Katherine the Brave

Jun 7, 2016 8:26 AM

taisce

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Goodbye Katherine King

You left us too early

Dec 2014

Way before your time

March 15th 2015

There was still so much to do and experience

April 5th 2015

You had your entire life before you

April 12th 2015 (Last picture uploaded before diagnosis)

You should have been able to go to high school

June 2nd 2015 (Day of Diagnosis; it was discovered she had an inoperable tumor on her brain stem. Her diagnosis was D.I.P.G. and she was given 9 months to live.)

She should have had a boyfriend (Or girlfriend)

June 3rd 2015

Gotten married

June 4th 2015

Had her 2.5 children

June 4th 2015

And had all of her dreams fulfilled.

June 28th 2015

Instead you were given an hour glass

July 28th 2015

With the time you were given you raised awareness

December 1st 2015

Raised money for charity

December 30th 2015

Worried more about others than yourself

You wanted everyone to be happy

March 3rd 2016

To not worry about you, you even were sure that it was your fault you were sick

March 19th 2016

You were kind when you could have lashed out

You were brave even though you had every reason to be afraid

April 28th 2016

You were strong even though you were allowed to be weak

April 29th 2016

Even as you slipped away, you never wanted others to worry

March 21st 2016

In a time where you could be selfish, you were selfless

March 23rd 2016

You were loved by everyone who met you

March 31st 2016

You touched the lives of everyone you knew, you made them better through your own strength and love

Your tumor made you a prisoner inside your own body

May 22nd 2016

You couldn't sing, you couldn't dance, you couldn't tell your family that you loved them

June 6th 2016

Worst of all you couldn't eat rainbow sherbet anymore

June 6th 2016

Or tell people that your favorite color was rainbow

June 6th 2016

You were told it was okay to let go, to not suffer, to not be in pain

June 6th 2016

And you did, and you will be missed by so many people

June 6th 2016 7:34pm rest in peace

You were loved by more than you'll ever realize

June 6th 2016 7:34pm rest in peace

But, you will live forever within our hearts and our memories.

You are loved Katherine King, and you will be missed. Your impact will continue to ripple far beyond the 7 years that you were with us and you will never be forgotten.

Obligatory Front Page Edit: It saddens me that my first FP post is this, I always wanted it to be something happy and that made people laugh. The family is devastated but if you'd like to give them your well wishes directly, you can at https://www.facebook.com/search/top/?q=katherine%20the%20brave

Also, if you'd like to do something for them, this entire year they wanted to increase research and raise awareness so other parents wouldn't have to go through this. The funding for pediatric brain cancer is almost non-existent and most of the research is privately funded.

Their favorite charity is the http://mckennaclairefoundation.org/ you don't have to donate but if you'd like to do something for them, a donation in their honor would be amazing.

Or if you'd like to help them directly, they have a gofundme they set up to help with medical expenses. https://www.gofundme.com/katherinethebrave

Second Edit: She is my niece, I wrote this because I am 1400 miles away from all of my family. I was alone, had no one to talk to, and wanted to share my pain with a community I've been a part of for 3 years. It wasn't for internet points, and I've corrected all the spelling errors that everyone pointed out and some that I caught on my own (now that I'm sober). Thank you everyone for your kind words and wishes. It is appreciated one-yearn I think you could realize.

THIRD EDIT! As we approach the one-year anniversary of Katie's death I want to do something special in her memory. So on June 6th at Noon (PST) to June 7th at Noon (PST) I'm going to be doing a charity live stream on https://www.twitch.tv/princesssnark. Please join me if you like, if you'd like to participate in your own small way this is a link to the crowdfunding page https://www.youcaring.com/mckennaclairefoundationorg-827438. Of course if you wish or are unable to do either, just having her in your thoughts and keeping the memory of her alive even a little is amazing all on its own and thank you all for caring.

I always wanted to hv a daughter and God gave me 1. This post just made me realize that she's worth more than that! Rest in peace Katherine

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

I have a 7 year old daughter. This is so messed up, life is so cruel. I am so sorry.

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 2

OMG I never cry with these type posts and I'm sitting here sobbing. I'm hugging my kids when they wake up

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 2

I have no words... Just a hug in the silly shape of a little green arrow

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 3

My deepest condolences. May she always be remembered because of her strenght and spirit.

9 years ago | Likes 736 Dislikes 5

Thank you

9 years ago | Likes 95 Dislikes 2

I don't cry much... But this... This made me... I'm sorry for your/ their loss @OP

9 years ago | Likes 80 Dislikes 1

There is no God.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Seriously all these people saying god bless what the fuck is that supposed to do when a god could have stopped this little girl from passing

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

That's the power of fear.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

If there was a god, he would be a sadist.

