ViolentVibrator
1190
30
11
Any guys here have experience being the man of honor? Also this isn't a friend zone kind of thing. I love both the groom and the bride. Both are great friends of mine. Any recommendations of speech and do I have to wear a dress?
witsd
Wear a suit in the bride's colours, and remember that when a role is technically made up, you can do whatever you want. Make it your own.
ArianaGandhi
Don’t stress it brotha. Pick a tux that fits your well and you should be ok!
Yakkystudy
I was a man of honor! I got to wear my normal suit and tie as it was a small wedding but painted my nails per the bride's request.
Wntrscmng
Sam harris
Hersy
Patrick Dempsy is that you?
nofaithleft
I'd say you won. my friend didn't consider me but he asked a friend of his wife
NuclearWinterIsComing
Wearing a dress depends on the type of friendship you guys have and whether it would be acceptable in your friend group. At the least you1/2
NuclearWinterIsComing
Should have a suit that matches the color of the other brides maids' dresses.
0TheTiger
Wait do you have to help her pee when she has to go?
RustleMyJimis
I wasn't sure of my Best Man speech. Wasn't prepared for it either. DJ threw me under the bus on that one.
EliMFrost
I think the only stipulation is that you wear the same color as the other bridesmaids..no black tux for you.
WhatAPervert
It’s basically the same thing as being a best man. No need for anything special. The only is that you have to have the brides colors.
Kerro1981
Practice practice practice the speech. Out loud. In front of people.
ViolentVibrator
Good idea. Things always sound better in my head than it does out loud
Kerro1981
Same for most people. You also want to be able to give the speech without prompts or notes. A good delivery is half the battle
squreky
Had a female groomsmen, she wore a dress but we'd been friends for 20 years and we had a blast.
squreky
I'm going to return the favor when she gets married
THExPILLOx
I had a female groomsmen. She got a tux just like everyone else lol.
ViolentVibrator
So i get a dress?
Rin007
Get a Kilt in her preferred colour.
THExPILLOx
I would clear it with the bride and groom first. Just giving you an anecdote based on a similar experience
uslydog
yes. you must insist on wearing a dress.
BelfryBats
Just roll with it. Make the speech quick and witty. As for the dress, only if you want to.
ViolentVibrator
I will do whatever is requested of me.
Gearwe
Do a backflip!
BelfryBats
That's the spirit. Besides the dress won't be that bad, though the heels might be...
AlcoholicsAnonymousBYO
Violent vibrator ay - is that the kickstart model?
ViolentVibrator
It's been a working model for a while
AlcoholicsAnonymousBYO
You might want to put a rubber around the crook of the swing arm, can catch on the heel sometimes, unless safety first and boots are on.
TheSynder
You shouldn't have to wear a dress & heals. My wife and I recently got married and his had a grooms woman & she had a brides man. Both...
TheSynder
...were very good friends of ours and with our friends it was cool. They walked in together. Hope this helped have fun!
Tryggve
i hope you dont get to wear one of those hideous green dresses, because i have a felling you'll look better in a pink one
TorontoJones
It's called SEA FOAM, you cultureless boob
Tryggve
I apologize for my ignorance
TorontoJones
Shit, don't sweat it. I'm mildly blue-green colorblind, so I can name it but not see it properly.
DeusVaulthunter
Dress depends on what the bride wants.
ViolentVibrator
I'm fully ready to accept anything she wants me to do. I'm already prepared to have a bachelorette party surrounded in penis
myotherusernameisalreadytaken
We want pictures.
ViolentVibrator
Ya not a problem. Wedding isn't until next July though. Debating between Vegas or a cruise though.
RustleMyJimis
Stay away from the cruise unless all party members can be trusted. All Titanic moments should be avoided.
ViolentVibrator
I've been on bachelor party cruises before. Shit was out of control. This ain't my first rodeo. Just as a man of honor/bridesmaid
DeusVaulthunter
My vote is cruise.