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Mom Bods
FP?! Thanks Guys & Gals! Would love to see some of those lovely mom bods! ;-)
Jun 9, 2019 8:38 AM
KinkyLaxBro
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FP?! Thanks Guys & Gals! Would love to see some of those lovely mom bods! ;-)
iwishjtmoneywasstillavailableitsmyoldvideogamemoniker
I have always preferred a healthy gal, with some thickness, real women have curves and all that.
randomstringofletters
AlabamaShakySnake
A lot of guys are already into that sort of thing, I hear more hate about women from other women.
ijust12bcd8d
If women and men would just reach down deep and pull out some damn self-esteem, they wouldn't worry about what others say about their body.
whatspaulplayingtoday
Yeah, I'm on board.
runnfly
Call me moto moto...
myfriendthedoppelganger
The term “chubby chaser” has been around WAY longer than “dad bod.” Big girls are beautiful!
underscoreneckbeard
I'll take a mom bod.
JohnCheshirsky
Didn't women themselves come up with the concept of dad bod anyway?
SoapyMammaryMasturbation
While I am by no means into the morbidly obese, I do love a little squish on my ladies.
sangatster
Already did
Vinzentt
The girl and guy "standards" are generally set by women. Most guys i know like smaller boobs, some chub and stuff.
xo101
If you’re both over 29, busy with careers, socializing, hobbies, family etc, just get some exercise. If your partner wants you to look 17,
xo101
that’s a problem, but not a problem with your body.
SirReginaldVonBartlesbeid
Bring it! I like these girls who aren't just toothpicks.
BlueLanternBraxx
Top comment is right. If you want the standard lowered you gotta talk to the head girl. The guys already signed off.
thelovelyOP
She said “we”
orangebicx
Dad body is just a normal not fat body,
StopstalkingmePawan
Pff.yea, ok.
rainbluestar
Instead of lowering the standards, how about making them realistic.
TheSpeakerOfTheHouse
But that's too much hard woooork.... (/s)
demosthenes89
It's funny to me how all the comments are assuming she's asking men to lower their standards. She said "we" like she means society overall.
CrusherOfCities
But if a specific half of society is barely participating in the problem, is it fair to label it a 'societal problem'?
demosthenes89
Men participate. I think arguing about which gender holds which percentage of guilt is pointless identity politics. It's a cultural issue. 1
demosthenes89
Even if it's an issue that primarily impacts one gender, we all benefit from empathizing & learning how to speak intelligently about it. 2/2
itsahorse
Except there are no rules for standards. It's up to you.
KinkyLaxBro
madmardagan
Sure, just call it "mom bod" seems fair and I don't know a lot of mother's that hold themselves to model fitness once they're moms.
CritterrCatcher
There is a lot of pressure to “lose the baby weight.” I feel like minutes after you push em out it’s instantly a topic of conversation
madmardagan
Honestly, the question continues to be whether or not the mother is holding the standard for herself or not.
makeiteasykeepitsleazy
I even got comments about my weight DURING pregnancy. “You can’t even tell from the back.” And then talk about how breastfeeding would make
CritterrCatcher
Can absolutely confirm this.
makeiteasykeepitsleazy
Me lose weight faster. Hadn’t even had my son and the convo was already about losing the baby weight.
lemmerustlethosejimmies
I mean I think fitness is important. I find fit women insanely attractive, but I also think I should be fit to match their effort
mrsdowneyjr
I am glad you haven't been totally down voted. I don't think most people should be ashamed by what they find attractive.
Unholytrashpanda
We are attracted to different things, which is what it is. How about we just not shame people who aren't in our preferred group and (1/2)
Unholytrashpanda
Not guilt people who aren't attracted to us?
Baskerville84
It's not a dad bod, it's a father figure.
iamkarlpilkington
That's why I don't have one
vicvalour
Here's your internet.
TodayIsSlapANaziDay
ImJustSoFckingSickOfThisBllsht
Is this why black guys are ripped? ... I'll see myself out.
NotAplicable
Why are you an expecting black father?
Mxlespxles
MoreTan
Frodomann1
PrincessNakedMoleRat
Underrated comment right here, folks!
HatShenanigans
Role model?
TheFifthElementalCase
I like it. I like it more as Roll Model
MiloGoesToIMGR
TheRealBigChungus
Motherfucker...