9 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 6

I cannot say if there is a god or not, but this story puts a big mark in the no god column.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

OP I'm so sorry for the loss but Thank you for sharing this little angel with us.

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

My eldest daughter turns 7 this weekend. @OP, I can't even begin to fathom the loss you must feel.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

This is one of the reasons why I do not believe in God. If there was a God, whatever his name is, and ... (1/2)

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

... that God loves people, no way he could allow this. Inoperable tumors in 7 years old?!?!? what kind of God is this?!

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

There are some things in life, I just don't want.to know; how much a child's cofin costs is one of them.

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

You can get a decent one for like $250. Newborn ones are more expensive though. Lord knows why they're so tiny

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 13

Not much to stem the tide, but have an upvote, I thought it was funny

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Beautiful tribute to her beautiful life. I am so sorry for your loss.

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 1

so sorry to read this, sorry for your loss.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Fuck you cancer!

9 years ago | Likes 82 Dislikes 3

"You were brave even though you had every reason to be afraid."

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 2

That's the only time you can be brave. When you're afraid.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

My 7 year old is watching TV and I have the strongest urge to cuddle him... so I am. I'm so sorry for your losss

9 years ago | Likes 41 Dislikes 1

May she be forever painless and watch over all of your family to guide them. So sorry for your Loss OP.

9 years ago | Likes 125 Dislikes 4

I'm 64, and tears for you and her. I lost a baby at two months, two days. Still hurts. Sincere condolences.

9 years ago | Likes 623 Dislikes 6

How softly you tiptoed into our world, almost silently, only a moment you stayed. But what an imprint your footsteps left upon our hearts.

9 years ago | Likes 108 Dislikes 0

My deepest condolences to you.

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

I was holding it together and this wrecked me.

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry for your loss, and OP's. Condolences to you both.

9 years ago | Likes 37 Dislikes 1

May all of you commenter have a beautiful day and life for your caring. Loves n hugs.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

She was an angel and now she has her wings ????

9 years ago | Likes 123 Dislikes 10

Thank you.

9 years ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 2

She always had wings, she was just too busy making sure everyone else kept flying. My deepest sympathies, OP.

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

Wow. Just wow! That comment punched a hole in my manly tearductbarrier. An angel just earned her wings.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

If anyone is interested in learning more about DIPG, go to www.chadtough.org. The foundation is there to support those families that have

9 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 1

(2/2) have loved ones with DIPG.

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

As a father of a girl this age, damn. So sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your pain.

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

This is my worst nightmare :( I'm going to go force my toddler to hug me.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

This... This just wrecked me. Thanks Imgur. =(

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 3

My condolences, this kept me crying for minutes.

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

This is why you treasure every single moment. My condolences @taisce. My love is 10 and I cannot begin to fathom your pain.

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 2

Very sorry for your loss :( my heart goes to you @op

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

I'm so sorry, @OP. What a sweet little angel and I'm sure she is no longer suffering and is smiling down on you with love.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Thank you.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Of course. Stay strong.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

It's easier for me, she was my niece and I'm heart broken. Her mother and father are devastated.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I can only imagine. Parents should never have to bury a child. Give them my deepest condolences.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I will

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

y u do dis... brb, going to hug my daughter.

9 years ago | Likes 520 Dislikes 7

Going to do the same once I get home from work.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Me too.

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Exactly what I did

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My soon to be ex wife stole my daughters (3 and 1) from me, and is trying to get full custody by lying about me. Want to hug them so bad.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My son is 1400 miles away with his dad, i just want to hug him. You'll get to hug your daughters soon.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Me, too.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Just told wife I'm cuddling the crap out of my daughters in the morning. Who cares if I'm late for work.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Gonna have to hug both of mine when I get home from work.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

My exact thoughts. I'm leaving work early to go do this now.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

So many kids are gonna be randomly hugged.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

hopefully most of them will be the children of the hugger

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Thank you. I needed to laugh after sobbing.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Did you blow any snot bubbles?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Hug her extra tight for me, my son is 1400 miles away and I don't know when I'll be able to visit.

9 years ago | Likes 219 Dislikes 1

Thank you for taking the time to create this beautiful memorial. People need to know and support cancer research for childhood cancer.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 0

Gives you an upset hug, don't steal my job

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Perfect reply. +1

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Gives you a hug

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Gives you a hug

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 1

Gives you a suspicious hug

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Suspicious hug?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

D:

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

gives you a hug

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Is that what parents think when kids move? Is that how my parents felt when I went to California?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My mom feels that way. I was forced to move by circumstance and because I knew that given my financial situation I couldn't provide for my->

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Son properly he's been living with his dad for 3 years rather than suffer with me. (I.e. I was homeless and am still getting stable)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I see. Maybe I should call my parents. I hope you find stability soon!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

35, father of none. Bearded man who hates everyone. In fucking tears.

