"A young man came up to our truck today because he was getting ready for his high school prom and didn't know how to tie his tie. My heart was pretty full watching my partner step in to help him out." -Jared Bryer from Pennsylvania Ambulance

May 8, 2017 3:42 AM

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10 years ago I used youtube to learn how to tie a tie, I've helped others do the same

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I had to tie my brother's tie on the morning of our mother's funeral mass. I'm glad this was under a happier circumstance for this kid.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Google it? Hundreds of videos on YouTube..

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

All that noose tying experience finally came in handy!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Makes me wonder if this sort of thing happened before the internet and typing out the story to get fake points or likes

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

You wonder if people helped people before the internet? I'd say yea, they did.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"Is that too tight?" "Harder, daddy!" "What...?" "What?"

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 3

White cop chokes out black teen!!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

100+ ways to be excellent to each other. Thank you for the reminder & inspiration.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

I'll take "things that restore my faith in humanity, for 1000"

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I love watching men fix other men's wardrobes. Their atypical lack of self-consciousness about such intimate space is endearing to me.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sooo many assumptions that this dude doesn't have a father figure. My dad didn't know how to tie a tie, I learnt from mum and friends...

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

I worked as a bouncer in a club for 14 years… And I helped many many young men with their ties...not every father teaches this stuff anymore

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

There's a joke waiting here. I'm not brave enough.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

And after they killed him

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Was there no internet?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is obviously fake, I live in PA and I have never seen this man in my life

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

That's very kind.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

My father was off on deployment when I needed instruction about ties. So, went to the neighbor.

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

is that how you got molested? That's terrible.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Nope, totally escaped childhood and adulthood with no molestation from anybody anywhere. Boring, huh?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

you're not out of the woods yet. c'mere...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I work as an usher at my university's auditorium and I do this for some of our younger guests. Warms my heart seeing their gratefulness. :)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Maybe he has a dad that does not know how to tie a tie himself...

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

I urge guys to sign up to the big Brothers program. There are a lot of kids needing male role models out there.

9 years ago | Likes 40 Dislikes 1

Yup, yup, yup

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You urge the majority of anxiety-infested imgurians to play as a role model?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

One of the best decisions I ever made!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

dayum

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

tie a man a tie - help him for a day. Teach a man how to tie a tie - and he steals your job, young punk, experience clearly means nothing!

9 years ago | Likes 690 Dislikes 18

Read that in Ron Swansons voice

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That comment was a wild ride

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

More where that came from

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

tie a man a tie, and he's tie'd for a day. But lynch a man with his tie, and he's wearing a tie for the rest of his life!

9 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 7

But technically he's dead, so is that really the rest of his life?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Yes because it was on him til he died thus that was the rest of his life. Never said the rest of his life was very long.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

you are not wrong.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

By "partner" I thought OP meant gay lover, not ambulance coworker. Whoops.

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 3

Why not both?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

¿Porque no los dos?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I thought about grabbing that gif to respond with, but I was lazy. Soy perezoso.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Wait.... This dude asked for advice on a tie from someone with a popped collar?!

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 12

Good to know responses, that makes sense.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

In general people start ties on themselves and then give it to the person they're teaching, leaving their collar raised.

9 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

That WOULD be douchey. He probably showed the kid on himself then gave it to the kid though.

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Why can't ppl just Google it? Seriously that's how I do it.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 4

That's a missed opportunity for sweet sweet internet points

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same. I googled and learned how to tie a tie for my dad fifteen years ago when he got his first ever office job. (:

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

You are assuming every one has internet access. Which they don't, not even in the USA.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

...stfu

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Never. MUAHAHAHAHAHAHA

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I can't understand the instructions.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I stand there looking like an idiot attempting 3 different ways, but I get it eventually XD

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You assume they have easy access to internet. If it's north philly, I wouldn't guarantee it.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Kids these days didn't hear about google?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Props to this young man for asking for the help.

9 years ago | Likes 129 Dislikes 3

It would take balls to ask a cop for something like that I reakon

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 3

It's an ambulance but yeah

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

This makes me have some hope.

9 years ago | Likes 240 Dislikes 10

Opposite for me. This dude didn't think to check YouTube before wandering out with an untied tie?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah who knows maybe tomorrow he finds google and it changes his life

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 4

Sad that a cop treating someone like a human being despite their skin color gives us "hope"... but alas, here we are.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Not a cop

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Guess that explains why he didn't shoot him.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

It's just people being nice to each other. It gives me hope in humanity.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Hope for what? These types of memes are posted daily.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

Implying that white folk can sometimes be helpful....

