I guess this is my life now

Oct 14, 2021 6:46 PM

Just to clear something up, I am female.

Find a boardgame circle around you. Boardgame people are nice and the game helps to break the ice.

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Good news. None of us know how to talk to people, either. We just stumble through and it works sometimes.

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It’s hard in the beginning. But you will get through it. I’ve been there.

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I practice talkng to new people at the local grociers

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Your friends remember you. Don't be afraid to make that first phone call. Every following one gets easier. You've got this.

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I never knew how to talk to people *cartwheels out of this conversation and rips a fat fart*

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Get a hobby, boardgaming, skateboarding, Dungeons and Dragons, anything marginally social. You'll get new friends.

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You have us!!!!

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Sorry love.

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Ended one at 15, not going to lie it took a couple years to readjust. Just give yourself all the time you need and self-care like a mf.

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How exciting! Welcome to a new chapter! Leave the book of old behind and leap forward into this new beginning =).

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Hello there!

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General Kenobi

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Hey @OP, I feel your pain. I ended a 16 year relationship in Jan. It's been tough but it gets easier.

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Meetup.com- there are websites now to find group activities & possibly friends.

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Oh my god 18 years. Good luck, friend

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Just try and find some understanding people on social media or Discord. I chat on Discord with a guy who's in this very situation.

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Welcome to the fam, sis!

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If it make you feel any better you're not alone

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I never knew how to talk to people and th 10 year relationship i left had me forgetting who i even was

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All memes aside, this was one of the best TV shows ever!

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Ditto, mine was 15 yrs. Yep it's gonna hurt awhile. But lots of friends-in-waiting out there. You've already started by posting, good job!

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My fiancé got out of an awful 18 year marriage. She's now successful in a new career and is modeling a healthy relationship for her kids

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Hobbies help. I recommend knitting & knit nights. Or ukulele, & playing groups

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I went thru the exact same thing. 18 years! It was shocking and traumatic but it gets better. So much better.

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Last relationship I had (was bad at the end),lasted about 3 years (I lived with him-moved into his place). Have been single now 17.25years.

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Hey I get it. I was in a 15 year relationship that ended and it's hard. You can make it though, I beleive in you

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Just be your own best friend. If you're down talk yourself out of it like a friend do what you choose & just have fun alone. It's lovely if

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you let it be. Try new things or books or food anything that you've thought about but never took the time to do! So many possibilities. XO

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Have you tried being Grumpy?

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This is the dumbest (no insult intended) most wonderful response to anything that I've read all day

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Excellent idea! Halloween is just around the corner, should be easy to fix up a costume

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Join the dark side

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Hey @op just be friends with all of us! We’re terrible!

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Welcome home @op

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Best comment I’ve read all month.

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I have but one updoot to give

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That's ok we will support you as you ride and rise doot by doot to the top.

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There are dozens of us!

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Had to make it 12 upvotes

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