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Wife and I are separating, she took her things and our daughter to her moms. A couple of minutes ago I found a toy my daughter lost in one of the bedrooms, and I instinctively called out to her excitedly to see what I found. I was only met with silence, and then sounds of my own weeping. I miss my baby girl.. and it's killing me that I can't kiss her goodnight and tell her how much I love her.
TheZethyrian
I always feel weird upvoting stuff like this.
smellyhippy
play a game - she loves you and will be confused. You fight for her please but fight clean no matter how bitter you feel. It will get worse
hoxanator
The things people air on an image hosting site. I can't imagine telling what I ate for bfast let alone this bs. Actually it prolly is bs.
justanotheruserhidingout
You sound like a good dad, hopefully it all works out
Sazarath
Just don't give up
wherethepunchlineends
zeetsmageets
Sorry bud.. I don't know what else to say. This hurts me just thinking about it.
smellyhippy
Been there, done that. Skype, FaceTime whatever it takes mate. She cannot stop you staying in contact. Say g'nite every nite, read a story
MichaelScottsPRguy
Stay strong man!
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PadraigS
Yes Repoststatistics, I used the same picture to convey my pain, I'm sorry I couldn't come up with anything original.
BetterLuckyThanGood
I wish I knew what to say. Just keep being the best dad you can when you can. Your daughter will still love you.
PadraigS
I really hope so, thank you so much
dillpicklechips
I'd like to say it gets easier with time, but it really doesn't. Sorry man.
PadraigS
I figured it never would.
TimeKill
Show up at her mom's when she's not there & take the kids. If there's no custody order, as the parent, you get them over a grandma
PadraigS
Yeah for sure, but this is what we all agreed upon, I'll get to have her later on in the week, but this first night is killing me
TimeKill
Well that's different then...and I do agree with Imosbc...my way is kind of means war, so if you're not there and can work it do so
LaufeyArkhon
Which is one reason I am not leaving my wife
SirLordDarthVader
Hold fast brother, you'll make it through this.
PadraigS
I really appreciate it, I don't think I can handle the night.
Allitis
I have my daughter half the time. It gets...easier never really better but its doable. Be healthy and happy for her. Be strong for her!
Allitis
I have my daughter half the time. It gets...easier never really better but its doable. Be healthy and happy for her. Be strong for her!
SirLordDarthVader
I'm sure you dont think that. But you will. If all else fails, just fall asleep till morning. Set hourly goals. Just one hour at a time.
PadraigS
I think I might go out for a drive and listen to some podcasts to try and calm me down
SirLordDarthVader
As long as its only a drive and podcasts, and you'll be safe come tomorrow.
PadraigS
thanks, I know things will be alright, but I don't know how I'm going to shake this feeling every night I don't see her