9 years ago | Likes 1122 Dislikes 16

20, almoat have a beard, was not able to read to the end, crying. can't imagine anything worse than losing a child

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

don't hate everyone dude... get a dog or something...

9 years ago | Likes 174 Dislikes 4

I'm the same as you antidumb.......... E except I'm crying on the shitter

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Would you like to kick me in the nuts? I'd rather be kicked in the nuts 1 billion times than have to go through this.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

44 y.o bloke... This is half the reason why I don't have kids... But is better to love once than not at all??? Sad and confused.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

16, stone hearted, don't give a fuck about humans: is currently a mess at work

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 2

Mother of 2, couldn't even read it all. Much too blurry and tear streaked.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

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9 years ago (deleted Jul 2, 2016 3:07 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Who cares about your beard? Does that make you non human or something? :)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 6

Is beardies are often regarded as hardasses (deserved or not, it's often the reputation we carry.)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

right beside you brother...

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

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42, father of 2 under 10. So upset I'm angry.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

42 same. fucking cancer

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

47, M living on the other side of the world. Can not hold back the tears.Perspective of life from such a pure and beautiful young soul.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Same here...but 39... And have a dog...and a kid.....aw fuck not the same at all but know what you mean

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

36, no beard but the same :(

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

37 mother of 1 cannot have anymore children (not by my choice) I'm in tears too.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

28-year-old single beardman with no children, if I tried to speak right now my voice would break. Seen too many nice people go too soon.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nobody cares that you have a beard, seriously... It;s facial hair. Feelings though...that's another thing..

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 7

28, one on the way. Sitting at work and fighting the tears.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

31, 200lbs. Beard. With a 7 year old daughter at home. Same socks. Sat at work with tears streaming

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

29 and almost crying here

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

36, married. No kids, wife has two of her own, but I hate kids. Good thing I am alone at work, the tears won't freaking stop

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

23 mother of two. My daughter is currently presed up against my chest far away in dream land and I hope my tears and sniffles don't wake her

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

30, married, no kids, small beard, hate everything but my wife. Reduced to tears. Fuck cancer. Taken my granny and aunt. Sending condolences

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

32 female.Laying in bed crying.Lost my dad, an aunt and soon another aunt to cancer.Fuck cancer. This beautiful girl will be remebered.❤

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

35 and same

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

26, no beard married child on the way, the tears are flowing

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

28, father of one, no beard (military). Trying to hold it together. Something like that happening to my son would destroy me forever.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Tears at work...

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Older, father of some. Bearded man who hates everyone. Not crying but seriously saddened by this post.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

This breaks my heart OP, sorry for your loss.

9 years ago | Likes 2116 Dislikes 7

Oh my word how beautiful she is. My heart aches with sadness for you and your family. May you all be blessed with happiness.

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

The one with the dad lying next to her just broke the dam in my eyes

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Thank you

9 years ago | Likes 359 Dislikes 3

This post moved me beyond words. Your family is beautiful and your raised a special person who was destined for greatness. Peace be with you

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I've been following her story on fb. That last post was a post I was hoping we would never see. So sorry for your loss.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Deepest condolences to the family. My daughter had epilepsy as a kid but thankfully grew out of it. I know that feeling of helplessness.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My condolences, may rest well and your family mourn her well

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sorry for your loss OP, this is truly heart wrenching. My condolences to you and your family.

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I've been following her story on FB (pediatric cancer funding is a cause dear to my heart). I'm so sorry our medical system failed her :(

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry for your loss @op... Fuck cancer. You had a wonderful little girl who didn't deserve this.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry for your loss op. I was a PCA for a close friends son who was diagnosed with medullablastoma. He lost his fight the day 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

before thanksgiving this past year. He was only 2 years old but made the most of that time which it seems your little girl did too. so sorry

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I too am so, so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful girl. This is so heartbreaking

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My daughter is 6 im xrying on the subway....

9 years ago | Likes 79 Dislikes 0

My wife and I hopefully find out the gender of our child on Friday. Trying not to cry at work atm.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I have to keep it together cause Im working. This close to weeping. My daughter is 3. I just can't even imagine how OP feels.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I'm trying to hold in my manly tears on the bus right now.

9 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

Those pesky passengers cutting onions on public transport, ey!

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I'm crying at work

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

I feel sorry but I'm not crying sorry OP!

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