Oct 14, 2021 6:46 PM
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Just to clear something up, I am female.
tihroflan
Find a boardgame circle around you. Boardgame people are nice and the game helps to break the ice.
IVILegionIVI
Good news. None of us know how to talk to people, either. We just stumble through and it works sometimes.
PineapplesLuvMe
It’s hard in the beginning. But you will get through it. I’ve been there.
smeethatsme
I practice talkng to new people at the local grociers
hisnameisshdynasty
trybuttstuff
Your friends remember you. Don't be afraid to make that first phone call. Every following one gets easier. You've got this.
Scrambles667
I never knew how to talk to people *cartwheels out of this conversation and rips a fat fart*
ZLOK
Get a hobby, boardgaming, skateboarding, Dungeons and Dragons, anything marginally social. You'll get new friends.
aluckygrl13
You have us!!!!
DuckyQZ2
Sorry love.
RogerMortis
Ended one at 15, not going to lie it took a couple years to readjust. Just give yourself all the time you need and self-care like a mf.
StorytellingSalem
How exciting! Welcome to a new chapter! Leave the book of old behind and leap forward into this new beginning =).
suddennr1
Hello there!
DiningKruger
General Kenobi
fnplay83
Hey @OP, I feel your pain. I ended a 16 year relationship in Jan. It's been tough but it gets easier.
billy3890
Meetup.com- there are websites now to find group activities & possibly friends.
thefinglongerer
Oh my god 18 years. Good luck, friend
DahlElite
Just try and find some understanding people on social media or Discord. I chat on Discord with a guy who's in this very situation.
BeTheMirage
Welcome to the fam, sis!
Plumberdude
If it make you feel any better you're not alone
Spuduck
I never knew how to talk to people and th 10 year relationship i left had me forgetting who i even was
DontTazeMeBrah
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meltedfaceguy
All memes aside, this was one of the best TV shows ever!
ApotheKaren
Ditto, mine was 15 yrs. Yep it's gonna hurt awhile. But lots of friends-in-waiting out there. You've already started by posting, good job!
semiAnonymousMe
My fiancé got out of an awful 18 year marriage. She's now successful in a new career and is modeling a healthy relationship for her kids
Laurpud
Hobbies help. I recommend knitting & knit nights. Or ukulele, & playing groups
badgerfan10
I went thru the exact same thing. 18 years! It was shocking and traumatic but it gets better. So much better.
ms1967
Last relationship I had (was bad at the end),lasted about 3 years (I lived with him-moved into his place). Have been single now 17.25years.
RavingIrradiator213
Hey I get it. I was in a 15 year relationship that ended and it's hard. You can make it though, I beleive in you
SadEyedLadyoftheLowlands
Just be your own best friend. If you're down talk yourself out of it like a friend do what you choose & just have fun alone. It's lovely if
you let it be. Try new things or books or food anything that you've thought about but never took the time to do! So many possibilities. XO
GrumpyOldMan55
Have you tried being Grumpy?
Burgersforbreakfast365
This is the dumbest (no insult intended) most wonderful response to anything that I've read all day
TheRicM
Excellent idea! Halloween is just around the corner, should be easy to fix up a costume
dudeinjapan
grumpyzuza
Join the dark side
VirtualNaut
NottherealSlimPickens
TheSi1entSloth
thricebakedxyz
ministryofpeace
DooksandPooks
Hey @op just be friends with all of us! We’re terrible!
criticallyacclaimedfuckwad
Welcome home @op
onyxrubies
DigitalWaffle
Best comment I’ve read all month.
JackHL01
UnknownOne1
solmazer
I have but one updoot to give
purplekittenskittles
That's ok we will support you as you ride and rise doot by doot to the top.
tinydog
There are dozens of us!
BmoreBrewer
Had to make it 12 upvotes
tihroflan
Find a boardgame circle around you. Boardgame people are nice and the game helps to break the ice.
IVILegionIVI
Good news. None of us know how to talk to people, either. We just stumble through and it works sometimes.
PineapplesLuvMe
It’s hard in the beginning. But you will get through it. I’ve been there.
smeethatsme
I practice talkng to new people at the local grociers
hisnameisshdynasty
trybuttstuff
Your friends remember you. Don't be afraid to make that first phone call. Every following one gets easier. You've got this.
Scrambles667
I never knew how to talk to people *cartwheels out of this conversation and rips a fat fart*
ZLOK
Get a hobby, boardgaming, skateboarding, Dungeons and Dragons, anything marginally social. You'll get new friends.
aluckygrl13
You have us!!!!
DuckyQZ2
Sorry love.
RogerMortis
Ended one at 15, not going to lie it took a couple years to readjust. Just give yourself all the time you need and self-care like a mf.
StorytellingSalem
How exciting! Welcome to a new chapter! Leave the book of old behind and leap forward into this new beginning =).
suddennr1
Hello there!
DiningKruger
General Kenobi
fnplay83
Hey @OP, I feel your pain. I ended a 16 year relationship in Jan. It's been tough but it gets easier.
billy3890
Meetup.com- there are websites now to find group activities & possibly friends.
thefinglongerer
Oh my god 18 years. Good luck, friend
DahlElite
Just try and find some understanding people on social media or Discord. I chat on Discord with a guy who's in this very situation.
BeTheMirage
Welcome to the fam, sis!
Plumberdude
If it make you feel any better you're not alone
Spuduck
I never knew how to talk to people and th 10 year relationship i left had me forgetting who i even was
DontTazeMeBrah
meltedfaceguy
All memes aside, this was one of the best TV shows ever!
ApotheKaren
Ditto, mine was 15 yrs. Yep it's gonna hurt awhile. But lots of friends-in-waiting out there. You've already started by posting, good job!
semiAnonymousMe
My fiancé got out of an awful 18 year marriage. She's now successful in a new career and is modeling a healthy relationship for her kids
Laurpud
Hobbies help. I recommend knitting & knit nights. Or ukulele, & playing groups
badgerfan10
I went thru the exact same thing. 18 years! It was shocking and traumatic but it gets better. So much better.
ms1967
Last relationship I had (was bad at the end),lasted about 3 years (I lived with him-moved into his place). Have been single now 17.25years.
RavingIrradiator213
Hey I get it. I was in a 15 year relationship that ended and it's hard. You can make it though, I beleive in you
SadEyedLadyoftheLowlands
Just be your own best friend. If you're down talk yourself out of it like a friend do what you choose & just have fun alone. It's lovely if
SadEyedLadyoftheLowlands
you let it be. Try new things or books or food anything that you've thought about but never took the time to do! So many possibilities. XO
GrumpyOldMan55
Have you tried being Grumpy?
Burgersforbreakfast365
This is the dumbest (no insult intended) most wonderful response to anything that I've read all day
TheRicM
Excellent idea! Halloween is just around the corner, should be easy to fix up a costume
dudeinjapan
grumpyzuza
Join the dark side
VirtualNaut
NottherealSlimPickens
TheSi1entSloth
thricebakedxyz
ministryofpeace
DooksandPooks
Hey @op just be friends with all of us! We’re terrible!
criticallyacclaimedfuckwad
Welcome home @op
onyxrubies
DigitalWaffle
Best comment I’ve read all month.
JackHL01
UnknownOne1
solmazer
I have but one updoot to give
purplekittenskittles
That's ok we will support you as you ride and rise doot by doot to the top.
tinydog
There are dozens of us!
BmoreBrewer
Had to make it 12 upvotes