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I was molested as a child and I'm a docile person.
This idea excites me but also disgusts me. I'd never act on it but it's a fantasy of mine.
I want to do it with consent but I'm scared to ever bring it up with anyone irl.
MistressLyda
Nope, you are not the only one. It takes a LOT of talking to do it safely though.
Crispynoodlez816
Surprisingly a lot of ladies are into being strangled. Kind of a good middle ground. But meet the right woman and damn!
EnksTheViking
So, a lot of people are really into it. Just...bring it up./
napptrap
I don't think this is uncommon. And some people want to be the victim in a safe environment.
DataTrekker
We do something called Consensual Non consent, where we discuss limits but anything out of that is fair game, they consent to non-consent
AishlarSnow
With prior consent that is one of my fetishes - both giving and taking versions. Still good to seek help if you are feeling this conflicted!
scottyk5980
Sounds like me; raped as a kid, lots of weird fetishes. I got a good wife though; has daddy issues. We take turns acting out our fetishes.
IamTheTeapot
Fetlife.com. It's like Facebook for kinky folk. fetishists and BDSM. A lot of groups/forums which you talk about this or see others talk.
Banditsalmon
I'm sure this is rooted in your past. You're wanting to regain power from the times you were powerless. Speak to a therapist to work this ou
DawnHahn
So often abuse victims internalize/externalize their trauma. I am not a professional, but that is what I'm hearing here. 1/2
ThisIsALovelyRoomOfDeath
Thoughts don't make you a bad person. We're given self control as humans. The fact that you know better highlights this.
IamaFuckingCoward
You know that's a turn on for some chicks right? You just gotta talk to them and figure out their kinks
SuperFineButtHairs
I don't kink shame, even the weird ones. What gets you going gets you going.
SlickChicken
Fetlife. So many message boards about this. A lot of people feel the same way.
Diace
Find an SO into role playing that stuff. As long as you don't hurt anyone, no harms done.
theHatredburrito
Its not uncommon at all, therapy is still something you should look into though. When you're comfortable enough with a girl discuss your <
theHatredburrito
> fantasies together. You'd be surprised how many woman have the same fantasy.
notadisneyprincess
Talk to a therapist.
Greymalum
I can incredibly relate. It's weird, I thought the rape would make me act the other way.
TofuZebra
Safe. Sane. Consensual. (Or in this case, Consensual non consent.) You're not the only one, and I'm sure you'll find someone who is 1/2
TofuZebra
Into the receiving end of this. If it makes you feel better, I definitely am, so if you're strange, then I am too. :) 2/2
DawnHahn
2/2 The means to prevent bringing more trauma into the world is to heal from yours. How you do that is your journey.
MazelJew92
MrDustey
@OP look into fetishist comunities(fetlife), it's a common power fantasy and if done safely with a willing partner, can be very gratifying.
TranswithacapitalD
This is a fairly common fetish (rapeplay). The key is doing it safely and ensuring everyone involved is consenting (and have a safeword)
RoxFast4
Common fetish. Stop worrying
amglasgow
Simulated rape play is actually not that uncommon. Pretending to hold someone down and fuck them is pretty standard in BDSM community.
LionOfRome
Yeah same. It always feels s bit messed up
pauli133
a: within boundaries, this is a common fetish. b: you should discuss this with a professional counselor. where you're at isn't healthy.
seventytimes
And if you end up getting it figured out, call me? ;)
yaFuckingWeapon
seeing your selfies... i'd volunteer... i'd volunteer so hard
HamboneSlammer
Damn
ThatGuyisadinosaur
Look into consensual role-playing
FiveDollars
the number one fantasy for chicks is rape fantasies, so you're in luck. just ask first then keep lines of communication open
ProneHub
Not all chicks, but yeah. Safe words and safe gestures (like safewords but in gestures if the lady is silenced) are absolutely needed. @OP
doubleormuffin
You're not a piece of shit for the urges you get. You're only a piece of shit if you act on them and actually rape someone.
NipplesTheEnchiIada
Now what if someone was attracted to children, but they never acted on it? Would people have the same attitude? Could someone seek help?
doubleormuffin
I know that I have the same attitude, though many people don't. The help options for paedophiles are unfortunately and unreasonably limited.
theHatredburrito
Yes they can seek help and no they aren't automatically pieces of shit.
NipplesTheEnchiIada
Really? Cause from what I understand (which can be wrong) is that, if you are attracted to kids, the police are notified and you get put on
NipplesTheEnchiIada
a list. Especially if you have kids of your own.
theHatredburrito
idk, i'm pretty sure thats only if you start making plans or touch a kid. If you are seeking help then they should leave you alone.