ShortHairBlueEyes
TheGriffin
MysterEF8
GemsAreOutrageousTrulyTrulyTrulyOutrageous
KinkyLaxBro
I sir am glad you are my top comment! Solid
BarryInTheStreetsOliverInTheSheets
Jaymezians
Ah, I see you're a dad of culture as well.
ImgoingtosayShoveitupyourbutt
KinkyLaxBro
MPinky
leanestbenis
I love girls with Daddy issues. They make mistakes and I could be one of those mistakes.
AlienMark
Look at tinder statistics and tell me which one has the higher standards...
pwnscon3
ImKimJongUnAndEverythingIsFine
“If you can’t handle me at my worst you don’t deserve me at my best.” - bipolar, overweight chick whos best day involves crocs and McDonalds
RubberChickenGoD
Or this:
ImKimJongUnAndEverythingIsFine
“If you are under 6’ you aren’t a man. Also 6 figure income ONLY!” - single mom with 3 kids and just as many chins.
CovfefeTheBloodless
What I've noticed is that men don't have high standards for who they'll have sex with, but they do for relationships
streetfightingeasterbunny
Those are what we call “practice girls”.
streetfightingeasterbunny
Downvote me into oblivion, that was funny.
Fuckme721
I'm a dude, and I'm the type that can't have sex unless I have an emotional bond with them. But thinking of my other guy friends, 1/2
Fuckme721
I'd say you're pretty spot on for the most part. 2/2
jazzfactory
Men, when faced with a picture of a woman without context, are much harsher. Only supermodels will pass muster, while everyone else (1)
jazzfactory
Is deemed uggo. But when the context of possibly having real life sex comes up, men suddenly become much more forgiving regarding appearance
jazzfactory
Women are kind of hard to impress no matter what. (3)
TatersWhatsTatersPrecious
The only standards you set are your own.
NihonJinLover
I say just have a mom bod and tell everyone else to go fuck themselves
Ketheres
I don't think I can lower my standards any further. At this point I will like anyone and anything who shows affection towards me.
ImAFoxButNotReally
Are you showing affection towards yourself?
Ketheres
I never learned how
ImAFoxButNotReally
People who love themselves are more confident which is key in being attractive to others. Treat yourself like you would with your best 1/2
ImAFoxButNotReally
friend. Dismiss the bad thoughts about yourself and focus on your assets. Praise and pamper yourself.
Ketheres
Well, the person I thought was my best, and only, friend broke all connections to me because I turned his combo against him in Hearthstone,
Robertslipstick
Well you do have a cat! Which would probably mean that you could attract a lot of women.. Just saying..
Ketheres
Both cat and dog, actually. Well, they are my mom's, but I will go on vacay there tomorrow (fucken finally. First time this year)
Robertslipstick
Aww.. Well that sounds nice! Where are you going on vacay?
Ketheres
Home
Robertslipstick
Well.. I figured that much..
Ketheres
Good thing that dogs exist. They have infinite love and joy to give.
JohnCheshirsky
You... you fuck dogs?
Ketheres
No. I fluff them and I hug them and I pet them and I play with them. But no dog fucking. Also no peanut butter.
Blue4Five
JohnCheshirsky
I am stealing this
Blue4Five
Blue4Five
eeyrjmr
Women are the harsher critics towards woman and men.
APIndysMissingNut
That’s not even a little bit true.
Quizz25S
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-k9VE-eEY4
PitchforkSalesperson
I was very critical of others when my self esteem was low, recently I've started noticing how attractive people are
Rayxzerox
Even if this blanket statement is true I'm not sure what it has to do with the post.
Pooprocketpower
Men are pretty quick to jump in with this critical comment whenever the opportunity comes up....
BeautyChaos
Also the harshest critics of themselves.
applegak
Harsh critics & superficial people on both sides. People who complain or judge other people's appearances...don't waste your time on them.
applegak
Find someone who likes you for you and helps you be a better person, mentally and physically.
applegak
*find people
Scotti3mcb00gerballs
This is true I see a fat guy I see a person who added sympathy weight and never lost it ?
neji7728
Agreed. Any body issues I have with myself stems from my Asian mom constantly telling me I’m fat even tho I’m the “skinniest” one in the fam
ArsenicAndGlamour
My issue with that being I have worked in male dominated workplaces and have heard some insane criticisms about the women in their lives. 1
ArsenicAndGlamour
And usually harsh criticisms that were demeaning for the purpose of a joke with the boys. Or they’d make underhanded comments about guys 2
ArsenicAndGlamour
They were usually bros with when around a woman they were both interested in. Trying to make the other look bad and build themselves up. 3
ArsenicAndGlamour
I don’t think either men or women are worse. I think insecure people are worse regardless of gender.
dgs23
that's so interesting I work in an office off all women and can say the exact same thing.
