! Or cookies, if you have my address hah!
Thank you so much for the kind words. You guys are the best.
We've talked it over as a family and decided that the mean cat was already failed once when his family abandoned him. My sweet kitty wouldn't have hurt anyone or anything, so we won't, either. We are going to try to trap him, get him fixed, and offer him a chance at a life with people who care. Getting rid of him, no matter how, won't bring my kitty back. Maybe some kindness and trust will help.
Mammasaurus
I am going through a similar situation and it sucks. My daughter keeps opening the front door to see if kitty is there. Sorry for you loss.
mugglessuck
I had an outdoor cat growing up who died too soon. Always comforted knowing that he lived a shorter but happier life outside. I’m sorry @op
SaintMaceToTheFace
Adopted a stray. Kept running outside but when I moved he stopped
SharkBaitOohHaHah
I'm sure he would have rather spent 4 happy years inside than 10 years scared and uncomfortable inside. You did good OP
benignuser
We have farm cats. We always lock them up at night in the shed. Sometimes they still get it from coyotes.
weldr67
I’m very sorry for your loss. I’ve lost two cats in my life to coyotes, and it destroyed me.
Sephority
I'm sorry. I've had that happen to me too.
SassyPallascat
I'm sorry for your loss. But know that you gave him the best of life and that he was loved and cared for. That means something
johnny3d
So sorry, I feel your pain. Had to put down my Lab of 15 years yesterday.
theglimmeringwarlock
Awwwe man! Labs are the best, I'm sorry. Hopefully you will get a new companion down the road.
IStabYouEgg
SarahsEXHusband
Sorry brother:( hugs
johnny3d
Thank you
1potsie
People will build a hiding box with a hole only big enough for the cat to hide in around coyote country!
OhKittyWhoaKitty
That's exactly what he had. Several of them.
1potsie
Oh...then you did all you could
Metalsmith21
I would have shot the tomcat.
OhKittyWhoaKitty
Thought about it....
MimicKing007
I thought it said waxed.......
OhKittyWhoaKitty
Doesn't everyone wax the cat?
MimicKing007
Not the literal cat.
swinny89
I've got a rescued outside cat like that. I bring her inside ever other day or so, but she just meows at the door.
ShelbyTheDESTROYER
Coyotes are detrimental to my family... over half of the chickens we have ever owned were killed by them and so many of my best barn cats1/2
ShelbyTheDESTROYER
I feel terrible but we have to kill them or they will kill all our livestock and mousers. They’ve even attacked a newborn foal before.
CantComeUpWithACreativeUsername
You're good people
enkolainen
One can only live a wild life for so long
salandria
“One can only live a life so long”
TylerWarranty
"until coyotes get them"
CrystalCry
-Wayne Gretsky
jakeonehalf
-Michael Scott
TylerWarranty
That's pretty funny, especially because I live in Phoenix so I get it
FancySharkDinnerParty
I'm sorry to hear that. We took in a feral-ish kitten but he doesn't mind staying inside. Sometimes there's only so much you can do.
imnotarealgiraffe
Cats are adults for God's sake, it's ok to meet them and love them and let them live and die on their own terms <3
haco1234
My family took in a kitten we found on the side of the road because the mother had been run over and now to this day he lives to be around14
TommyWa
Yup. For my family it took 4 years to convince our cat to come inside and another 4 to get comfortable enough to stay inside overnight.
jackpkmn
Took in a feral kitten with pink eye, my grandma nursed it back to health and we named it Catzilla because of his huge personality 1/2
jackpkmn
yeah personality let's go with that, despite his tough guy attitude when it was time for him to pass he came as close to us as his pride 2/3
jackpkmn
would let him and made sure we knew he was there. i miss him. 3/3
Bschweezy
Coyotes got my Maine coon when he was 9. Was a miserable day
ThisNameIsUsed
Life of a badass!
nickysjords
Correct
NobodyIsHereAnymore
I can relate. Had a cat 4 years, he was feral but loving. Always wanted to go outside. One day he never came back. I found his breakaway ..
NobodyIsHereAnymore
.. collar intact about 1/2 mile away in the same neighborhood. I was never able to figure out what happened to him. That was 6 mo ago. :(
davidjytang
Some cats return when they are severely injured.