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 7

Hope for memes, obviously

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

/r/UpliftingNews, /r/WholesomeMemes

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Thank you. I'm glad this is not another rude comment.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Heartwarming!

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

It's just some dude tying a tie.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 4

The officers collar is up. That's the tie it on my neck first then put it on you technique. better than the ol reach around

9 years ago | Likes 1914 Dislikes 4

That's how I show ppl too

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I thought that was a display of prey drive..

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I just realized it might be worthwhile to learn how to tie a tie on another person without doing a reach-around. I gotta figure this out.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I learned how in HS, as a female it's really handy especially since I have 2 boys. Even hubby isn't that good and asks sometimes.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I was going to comment the same thing. Much easier

9 years ago | Likes 103 Dislikes 0

"The officer". Once again, we take back seat to law enforcement or fire getting credit. Lol

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nah, he's just the cool kid from down the block.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

i agree

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Over under over through is how i remembered. Get the fat part of the tie down lower.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Or maybe, he gave him the tie he was wearing. Why he was wearing a tie, I have no idea but MAYBE

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I would prefer the ol reach around

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As a gal, I was taught how to tie a tie on another person

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Better? Psh.....pls

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My best man did this for me with my tie at my wedding.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

to be fair, who gets any practicing tying it on someone else?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I used to put ties on my cat. I was a lonely child.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Paramedic Officer?

9 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 1

They are really tied to the people..... Literally....

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Saving lives...this also counts.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Still not an Officer.. that's not their title

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Paramedics always pop their collars. It's part of our uniform regulations. ALS stands for "Always Lookin' Stylish"

9 years ago | Likes 190 Dislikes 3

TIL

9 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

There should be an imgur movie titled: TIL. @sarah balls in your court I'm ready to start filming.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

In nursing school, and we did a group exercise where we discussed stereotypes about medical professionals: 1/

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

For paramedics, one guy submitted "Wears Oakley shades, has a G-Shock watch, drives a lifted Chevy, wakeboards". Shit was lost en masse.

9 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0

Completely true. Also picture Batman-esque utility belts, leatherman raptors, and Skoal Wintergreen being spit into a Monster can.

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

Shit dude I should change my major. This is basically me

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

He's a paramedic

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

He looks like the type of guy to tie another mans tie with out the common decency to give him a reach around.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Better? Says who?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It makes me sad that he had to ask a stranger for such a personal bit of assistance.

9 years ago | Likes 2899 Dislikes 62

You make it sound like he's washing his balls or something. It's just a tie.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

It makes me happy that this guy has the courage to ask, he is going to make it in life.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

He's never met his dad

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

Learned it at the military, that and shooting 7,62x51 NATO at 1200 RPM is a whole lot of fun. 2 really helpful knowledges.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

But it makes me happy that he asked and was answered in this way.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

He was probably on his way there and forgot about it or something.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I had a much older neighbour knock on our door once asking me for assistance. Some people have never needed to until something changes life.

9 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 0

I think its sad he didn't go with a bow tie... really a wasted opportunity.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm 30 and I still don't know how to tie a tie.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

38 - worst thing you could do, were to untie my tie in the closet and let me keep standing should I ever need one. ^^

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

True, but good on him for seeking some help with it instead of just giving up.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

A girl taught me back in like 7th grade...doesn't really matter who does it, but chances are you're gonna remember it forever.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

True, but I'm glad someone was able to help him at least

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I was never taught, but I just googled that shit and made the tie my bitch

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My 6th grade teacher insisted on us having a tie day, if it wasn't for that I wouldn't have known how to tie one (til i searched oninternet)

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

i'm almost 30 and still don't know how to tie a tie, tho i'm sure youtube could teach me.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's because the black communities has too many deadbeats for a father. That is the primary source of black kids downfall.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 5

You need help with your hate. He only needed help with a tie. Guess who is the better person?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Probably didn't grow up with a dad. Not a racist thing, my dad died when I was 10 and I never learned how to tie a tie.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I taught myself how to tie and tie and to shave, just wasn't something I felt I needed my dad, or step-dads, help with.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yea I taught myself how to shave. Tying a tie is difficult and it took me years to figure it out. Internet wasn't around when I was young.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah, he could have just googled it like a normal person

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 13

Maybe he doesn't have a computer or internet.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Why? Butlers still exist.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

I actually used askjeeves to learn how to tie a tie.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good man Jeeves.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Women used to and still do tie their husbands' ties for them.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Lol, yeah that's probably it. This kid usually has a butler do it for him, but he just recently got really sick at an inconvenient time.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

No, I don't think he has a butler.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I mean, if you got a blue collar dad, it's possible he's only worn a tie a few times in his life & doesn't know. Nothing wrong with that.