MoonkinRevolution
Never have I heard so much gossip and criticism as when one girl in the group dared show up to a sauna night with unpainted nails :D
atkinsongl
That’s a joke right? Are these adults?
ohsa
As a girl I am judging you for judging other women in such a way
Yesisaidthat
As a guy I'm secretly judging you but will never tell you because I'm hoping for a date.
ohsa
Better execution of a gender joke thank you
pwnscon3
Worked in spas/hair salons for 8 years. No One: - . Female hairdressers: Oh.My.GAD. did you see how she looked at me. THAT BETCH.
kamenhokage
Seems to me there's both extremes. Either you're flawless (by her standards) or fat is beautiful and you should love it, biology be damned.
AZRAELSBLADE
One could argue that is a result of centuries of internalized mysogyny due to patriarchal domination.
AZRAELSBLADE
55 downvotes in 30minutes... that’s got to be a record
CWStJdeNobbs
You could. You'd be talking complete and utter bullshit but you could.
DigitalBang
Or one could argue that it’s a trait of competition, from hunter gatherer times. Outcast the competition.
lnsaneWolf
Or people could took responsability for their own toxicity instead of trying to justify it and put that burden on everyone but themselves...
boogablend
I like this
CuddlyPervert
There's a difference between examining root causes and trying to make excuses. Often that examination is the best path to improvement
Chebacca
RackhamTheRed
One Bondulance, coming right away. You just sit tight and keep on bubbling
ihatepeoplebutihatemyselfthemost
Isn’t thicc girls way more popular than dad bod?
Patches3000
No
eetsumkaus
there's thicc and then tree trunk. Thicc is rarer than the internet would lead you to believe
GothKirby
Thick and chubby aren’t the same
HitlersArtCritic
Thicc buts aren't flat stomachs. But thats fine to have too as long as its not excessive. Like a dad bod.
JanaJustinsdottir
Thicc is a very specific body type that has thick thighs, butts and big boobs but tiny waists and flat stomachs though
zagibu
It's kind of hard to get a fat ass and flat belly without implants.
SmoovintheCat
Just need to be pear-shaped.
ImKimJongUnAndEverythingIsFine
The problem is girls have either no confidence and thing they’re fat when they’re attractive, or think they’re thicc when they’re disgusting
everyoneACTUALLYlikesmycomments
Now days its "thicc" but some look like girls on "my 600 pound life"
bubbleobill
Thicc is usely just butts and big thighs but you need to have a flat tummy
gingerloaf
you just suck in your tummy for photos...
Xenarion
Hmm, depends. Chubby seems ok for a lot of guys.
xmaneds
Inganni
That is a very badly made image.
rusrsdude
It's seems to be a mixture of images before 2012, so yeah.
homiedudemanguy
Some tum flub is pretty nice too, doesn’t have to be completely flat tbh. Sometimes a pudge is adorable imo
Enoan
Of your butt is nice enough ain’t no one looking at your tummy
Sage042000
This guy speaks the truth, ladies. ^
SomethingTittyWitty
I don't mind some thickness in the stomach. Nice for cuddles
ProphetOfPhil
Why can't we have all of the above though? As long as the woman isn't a huge bitch then whatever body type is good!
sunflowersticklemorethanfeathers
The problem is body positivity has been manipulated in2 being fat is ok When its about dont hate, hurt, belittle those who aren't the norm.
anamewithnoperson
Honestly as a moderately thicc girl, trying to maintain chub in all the right places is actually difficult so props to proper thicc women.
hadadrumstickandmybrainisstillstuck
Once you are over 30 body type ends up pretty much at the bottom of the list of requirements for a mate. Well 20 for me
LuLuPennyAndOdium44
I like what Phil says
ElectricSmurf
What's a huge bitch?
anamewithnoperson
Op's mom.
NinjaCongo
The most attractive part of a woman's body is her smile.
GIJewTheTacticalHebrew
False: Pancreas. I love me a woman with a good pancreas.
gassersdontmakeaccidents
CornFedIowaBred
The prophet has spoken! It shall be!
ThatOneGuyThatSaysThatOneThing
It's unhealthy to accept your body weight if you're overweight and not doing anything about it. People should strive for healthy body weight
ThatOneGuyThatSaysThatOneThing
And it's crazy to ask society to change their views because it's easier than diet and exercise.