M98E
"Maybe if your cat gets horribly injured, then it will come back to you." That's worth an upvote.
terramisu
It’s heart breaking. My little boy just had that wonder lust. He would wait by the door and dart out when you were coming inside. He would
terramisu
Always come back within the hour until one day someone swooped him up. They were in town visiting and took him with them back home to Denver
terramisu
A 100 miles away from me. They reported it to the humane society but when I called them to retrieve my cat, he had escaped that guys house.
TheHentaiWizard
imjusthereforthecat
I have 4 semi feral barn cats. This is my worst fear. Good on you giving a chance to those kitties that others might overlook.
CrazyMrowLady
All dogs go to Heaven, but cats go where they please. He'll always be out on your porch, waiting for you.
OhKittyWhoaKitty
Now I'm crying!! I sat out by his food dish for hours last night, just waiting. Hoping. I'll have to put it away today.
CrazyMrowLady
Or you could keep it out for the other cat. Either way, I wish you all the best. What was your kitty's name?
LarkinM87
Other cat would be trussed up as dinner for the neighborhood coyote.
OhKittyWhoaKitty
My little girl named him. PillarWillar.
CrazyMrowLady
That's a good name. Hope she's holding up OK.
Nikoli23
As a transplant living in LA, I think people have lost their minds when it comes to coyotes.
Nikoli23
They have ascended back to the top of the food chain, and it seems like people are ok with them just carrying off whatever they want.
KjTheLightning
it's crazy, seriously, when i hear stories like that i can only think of the usa being like a medieval warzone for pets of any kind.
KamenTenshi
You gave him a good home for 4 years and feed him, that's more than many would do for a feral, you went above and beyond, so don't be sad.
ArnoGerber
His cat got ripped to shreds by a wild dog... what shouldn't he feel sad about?
KamenTenshi
If you did everything you could, and went above and beyond for something,you shouldn't feel sad because you didn't do more.
ArnoGerber
He shouldn't feel guilty, definitely not. But it is super unhealthy to force yourself not to feel sad.
KamenTenshi
Based on what.
ArnoGerber
Just about every single psychology paper that deals with the forced surpression of emotion after traumatic events...
IfTheWorldIsMyOysterThenIMustBeAllergicToShellfish
We adopted a feral cat when I was 9. She was always skittish. Her purr was so quiet you had to feel her throat but it was always going. 1/2
IfTheWorldIsMyOysterThenIMustBeAllergicToShellfish
She never fully became domesticated. You're a good person for taking care of him and giving him years of love.
wiesuaw
Go get another one asap, gonna make you feel better.
OhKittyWhoaKitty
We are going to go to the pound during the kitten overload this spring and adopt an indoor kitty. :)
ITalkAboutGoats
Why not get that tomcat fixed and take him?
OhKittyWhoaKitty
He's really mean and you can't get close to him. I haven't seen him in a bit. I'm wondering if they got both of them, but we only found our
OhKittyWhoaKitty
Kitty's body.
kimiknoxville
:( when I was growing up we found a cat who was under 2 lbs. he was deaf and we named him Quinn. He loved being outside, even though we 1/2
kimiknoxville
Wanted to keep him an indoor cat. He was hit by a car. It was horrible. I miss him so much. Sorry for your loss.
NordicusMaximus
Coyotes are trash and disease ridden. Attacked one of my dogs last year. Open season on them at our house 24/7 now. They are bad this year.
NordicusMaximus
Sorry for your loss @OP, know that I will get revenge in spirit for you and your kitty.
ShelbyTheDESTROYER
My dad went and got a license to hunt coyotes at night after they killed 6/10 of our chickens plus my 3 favorite barn cats.
ShelbyTheDESTROYER
They can’t be pure coyotes either, one is black and really large >.>
NordicusMaximus
That’s kinda scary. We have a lone male hanging around, he calls in packs every week, sounds like teenage girls getting murdered at night.
Gilgamech
Neighborhood coyotes? Isn't this why Americans own guns?
h00di333
Yeah and they're really starting to spread now. We even have them on the coast of North Carolina now.
FancySharkDinnerParty
Coyotes are being forced into more urban environments than they're used to. The results don't often end well.
LarkinM87
There also not native to the areas they are in anymore and several us states have bounties on them
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LupusLilium
Probably not, because I haven't heard much about helicopter based coyote thinning, have heard about wild wolves in the bush away from towns.
iHaveNoMouthAndIMustMeme
...you're literally describing cats right there, except for the wild part because there's domesticated ones as well.
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