9 years ago | Likes 143 Dislikes 2

I have to tie my father-in-law's (retired electrician) as he's only needed to wear one about 5 times and his dad never had to.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

or no dad ha i have never learned how to do it and got my date for prom to do mine for me haha

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

I had to ask my date's father to help me tie mine. He was extremely kind about it and as far as I know he never told her he had to help me.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

*sentimental. Nothing "personal" about it

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 9

I asked the bus driver in my street to tie my tie for prom. Since then I have collected a gret tie collection, and I can tie it on my own.

9 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

Gret Ide!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It'd be funny if you have a great tie collection and he still ties them for you

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

"Hey man I need you to tie my tie!" "YOU'VE BEEN COMIN TO ME FOR 37 YEARS"

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I watched nearly a thousand videos just to learn how

9 years ago | Likes 81 Dislikes 0

I too was raised by Google/youtube

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I watch one video 1000 times to tie my tie and i watch it another 1000 times the next time i try to tie my tie. I hate to tie a tie.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Images helped me more than videos, but then I only know how to do half-Windsor.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I just buy ties with the elastic

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

For shame! Shaaaaame

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Used to work with people who were potentially aggressive, so it was a safety thing. Never got out of the habit (and I hate ties in general)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That's fair enough then, im guessing either law enforcement or prison guard?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I was forced into a religion as a kid and one time i was bored during their talking and went into the bathroom and undid it slowly 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 5

And then redid it. And forced myself to learn. Asked a couple people for some pointers and do a fairly decent job now

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 2

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9 years ago (deleted Feb 1, 2023 11:10 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

No but ppl often have to dress up. Even though Jesus said "come as you are" parents still get into their "Sunday best". Its the worst

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I think it's better that he learned to not be afraid to ask! Whoever did raise him taught him that & that's great. Some kids are too afraid

9 years ago | Likes 1597 Dislikes 7

He who asks a question is a fool for a minute. He who never asks is a fool for a lifetime.

9 years ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 0

Excellent perspective. +1

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Well said mate.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

My parents always encouraged me to ask questions to strangers. I must have been a weird and nosy kid to many!

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

v

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I couldn't agree more with this. I love your outlook, I wish there was more people like you

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

You really cheered me up. Thank you for being positive.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

What you said is brilliant. When you realize you can't teach your kids everything due to whatever, teach them how to ask.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I wouldn't be able to ask for directions if I was lost.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This right here, I always tell my kid there is no shame in asking how to do something. That's how we learn.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

What a nice positive way to look at it

9 years ago | Likes 301 Dislikes 1

We at /r/wholesomememes look at everything that way, it's a nice way to live.

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

38 yo mother of 2 here...still afraid to ask for personal assistance of any sort :/

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Your positivity disgusts me, I find it difficult to disagree however.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I was to afraid for literally everything my while life. And I still would never do this.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

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9 years ago (deleted May 17, 2017 1:47 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

It's great that he asked, but not better, IMHO.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

I like this. My wife's mom is a very reserved person, but she made sure to teach my wife to talk to people.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As someone who grew up with anxiety, I would always be too afraid to ask questions incase people thought I was stupid. I wish I got past it

9 years ago | Likes 126 Dislikes 1

Does everyone have anxiety nowadays?

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As someone with anciety id rather ask a stranger to help me, rather than letting my parents/friends know i cant tie a tie.

9 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 4

Who can tie a tie nowadays? You aren't a special case.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It's funny how it can effect the thought process so differently

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Same, it sucks when you are more open to strangers than those meant to be close to you.

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Jeez folks, came here for cute shit to relax, leaving with rekindled anxiety over my anxiety. Figures.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

One thing I teach my kids is: It's alright to talk to strangers. Just don't go off with strangers.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0