ThatOneGuyThatSaysThatOneThing
/(un)popularopinion
Throwaway190190
As someone whose been overweight my whole life, I actually agree with you. I've been trying unsuccessfully for 10 years to lose weight
apieceofclaythatweighsatonne
It would require you ladiea to agree with us dads that your bods are alright...
ImAFoxButNotReally
As a man, for a woman is cool to like a dad bod but not to choose a slightly skinny guy. Just like men would choose the opposite.
ProfessorAssBlast2020
Only if theyre hot
TipsyCareBear
As a lady, ^ whoop there it is. I work with mostly men, and anything I ask them about my appearance they think looks fine. I could put a bun
Boblemoju
Their weird and ugly is someone elses awesome and hot. Just do ur thing and someone will find you, or u will :)
TipsyCareBear
2. On top of my head like Cindy Lou Who and they're like "yeah man, looks great *shrug* " Meanwhile theres a small group of female co
TipsyCareBear
3. Workers who critique me everyday and always have something negative to say. A lot of times, women are just flat out mean to other women.
bshodokai
I think this shows men and women compete differently for social status
kittycatnap
It’s true..when I look back at some old photos now I’m like “ddddaaaannngg girl!” But at the time all I could think was I was fat and ugly
boxmeister
Been there :(
SparkleJumpRopeQueen69
Ugh same :(
1nn0cent1974
McClaranCrawford
Being over weight will never be considered attractive my the general public. In general people are attracted to what is perceived as healthy
Gengh1sKhant
We find attractive what we're told is so by social values. That's heavily influenced by media atm. Gotta keep us insecure to sell stuff.
Oilfieldangel
It’s what’s considered overweight that astounds me. I have a 5’ tall friend who weighs 103. She is considered overweight.
awildhair
Per the BMI chart, she is a normal weight.
Oilfieldangel
Well not according to the doctor that told her she needs to lose weight.
McClaranCrawford
Because you can be at a normal weight and have a high body fat percentage if your muscle mass is low. Being 35% bf isnt ever healthy.
adrianontherocks
I don’t think we’re talking about ‘overweight’. I wouldn’t consider a dad bod unhealthy but it’s technically not the pinnacle of fitness
McClaranCrawford
You're heart doesn't care what your health preferences are. The more body you have the harder it is on your heart.
TheBurningHouse
History has shown that this isn’t true at all
McClaranCrawford
We thought being overweight was healthy because it was associated with wealth and power and much healthier than dying of starvation
mrsdowneyjr
Thanks
AnnieBahde
I mean judging by my husband and a lot of my friend’s husbands who are happily married and shit... seems to be accepted. In fact, I’d say I
areibold
Damn roasting her own husband on imgur the fucking savagery
Rodvitner
Thats not what he was saying tho. He said the image requires women to accept when men tell them they look good with beer bods :)
CubbyPawws
I know a lot of guys who like mom bods, it is typically the ladies that think there is something wrong with it and won't be told otherwise.
KinkyLaxBro
AnnieBahde
Oh my shit I misread it. And that’s a totally diff point and a good one at that.
AnnieBahde
Know more men with dad bods in my kid 30’s than I do men in good shape.
ColonelColon
That's not he meant. Read a bit more closely, it's kinda confusingly written.
atkinsongl
And it’s god dang shameful! THERE I SAID IT!
FvcktangularBondulance
I'd say that applies to everyone. Late 20s here, and slow and steady, most people either are out of shape, or are losing it.
fatjangles1337
Probably because being in good shape is hard and people lack discipline and are lazy
KinkyLaxBro
Mctato
Kid 30's?
TheRealGeorgeMcfly
when you're in your 30s but still live with your folks
zachtidmore
I think they meant mid
Mctato
Ohhhhhhh. Yeah that makes sense.
MoonkinRevolution
Isn't it that way around that they got married and THEN got the dad bod? So the ladies didn't decide for it, just live with it now
AnnieBahde
Maybe in some but not in my case. Sister’s boyfriend has classic dad bod, husband’s work friend got one (sans kid) and is dating lots. Now
AnnieBahde
I’ll admit I’m in my mid 30’s and haven’t been in the Tinder dating pool but my current experience is that me and most of my girlfriends are
AnnieBahde
Watching what we eat and exercising a lot trying to lose baby weight and stay trim(ish) and the men in our lives seem a lot less concerned.