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Long story short, I've struggled with my weight my entire life. 4 years ago I lost a bunch of weight with exercise and diet...i was at a comfortable 160lbs. I got Prego(planned) and due to extreme depression and life events recently I've let myself slide. Ive also struggled with bulimia for years, tho no one knows. After this weekend trying to be that mom that was there for her child, not caring about other people...it was clear I will not be going to the beach anytime soon. I was wearing a cute target one piece and a cute chevron cover up. When I walked down to the beach I turned my head only to hear some dude looking at me making the sound of vomiting. Whoever you are..ps...I was wearing the same suit your gf/wife/friend was wearing so there's that. Tomorrow I prepare to head down this journey again. People stop being assholes! Like seriously just stop, the impact this has had on me is so dumb, but any gal might feel the same. I just moved to a new state 6 months ago and do not have and friends so I feel venting to my imgur family is just the same. Wish me luck!
kamkor1
you can do it we believe in you!!!
kiritok
Best of luck OP. I struggled with my weight since I hit puberty, but I've been making progress recently. If you want to talk, I'm happy to
SassyCanadian
As a Mum I get you. Just do it for you, ok? :) And if you ever need to chat, message me any time. I got you :)
MichaelSchwarting
That guy is an ass, and will always be an ass. The tragedy of his life is that he secretly knows it. Be healthy for you. & see a counselor!
drinkup4
Strict diets are rarely permanent solutions. See a nutritionist and find a diet you can live with.
awefulcrowded23
Don't forget to exercise, you wouldn't want to crash your metabolism with a starvation diet.
Nick11235
On one hand fuck him, the other gl with your life:)
jbilly90
Hes an ass hat op. You rock ur swim suit and play with ur kid.
SeemsFamiliar
just saying if you send me some nudes ill boost your ego with fine compliments
kodsak
If you want to lose weight, great if not that's ok to, just do it for you and not because of some douche nozzle.
PhysicalGengar
Fuk that dude no matter u think of the person you don't do the rude sht
HeartsAndStars
The opinion of someone who would do that to a woman is not worth stressing over. Change for you, and you alone.
dexterhaven
Best advice I could ever give is to see a therapist from person experience they do wonders
Cypheri
Just ignore them. Nobody controls your happiness but you.
thatoneguywhoyouthoughtwasryanrenaldssexclamation
Well...
IveGotAHorseOutside
What a cunt.
Endrin
My thoughts exactly.
nwdle1
It's possible that you're a victim of your own paranoia and that guys spewing gesture was completely unrelated. It's possible.
BrazilianThunderPanda
I find telling people to "eat a dick" works for me. I don't take that shit, but I find being a very tall & heavy girl is quite intimidating.
Fluffypaleness
If you do it, do it for you, not because of some useless twat waffle on a beach. Screw that guy.
BewareTheExplanationButton
+1 for twat waffle.
Fluffypaleness
:)
cheezburgerzandchill
If someone did that to me i would cry right then and there.
Gamaset
Fuck that asshole
AzeaBraxi
Good luck with the diet!
MaDMaXGrl20436
JoEllenM
Getting healthier is great, but please don't let one asshole have so much power over how you feel.
thebiggestblackestdick
That guy was an ass, but still proud of your decision to be healthier. I know if I could change the opinion of me taking me nieces to the
thebiggestblackestdick
beach I would.
GREATEASYPIES
Didn't read all the text, but op keep in mind some people are just assholes. Be healthy enough to be happy, and fuck the assholes, no lube.
DidntBreakRulesBannedAnyway
noods
BeanProbe
You should take up kickboxing so you can find the motherfucker & knock his dumbass out for not minding his goddamned business.
glunderberry
Sounds like the shaming worked. Thank the dude for being honest.
BeanProbe
Oh and you'll get fit too, I guess.
WeaselWithaConfession
Well it was probably meant to be for him and/or his friend, and as much as a dick move it is, I probably at least would've made a face.
DidNotIntendToBeHereThisLong
Who gives a shit what that asshole thinks. Go and enjoy the beach!
ImUglyIRL
Look on the bright side; you've already been down this journey before. It should be easier to cope with the second time. :) have fun with(1)
ImUglyIRL
It @OP, and cheer up!
fukmeefuku
Thank you! This is exactly the positive vibes I needed from my fellow imgurians:)
Jutubya
Good luck, I used to be 215lbs, I'm 5'00, so I know your struggle. It's going to be frustrating, annoying, emotional, amazing, invigorating
Jutubya
If you need any help or encouragement let me know. Your imgur friends and family are here for you